Comments by "Crime Stoppers" (@crimestoppers1877) on "Jonathan Noble Esquire" channel.

I know a woman attorney while working as a lobbyist for different large clients, planned and made fake claims of sexual harassment to the Chief counsel of each entity without ever disclosing this to HR or police. The reason, is that the non disclosure agreements would never be known in any legal venue so she can repeat these fake claims as desired. Each settlement included a large amount of money which was also not taxable. Wash, rinse and repeat three times that I know about. How did I know? She tried it on me and later bragged about how she knew how the system worked she authored papers that were published on this subject. She-Devil? Actually, she is Jezebel-Lilith hybrid here on earth to torment men through her evil ways. Hint: Her name is NOT Hillary.
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Excellent. I have been saying this for years. The divorce process implies much much more than a court settlement. Instead in reality YOU can become subordinate to the court and its policies and clerks. There are few ways to minimize this risk. Get the best legal advisor you can find!! Rule #1. Of course it is not fair, but that is the system we have. My Rule #2 is to ALWAYS be planning LONG term for both good and bad life experiences. You can not know this in advance. No crystal balls that I know of actually work.
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@Mattheus94 I would rather walk on red hot coals than go though the hell of divorce.
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Been there done that! I would recommend one more layer of protection. Read,study, research everything to learn about divorce in your court jurisdiction. In any profession there are specialists who are just getting by, there are large firms with hundreds of clients that will bill the H out of everything, and there are those who live and breathe the latest information to WIN and prevail for their clients. You want a current practice trial attorney who is known as a winner to help you keep from losing every asset you have earned and will earn in the future. Why? Because opposing attorneys might just be more cunning, skilled and aggressive. The best defense requires an excellent offense. George Washington, in 1799 wrote, “…make them believe, that offensive operations, often times, is the surest, if not the only (in some cases) means of defense”. Sun Tzu, the Chinese military general, writer and philosopher in The Art of War wrote that “Attack is the secret of defense; defense is the planning of an attack”.
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I have seen this many times! When you factor in other social programs it is a "big mess".
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Excellent information about the Monster in laws. They act like a heat seeking missile to a married couple! On a visit of the "Monster in law" you would think you are on a TV set of a reality show about flipping a house. "Take this out" ( as she makes abroad sweeping motuon with her hand toward a living room wall). "This is not a bearing wall" she says as the new "As seen on TV professional engineer" decalres that you MUST replace it with this!!". "Lets go furniture shopping!" and a few hours later a truck pulls up with a large dining room table for 12 people that will not fit in the dining room that you do not have. First a few walls have to be removed. There used to be a hidden rule for marital success for all new couples: Never live in the same area code as either parent". Now with technology, smartphones bring everyone closer including the in laws. "Why aren't you on Facebook?" "Everyone is on Facebook!" Your life in hell has just started. Just Say NO! To drugs and in laws.
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I agree. I have done this. You can read stacks of filed paperwork with lists of who get the ironing board and who gets a straw basket. Very embarrassing to read. Some court records are sealed but sometimes the same information is in a different folder. Coffee and donuts can work wonders to get help understanding these local filing quirks.
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Yes! I agree! And he is NOT interested primarily in billable hours!
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@Ralph Furley FYI she has been an official Elector in her state to the Electoral college at least once for her political party. She is also a "volunteer" who encourages ALL present at certain religious meetings of non citizens to "Register to vote" and cautions them how NOT to get caught If they are not legally qualified to vote. Typical lawyer speak. ie "Most people will not get caught if...XYZ...but I didn't tell you to do this". As you know, each of us citizens NEVER really votes for the President of the US but only for the state "Electors" who allegedly must follow each states rules when THEY vote.
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@PAIP_Studio I love to eat rare meat. The closer to the bone the sweeter the meat. I'll bring my own dipping sauce. Enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edj_d5xGTCQ
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I salute you sir! Love it!
