Comments by "Martin Saunders" (@martinsaunders7925) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. They need psychiatrists,not matchmakers.
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  2. I have a house, he must be able to share the mortgage and live with my mother. Welcome to a life of servitude.
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  3. I find Asian women attractive. My late wife was one. Why wouldn't a western woman find a Chinese man attractive? Kudos to her for learning a difficult language and embracing her husband's village.
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  4. Single events will become hagmax paradise.
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  5. I suggest to these leftover women that they prepare themselves for old age alone. That they co habit in small apartment blocks,learn investment strategies and form mutual interest clubs. If they can overcome historical and cultural angst,their Japanese sisters have been doing this for decades.
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  6. @dongshendi773 Empress without a throne.
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  7. Age is relative. After 50 a guy who had children will certainly go for a younger woman,even 44 years old. However it's not the age. A woman who's single at 44 is also a failure at relationships,and OPENLY ADMITS IT!
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  8. So,Chinese passport bros,welcome to the world of respectful,feminine women.
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  9. They're not going to marry them. They're continuing their education. I did the same when I was 19 and she was 35. It's more common today as young women are at their prime and looking to marry older established men.
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  10. My English friend had a brother who emigrated to Aussie. He married a Korean immigrant. My friend found a Chinese woman in the U.K. I married a Thai Chinese. A college mate married a Japanese. A lifetime friend married two Indonesians. We all spreading love and happiness around the world. 😂
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  11.  @jdlech  widows are taken to be an exception. Unless they were the cause of widowhood.
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  12. My friend had an affair with an Asian,married woman. Her arranged marriage wasn't wanted by either partner. Her husband was happy that my friend took her out, entertained her and took her home for the weekend. For him,no nagging,no expense and unlimited time for games. This lasted for years until my friend had to move with his job.
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  13. So if you marry a massage therapist do the massages stop after 6 months? 😂
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  14. The womans role? To be the biggest burden.
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  15. A German documentary several years ago about leftover Chinese women showed an attractive but masculine woman. She went home to her family and was harrangued about a partner, not being married, or having a boyfriend. She married a German and moved to Germany. Now her family don't see her. Be careful what you wish for.
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  16. @JasonLesko. True. However Chinese men have a deeper understanding of women. They are eloquent in describing this without personal criticism.
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  17. I married a leftover Thai/ Chinese, she was 53 and I was 60 at that time. She was beautiful to me without makeup and still beautiful without hair after chemotherapy. She died. Don't leave a young woman a leftover widow.
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  18. Beat me to it. 😂
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  19. Sorry ladies,when you hit the wall it's cats,box wine and hagmaxing.
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  20.  @chamcham123  given the other post an exorcist,psychiatrist matchmaker may be needed. Actually,the first three floors of the Husband Store should be arranged in this order.
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  21.  @hahahihi6123  it can be found,and it can work. However, life is short. My friend in the U.K.,one of the Indonesian wives and my wife have died. Enjoy love wherever it can be found.
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  22. An interesting premise. So women have reduced men to a financial transaction. Only what it means for THEM. Nothing wrong with what they're asking,that's their prerogative. Now let's put men in the picture. What do men want? Oh,you say you want young fertile women to start a family? You don't need success in finances you have that,you want success in conception,a woman who can carry to term? Granny ladies,you are not offering men your age what they want. Men who have had children,men who want women to care for them MAY consider you.
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  23. The pragmatic Chinese men have a more realistic interpretation of Grade Point Average. One that educates them in a matter that greatly affects their future and protects them from rotten eggs and scar tissue.
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  24. Chinese guys. Be a little more diplomatic. Tell women their degrees are too old. 😂
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  25.  @kokoyaro  she went to medical school in Europe. Spoke seven languages,wrote 3 scripts and worked 14 to 16 hours a day. Had no time or inclination for nightlife. Had no social media accounts.
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  26. She's leftover,so skeletor riding the dinosaur?
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  27. Couldn't get none so she became one.
