Comments by "Jason Dashney" (@jasondashney) on "Shoe0nHead" channel.

  1. Don't underestimate the amount of "I can fix her" guys out there. They want a wounded fawn because they can't catch a healthy one.
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  2. That's crazy. You found yourself an angel for sure. Glad it worked out for you!
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  3. Men will often light up when you tell them about your feelings because it's like "What?! You too? Yeah, I totally get it because........." They are so thankful they aren't alone in the universe.
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  4.  @asiberiantiger188  what's amazing is how many women think men enjoy "the chase". This isn't the Serengeti. We're not supposed to prove our fitness by physically chasing you. And it's amazing how many women will be frustrated that a guy won't ask them out. How about you give him an indication?
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  5. There’s always room for people who reflect and grow.
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  6. It would be evil, though very interesting to see how much you could manipulate young men's minds if their AI girlfriend tried to steer them in this or that direction politically.
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  7. It never hurts to cast your line, just make sure it's catch and release until you find a great one. Dating doesn't mean you have to "try to make it work" with everyone you meet. Just be super relaxed about it, and only respond to, approach, or message women who seem like they might be a match. Maybe that's only 1 girl a year but trying is better than nothing. Best of luck man.
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  8.  @DaTimmeh  "How?" is the proper response.
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  9. At least you learned.
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  10.  @markduncan1144  when something irritates me, I often try to think of a scenario where what happened could be understandable. Like say in traffic somebody is zooming around and being an idiot or maybe driving on the shoulder or something and I try to imagine that they are running late to a job interview they desperately need, or they are panicking because the wife is about to have their first child or something. Or when people overreact to something, I try to imagine a scenario that they've had in their life that would make them sensitive to that topic. And sometimes I ask and usually I'm right. I try very hard to reserve my anger for times when it could actually be a benefit. Those times are few and far between.
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  11. I know a guy who says "I'm a straight shooter" but that's just because he doesn't lie. He doesn't take it like a badge of honor. Using the word 'brutal' means you're putting it up on a pedestal as a badass virtue, which it is not.
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  12. Beats going through a string of women because they remind you of your ex. Less carnage.
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  13. The hate they have says a lot about them, and zero about you. It's a good thing. It's a way to figure out who to avoid.
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  14. Because they do.
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  15. I'm going to be charitable and assume she meant that tongue in cheek. My heart won't let me assume that somebody is that much of a POS
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  16. Nobody says "thank you for your service" for jumping on that type of grenade"
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  17.  @Elijah-NUMetal-IsMyWife-Boyd  IDGAF if the woman thinks i'm a creep for simply asking her out. If she does, then at least it helped definitively weed her out. Her opinion would no longer matter to me.
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  18. Glad you're still here!
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  19.  @RorschachRev  I don't know a thing about you other than you didn't do it and I'm glad you didn't do it. Stay strong.
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  20.  @markduncan1144  Believe me, my charitable response was not my initial instinct. I am incredibly cynical, and not without good reasons, but it's something I'm working on because I find things stress me out way less if I don't always assume the worst.
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  21. Every girl's dating profile: "I'm looking for a like-minded man who shares my values so we can grow together" but they don't say anything about their values. It's just "I love hiking and spending time with family and friends". Thanks.
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  22. You say Tulsi Gabbard like she's a bad thing. Learn more about her. She was a democrat who the DNC crushed. That alone should give the benefit of the doubt to you. She was far and away the most reasonable Democrat, so I'm not sure what policies she had that you would be that the so against that you would use her very name as a pejorative.
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  23. Halfway through your comment I looked up to see if I had written it, as I sometimes see something I resonate with and see I was the person who wrote it ages ago, haha. Now if you'd be so kind as to get out of my head I'd appreciate it. Thanks.
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  24. Your manager was actively punishing workplace comradery? That says a lot about the manager. They must be miserable.
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  25.  @jordanpavlic9745  nailed it. Women (and men) can smell desperation, and it is a major turn off. Women want a man with confidence. Being aloof will get you WAY further then hovering over them.
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  26. Nah you're in the perfect position. If it goes badly it's just meeting your expectations. If it's even halfway decent then it's a giant win!
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  27.  @lunaticmode638  Yup. And there are people lined up to take advantage of that.
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  28.  @beerosaurusrex  Bingo.
