Comments by "Ace1000ks1975" (@Ace1000ks19751982) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. I am 48, and I never got married. I had many chances to get married, but I choose not to because I wanted my freedom. My mother keeps nagging me, and say I should get married. Says stuff like don't you want a woman to be near you and eat with you? I said no, I like being alone.
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  2. My father made the mistake of handing over all of his money to my mother after they got married. My mom wasted all of his money, and now he is a broke old man. Now, I have to support my father.
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  3. It isn't just women getting laid off, I lost my job in the IT industry about 2 year ago. For me, it didn't affect me as much, because I lived frugally for many years. Saved most of my money, invested it, paid off all my debts. I have enough to not work for a couple of decades. I was looking for another job that was similar to what I lost, but I tried for 8 months and nothing came of it. I just found 3 low paying jobs. These days, I work about 25 hours a week processing medical records, work 16 hours/week washing dishes, and 16 hours/week at a warehouse. I still need to make money to support my elderly parents, and I don't want to use my savings to do that. The demand for computer programmers is not very high right now. If you lost your job in this field, and trying to find another kind of job. You can keep looking for the job you lost, but don't spend 8 hours a day doing that.
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  4. I live in the US, and i dated these. They only date Chinese guys that are above average, like men who are tall, look really handsome, have money, and have a good career. I was going to get married to a blonde, but I didn't get married after she said I only like you because you have money. If it wasn't fir that, you can be alone. That was enough for me to break that relationship.
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  5. This is why I didn't get married 16 years ago. When the woman I wanted to get married with said, no more games for you. That is when I cancelled the marriage. LOL
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  6. I have all the criteria for getting married, like height, looks, money, home, car, stable job, etc. I got tired to pleasing women when I was dating them. These women are ungrateful, and too demanding. I just enjoy my life now, and I don't care about getting into any serious relationship. I have a lot of free time, and I can live a stress free life.
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  7. Most Chinese men are about 1.71 meters tall. The average height for men in the US is about 1.75 meters. This prince charming these women are looking for are a very small minority of men. Tall, handsome, wealthy, and have excellent personalities. If a man is handsome, they may not be that nice. Wealthy guys don't date just one woman. What most of these women want is just not attainable. This is why they are old and single.
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  8. My father gave all of his paycheck to my mother back in the 1970s. He was a simp and didn't manage his own money, he is in his 80s with a broken body, and is financially broke. You ever wonder why they came out with the television show called the Simpsons. This is because Homer is a simp.
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  9. It is hard. I lost my main job 2 years ago, and now I have 3 part time jobs. One processing medical records, another washing dishes, and another as a waiter. All low paying jobs, and the income from all 3 is a quarter of what I earned 2 years ago. I am glad, I didn't get married and have children. I was 48, so it is very difficult to find a good job at my age. Also, the economy is bad now.
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  10. People these days are shameless. I belong to the generation x cohort, and I had this issue back in 2008. I was going to get married in 2008, and the woman didn't want to get married. She returned the money to me. This is a generational difference, younger people don't have the same standard as older generations.
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  11. From makeup to beauty filters. Makeup makes women look better than they are, and beauty filters make women look like celebrities.
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  12. From my experience, many of the dates I went on didn't lead to much. Some did, but 90% of those dates were just one time dates. There are many reasons for it, maybe the woman said something I didn't like, she is only interested in men with deep pockets, we didn't have similar interests and goals in life, it wasn't a match, you didn't like how the other person looked, you didn't like their personality, etc. For me, I didn't care if the dates did yield anything. It was mostly about going out to have fun, like going out to eat, going to an amusement park, or going to the movies. I still go on dates, but I am not looking for any kind of relationship.
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  13. It is just hard to get married, because women's demands are too high. Even if you get married, life will get more difficult for most men. You have to work more to provide for your family, and that can be stressful. I've been living alone for about 12 years, and it isn't too bad.
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  14. What is wrong with these women? I am a 48 single man, and I made my decision to be single for the rest my life. I didn't decide to become a monk, because of the choice I made. Why can't these women just keep it to themselves, like most men like me do? Women just want attention, but most men don't care.