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I agree! I filed after ten years and first did research of what was involved. I studied open court files ( two years) before I made the decision to file. I prepared a comprehensive list of what I expected my lawyer to do as my legal representative and met him for a no charge 46 minute pre contract meeting. First, he asked me some questions and I honestly answered. His retainer to handle everything but the QDRO was $60K. Okay lets get started. I only read from my notes and no elaboration or idle chit chat --just the facts, no parrots or worries about nothing being "fair", unless he asked me a specific question. We went over each line item of my notes. He asked me if I had previously talked to an attorney. No. He was very impressed with my work and asked me what could he do since I took care of most of the work he would be doing. He liked how I handled the real estate issues ( two properties) to my satisfaction and also wanted to know how I got the signatures and forms required without alerting her to my plans. I was able to have my spouse sign off on our agreements but it took several years of "no contact" for her to finally relent and sign all agreements. She had hired 5 different law firms and two teams of investigators ( I caught them) to try to find "hidden" assets (there were none). It took me about five years to re invent myself and my career ( yes I was house less living in my car) . It took another 5 years to surpass my assets that I had accumulated at the time of the divorce. WHY? My goal was NOT an equitable or fair settlement but the quest for Peace Quiet and Freedom which I got (along with poverty) on the day I filed. PQF allows men to seek better and better productivity and success without nagging or that pesky parrot. I recommend my strategy for men with similar goals. There can be a happy life after divorce, but it takes lots of planning and keeping your mouth shut ( it is just like a war). Once I got approval from the court for the signed paperwork that was all I needed ( plus a claw back period) to avoid the hassles of a court supervising my life. No OSC's, no motions, no petitions, no responses, no counselors, no hearings, no more services AND NO MORE PARROTS. She can now say " I am NOT happy" forever if she likes, and it has no effect on my life. My adult children have returned from "Fantasyland" and "Wokeland" ( he must and she has) of our current family laws and policies. Marriage can be dangerous to everything you have worked for. BTW we did not have fights or arguments. While we were together I let her put my huevos in her purse! Who is in control now? A wife's mother, sister and friends can be exceedingly dangerous and they were.
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In my divorce ( I planned it for 2 years) I always based my decisions on many years into the future just to avoid situations like this. I went from working in an organization at mid level management with lots of required unpaid overtime. Wife hated that and encouraged me to work on my own! Excellent! Why? Because my documented taxable income went down the toilet. I was not doing my best to build up new clients but sure looked busy doing this ( all documented). During a divorce they first look at everything that is documented. Always keep your mouth shut to EVERYONE . Someone is always talking. On paper she "won" but she and the court did not "own" me. I am a self-starter and know my productivity . Notice my avatar? It is the Phoenix or Firebird that flew out of the red hot coals, fire and ashes of a California divorce. I won!
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No spousal support, no child support, "Nothing to see here" said her five different law firms. No trust used. Just started from scratch and after a clawback period I surpassed where I was before the divorce by > five times. This was not easy and had no free time, no vacations and my own fully funded pension plan. The QDRO almost killed me. I am no longer under the microscope of a court! Winning!
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People = Each of us ( Men) hundreds of thousands of dollars that MUST BE PAID and enforced through government clerk run agencies.
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It sounds like he dodged a lot more than that!!
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I reside in California. Everything you say AND much much more is TRUE ie the REAL WORLD not a fantasy movie. Marriage followed by legal divorce-rape is the pretext for a multi billion dollar scam.
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@PAIP_Studio How about this idea? The woman of your dreams---Hillary with full lips wearing a nurse outfit.
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@PAIP_Studio Will she have flames blasting out of here exhaust ports? Oops that's my nurse. First I'll ask her to make me sandwich and bring me a cold beer!
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@PAIP_Studio Fact!
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@dimitri652 Good point! What are the objectivly measurable benefits to MEN? Dealing with mood swings, perimenopause. menopause and lack of bone health (osteoporosis).? Dried up and unstable genitalia? Yecch!
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@dimitri652 Smart decision! You can enjoy any benefits ( when you find them) without paying the time, emotional and financial costs. This question has validity: Why buy the cow, when the milk is free?
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@dimitri652 Congratulations. Now you can continue to be happy and truly enjoy your life without fear. Focus on the ONE thing that interests you.
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Please read my post above with a link to a 1921 women's article Delineator Vol99 no 5 December 1921, about bachelors. The dark triad of women was as alive and well in 1921 as in 2022.
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Oh YES! HE WON before her fast battle attack.
