Comments by "Frederick Nichols" (@fredericknichols6277) on "The New York Times"
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Look at Cristiano Ronaldo, a high-value man with options, who dates a girl who was working in an LV store as a sales clerk. Men can marry down; women have a hard time with this. Women's checklist is long, and men's are not. The problem is that modern women, because of feminism, don't know or even think about what men want or need; they don't even care. Women think about what they want and need. They think men and women are the same, but we are not. Age and youth virginity matter for men, and being tall, ambiguous, having some money, good work conditions, etc, matter for women. Life is about choices and tradeoffs; you can't have it all. To young girls, 18-25, if you trade off your youth for education, or job, or chase money, you can do it, but you will lose the things that 95% of men care about. Boys, most of you must know you are blind to most women when you are 18-25, so you must work, save money, become educated, and spend a decade to two building your success so that when you are in your early 40's you can have the value to get are the younger wife. This is why old successful men have more options, and older successful women don't. They just get used by young men. Men have no problem dating down; women have a big problem with it. Women most want equal or higher than men; men don't care as long as she is young and pretty and does not have a bunch of ex-boyfriends, and men are willing to date down.
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