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  29.  @300thNPC  "If you're a man and talk about your feelings you get shot down and told you don't deserve to be able to complain." True. I've seen many articles about how men need to stop whining about how they can't whine.
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  30. Now they can have a ENM relationship with a woman who won't say no.
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  31. Places where people are truly free to say what they want will often troll and say awful things simply because they can do it nowhere else. I've never been on 4chan but I get the jist. Most of those types of sites are actually quite supportive once someone honestly bares their soul.  @glazedicedmoon 
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  32. 5:56 "A couple inches taller". This is the thing. A couple inches is pretty close. Would she date a guy 7" smaller? Probably not.
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  33. When you said you’d vote for Gavin Newsom, I was making a s’more on the kitchen stove and I threw up in my mouth. Gross! Thankfully right after you said you didn’t know his politics cuz I guarantee you’d hate his guts. If you had to make the poster child, the king of all sleazy stereotype politicians, it would be him.
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  34. Real ladies aren't so agreeable all the time. Much more prickly. If you have issues, then go to the basics. Just ask them innocent questions about themselves like about their family or hobbies or job or whatever, then just listen. They'll feel more comfortable and open up a bit and then they'll do the same to you.
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  35.  @PartisanHypocritesEverywhere  Where do you live where companies receive tax benefits for DEI? That's horrifying. Where I live the help wanted ads make it quite clear who they are looking for and who they aren't. Hint: it's not about your skill qualifications.
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  36. I'll invest in this for sure. Who are the biggest companies that are growing rapidly?
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  37.  @adrian0o0  yes, I think you are right. I misinterpreted the original comment. The manager being besties with some people under them and not others can absolutely potentially create friction.
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  38. I'm close to a woman who seems to have misery as her comfort zone. As soon as things get good she retreats from what is good and dwells on what's bad. She once admitted to me that she's "afraid of things working out". Fear of happiness is tragic. Ihope you can find a way to love all that is good in your life. @RorschachRev 
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  39. I've known both sides of your equation and I'm so happy you found someone. I hope the same for everyone.
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  40. 9:54. been there.
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  41. Please do the deep dive on the 4B movement. Hopefully you can find them making fun of MGTOW as well, for that extra bit of irony.
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  42.  @jordanpavlic9745  that's awesome you got rid of the desperation and found someone. I remember when I started speaking my mind more. I thought it woudl turn girls off. It did not.
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  43.  @jacknguyen5220  "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" -Wayne Gretzky
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  44.  @blairrobert3438  "In person is always better than online. " Of course in person is better, but if you're situation has you nowhere near where eligible girls are, then you're kinda forced to go online. I work 60hrs a week in a male dominated industry. Good luck meeting a girl IRL if you have my life. If I was younger and in school or in an industry with lots of women I'd be just fine. Picking up women was never a problem for me. I'm just literally never around women outside the grocery store. Not the best odds.
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  45. Exactly how much violence did they think happened in the 1950s? This also means they believe that their grandfathers were beating the hell out of their grandmothers. Why not go yell at your grandfather directly then? It's completely bananas that having someone choose to care for the domestic side of the relationship full-time is now considered bad. They sound like kids who wished her mom was around more.
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  46.  @DreamweaverDude  this is where I pull out my inner Jordan Peterson an urge you to make sure that you take care of yourself and get fit and dress well and make yourself the type of person that people want to be friends with and girls want to date. Of course it takes two to tango and that’s the hard part, but you got to give yourself the best odds. When you treat yourself like a king, people are more likely to treat you like one.
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  47. 8:35 "normal" got me. Well played.
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  48. And you probably left right away. Maybe she ran off to get you ice cream. Now you're left to your own devices....AND no ice cream. Way to go, dummy.
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  49. Yeah, as we all know, there are no guarantees @PhosphorescentMoth 
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  50. "Look no further than top 10 richest people on Earth. Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, etc, 80% are below 6ft, still get women." Bezos, Zuck etc were not relying on being promoted to get ahead. They started their own companies. They had nobody to answer to.  @dae1925 
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  51. "I should be on like 4 other pills I'm prescribed but I simply do not take them because I refuse to be a walking big pharma cocktail (and my mental illnesses make me funnier)." Subscribed.
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  52.  @g60force  Why go to Philippines or Malaysia? To find a woman? I've been to both and they were really fun.
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