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  28. They have done this for 30 plus years in Japan. Living in large apartment blocks.
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  29. It takes time with central planning and the concentric rings of power but,eventually, the Chinese come up with a solution. Time will show its'effects and consequences just as the one child policy, the sparrow culling and rat control. Let's see a positive outcome. In fact,why not feature a success in a future pod cast?
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  30.  @ThePencilPusher  I entirely agree with you. I have a lady friend who is only interested in men twenty five years younger!
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  31. @hanool7450 not when most of them are day old vegetables.
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  32. This is the solution that only one woman has ever accepted. I'm sure she's happier than a million of her single sisters.
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  33.  @AmigaA-or2hj  given a couple more years and that will be the norm.
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  34. The consequences of central planning are hard to predict. 10k years have shuffled countries and cultures into predictable associations and relationships. The single child family has put daughters in the position of being high value as parents invested all their efforts into her. The son of a prospective couple are in the same position. So there is an escalation of perceived financial value. The result is a child rearing family that is far less than one seen across the social spectrum. Perhaps for each possible mating pair there are 99 pairs that won't produce a child. Indeed it is possible that 90 pairs will not live together.
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  35. Bride price? How much is an infertile woman worth? Let's start talking groom price,dowry,now. Then I think a FEW men might want one. Even a few older western men might take a chance.
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  36. A guy would go to this woman knowing that she vetted prospects thoroughly. In any business it's important to separate the time wasters from the cautious. Men would be able to trust her abilities,as would realistic women.
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  37.  @yongtang8177  you know the joke about the husband store?
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  38. Men should demand women provide a house and car. Drizzle drizzle
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  39. @Lee_van _pool. They were always delusional and hypergamous. That's why marriages were arranged,or fathers vetted suitors. There were exceptions of course. Mainly in the courts of China,Thailand, Korea and Japan, where women held government posts,were authors,warriors and poets. I'm sure some swung the gate the other way too and remained unmarried.
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  40. The tang of a Samurai sword is square. This enables coins with a square hole and outer oval shape to be stored in the forward part of the handle. A Samurai carried these to pay for tea,snacks,and lodging. The filthy,corrupting bulk of his earnings was handled by a woman. Notably his wife. Financial miss management could end with the loss of her head. Needless to say women were taught " home economics" from an early age.
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  41. Best wife I had was Thai Chinese single mother.
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  42.  @SihAza  left or right half? 😂
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  43. It is no coincidence that in Asia beautiful women are not the object of the heroes' desire. They are the evil protagonists. This is a somewhat humbling experience for actresses who are often treated with scorn publicly. Leading to some of them taking roles as heroines. For example Dilrabi Dilmurat.
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  44. Chinese men have come into their soft guy Era. 😂
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  45. By the time a bride gets married, hubby is in so much debt he can't afford children.
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  46. Chinese men have been marrying SEAsian women for centuries. Nothing new here.
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  47. Women without flaws,those that repel men,are already married. A womans biggest filter is her age.
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  48. To the woman with the eleven requirements. Your husband, the man who met your requirements, got married last week in Lima,Peru. His new wife just had her 18th birthday. Sorry to tell you that your next chance with the 2.1 billion single men won't happen again for 10 years.
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  49. Chinese marriage market. Says it all. Buying foreign made women is cheaper. They're longer lasting and actually work in the home. The countries that teach Chinese as a second language,like Russia,are bound to experience cross border marriages. Many men don't want to pay dowries. How is that working out for you ladies? No bride tax on imports!
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  50.  @rhonirachel4005  practical solution. Maybe set it up as a retirement home with a red lantern socket?
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  51. Men commit to relationships and guide them long term. To get this commitment women must accept the discipline of men. Becoming a nun a woman accepts this discipline by proxy,keeping face.
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  52. Womens' unrealistic expectations and my lack of pity are a perfect match!!
