Comments by "Jason Dashney" (@jasondashney) on "PsycHacks" channel.

That's covered in this video.
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You stayed with her for 3 1/2 years? I think we both know what she brought to the table ;-P
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@kim-ys2fs You are already sleeping with a guy, so you're clearly sexually attracted to him, and he has the exact rare smooth personality characteristics you're looking for, yet you are still rejecting him overall? Be careful, you may regret letting him go one day.
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"This rule is not universal that you state" Where does he state this?
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I will never understand why men get into relationships with these women in the first place. Perhaps I had some good looks privilege as well, but nutty girls were always a giant turn off for me. Hot girls who seemed entitled were something I always avoided like the plague.
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I wonder what the average age of a gorgeous woman settling down is versus women of standard looks.
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At what part of the video does he assume that all women are the same? I must've missed that part.
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@timganstrom1907 if the guy is rich, it creates an extremely interesting dynamic, because he will say and do anything to be with her, and vice versa, yet they both simultaneously have almost unlimited options otherwise. It's a great recipe to create dysfunctional people who create a dysfunctional relationship.
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She did your work for you. She weeded herself out.
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@nickcarter4006 White privilege? With what? Please be specific.
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This video does not say that literally all women are like this. Of course not because that would be absurd. It is correct far more often than incorrect though. I absolutely believe that it's true that drop dead gorgeous women are assumed to be less capable and intelligent, and that really sucks for the nerds, but unfortunately it's a stereotype born of the experience of everyone who's not a gorgeous woman. The percentage of girls who are stunningly beautiful, who end up succumbing to the pitfalls of the power it brings is extraordinarily high though, and understandably so. Of course, there's the other side of it where it feels like every man wants to nail you and every girl is jealous and wants to backstab you. There definitely are also negative consequences, but that doesn't negate the fact that the vast vast vast sort of really hot women (or more specifically, really hot women who wear lots of make up and look like they carefully curate their Instagram accounts) are not interesting human beings. I've met boatloads of them over the years and almost never are they actually interesting to talk to. And this is on a sliding scale. If you are a single male, you'll find that the chubby or plain girls are almost always more fun to be around and more interesting as people because they've been humbled and forced to actually develop a personality. There's a reason that unattractive men want to get rich. They understand that women don't intrinsically want them so they have to do something else to be desirable.
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@borderlands6606 good for her that it worked out. It doesn't always. Ask me how I know...
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As you get older, it can get harder to find a partner because you've been there and done that and seen it before and you can see those warning signs immediately so you're much more likely to walk away, as you should.
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The fact that craziness is not strictly limited to beautiful women does not invalidate the argument.
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It doesn't assume that all men are willing to lie to get laid at all. This is only talking about the women's perspective. She has enough suitors that there's always the next one. That doesn't take every guy, it just takes enough guys.
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This video was intended to paint broad brush strokes because it is going out to a mass audience. It's certainly not intended to cover the nuanced lived experience of every individual woman. Obviously. Also, there's something about this video you fundamentally misunderstand. It's talking about a very specific type of girl. The one who blossoms early and is drop dead gorgeous, and gets nothing but attention from men all the time. You say "A lot of beautiful women become beautiful because they are somewhat insecure. They spend a lot of money on their looks.". Those are not the people he's talking about. You seem to be taking the video personally when it's clear by your comment that it was not targeted at people like you.
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@NormieNeko I don't remember creating a burner account, but this sure does sound like me.
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Then why is she still your woman?
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@truthsmiles where do you live where being white would give you an advantage? I'm Canadian and being white here certainly doesn't give anyone any advantages whatsoever. You either live in a rural area where white people demographically dominate so it's neither here nor there, or you live in an urban centre where the focus is all on DEI so it's much harder to get jobs, etc. if you are white, and especially male.
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Yes, but this could be fleeting. Eventually, they will go back to enjoying having their ass kissed.
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I very much agree, with one little asterisk; Women don't necessarily need to have the beauty, they just have to be very willing and talented with "the one thing that men want". Those women can get away with absolute murder as well.
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Then why are you with her? I promise you'd be happier without her.
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And if they do, it's on them because they have a degree of choice not available to 99% of people. The hottest girls very often end up going for the hot jerks so my sympathy is limited. I've known and met a tremendous number of gorgeous women in my life and have almost never seen them with a completely average looking, average earning, nice sweet guy (unless they snap out of it in their early 30s while their unless they snap out of it in their early 30s while their looks are still there). That starts all the way back in middle and high school.
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Talking about the ones who aren't crazy. Obviously. He's talking about how the ones who are crazy became crazy.
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What's funny is the worst simps of all often think they are hyper masculine. You get these club guys, they look like they spent more time getting ready to go to the club then the women did. An actual, alpha male doesn't have to go to ridiculous lengths, and look thirsty as hell in the process, to get girls.
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100%. That characteristic you may not have found attractive early on, or possibly even annoying, can become cute or endearing once she makes her way into your heart.
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This video has a narrow view? Perhaps you haven't met extraordinarily good looking women. It's 100% true that they will always have a lineup of guys willing to lie to sleep with them. That is absolutely universal, end of story. It takes a rare woman to not succumb to this. I ignore any counter argument from anybody on anything who says "yeah, but there are exceptions". Duh. Nobody thinks that anything personality related literally applies to absolutely everyone on earth. He even makes the specific carveout for women who have a positive male role models in their lives, and especially brothers who won't put up with BS.
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@Brandilyn24 Everyone is different? C'mon now, stereotypes exist for a reason, and they are very useful. If two people showed up for a nanny position, you're telling me you would look at them exactly the same, if one fit your definition of what a nanny would look like and act like, and the other one was a tattooed, biker looking guy? There's not a chance on earth you would not make assumptions. And it's ridiculous argument anyways because absolutely, nobody is saying that there are exceptions to rules. Of course there are, but to deny that there are commonalties is to deny reality. It also makes absolutely no sense to think that somebody who grew up having the world treat them in a certain way, would grow up exactly the same as people who the world treated differently. It doesn't make sense on any level.
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@Brandilyn24 Don't actually counter anything I said, talk about yourself and how virtuous and non judgemental you are while simultaneously judging me by being condescending, and then getting passive aggressive with your insults. Speaking of accurate stereotypes: tell me you vote lefty without telling me you vote lefty 😉
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Well shit, your wife is beautiful and not an idiot. I guess that invalidates the millions who run counter to that. As soon as we find a single exception to something that was meant to make broad brushstrokes covering millions of people, the whole entire theory goes out the window then.
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"No one rewards honesty for the sake of honesty. If a thief is upfront about his intentions to rob you do you reward him for his candor? " And you seem to be missing the fact that the thief shouldn't be rewarded. That's the entire point. These girls need to start rejecting the men who just want to sleep with them.
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Other women are NOT always good to the gorgeous. Girls can be vicious when they get envious. Pretty girls are always have everyone behind them. The difference is that the men kiss their ass while the women stab them in the back. Neither tell them the truth.
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Buy them dinner to say thanks.
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This video has a couple gems in it. As for the overall premise, I say yes and no. It's no fun to fish if you always catch exactly what you were after. If everyone says yes, yes, yes, and a guy comes along and says nah, she'll want Mr Nah. She'll obsess over the one guy who actually rejected her. This is why the gorgeous women are often with the biggest dickheads. He still probably has to lie to her on some level though, but tht's normal. The guy with the busted girl still has to tell her she looks fantastic when she comes out of the bathroom dressed to go out for the evening.
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