Comments by "Eric Astier" (@ericastier1646) on "Dating Differences between Japanese and Korean Girls" video.
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Let me add my own experience as a westerner as i have been integrated in some Korean groups and took 3 years of Korean language and I had one long time Japanese girlfriend and one near girlfriend Korean female friend. <After watching the video > Wow your sources are excellent i have barely anything to add. I only want to warn westerners against dating both Japanese or Korean women. We westerners get a wrong impression especially about Japanese women. Due to Japan having no Christian religion like Korea, the moral values like sex in Japan will be very odd and treacherous. Most Japanese women think it's ok for their bg/husband to go to prostitute as long as they pay for service while Westerners women will find this abject and cause for breakup/divorce. Also Japanese women cheat like crazy (and men too). Even when my past relation with ex Jap. gf was going well, one day that she thought i wasn't in town she invited a local burly white mechanic who fixed her car for dinner in her apartment and i walked in by accident ! They were only just starting to eat at the table but not doubt she was planning to get fucked by him. He left, and was actually a decent man that she tricked and was embarrassed when he saw she had a boyfriend. I fucked her instead but that's what you can expect from Japanese women even (especially) the most decent looking ones. They have no morals in the western sense and zero conscience. Also they will not tell if they don't like something and leave in total ignorance. You will feel you never really know her even after years.
About Korean women, they're extremely superficial and will date foreign men only on materialistic reasons such as he has a prestigious position or profession. Korean are extremely chauvinistic for a woman to date a foreigner goes against almost all Korean rules. I found it extremely hard to get a Korean gf despite putting 10 times more effort and years into it than with Japanese. I learned Korean 3 years at the university level courses, was a member of an all Korean church group for 3-4 years, courted many of them in the most gentlemanly approach possible, had a few first dates, only one woman had repeat date and we ended up in her apartment one time where i received the most confusing mixed signals from a woman ever. You judge, i still don't know what went in her mind. We got in her apartment she prepared a spaghetti meal for me in her kitchen in exchange for me having cooked for her in a previous date then as i was eating she said, i want to take a shower now and left me there alone eating her meal while she went to shower. At that point we had only flirted once in a previous date (not that day) but it was mostly me, she had not returned those physical gestures of affection like caressing. So there i was, thinking what the heck is she doing, does she wants me to walk in and find her naked in the bathroom under the shower etc or was she just acting extravagant and would have shouted if i walked in the bathroom ? I decided to act as a gentleman and not risk it, but i think it probably was a mistake and that was her odd way to stride to something romantic.
She sure did not give me that chance again, and when i got more adventurous in a later date touching and caressing her legs gently she remained jaded and pretended it was not happening. We continued to have this double meaning relation even once i totally confessed to her by messaging that i wanted her and it drove me crazy and she replied she wanted to dated me again. But it never happened as i don't believed her anymore. That's what will happen with a Korean woman, expect level of frustration to be very high.
When you think you have made progress, she will act like she just met you. Also she will give you the typical "You didn't ask me to be your girlfriend, i didn't know" even when she already know you badly want her.
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