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  53. Years ago involved in the movie industry,extra,bit parts and voice overs. Was offered a job shooting a national magazine cover. The switch was surprisingly difficult. From being a persona to becoming a photographers' puppet. The most difficult was voice over. Manual tape and no computers,timing was incredibly tight. Exhausting concentration. Then if that shot ended up being deleted,all for nothing. I went back to engineering.
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  54.  @Charvo75  eating out massage girls is definitely unhealthy!
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  55. Haggmax meat.
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  56. Consumerism has led to the belief that everything is inexhaustible. All partners in this macabre dance believe they are entitled to engage and profit from it. Everyone wants all things and more of them. The government wants more taxes to fund public projects, the public wants more services. The women want houses and cars, they can't afford from men. Men want better paying jobs to afford womens wants. Young men around the world have understood that a mans' NEEDS can be put in a bucket. That a womans' WANTS are like taking the bucket to empty a lake.
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  57. Some of these women have a depth of self reflection that doesn't seem to exist in the west. This seems to be more prevalent with divorced Chinese women. Some who actually found a second husband and STILL COMPLAINED!!!
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  58. Made in China. Yes am aware things break and fall apart easily,so why would I shackle myself to a Chinese woman who is single and definitely not celebate. Can do that with any woman in the west with a high body count. Also,if Chinese men don't want them why would I. So, ladies,only old men MIGHT want you. Worldwide.
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  59. The first four guys are sigma. I doubt any more women in China are successful than the rest of the world. They never see the cracked branch when they reach for it.
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  60. Something women forget. A 10% man from any culture,anywhere in the world,has the world's women to choose from.
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  61. Still,despite all evidence to the contrary,women claim equality with men. Women must face the terror of their helpless position in relationships. That only a man can give them a relationship. They cannot demand one,cannot force one. When their fear becomes palpable they will often lash out in anger.
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  62. No GPA test, no marriage certificate. Guys in the West,LISTEN UP!! Demand GPA tests NOW. They can be strong,independent and tested.
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  63. To the lady who turned off the filters. Kudos,you look better and real at the same time. Only men who care about eggs care about expiration. After the encounter with the Great Wall,Chinese women might as well flex and choose a barbarian on the other side.
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  64.  @zynv55  men have always supported leftover women.ALWAYS.
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  65.  @RonnieMyers777  historically as a man you would have hunted game for the leftover women. You would have helped provide shelter for them. In return they would make clothes,arrow points,fishing nets. They may have been barren but certainly not useless.
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  66. Chinese guys in their soft guy Era. 😂 😂 Next it will be their women preferring Pandas. If you're that hungry for men ladies,hang out a red lantern.
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  67. What do men want? A cold beer,a bowl of noodles,and an intimate woman. It's the same everwhere!
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  68. A woman with two children found another suckered? How is it that good looking women can't find one husband? Oh right. The rotten eggs are too expensive. Minnie mouse tried to grasp a branch higher than she could reach and crashed into reality.
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  69. A man and woman go on a blind date. Sounds like the beginning of a bad joke. Ohhh,wait a minute, it is! I would be suspicious of jewelry stores and high end restaurants hiring attractive women to scam for them.
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  70.  @Gator-Trader-Joe  14 in Japan.
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  71.  @AntonioDiMartini-i6e  check out WESTPAC widows of WW2. Your aunt may have been a black widow. Named after the spider.
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  72.  @Bowhunte5588  my late wife's first marriage was arranged and she didn't find out for months that she was a second wife. She immediately left and divorced him. She concentrated on starting and expanding a business in a European country. Was successful. Later she returned to her country of origin where I met her when she was 50. We married 3.5 years later. She died 3.5 years later. I've been celebate and single since. My lady friend is exactly that. A platonic friend.
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  73.  @azumi5459  statistically, in the U.S. a white man marrying an Asian woman, the success rate is 96%.
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  74. Chinese guys with money. Rent a cheap car from an employee when you go on dates.
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  75. @MillenniumEarl014  statistics show post wall women do. Either self made,or stolen from men.
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  76. Many men will think women are grifters,manipulators, thieves. However this is just a glimpse of their true nature. Women are alpha predators. Ignore this at your peril.
