Comments by "Harsh" (@harsh3948) on "Memeable Data" channel.

@luckygirl3707 " If you are swiping right on someone who is never going to reply back you are just wasting your time and it will get you depressed" Actually, 2/3rds of one's matches don't reply back either, let alone swiping on a potential match. And with regards to wasting time, dating irl is affected due to the presence of online dating as well, since most women can stay at home and order 10's off of Tinder....so the quality of the dating pool men have irl also decreases.
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@agme8045 women have far higher standards, like income, height and social status. All of which aren’t as easy as changing a woman to become attractive per a man’s standards
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@ncrest4365 statistically, the only thing women are more likely to face than men is sexual assault and even that is less than being involved in a car accident. So getting sexually assaulted by your date that wants to impress you for a sexual favor seems like a very low probability already. But if you're that scared of these things, why go meet strangers at all then? Yeah that seems like a stupid excuse don't you think? Because if you actually used your brain and reasearched who was getting more matches online, you'd come accross a profile of a model that said he was a child predator got matches as well (Just google the tinder pedophile model). So the idea that women are cautious is just not true
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@Candyy248 terrible idea, it's being dishonest and creepy if you want to be a girl's friend purely for the intent of trying to get her into a relationship. It’s gotten so common to the point that women make tiktoks making fun of them
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@MrGlostuber sorry but women can smell a guy who’s joining classes just to try his hand with them instead of actually doing it for a hobby. Plenty of these places have even implemented rules like avoiding single males sometimes
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@SoSodawgindahouse it’s ok, you can deny all you want but your actions and data tell us the opposite.
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@imansmith817 women on bumble filter out 80% of guys using the height filter and still get dozens of matches.
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@ardianha5346 the fact that they can get laid at a moment’s notice whenever they’re pissed after an argument itself shows how powerless the average man is.
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@ncrest4365 "This is not about the dating app, I'm talking about both partners who already in a relationship." But you literally used it to justify pickiness in women's swiping choices on dating apps. How will the risk of relationship violence happen with a stranger? Based off his profile? Gimme a break lmao. Stop your mental gymnastics and admit that women are equally if not much more shallow. The example of the Tinder pedophile chadfish that you can google up just proves this more than any of my words ever could.
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@ncrest4365 Actually, this is false. Men already outnumber women in ages 18~30. Women also prefer dating men older than them on top of this, so it reduces the eligible dating pool of a younger man significantly, which just proves the statistical fact of 2/3rds of those men from that age group having had no sex for the past year. I'm surprised you didn't know this, but looks like you gave up arguing when you admitted to saying "just stfu and learn to stay alone". And fyi, i get laid plenty based off my looks alone, so you assuming personality plays into one's likelihood of getting laid these days is laughable
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@OnlyAchievingHere "Instead I look to solutions like how to rebuild my real-world relationship building skills and not use datings apps anymore because they’re obviously designed without my best interests in the model. But nobody sensible is going to respect or offer a solution to someone who, instead of saying something like “yeah this isn’t ideal, what’s a better option?”, goes off on a bitter tangent." The grievances of men are specifically due to the LACK of alternatives to this dilemma, which you simply dismiss as a tantrum. Fyi, Dating apps cause more women to stop meeting men outside naturally. Have you ever thought about that? They also elevate irl women's standards as she can simply order chads off of tinder if she so wanted to, so what makes you so special then? This is specifically why the concept of sexual market value or SMV was invented. Since looks form only a part of what attracts women, The problem is that the other key factors apart from looks (which in itself is a hard thing to achieve due to the lack of factors under your control making you good looking such as height and bone structure) are Money and status, which are even harder than simply improving your looks by hitting the gym. This problem has gotten so bad to the point that 2/3rds of men from 18~30 haven't had sex in the past year, and a solution has STILL not been found. So in order to do so, acknowledging and validating that a problem exists is the correct solution
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@OnlyAchievingHere " and the claim that “men don’t matter”. Which are both ridiculous additions to the conversation." The problem is that feminists and conservatives use that exact rhetoric to dismiss men's dating issues when brought up
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@tongobong1 you could literally have the same effect by taking a picture of you standing with a hottie and putting it on your profile
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@luckygirl3707 You seem to cope hard lol. The OkCupid statistics show that men swipe on 50% of all profiles shown, but women swipe on only 20%. Maybe women need to stop swiping on Chad, getting used and then blaming all men on twitter
