Comments by "Gakusangi" (@Gakusangi) on "Count Dankula"
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@jacksoncordray1593 You are NOT talking about a "normal", "fully-there" person. You're talking about someone whose abuse started when they were a young teenager, who was easily manipulated, intimidated, and not operating on a mature, adult level. You're also disregarding who this is she was a the victim of. This man got away with two attempted murders and various other crimes, the authorities were entirely ineffective, so what could she have done? She probably didn't even realize that by going back to him, she would end up getting him off on the one charge that might've stuck, instead she was just trying to make him stop chasing her and threatening people she knew. She was scared and traumatized... does that sound like "normal, fully-there" person to you?
Please stop trying to apply the "outsider looking in" logic to this, you have no idea what she went through. And you're leaving out vital information to why she came to her decision and thought she had no other choice. You're acting like she some well-adjusted adult when she's anything but that.
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@jacksoncordray1593 So you by your logic, a child running back to their abuser isn't a victim of abuse anymore. They made the decision to go back even if they knew they didn't like what was happening and knew it was wrong, so they can't be a victim anymore, right?
Oh, and before you try to say this was different. She was a teenager when she went back to him, she was even younger when he started abusing her. She is a child. And wouldn't you know it, when someone grows up into adulthood, in an abusive, psychologically manipulative household, they don't grow up to be "normal, well-adjusted" adults either. Please stop trying, this is a really stupid hill you're trying to die on here, and it only shows up little you know about the effects of abuse and the relationships cultivated by the abuser.
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