Youtube comments of (@NaturalDisasterObserver).

  1. Women say they want love, but when it comes down to it, many of them only care about how much money you make. I’ll stick with my games, thanks.
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  2. The wife actually said it doesn’t matter whose children they are? Then why did she even get married?
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  3. Valentine’s Day is just a scam for businesses to make money. Why should men be the suckers? Why don’t women buy us gifts?
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  4. Who says women don’t care about men’s money? The moment the law changes, they start emphasizing ‘uterus value’—such a double standard.
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  5. If he's an average guy, he's 'a toad lusting after a swan'; if he's a billionaire, he's 'a romantic dreamer'.
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  6. Older women need to lower their standards. If you're picky at 36, you’ll be single forever.
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  7. Being with a beautiful woman is like carrying a fragile vase every day. It’s exhausting!
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  8. The guy is finally free, marrying someone who doesn’t pressure him. That’s true happiness.
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  9. If the bride price is for protecting women, what about men’s rights? Why does no one care about the pressure men face in marriage?
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  10. Let’s be real. A man can work hard his whole life, but if he doesn’t have money, women won’t even look at him. Is that how society really values us?
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  11. It’s ironic how women criticize men for being picky, yet their own standards are sky-high. Isn't it a double standard?
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  12. It’s clear that Ms. Li never valued Mr. Wang. After the divorce, she only wants to remarry because she sees him with someone better. A woman like this doesn’t deserve another chance!
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  13. "They never cared about average guys until they ran out of rich ones. Be smart, men."
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  14. If the law doesn’t protect deceived men, will impulsive crimes become more common?
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  15. The bride's family demands a 600,000 yuan dowry and makes the groom drink foot water. It’s really excessive. How can such a marriage last?
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  16. Finally, men are starting to realize that handing over their salary card is not a sign of love but a surrender of freedom.
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  17. Foreign women value not only Chinese men’s looks but also their stability and sense of responsibility. In contrast, many Chinese women only care whether a man can 'afford their lifestyle.
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  18. My wife never understands how much pressure I face at work. The game is the only thing that lets me relax.
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  19. Wealthy, handsome men in their 40s aren’t lining up for women close to their age. Let’s be realistic about market dynamics.
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  20. The disappearance of the gold-digging economy is a sign of social progress. Isn’t it worth encouraging that we choose not to be suckers?
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  21. Men hate the feeling of being manipulated. Once they realize a woman is playing mind games, they will only distance themselves further.
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  22. Women say they don't want to settle, but after 35, even the chance to 'settle' becomes rare.
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  23. If you want to date a rich second-generation guy, don’t complain about having to accept his lifestyle. It’s just a choice.
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  24. When it comes to "leftover women," often they’re responsible for their own situation.
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  25. This woman clearly saw me as an ATM. Ordering such expensive food on the first date? It's a scam!
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  26. At 40, still fantasizing about finding a rich, handsome guy, completely out of touch with reality.
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  27. Why do people assume single men are lonely? I've got everything I need—money, health, and independence. I don't need a wife to complete me.
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  28. It’s sad to see relationships ruined because of unreasonable financial expectations. Love should be the foundation of marriage, not a bank account.
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  29. Honestly, I’m tired of society’s expectation that men should always be the ones spending. If a relationship is truly about love, then why should I prove it with money? It feels like we’re constantly being tested with materialistic standards rather than emotional connection.
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  30. Modern women pursue independence, but when they face difficulties at work, they expect men to step in and solve their problems. This contradiction is hard to understand.
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  31. Both families and society expect men to support them, but once unemployed, we are mocked as "useless."
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  32. I think the idea of "too late" mentioned in the video is valid. Older women often miss the best opportunities, but it's not the man's fault.
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  33. If a woman only values a man’s money and ignores the true feelings between them, then I’d rather be alone. This kind of love isn’t worth pursuing.
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  34. Single women complain about workplace discrimination, but the reality is that companies need workers, not complainers.
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  35. Women always say 'love matters more than money' but the moment they hear you don’t own a house or a car, they ghost you. That’s reality.
