Comments by "Mikko Rantalainen" (@MikkoRantalainen) on "Lisa Bilyeu" channel.

  1. 1:13:05 I think there cannot be common rules for cheating. The only way to have a healthy relationship is to agree on common rules for that relationship and honor that agreement. Betrayal or cheating cannot happen if you keep your agreement, but if you never clearly agree upon common rules, both parties will assume that there are some kind of rules and those rules will never ever totally match by default. If you get angry about broken rules that were never agreed upon, the problem is that you never agreed on any specific behavior.
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  2. Know your boundaries and decide them before hitting on them. I'm pretty flexible because I think I have some things that are important to me and non-negotiable and the rest of the things are not important for me and I can be very flexible about those to make my partner happier. I don't care if the non-important things go according to somebody's else taste but I will definitely not give up the important things.
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