Comments by "Crime Stoppers" (@crimestoppers1877) on "Are Married People Better Off? | Is the MGTOW Argument Against Marriage Rational?" video.

Thanks for your reports of objective findings on marriage. I have made the rational decision for MGTOW after experiencing a high value marriage. I did not like being a cuckold and so I filed for divorce and fortunately did well financially and emotionally using a unique strategy. My initial goals were to find Peace, Quiet and Freedom and I could no longer accept being a cuckold. The laws today encourage women both single and married to have as many sexual and relationship encounters as they want. The idea is taught in public schools that women decide when and what they do with their bodies and they are the only persons who can evaluate a mans value. That's fine with me. I'll just help these ladies find what they are looking for. This supports the trend for more and more women to use extramarital sex and relationships as a legal and sexual right. In my case I no longer employ women but instead filter my work through a services company which now has the legal responsibility for false claims that may arise by hiring women. I have never been happier in my life! When I want social or sexual contact with women I select only those who are married. This removes divorce and alimony from my life. It also eliminates false allegations in the way I have our meetings arranged. I am no longer the cuckold who brings in the money while she plays around. I agree that the husbands of these ladies are now the cuckolds. Every one of them is a Beta provider and they have no legal alternative but filing for divorce ( most states). This behavior I describe ( cheating wives) is so common and mainstream that there are many popular songs about this state of it's "cheaper to keep her" . Most men when confronted with wives like this quickly learn they can be financially destroyed by a divorce. The result is that many just try to look away while she is cheating. From my view, I see two primary "relationship" motives for women ( single and married) : 1) increased asset and social status and 2) amusement entertainment, novelty, chance taking and entitlement. When I recognize these goals among married women, I know that I will have a high probability that she will tell me she is "available" which seems to be the key word these women use to express their intentions. Many wives tell me they love their husbands but just want to have fun. Some of them even brag they were required to sign a prenup before marriage!! Yet they still cheat! This attitude tells me that they do not care about being responsible or accountable for their agreements ( Prenuptial contract and marriage license/vows) . Do I see a correlation with this behavior? Yes! it is the behavior of little girls. If I had a choice it would be less complicated, if women did not use hypergamy and the chase for Chad and Tyrone for entertainment. A high quality honest marriage where loyalty responsibility and accountability were traits of each partner would be ideal. But our laws do not support this. When I mention these character traits women get upset and tell me their husbands or boyfriends tell them the same thing! I see yet another correlation here but your research might learn the responsible schema via Factor Analysis?
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I know you may feel dismayed by these statistics but also understand that when men are injured as in military conflicts or get some neurological disease it is almost an axiom that their wives WILL divorce them or have affairs because of their disability.
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@victoiretheta7256 My knowledge about my statement concerning neurological diseases was based on working as a volunteer in a VA hospital where most patients tend to be men men. Your information is more inclusive and broader and possibly more accurate. My intent is not to cast aspersions on solely women. I do know that the age of patient spouse and length of marriages are most likely important variables. Confounding variables are commonplace in any epidemiological study and the must be identified, defined and controlled to get the best data.
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@paulgoogol2652 You miss my point! I would prefer a monogamous relationship with ONE woman, however the legal system as well as the media portray the cheating wife as a standard to look up to. Watch any daytime TV show designed for women. If a wife cheats it is only because her husband is A) abusive, B) Ill ( neurological disorders for men are followed by divorce by the wife 80% of the time C) He does not bring in the income she expects or D) She wants a man who can provide more amusement entertainment or novelty. I survived my own situation of a woman who proudly proclaimed she was a feminist and therefore a "Free agent". I used a rare legal method to escape the terror of family courts and attorneys. I filed for divorce and gave her an option she could not refuse saving me lots of wasted time, energy and legal bills. I gave her 110% of any amount she could have asked for her lawyers got upset because they could no longer "build the case" with fake billable hours . No judge would allow this settlement since it would look bad for the court. Now I have Peace Quiet and Freedom and I am very successful financially. Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes. Today I still have excellent relationships women but I must follow rules set down in the law for my defense. 1) I only date married women 2) I Never flirt 3) She is never allowed to visit any of my residences 4) she pays 100% her own expenses. From my experience , most wives cheat to meet one of the two main reasons above : Hypergamy and seeking Novelty. It is unfortunate that fundamentally these are good women yet they cheat because they can with virtually no social or financial costs. In my case, Dr Grandes It was a high value marriage but my wife wanted to exercise her "feminist free will" and have affairs. I see this as a cultural issue instead of a psychological issue. My wife was miserable after the divorce and died younger than expected from chasing her Chads and Tyrones. My participation as an adulterer is only because I am selfish and I enjoy educated, intelligent women and sex and I don't like to play melodramatic legal games. It is that simple. Change the laws and my behavior will change. The husbands are the losers because they will pay alimony if either partner files yielding the trap of "Its cheaper to keep her". That is their dilemma not mine. The unfair laws and the cultural support for deception by women are the problems. Responsibility and Accountability are not in the equation. If you are married, Good Luck. You can be suspicious on her "Girls Night Out" events, since I am right there with the ladies. Wives are WILD!
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@loralu9420 Yes to be frank you are correct! I have several rules, I NEVER flirt and all behavior of mine is requested by the pig. This is to protect myself from Divorce rape and false claims. A married woman can not sue me for alimony and under my circumstances very difficult for her to file false claims ( coitus contracts + recordings) . I also agree that if no man would cheat with the "pigs" how else could the "pigs" cheat? It is a woman's world and this is the result; destruction of the family, morals and modesty. I take full responsibility for MY actions. I am only responding to a very unhealthy situation built by Fifth way Feminism, the media and our political and legal institutions. I would gladly change my behavior if I had some guarantee that I knew that my potential wife would a) refrain from being a slut b) Not being rewarded by society and the law for being a slut and c) Have a societal penalty at least as high of my potential penalties for intentionally violating her promises to be chaste. Watch any daytime TV show marketed to women and listen to the encouragement the audience gives to any woman who is a cheater and any woman who marries for money and divorces for dollars. This does not justify me sleeping with pigs, but it is only one result. Other results include "Single mothers" and the 100,000's of children they bring into this world with no fathers under the guise of "equal rights". How many times should the same a woman appear on national TV to proclaim "YOU are the father of my child!" On her fifteenth appearance we learn that NONE of the men who were accused matched the child's DNA. Who are the Real pigs? If the "pigs" stayed home and did not stray, at least her children would know their real fathers.
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@anihobbs That was not my point. If you are ambulatory and would like help others, I suggest working as a volunteer at a hospital that specializes in treatment of neurological diseases such as Epilepsy, Multiple Sclerosis, ALS, Parkinson's disease, brain tumors, stroke and Alzheimer's disease as well as accident victims. I have volunteered to work in a VA hospital and not only learned the problems of these patients but also learned a lot about myself. Ask around the staff and you will surely learn what I did that for married patients, they may soon learn their partner will divorce them. I volunteered in a hospital where most of the patients are male . The obvious observation was that it is the wives who were divorcing their husbands. This could be the same scenario for women patients with the same diseases. I do not know. These patients need all the kindness and help they can get.
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