Comments by "Eric Astier" (@ericastier1646) on "Why Foreign Women Struggle Dating In Japan" video.

  1. Hahaha i could relate to the Italian woman as a Westerner i've been in similar situation as a man with a Korean Asian woman, when i thought we were officially bf/gf she presented me to someone as "just a friend" Ouch !!! This hurts and when asked she would say "you never asked me to be your gf !" And then if you ask she'll say "hmmm i don't know...". As a westerner this felt like wtf and actually even made me upset because as Westerners we feel we know when we've crossed that emotional commitment threshold and we are more than friends. But it works differently in Korea. Koreans hide their relations in secrecy, it's not uncommon that they announce they're getting married after hiding the relation to everyone for 1 full year even if you saw them regularly together they never showing proximity or signs of affections for each other. So don't even hope to know if an Korean woman has a bf, nobody will know not even her siblings. Then there are "easy" Korean women that will want you to be their plaything because you are a foreigner and that too is shocking. I actually learned my lesson to not fall into their traps of frustration, made sure to put the next Korean i dated on the spot, with the question make it clear and plain, no deception , do you want to be bf/gf and they hate that. It's as if you have to endure that period where she acts like a gf but don't recognize you as her bf and won't do anything with you, while getting your emotions all messed up, like a contest of who is more impervious to the other attractiveness. I hate playing games with attraction, but Korean women love that. Then suddenly after you've lost hope and even wonder why you still hang out with her that is already a lost battle, when you least expect it or even wants it, cold, she gets kinky on you. It's like all the romantic courting part is skipped and replaced by games of frustration and extended "evaluation".
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