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  36. Some modern women have no emotions and only care about material things. It’s really sad to think about it.
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  37. As a 30-year-old single man, I really don't think there's anything wrong with not getting married. I control my work, entertainment, and life, and no one tells me what to do. Marriage is just societal pressure—why should I marry just to meet others' expectations?
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  38. Games don’t judge us by how much we earn or whether we own a house. That’s why we choose them.
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  39. A financially independent woman should understand that when a man hands over all his salary, he loses respect.
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  40. Many women are impulsive before getting a divorce, but often realize after the divorce that they can't find a better man than their ex-husband. Then, they start to regret it, but by then, it's too late.
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  41. A man at 40 with money can still date a 20-year-old girl. Who can a woman at 40 date? Reality is harsh, accept it.
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  42. Men aren’t backup plans. She left thinking the grass was greener, but look where that got her.
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  43. She abandoned him seven years ago, so why is she back? Marriage isn’t a lottery where you can buy another ticket after losing!
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  44. Guys, remember this: 'A good woman is nurtured, a bad woman is bought.
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  45. If you demand a ‘high-quality man,’ make sure you’re bringing ‘high-quality’ to the table too.
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  46. Divorced women often find it difficult to find a more suitable partner. Many women tend to have a worsening situation after divorce.
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  47. Please, older single women, keep waiting. You will meet the right man eventually. After all, your age will always be 20.
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  48. If women demand equality, why do they always expect men to pay for meals? Isn't this a double standard?
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  49. In the marriage market, time is harsher on women. Realizing this after 30 is a bit too late.
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  50. Men's "awakening" is actually a reassessment of the market share of older leftover women in the marriage market.
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  51. Tiffany’s persistence and faith moved me in ways I cannot describe.
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  52. If I pursue a girl for a maximum of one month, if there is no chance, I will immediately switch to another girl and not waste money.
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  53. If you compare Russian women with some Chinese women's marriage demands, the latter's expectations are almost unreasonable.
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  54. Their ideal partner sounds like a fantasy rather than something achievable.
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  55. I bet many men don’t want to get married anymore. The bride price has become their 'nightmare.
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  56. Is the stability of older men really what attracts women? It seems more like financial pressures are forcing them to be realistic.
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  57. A mature man isn't afraid of an outstanding woman, but he is afraid of an insatiable one.
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  58. Divorce rates are rising too. Does this mean people are becoming clearer about what they want?
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  59. Judging by her actions, responsibility seems to have nothing to do with her. Even in the late stages of cancer, she still wants to avoid responsibility.
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  60. Think about your health, your future, and your family before you step into a club.
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  61. The more proud you are when you're young, the more miserable you'll be when you're old.
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  62. If she can’t find a man at 43, maybe she should start looking at her own flaws.
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  63. To be honest, these matchmaking events don’t appeal to modern men. We’re looking for companionship, not a life-long transaction. Maybe that’s why fewer men show up.
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  64. These older unmarried women always say they don't want to settle, but unfortunately, they no longer have many opportunities to pick. As they get older, the pool of men to choose from shrinks.
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  65. Can true love change a person? Try making her give up luxury and nightlife, and see if she still wants to stay.
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  66. Getting married now is like gambling. It’s not about love, it’s about whether you can be scammed.
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  67. Marrying into a wealthy family isn’t just about material enjoyment; there’s also invisible pressure.
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  68. Some men stay single their entire lives and still find fulfillment. Maybe women should take a lesson from them.
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  69. If women want equality, they should also be held accountable when they deceive their husbands like this!
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  70. The man’s concerns are actually reasonable. A month of blind dating and then deciding to marry? Who wouldn’t be worried?
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  71. The scene of retaking wedding photos after 19 years is so romantic. I hope their happiness lasts forever!
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  72. You can accept a high bride price but not a premarital checkup? Is that fair?
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  73. Seeing others in debt because of high bride prices makes me hesitant about marriage.
