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Comments by "Heather Riede" (@SaneMillennial) on "Seth Rogan DESTROYED After INSANE Comments About Parents!" video.
I agree, if you're suffering through a lot of mental health issues like depression then no, adding a kid to your life is not going to help and you'll probably raise the kid very poorly. I'm speaking from experience w/my parents although I defied the odds and I still suffer from depression too but it's mainly b/c I'm just sane and the world isn't, so it's an uphill battle. I think a lot of people w/depression today are just sane and reacting to the shitty current state of the world w/how much we've already fucked things up for humanity with so much authoritarianism and communism always trying to destroy society and go against nature. But we have to motivate ourselves to affect it positively! I'm also on almost a month of no alcohol consumption b/c I know I use it as a crutch too which is counter intuitive since it keeps the depression going once the initial effects wear off every time you get sober again. May I recommend a book to you that I bought and am still reading myself to help myself understand why I don't need alcohol and why it's so bad and a hindrance for me and anyone. It's called "Alcohol Explained" by William Porter and also The Naked Mind by Annie Grace. I think they'll help. Too many people use some sort of drug to cope w/reality instead of us all gaining bravery and facing it head on and working collaboratively on actual solutions to our problems. I wish you well, and am 38 myself, unmarried, no kids. I wouldn't trust myself to raise any either due to my impatience and me not wanting to mess up and seeing how dysfunctional my parents were and failed at creating the right kind of home for children, plus now finances are a big part of it too for people. The elite are making it harder and harder just to live in the world they want for us. We have to fight back, and stop just coping!
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@facthunt2facthunt245 You haven't heard from many parents then. I've heard many say how having kids gave them more drive to create a better world for them and they made more things happen even w/a fuller schedule and worked harder to provide the best life for them. It has changed previously selfish people into selfless more productive people.
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Yes was just going to say you can always adopt! If you have it in you to want to be a great mom, please adopt when you're ready! I'm thinking of doing the same as I don't have any kids either and am 38 already.
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What you're talking about requires much more conversation to flesh out. The basics are this though. We NEED to procreate at a certain rate or our society as we know it WILL collapse. That is the main reason that we're biologically designed to conform to societal norms and things like getting married and having kids b/c if we don't SOCIETY CEASES TO EXIST. So it's innate in us to want this for everyone. And due to how dysfunctional people have become due to communist indoctrination (Read Michael Knowle's book Speechless which goes over this well) that's why so many need couple's therapy now. People needed it still some before b/c everyone is different and many times people don't pick the best partner for themselves and should be thinking it thru more and doing a longer trial run where they really get to know their partner not just hang out and have fun for a bit before they get hitched for life. But if people love each other they can work through differences w/the help of therapists who really just teach them how to respect each other and listen and talk to each other in a constructive way instead of a "tearing down" kind of way that most people do these days. So don't bash relationships just b/c some people need extra help in learning how to act in one. Most of us weren't taught how to correctly and have parents who had dysfunctional relationships themselves. I can agree w/you forceable matchmakers are annoying tho and I'd just tell them to f off and leave me alone lol.
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IDK are people really getting angry about? I think it's just a conversation piece especially in these days and going into the next 30 years when everyone's aging and alone w/no kids to support them and don't count on social security either cuz that will be fucked by then. I feel I can only count on myself for sure, but really no one can just live completely independent. Humans need each other but I'm left trying to reach for others who never reciprocate cuz everyone's just so selfish these days. Also in my 30s, no kids. Never felt the urge to have them and never got along w/other kids much when I was one b/c they were all little assholes so I can't relate very well to them myself. But I'm increasingly worried about what our collective future will be w/so many not having any. Our society will basically collapse in on itself and all of us elderly will suffer horribly alone and die. Maybe even euthanized against our will as all of the invading illegals coming here take over this country and remake it in their own image and want to off the rest of us whites remaining. They probably won't care about us. Yeah, not a very bright future unless we course correct HARD now. I can see the problem even w/o having any myself and probably never will as the window is closing. I'm still worried about the problem tho. We have to all remember we don't live in a vacuum and everything lots of individuals do still affect the rest of us and how society moves forward and supports itself etc. I don't feel many my age and younger are thinking this thru. I thought I was an anomaly and it's alarming me how so many people don't want kids anymore.
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@AbstractM0use Yes, that's true too. It's all in how you raise them though, and you should raise them to respect and cherish you. But sometimes parents are assholes to their kids so their kids grow up hating them and not wanting to help them. It's a two way street. Too many are raised to be selfish now tho and that's on the parents.
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