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  77. It's a bigger question. It's easy for a man to be insulting and dismissive. This depends a lot on his age and circumstances. East or West. Many Chinese men don't want fried oysters. Western men want to pair bond, not pear bond. To any man who already has a family breeding is unnecessary. What happens when her beauty is smeared on the pillow in the morning?
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  78. At my age if I had to date an older woman I'd have to dig her up for the date. 😂
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  79. Sanitary pads are repurposed mens' shoe insoles?😄😄😄. That's central planning for you. Probably by an "auntie".
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  80.  @brianperry4815  you didn't get the humor. If a womans'degree is too old the implication is that she is too old,without actually saying it.
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  81.  @pycJIaH77  like the subtle twist of the knife implying she's unemployable too.
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  82.  @janetmcewen6455  doesn't understand the nuanced meanings in Asian languages. To tell a woman she's too old is crass and without decorum. May as well tell her straight out he's a duck herder. In which case he could call her an addled egg. 😂
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  83. Chinese men quit simping without even mentioning carousel riders. Do they lack this term,or am I not seeing their euphemism? Ordering a steak "wrongly". If I mistakenly drank a bowl of green tea for washing my fingers after eating seafood and a western woman admonished me for it,that would be the last date.
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  84. YESSSS. Young Chinese hag fishers rule. The bigger catch is farthest from the beach!
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  85. Who would have thought the one child policy lead to an imbalance of men. Many more men than women. Women had assumed there would be many men to choose from. They forgot it is men who choose women and they don't want a woman.
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  86. This is a difficult subject for a Western man to comment on. The dynamics of a Chinese family are different to most Americans or Europeans. Two of the women didn't seem to be outrageous in their wants and were willing to provide for their own needs. Not a recipe for a guarantee of success but kudos for being willing to try. There was an image of a masculine woman towards the end that was the subject of a previous documentary. She ended up being married to a German. In China,as in the rest of the world,men realize that a commitment comes from them,not women. Unfortunately for Chinese men Western women are a worse choice. My late wife was half Chinese and I wouldn't even date a Western woman. Guess my expectations are too high.
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  87. This could be human trafficking, extortion, fraud or all three. Dutch laws and Chinese culture clash. The economic and social contracts in both countries differ.
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  88.  @TheDragonofRevelation  A guy who likes to get home to a cup of pu urh and a massage?
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  89.  @TheDragonofRevelation  guess some Chinese do. It's almost a requirement given the hours men have to put in to support a wife. My requirements are simple. She cooks. She cleans and she massages. I can teach all three.
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  90.  @cheetavontiebolt9971  oh,I don't know about that. I've heard them described as shrimp tacos. Tasty. Cream pies and leftovers.
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  91. Women are women. Very few have their feet on the ground,while most have their heads in the clouds.
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  92.  @TheTraveler2222  makes her look like an alien trying to be human.
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  93. @Chucky-w. Femboss is angry at men who practice penile control.
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  94. 39 years old!! You are a leftover leftover!! Seems that you should save up a groom price,provide a house and car,look after his parents. If you can't meet these requirements you are 💯 liability.
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  95. Finally a beautiful leftover woman who can afford to fix me Pu'erh.
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  96. Such eloquent whining. No screaming,man blaming here. Still the same old soft delusion about hard realities.
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  97.  @ThinkerMan-v6g  as they say in Texas "rode hard and put away wet".
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  98. @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel  almost as though she's making a small down-payment on his resources.
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  99.  @nickeleye7607  why not? They take everything else!
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  100. ​ @chivesltd you can have all the ab use you can handle 😂
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  101. A man would no more go to a singles"event" than a pig would take an Uber to a slaughter house !!
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  102. The cat tax will cause them to work two jobs.
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  103. @SeattlePioneer  peoples skills are not so much ignored as unappreciated. Mastery of any skill makes it look so easy. Masters of their game,no matter what discipline, recognize it in each other.
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