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  74. When I went on a blind date before, I encountered the same situation. Thinking back on it now, it really was like that. At that time, a bottle of red wine cost me more than 1,000 yuan. I didn’t realize it back then, but now I see that I really met a girl who was just there for a free meal.
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  75. Why do women always use these childish tests to prove something? If you don't trust him, just break up sooner.
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  76. To put it simply, men in the matchmaking market no longer want to bear traditional responsibilities. Many feel it's better to stay single than to carry the heavy burden of marriage.
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  77. 1,000 women waiting in vain. Where are the men? They’re looking for younger and better options.
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  78. What men want isn’t the massage girl’s love, but a brief sense of satisfaction in their illusion of affection.
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  79. "I think this statement is very true: suffering in youth is not real suffering; suffering in old age is true suffering. When you grow old and have no family or children around you, what good is having money? If you end up with dementia, what can you expect from caregivers? If they don’t steal your money, you should consider yourself lucky. Older single women, wake up!"
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  80. It's so funny that the guy failed three blind dates, but fortunately he met the right girl later.
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  81. This industry demands the same of male and female drivers. Why do female drivers always bring up gender?
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  82. The groom did the right thing! You shouldn't compromise for money. If a marriage starts off with money as the foundation, will it really bring happiness?
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  83. In fact, these incidents should reflect the professionalism of the salesperson, not just blame the client’s behavior.
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  84. There’s a difference between being confident and being delusional. Sure, a 40-year-old woman can look great, but she’s still competing with younger women who haven’t been through the same life experiences.
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  85. She pursued so-called "freedom" when she was young, and now she expects others to pay for her choices? The real world isn’t a fairy tale!
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  86. Chinese women need to reflect on why so many men are leaving. Maybe it's time to reconsider the expectations placed on men.
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  87. These young people may seem aimless, but they support the foundation of society. Do we have the right to criticize them?
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  88. Marriage has never been a mandatory life goal. After 30, men should focus on their own life value.
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  89. How many families have been ruined by parents' insistence on "you must marry"? If I end up in debt, I'd rather stay single.
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  90. Do men really want to be 'bought' with money or a house? Is marriage a transaction or about love?"
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  91. What the author said is so true. I have also encountered this. When my career was not going well, my wife always looked at me with disdain and always said that I was wrong. When my income was good, my wife was much more friendly to me.
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  92. The looks and tactics of nightlife girls are indeed captivating, but it’s all just surface-level.
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  93. needed help the most, I realized my so-called friends were only there for the good times.
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  94. The man’s family is also at fault; their obsession with the bride price encouraged this imbalance.
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  95. Marriage nowadays feels more like a transaction, with women only caring about the assets and not the emotions. Prenuptial agreements are all about protecting their interests, while men’s feelings and efforts seem irrelevant.
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  96. For those still buying houses, they should think hard about this story. Buying a house is not speculation, let alone gambling.
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  97. If a guy spends hours at the gym every day, how’s he supposed to be a good partner? He’s neglecting his wife and family.
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  98. Nowadays, many Chinese men are hesitant about marriage due to the high demands of older single women, which is truly unfortunate. It's understandable that both sides want a better life, but many women’s high standards regarding material conditions often overlook the essence of genuine emotions. In reality, marriage is not just about matching conditions, but about two people facing life's ups and downs together, hand in hand. Perhaps if everyone could lower their expectations a bit and show more understanding and tolerance, happiness would be easier to find.
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  99. It’s hard to even get respect these days. No matter how much you earn, women always want more. When will it be enough?
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  100. If more women focused on building skills instead of complaining about the economy, they might not be in this mess.
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  101. Her actions only reinforce the stereotype that women are gold diggers. In the future, good men might be too afraid to trust women. This hurts not only him but also the reputation of other women.
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  102. She thought she was just ordinary, but to him, she was the whole world.
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  103. If a man is honest, he’s accused of having no emotional intelligence. If he’s mysterious, he’s blamed for not being transparent. What do they really want from us?
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  104. As a man, it's okay to fail, but repeating the same mistakes over and over is pointless. Face reality with reason.
