Comments by "Scott Charney" (@scottcharney1091) on "Tampa woman posed as home-school student, molested boy she met online: police" video.

@Serjo777 One of the characteristics of being a minor is the inability to consent to sex with adults.
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@Lubbocksfinest Men who have gone through this often have lifelong problems with healthy relationships, among other things!
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@user-yg1dg6xm2g Minors can't consent.
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@nicholasl8249 Most men who have gone through this have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust and consent, boundaries, etc. Do you think that this should be legal?
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@nocturnalrecluse1216 Regarding patriarchy maybe you should listen to the so-called "preaching." You might learn something.
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@jt-nixon2102 The fantasies of young boys don't reflect the reality that this does a lot of damage.
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@guitarttimman That's not true. This does a lot of psychological damage to men who have gone through it, and mental health professionals know this very well. Do you want it to be legal?
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@carewser Mental health professionals and others who work with men who have been through this know that you are completely wrong. Do you think that it should be legal?
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@carewser Your anecdote isn't data.
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@deviouslito5011 Speak for yourself. This behavior does a lot of harm, and attitudes like yours make it worse. Should this be legal?
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@Scorch1028 He didn't score. He was molested. You're right in that men who have been through this usually have severe problems with forming healthy relationships.
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@guitarttimman You're saying that this is a good thing. Should it then be legal, in your opinion?
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@jt-nixon2102 What boys think that they would love doesn't jibe with the actual outcomes. Those who work with men who've been through this make that clear.
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@guitarttimman What was the age of consent where you were? Did she have a power relationship over you? Do you, from your (let's face it) limited vantage point, feel that the laws should be the same no matter the sexes involved: man-boy, woman-boy, man-girl, woman-girl?
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@carewser I don't live with my mother, and please get a more original phrase.
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@carewser Ok, so you do at least understand that it's harmful for adults of any sex to engage in sexual activity with minors of any sex.
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Men who have been through this often have lifelong problems with healthy relationships, trust, understanding consent and boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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@scottmichael3745 You don't know what you're talking about.
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@tedk2166 Speak for yourself. I am outraged, because I know how much damage this does. Do you think that this should be legal?
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@miovicdina7706 You don't know what you're talking about. This causes a lot of harm.
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@jdmack1 Attitudes like that make it worse. Sometimes it emerges quickly, and sometimes it takes years, but most men who have gone through this have serious problems with healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc.
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@Coulddietoday15 Not so. He was molested. Attitudes like that are part of the problem. The survivors/victims feel like there's something wrong with them when they don't feel the way that other men say that they should.
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@waltt69 He was molested. This behavior is very harmful, and attitudes like the one you describe don't help.
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@introtosun4471 *you're
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@jdmack1 Mental health professionals who work with men who've been through this make it clear that you are wrong, and attitudes like yours are part of the problem. Do you think that this behavior should be legal?
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@stevenmitchell1 She was prosecuted for being a predator.
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@jedahn Exactly.
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@vice2versa When adult women do this to underage boys, it often causes lifelong difficulty in forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries and consent, among other things. Mental health professionals know this. It's a terrible thing. Do you think that it should be legal?
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@chrisreed3040 It's nothing new It's just being ignored/tolerated/praised less often. That's true for sexual abuse in general, actually.
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@CrackheadHuntersDopeDealer You missed out on sexual abuse.
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@axelfoley1406 Do you realize that these issues were rarely even acknowledged until fairly recently?
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@evansusmc You're making an assertion without evidence. For the most part, this behavior has been ignored/tolerated/praised until recently.
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@jpisback You don't know what you're talking about. This does a lot of damage. Should it be legalized?
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@chrisreed3040 There's no reason to think that it's new.
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@mattlu5493 They were elsewhere, not molesting you. Consider yourself fortunate. This does a lot of damage. Do you want to legalize it?
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@hubertdeyette5070 Liked it? Men who went through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, among other, more serious problems.
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@ProReggieM29 Sadly, one of the reasons this is so harmful is because so many men tell men who have been through this that they are supposed to feel good about it.
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@ViraL_FootprinT.ex.e Those twisted comments are common in this very section, sadly.
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@mediocreman2 Married women commit this awful crime, you know.
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@user-xe6jw6iy6w Behavior in response to this sort of thing has changed. There have always been female predators, but the feasibility of them preying on minors varies depending on women's roles & options in society regarding access to minors.
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@jpisback The fantasies and desires of a 15-year-old aren't necessarily based on the consequences of their actions, especially if they are unaware of what those consequences are likely to be. Every time there's talk of behavior like this, men think that it's a good thing, without a clue regarding the damage it usually causes. That attitude leads to the conclusion that they think it should be legal, unless they have not thought about it at all.
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@jpisback I'm not sure what was so asinine, but in any case, do you think that this behavior should be legal?
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@jpisback It's no deflection. You say that it would have been a positive experience. Hence my question.
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@jpisback One question leads to the other, no?
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@Shiesty9168 No, the whole thing is messed up. Her actions do a lot of damage.
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@Serjo777 Minors can't give consent.
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@Serjo777 They can't give consent to adults.
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@Serjo777 How am I wrong?
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