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  15.  @HaitianHallow  I never got married, because I refused to hand over the money. I wouldn't pretend like my father did. I was going to get married many years ago, and one of the things I couldn't accept was that the woman was deeply religious. My father said, you could just pretend to be religious and change after you get married. I said NO WAY. This is why my father's marriage was a failure. He likes to hide things. If you want to get into a relationship with a woman, you have to be honest. My father would always criticize me that I was a simpleton, because I was always honest.
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  16.  @earthbind83  I tried to apply for remote jobs, but the salary that I want isn't competitive. I am competing against people from India that will work for much less. To do that kind of work for $15 to $20 per hour isn't worth it, because I am making that right now with those low paying jobs I have now. Plus, it isn't stressful or anything.
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  17.  @smcdonald9991  My mom said, you graduated from university, and you wash dishes!!!!!! This isn't the first time I did menial jobs. Back in 2009, I found 2 part time jobs after I got laid off. I found a part time job at a warehouse and another one as a waiter.
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  18. I will tell you the situation in the US, because I live here. A lot of people that worked very good jobs had lost their jobs in the past 2 years; however, there are a lot of low paying jobs. If you are a regular person, you could take one of these jobs, like working as a ride share driver, delivery man, working at a restaurant, working at a warehouse, painting houses, working as a construction worker, etc. The problem is finding a decent place to live, because the cost of living is very expensive. It is very common thing these days for 3 people to share a studio or a one bedroom apartment. If you don't have much skills or education, your standard of living will be very low. You will be working more than 70 hours a week, and you will be living in a small room. Even though wages are lower in China, basic things are cheaper in China, like food, rent, utilities, etc. You are better off living in China in my opinion.
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  19. The ones that want to can't afford to, and the ones that can afford it don't want to.
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  20.  @HaitianHallow  He admitted to me that he made a big mistake about 12 years ago.
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  21. Makeup can smooth out all the imperfections in your face. LOL
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  22.  @kgyapper  I am actually taking care of my parents who are in their early 80s.
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  23.  @BigJoe-g3o  I still go on dates with men or women.
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  24.  @Ric_Roar  That is why they are single in their mid 30s and early 40s.
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  25. There are a lot of good men, but unfortunately a lot of them aren't very wealthy, very tall, or are very handsome. They exist, but real people and what people idolize are two different things.
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  26.  @kgyapper  I have friends, but I don't want to live with another person male or female.
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  27. Happened to me a few times. I was on dating sites, and saw pictures of different women. When I met them, they don't look like what they looked on those touched up photos.
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  28. China was not a fully industrialized nation in 1937, so China was at a major disadvantage when the 2nd China Japanese War broke out.
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  29. I am like that guy, but I am 13 years older in the first part of the video. I have substantial amount of savings, a home, vehicle, and other assets. I have very low emotional intelligence, and I neglected having relationships with women. I did have relationships with women, but I didn't invest much time on it. As a result, I am not married at 49. If you weren't successful man, and didn't get married then you are very unfortunate. I stopped going to social events, because everyone had partners. It seems awkward to go to these events by myself. These men in their early 30s and early 40s aren't in such a bad spot, they still have time.
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  30. That is $4,109 USD in food that is insane.
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  31.  @theshipper5797  I just want a peace of mind. I don't want all this drama in my life. It is hard to find good people these days, so I don't even try anymore.
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  32. The average annual income for a person in rural China is about ¥21,000/year, and these women's families want ¥100,000 to ¥200,000. In China, they ask for the money upfront. In the West, there is no dowry, but they will take you to the cleaners later.
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  33. Mr. Chen got deceived.
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  34. @sdfv4zx  Most foreign men date women that are over 30. Most Chinese men don't date women that are over 30, so you can have them if you can afford it.
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  35. You listen to too much BS from Falun Gong.
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  36.  @klarence7547  It's nature. A man's value is in his ability to work, and that diminish with age. Your cognitive abilities decline with age, your strength also diminishes with age. For women, their beauty diminishes with age. A 40 year old woman has less value compared to a woman in their 20s and early 30s.
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  37. The man made a mistake of talking to his ex.
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  38. Dating is a challenge for most East Asian males living in the US and other Western countries.
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  39. That man is lucky, not many people like that in this world.
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  40. Don't go out with loose women, or you are inviting STDs. Remember that.
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  41. These women aren't realistic.
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  42. Let them stay single for the rest of their lives, no one really cares.
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  43.  @westcoast443  I just want company, and I don't have to worry about money.
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