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  105. I feel this woman is really unreasonable. She’s been divorced for so many years, and now she still has the nerve to come and claim a share of the property. It’s honestly ridiculous.
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  106. Having kids just means raising future taxpayers, and marriage is just taking over society’s burden. Young people aren’t stupid.
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  107. A couple who once loved each other deeply are now like strangers. It's really speechless.
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  108. Models are like disposable goods. You use them for a short time, and once their appeal fades, they’re discarded.
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  109. I think rural banquet culture is no different from urban social media flaunting—just a different form.
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  110. Many men are already working hard, why should they be crushed by such high standards?
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  111. At the end of the day, marriage and childbirth are not things one person can bear alone. It should be a shared responsibility, but society today doesn't offer that support.
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  112. Men, make sure to sign a prenup before marriage, or you’ll lose your bride price and have no one to cry to!
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  113. What kind of social values are reflected in the tolerance for foreigners and harshness toward Chinese men?
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  114. When a man gains money and status, he becomes irresponsible. By the time he regrets it, it’s too late.
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  115. "This video makes a lot of sense. As women, being too tough can indeed create tension in a relationship. Being gentle doesn't mean being weak; it shows respect and understanding for each other. Often, a gentle attitude can win the other person's heart and lead to a more harmonious relationship. Being tough won't necessarily make the other person care more; instead, it might make them feel exhausted and distant. A relationship requires effort and care, and a bit of gentleness can help both people go further together."
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  116. The video talks about loneliness, but isn’t that a problem that starts from within, not something men can fix?
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  117. Older unmarried women want job opportunities, but why should companies bear the risk of your maternity?
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  118. This new marriage law is a double-edged sword. Women who put their lives into being housewives will now lose everything in a divorce.
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  119. It sounds like her bestie just doesn't want her to be happy with anyone. Maybe she’s jealous of their relationship?
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  120. Why should he be punished for just trying to earn a living?
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  121. Requesting a premarital health check is about securing the future, so I don’t understand why it causes resentment. Don’t men’s health and family happiness matter too?
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  122. Why didn’t they divorce earlier? Dragging it out only causes more pain.
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  123. I think marriage is a growth process for both men and women. Many women remain single in their 30s and 40s, pursuing so-called “independence” and “freedom,” but in reality, marriage can help a person become a better version of themselves. There are limits to what one can achieve alone, and the support and companionship that marriage offers are irreplaceable.
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  124. The woman who said she wants to make use of her beauty seems a bit like a gold digger to me. These women are so selfish.
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  125. These opinions are becoming more common not because being single is truly happier, but because many people can't find suitable marriages.
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  126. Keeping distance between besties and husbands is fine, but constantly doubting men is the issue.
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  127. Everyone wants to live a free life, but it depends on opportunities. If there are no opportunities, the only way to survive is to work.
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  128. Honestly, I feel bad for the guys who fall for these scams, but at the same time, I have to wonder why they don’t do more research or question these situations before going along with them. It’s 2024, we should know better by now.
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  129. The strict age limits in the programming industry are ridiculous. Does it really only have to be young, 'low-cost' programmers? If the industry is to grow, it needs to break these limits.
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  130. It’s understandable that women want financial independence and emotional freedom, but can dating a younger guy really fulfill their long-term needs?
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  131. Her bestie was a terrible influence and ruined her life."
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  132. Every family should ask themselves one question: When faced with the conflict between love and money, what should we choose?
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  133. For women, 30 is the ‘death line’ in the workplace, but for men, careers are just beginning. Have we underestimated the difficulty women face in the workplace?
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  134. Being 30 and having no friends might actually be a good thing. It means he’s focused on his career instead of wasting time on meaningless social interactions.
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  135. "Love" is increasingly like a transaction—men are the ATMs, and women are the recipients.
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  136. The development of the internet and the proliferation of social media have changed people's values. More and more people believe that showcasing themselves on online platforms is a relatively quick path to success. Particularly after seeing some successful influencers earn significant wealth through live streaming and short videos, many hope to replicate this success. However, in reality, those who can truly succeed through online platforms are very few. Most people, after investing a lot of time and effort, may not achieve the expected income and influence.
