Comments by "" (@jellyrcw12) on "Do All Asexuals Think the Same? | Spectrum" video.

Sorry not sorry but asexual people do not belong in the LGBT community because we are founded on being same sex attracted. If you do not experience that you do not belong. Also idc what you call it but it's homophobic to tell us in our own spaces that we need to be less sexual. That's an even bigger sign you don't belong. EDIT: I am yet to see anyone prove me wrong lol
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@timlewis2605 Hi, yes I had some glitches with your message. I kept receiving notifications but nothing showed up until now. I don't mind seeing asexual people as allies. Same as with intersex people. But alternative/no sexuality/physical differences do not make someone LGBT. We can be allies. I just really don't like the notion of someone coming into gay spaces and telling us we're too gay. That absolutely does not sit right with me and it's definitely happened before. Someone not being comfortable in our spaces proves that they don't belong imo. I'm very happy to see gay PDA (within reason obviously) because we've been repressed for SO long. LOVE out loud <3
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@BecauseIWannaComment I have no idea what you're talking about. I don't feel the need to share every aspect of my identity on here but I'm def not a white gay guy lol. And even if I were it would not my opinions incorrect. If you don't like a community then don't join it. Being in gay space is not a right. Telling us we're being too provocative or sexual is wrong. Go find like minded people.
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@CJAshes ??? Tbh I only hang out in gay/lesbian spaces. I don't really have any experience with trans spaces as that's not my realm. Why are you prescribing hate to me? Saying someone is not part of my community doesn't mean I hate them. If you can't relate to the gay experience then perhaps you're not gay??? There is nothing wrong with that. Don't come into our spaces telling us that we make you uncomfortable. If hearing sexual talk bothers you, you don't belong. If seeing gay PDA bothers you, you don't belong. If you can't relate then you can't relate.
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@sy-dy7ge Uuummm I hate to break it you but we are not the sexual minority club. We are not the sexual deviance club. We are for the rights of same sex attracted people. Historically trans people were included because they were also gay or bi. Maybe read a book lol
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@sy-dy7ge Definitions and boundaries exist for a reason. By diluting the original goals of our community we lose focus and our purpose
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