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@jcnlaw jcnlaw? Do you have experience with NPE ( Non Paternal Event) law as well? I like the idea of mandatory blood tests on each child at birth. Who's Yo daddy? ROFL
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I was thinking the same is true with lawsuits against insurance companies Oh what a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive. You will soon learn that the words we all know and use in the dictionary mean NOTHING. It is the convoluted twisted language of contracts and the law that rules the day in court. Look up these morsels ACV = Actual Cash value. On what planet? "Wind-drive rain". What storm does not have both wind AND rain? Only in the minds of insurance companies. Why didn't anyone tell you before you bought the policy? My favorite is Uninsured Motor vehicle coverage is NOT Under insured coverage. That requires a separate policy that you will never know about until it happens to you. The party number one legally had only the minimum $5,000 liability coverage too bad soo sad. Uninsured coverage will not help you.
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How about nurse Grace the humanoid robot? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByLiGisgpN0
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I remember a local trial attorney ( and former top law school professor specializing in Torts) told me that I was incredibly naive about the law. He said that the "Golden Rule of Law" above ALL else is ALWAYS operative: '"She who has the Gold makes the Rules"
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I found a better way that also provides protection from some MeToo allegations. Never ask her out. Never make a cold call. Instead only accept an invitation if she asks you first. Who has the most to gain out of any relationship? Women!
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This is a RARE event! This is what 95% of men go through when their wife divorces them, usually for a BBD = Bigger Better Deal with a man who has more money or assets. When she works for "her money" women rarely mention that ALL of his earned income is hers as well as all of her incom is hers
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I agree with you Jonathon. I filed for divorce from my wife, but handled the legal with no attorneys or legal support. I met a few attorney where we discussed what each of us would be responsible for. The attorney advised me he required a retainer of $60,000 "to get started". By the end of our discussion, the attorney was asking me how I handled each of the 30 or so points listed on the check list I brought with me. Why I had satisfactorily completed each item on my punch list. I did have some pain however in that it took me 5 years to get her the final documents. During that five years she hired multiple law firms to see what assets or benefits they could extract from me. Each one of them told her they would not recommend her to proceed. During that time I enjoyed my life and developed business clients for the future. The number one goal was not just to save legal expenses, but my goal was absolute freedom from any court or legal clerk from interacting with me which makes me responding to them. I do not want to be subordinate to the whims and machinations of courts with their own agendas and policies which can change daily. Key question: How did I get her to agree sign the many documents that she signed? It took lots of planning and staying focused. Ego can never get in your way! What matters are the bottom line costs in money, energy and emotions of a divorce. I learned that the "trigger to file first" is pulled only when you are 110% prepared for the consequences. She was a wonderful and excellent wife until I noticed her strong opinions about "going woke" (feminism etc) . An offensive strategy by filing first can be better than having to be a respondent. You can maintain control over the process. Note: I did spend time at the courthouse going to divorce court sessions and hearings, of total strangers and reviewing actual divorce records. I saw court arguments over furniture, pets, and actually stupid things that cost them thousands. Living a life of freedom today. Never any spousal support payments ( more than 10 year marriage). Absolutely no contact after the last signature. On paper legally everything is fair. But I also have freedom and she has her memories and age.
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@dimitri652 The lawyers, judges and former spouse were not laughing. It is possible for men to WIN! The primary concern was not cost but personal freedom. Most legal issues resolve with a judge, referee or court bureaucracy that controls behavior, costs and emotions. IMHO work the system and use its vulnerabilities and subtleties to be a victor. You are still playing by THEIR rules and procedures but always remember that THEY think of themselves and policies First.
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Can you consider sarcasm as an indicator of divorce? Sarcasm!! In action or in words is as corrosive as acid is to anything. This bitter nastiness can start against others and will soon be directed to YOU. Ask yourself, who or where is the audience to this sarcasm? It is not for the partners benefit but only a lame attempt at getting attention, control and one domination through humiliating another. Sarcasm can start out innocent but can quickly get out of control and target the closest people around. Properly defined and used, Sarcasm can work for a stand up comedian but who wants all this abuse. I see sarcasm as "passive-aggressive " behavior at the minimum. It is NOT funny to pitch these spears of pain at your partner! Why deal with this abuse? Jerry Seinfeld is funny on stage, but imagine the humiliation of being the butt of this attempt at humor every day?
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I learned that there is something that can be worse than any description of hell you have ever read about. It is not war, but a Divorce.
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Your income should be substantially less for at least two years BEFORE the divorce. You want to look like an absolute LOSER on paper documents BEFORE the divorce!
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If I knew this advice, It would have saved me years of misery. Her ACTIONS speak the truth. Talking is cheap.
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@rally_chronicles California.
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She is still active in politics.
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