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  137. Thanks to the author for bringing such a wonderful film. My eyes were wet after watching it. It's so touching.
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  138. A drunk father, a helpless child, and a group of warm-hearted young people—what a contrast.
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  139. In modern society, women are more focused on self-fulfillment and independence, which clashes with some men's preference for "younger and softer" partners. The difference in needs is actually a result of a lack of communication and understanding. The balance in relationships lies in respecting each other's choices, rather than demanding one-sided changes.
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  140. I’m all for tradition, but when a bride price becomes an obstacle to love, that’s where I draw the line. No one should have to bankrupt themselves to prove their love.
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  141. If you have children, after divorce, you’ll realize that your ex-wife isn’t just your ex-wife, she’s more like a burden you can never escape from. If custody isn’t properly divided, many men will be stuck with their ex-wife for life. I believe the law should be more fair and not allow an irresponsible mother to use the child’s future as a pawn.
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  142. Beauty filters are just tools; the problem lies with the audience's standards.
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  143. Every job interview ends in rejection just because we’re “too old”—this is blatant age discrimination. Can’t we do the same jobs young people can?
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  144. She gave up her own world for love and came to a completely unfamiliar place—it's so moving."
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  145. Chase your dreams, no matter the job—every profession deserves respect!
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  146. This young man is so smart and brave—absolutely admirable!
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  147. Haha, thanks to the author for posting the video, it's very interesting. The way this man treats materialistic women can be used as a textbook.
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  148. I definitely won't marry an older single woman because I can't meet their income requirements. Haha, I can only look for a regular, good girl
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  149. If 36 men were fooled, is she really the only problem here?
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  150. When the family needs financial support, should women prioritize going back to work?
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  151. A relationship is mutual, not based on who spends money on whom.
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  152. I really don’t understand why Chinese weddings focus so much on face. What’s the real meaning of marriage?
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  153. The era of great economic recession in China has arrived, not only in the catering industry, but also in many other industries.
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  154. Why would young men date older women? Shouldn't their youth and energy be saved for women their own age?"
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  155. Very good video, so interesting. I look forward to more new works from the author.
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  156. She doesn’t like you—she just enjoys being liked.
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  157. I think the second single mother is still very beautiful, and she still values ​​her children very much. He should still be a good person.
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  158. If it were me, I would not give up my seat. You can't do whatever you want just because you are old and have no sense of shame.
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  159. Even if the bride price belongs to the woman, will this money really bring her happiness? Marriage needs trust between the couple more.
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  160. It really exists. China's demolition policy is to compensate a lot of money. Many people became rich overnight by demolishing their own houses.
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  161. Thanks to the author for the video, it's very interesting, please keep up the quality work, thank you.
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  162. Men are waking up. We don't have to settle for women who think they're doing us a favor just by showing up. If you're not bringing something to the table, don't expect us to stay.
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  163. That's so true. Thanks to the author for such a good video. I hope every man can watch it.
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  164. How high are the difficulties and costs of going abroad? Are you ready? If it weren’t for economic difficulties, who would willingly leave their home and culture for an unfamiliar place?
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  165. Let’s be honest—this so-called refined lifestyle is built entirely on men’s money. Where’s the independence?
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  166. Your ex-wife is definitely the best, especially the one who works hard with you. Similarly, your first husband is also the best.
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  167. Very good video, so interesting. I look forward to more new works from the author.
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  168. Maybe instead of worrying about looks, women should focus on finding someone who values them for who they are. At the end of the day, beauty fades, but companionship lasts a lifetime.
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  169. The phenomenon of China's leftover women is an unsolvable problem; even a deity couldn't resolve this global issue.
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  170. Women act like they’re the prize, but most of them are so picky that no man can meet their standards. You can't expect perfection in a partner while offering nothing but demands.
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  171. They will eventually regret it. Don’t think that men can’t wait. In the end, when they get older, men still have a certain advantage over women. At the very least, even when men age, they can still have children, while women can no longer do so.