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@teemun3979 ”women’s taste varies much more than men” Looks like someone chose to ignore the OK cupid study that proves the exact OPPOSITE
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@notanotherone5564 Half the women on bumble disqualify men under 6 feet using height filters. No gym for your height
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@Mew__ Based and statisticspilled
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@Candyy248 Hahaha, terrible advice once again. "Friendships ending in relationships is not that uncommon..." But you know what is common? Losing a longtime friend due to developing attraction for her and wasting your time. You don't live forever, so why waste it on someone who may never reciprocate it? Again, it is creepy specifically because you are creating a friendship with a person you find attractive, for the explicit reason of potentially getting a relationship out of it. If not, and everyone took your advice, why don't men who are friends with old women fall for them? Because they aren't ATTRACTED to them
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@OnlyAchievingHere "Women and children came first because they are more physically vulnerable than men. That is a perfectly reasonable order to follow. " Nope, they came first precisely because men had authority over them. Don't expect any man of modern day to sacrifice himself for 😺
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@maharaja101 " and the vast majority of men are currently not participating" You express it like those men actually have a choice and they aren't participating willingly 😂
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@stuartdparnell then you get diagnosed of cancer
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@notanotherone5564 They swipe on everyone, and smash all the girls that match, and pick out the girls worthy of a relationship after smashing. That's their strategy, which is STILL less picky than that of an average woman. maybe these women need to bring more to the table apart from their 😺 in order to keep them around instead of blaming all men online.
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@notanotherone5564 "You think those f boys are helping your case, but they’re making it harder for average guys." Actually, all guys use that strategy because it is the most optimized one. Only the good looking men get most of the matches due to the imbalanced ratio and women's pickiness on not wanting to date the average guy. And with regards to city/average girls, you're wrong here as well, as it is proven that male attraction to women is on a bell curve, so someone will ALWAYS find them more attractive than a non city girl. That is not even remotely true for men, hence the meme of the 5'2 balding indian janitor exists.
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Also, You also forgot to mention the effect of filters based on race, education and ESPECIALLY Height
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Bruh, keep making videos about male dating woes using statistics and you’ll have a million subs by the end of the year. You got mine for now tho
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@petelee2477 they’ll say in bars or shared social activities/hobbies and through friend circle
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@ExecutionSommaire if your strategy has failed and you cope by saying dating isn’t your main goal, maybe just stfu and stop giving shitty advice?
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@Candyy248 "Friendships between elders and youngers rarely occur, mostly becuase both are from different generations among other factors, and if they occur they are not that deep friendship, is mostly just getting along with that person but not anything, totally different story..." definitely not true in the case of women pursuing older men as they are actually attracted to them as well. Attraction plays a key part here, so the idea that making friends without attraction could potentially help you is ridiculous and stupid. It only works in the case where you make friends with a person you could be potentially attracted to, and if you made a friend for that reason, that IS creepy. The only way it isn't is if you are friends due to a common interest first and it just so happens by chance that she was just enough for you start finding her attractive AND she is single. But that already has such a low probability and is inherently risky as you will have to lose her and the entire friend circle related to her if she rejects you. So your advice is not only terrible due to the low success rate, but also has no idea about the potential consequences "Also long time friendships are not lost like that most of time, that is just unrealistic and silly... " Yes, they are. Sounds like you've never had the bad luck of your feelings rejected by a long term friend and watch her be with another guy while you are still single unable to get laid and stuck in the friendzone. Who would want to torture himself like that? It would be in your best interest to cut contacts after the rejection and move on.
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@manyseas1219 60% of men haven’t had sex in the past year. So no, they don’t
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Slayy queen 💅, you deserve the best!
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@tongobong1 the only way to do that is to make a reservation spot based system for men based on the number of women available. That would only let the highest paying men enter the app.
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@Ungabunga.44hinge does that in the free version, yet the problem hasn’t been fixed
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@@pearbear3221 Aww, it's ok to admit you're shallow and picky. If you don't, the science already does so either stop lying or stfu
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