Comments by "Jessica Dainese" (@JessicaDainese) on "How Orban’s “Pro-Baby” Policies are Bankrupting Hungary" video.
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Women are more educated about pregnancy and childbirth now, and they know they are both horrible. They cause temporary and permanent health problems, they ruin your body, make you older, kill braincells, cause depression, anxiety and worse, often ruin your sex life, increase your risk of dying both because of complications and because of murder (yes, pregnant women are much more at risk of being killed by their husbands/partners than non pregnant women), half of them become incontinent, often for LIFE... and on and on and on. There is not enough money in the world that makes pregnancy and childbirth worth it. Add the facts that 1) your child may be born with disabilities so serious that you will have to look after him/her their whole life and 2) if your marriage/relationship ends, even if you divorce, your partner will always be in your life to co-parent. Immagine if you divorced because of an abusive partner. If you have a child together, you will never get rid of him. And there are dozens more reasons for a woman not to have a child. I forgot one: 90% of the time it is the mother who takes care of the child, the house, and everything. Fathers rarely help. So really, why SHOULD a woman have a child? I hope they finally start to use artificial wombs so that women are finally free from this barbaric practice. And also men can raise their kids by themselves if they want kids. Lets see how it goes 😂
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@Veritas.0 I also have written dozens of articles for years about the danger of pregnancy and childbirth and I educated hundreds of girls and women. They are still all childfree/ antinatalist. We also refuse sex to men who are not feminist. And we refuse marriage. If you think I am lying, check data on Italy. We have both one of the lowest birthrates in the world and the lowest rate of marriage in the world. Your side has lost, and theres nothing you can do about it. And we are happy with our cats, our friends, our money, freetime, great health, long naps and FREEDOM in general. No woman will give that up to suffer, clean shitty babies, and stay up at night because of the screaming. If men want children, they can make them in a lab and raise them themselves.
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@Veritas.0 @Veritas.0 I also have written dozens of articles for years about the danger of pregnancy and childbirth and I educated hundreds of girls and women. They are still all childfree/ antinatalist. We also refuse sex to men who are not feminist. And we refuse marriage. If you think I am lying, check data on Italy. We have both one of the lowest birthrates in the world and the lowest rate of marriage in the world. Your side has lost, and theres nothing you can do about it. And we are happy with our cats, our friends, our money, freetime, great health, long naps and FREEDOM in general. No woman will give that up to suffer, clean shitty babies, and stay up at night because of the screaming. If men want children, they can make them in a lab and raise them themselves.
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@Veritas.0 @Veritas.0 I also have written dozens of articles for years about the danger of pregnancy and childbirth and I educated hundreds of girls and women. They are still all childfree/ antinatalist. We also refuse sex to men who are not feminist. And we refuse marriage. If you think I am lying, check data on Italy. We have both one of the lowest birthrates in the world and the lowest rate of marriage in the world. Your side has lost, and theres nothing you can do about it. And we are happy with our cats, our friends, our money, freetime, great health, long naps and FREEDOM in general. No woman will give that up to suffer, clean shitty babies, and stay up at night because of the screaming. If men want children, they can make them in a lab and raise them themselves.
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@cmd7930 it is not up to you. Its up to the people in power. They are not going to stop anything because businesses need immigrants for cheap labor. No politician is going to stop immigrants, not even the far right. Meloni has ASKED for more immigrants than any other government 😂 in Italy, immigrants work in agriculture, constraction, as nurses, babysitters, caretakers etc. In food service. No italian wants those jobs because they are too tiring, not enough money, or because they atudied for something else. Are you against a certain type of immigrants or all of them? Most immigrants in Italia are Albanian and Rimanianian, and they work very hard. Some are muslims, but they are no problem at all. So which immigrants are you against?
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@cmd7930 I like North Africa and the Middle East. I am from North Italy (Padua) so closer to France and Germany, but I have relatives in the South, and they are closer to Arabs and Greeks. In Italy immigrants are integrating pretty well, so I dont see any problem. No riots, no terrorism, no ghettos. Answer me: who will work in agriculture, constructions, service jobs like nurses, babysitters, assistance to old people, cleaning jobs, restaurants jobs etc if not immigrants? Italians are not going to work those jobs because they are over qualified. Italian young people are leaving for better wages elsewhere. So what is YOUR solution? I am curious.
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@cmd7930 I was born in Italy, I have travelled to many countries, I have studied abroad, worked abroad, lived abroad, been on vacation abroad, and now I live in Italy again, in the same town my great grandparents lived. I said I love North Africa and I do, like I love the Middle East, France, the UK, Spain, parts of Germany, and many other countries and cultures. That doesnt mean I want to move there. People from Veneto like me feel very close to their land/cities/culture. Why should I leave??? Who are you to tell me to move to Africa? Venice became one of the richest cities in Europe by trading with Africa and the East. Even the Roman Empire was mixed with North Africa and the Middle East. You could be African or Arab and become citzen of Rome. I come from a long list of important civilizations that were a mix of peoples, cultures, languages, even religions. None of them were xenophobe. You should study some history. Unless your utopia is North Korea lol thats what happens if you close your borders and isolate your country from the world. Maybe you should move to North Korea lol but probably they would not want you because you look different. I dont want Europe to become North Korea, sorry.
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@cmd7930 also, "create more children" is a stupid thing to say and not a solution. We need workers NOW. Children take at least 25 years to grow up and be trained for jobs. Western people mostly have a University degree, and people with a Uni degree refuse to work low value job. Sorry, it is like it is. You can not force people to have children they dont want. It will end in legal/illegal abortions, deaths, child abandonment, infanticide, abuse, and more horrible things. See Romanian orphans in the 90s for example. You can not just say "get people to have children". It doesnt work like that. How old are you? You must be a teenager, an adult would know everything you wrote is just a fantasy, not reality. Sorry, we live in reality and you will have to accept it, whether you like it or not.
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@cmd7930 @cmd7930 I was born in Italy, I have travelled to many countries, I have studied abroad, worked abroad, lived abroad, been on vacation abroad, and now I live in Italy again, in the same town my great grandparents lived. I said I love North Africa and I do, like I love the Middle East, France, the UK, Spain, parts of Germany, and many other countries and cultures. That doesnt mean I want to move there. People from Veneto like me feel very close to their land/cities/culture. Why should I leave??? Who are you to tell me to move to Africa? Venice became one of the richest cities in Europe by trading with Africa and the East. Even the Roman Empire was mixed with North Africa and the Middle East. You could be African or Arab and become citzen of Rome. I come from a long list of important civilizations that were a mix of peoples, cultures, languages, even religions. None of them were xenophobe. You should study some history. Unless your utopia is North Korea lol thats what happens if you close your borders and isolate your country from the world. Maybe you should move to North Korea lol but probably they would not want you because you look different. I dont want Europe to become North Korea, sorry.
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