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  172. It's so true. Thanks to the author. My dream when I graduated was to become a pilot, but now it's impossible to realize it. I'm sad.
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  173. I have been working for several years now, and I feel so exhausted. Every day feels like I'm just a robot, repeating the same tasks day after day, year after year.
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  174. If she keeps saying no to men who are willing to marry her, she’ll end up being the one who’s left behind. No man wants to compete with her standards.
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  175. Is demolition compensation considered joint property or personal property? Can it really be redistributed after divorce? What does the law say?
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  176. This is all the result of market selection. Chinese women have too exaggerated demands and are bound to be eliminated. Foreign girls don’t have so many demands, which is really good. Come on, Chinese men.
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  177. These women used to think they were exceptional when they were younger and looked down on many men. Now, as they’ve gotten older, they are facing the consequences.
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  178. Marriage is a trap. Once men step in, they have to work hard to support the family, while women can sit back and be treated like princesses. Who still wants to play this game?
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  179. It is true that this kind of workplace discrimination against women exists in many places, and it is not easy to change this phenomenon.
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  180. Why is it always the man’s job to make money and do housework? What happened to equality?
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  181. Women should aim to advance in their careers to be more competitive in the dating scene.
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  182. Men who say never to get married may simply not be ready to take on the responsibility. Marriage itself isn't the problem; the issue lies in whether they have the courage to take on family responsibilities
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  183. Why do women always use their high standards as a bragging point, only to complain later that they can't find a good man?
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  184. These women are the epitome of marriage fraud—charming on the outside but with a heart full of sinister ambitions.
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  185. Isn’t it ironic how women want equality but still expect men to overlook age?
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  186. It’s simply terrifying. Ordinary people have never seen so much money in their lives. These borers!
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  187. Men are increasingly unwilling to attend matchmaking events. What does this tell us? It's time to reflect on women's attitudes.
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  188. So in the end, men still have to make money, or else they won't even get a meal at home.
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  189. A lot of women think it’s men’s fault that they aren’t getting married, but maybe the problem is that their own standards are too high.
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  190. This marriage law is tailor-made for men! Whether it’s property protection or post-marriage rights, now no woman can easily take advantage of us.
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  191. I actually cried at the end, especially when they sang their songs helplessly and sadly at the end. The employment rate of college students in China is too low, mainly because there are too many of them and their academic qualifications have devalued.
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  192. Love shouldn’t be measured by money, but the reality is that a woman’s youth is valuable!
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  193. Mandatory paternity tests would save men from being tricked into raising another man’s child.
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  194. This woman wasn’t here for a date; she was here for a feast!
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  195. Stop complaining that men want youth and beauty. Aren’t your demands for tall, rich, and handsome just as superficial?
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  196. If these girls want to build a future, they should rethink their careers. No man wants a wife who’s only experienced in nightlife.
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  197. When women are asked to take on the same responsibilities as men in the workplace, could this weaken our roles as men? What impact does this change have on us?
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  198. Reality has proven: if you don’t investigate properly before marriage, you’re just walking into a scam.
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  199. Men are getting smarter and making money is not easy. Why do girls have those demands? It is so unfair to boys.
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  200. If a woman expects me to buy her something on our first date, she clearly doesn’t respect me. She just wants free stuff.
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  201. Modern women claim to be independent, yet they still expect men to buy houses and cars in marriage. This so-called "independence" is just a facade.
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  202. This raises another question: What about the situation of older unmarried men? Why is the focus always on women's confessions? Don't men face similar pressures and struggles?
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  203. Women always say men love to watch beauties, but if you keep deceiving with filters, what can we trust?
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  204. Your ideal partner might exist, but isn't he also likely looking for a younger, more accommodating partner?
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  205. This man’s stupidity and these women’s cunning are a perfect match, and the result is nothing but mutual exploitation.
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  206. It's not men who have changed, but women's demands that make men back off.
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  207. Why do leftover women always say men don’t understand them when they get rejected? Men are allowed to have standards too, aren’t they?
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