Comments by "Scott Charney" (@scottcharney1091) on "Law&Crime Network" channel.

  1. This sort of thing really hurts the boys involved. The double standard is awful, and we need to understand that.
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  2. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  3. As others have noted, do not speak to the police without an attorney!
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  4. Here's everyone's reminder that this behavior causes substantial psychological damage to the boys involved. Men who've been through this often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries & consent, etc. There's more harm than that. This isn't a good thing. These women are predators.
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  5. It's taken more seriously, and gets more exposure and coverage now.
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  6. For everyone who thinks that this is a good thing for the boy involved, you should know that men who went through this as boys frequently have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, and worse. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  7. Thankfully, it's getting reported more often, and ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  8. It's not new. People are taking it more seriously now.
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  9. Even if they are close in age, their teacher-student relationship is very inappropriate.
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  10. So, where are all the twisted, vile comments saying that the girl was lucky, that the only damage will come from high-fives, etc.?
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  11.  @Wooley689 The data are clear. Children can't give consent to adults. It doesn't matter if it's woman-on-boy, woman-on-girl, man-on-boy, or man-on-girl.
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  12.  @ScottRox-l1j  If anything, it's less broken now that more people understand how harmful this behavior is.
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  13. I'm glad to see that nobody is commenting that the girl in question is actually lucky... you know, the way they do when boys are in such situations.
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  14.  @Paragon_Reason  Knock it off. This causes a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  15. It's just being ignored less often.
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  16.  @trainingmishafuller7239  That's the majority, actually.
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  17. We already have men in the comments who don't have a problem with this. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  18.  @16watch  This is just getting ignored/tolerated less often. Anyway, being young/attractive/married has nothing to do with being attracted to minors (a pervert).
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  19. Once again: While he was over the age of consent, the teacher-student relationship makes this very inappropriate.
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  20. Melatonin is used to reset one's sleep rhythms. It's not a sedative.
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  21.  @Camerabetrapt  There's nothing lucky about being molested! This is very harmful.
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  22.  @dirtyburger7528  That's not true. Read up on this, and pay attention to the video. Do you want this to be legal?
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  23.  @NickDrinksWater  This is nothing new. Such cases are finally being taken seriously.
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  24.  @MiguelDLewis  Knock it off. You do know about clergy and minors, right?
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  25. This is just barely within WA's age of consent, but even so, their power dynamic is a serious problem. Also, again, the boys who go through this often have a difficult time forging healthy relationships in the future, understanding consent, boundaries, etc.
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  26.  @LukeVincent-xt4dz There's nothing funny about this.
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  27.  @joep6035 We can't just say "well, it's OK sometimes."
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  28. It's not new. It's reported more since it's being taken more seriously.
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  29. We're hearing about it more, thanks to better reporting.
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  30. It's just getting reported on more, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  31. This isn't new. It's just being ignored less often.
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  32.  @RobbieStacks90  Mental health professionals make it clear that you're incorrect. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  33. It gets clicks. That, and more people take this behavior more seriously these days, sweeping it under the rug less often.
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  34.  @Carl_McMelvin  It's not lunacy. It's accurate. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  35. It's nothing new. It's just getting more coverage, as it's taken more seriously.
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  36. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  37. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's taken more seriously now.
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  38. Also, no, it's not more common. It's being swept under the rug less often. People are more aware of how harmful it is, hence the increased reporting and increased prosecutions. Men and boys are more willing to come forward these days.
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  39. Stop using those horrible sound effects!
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  40. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  41. There are more than a couple, and it really bothers me.
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  42. Once again: This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl, and yes, woman-boy. Men who've gone through this usually have long-lasting problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. If you are one of those people who think that this sort of thing is so great, "nice," or anything like that, do you think that it should be legal?
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  43. I'm a guy who knows that this is terrible.
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  44.  @Babybold_yk2  Not this again... This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  45.  @hydrostatic8048  Not at all. It's taken a lot of social progress to understand how awful it is for adults to do this to children. For a long time, and it's not over yet, men have been able to do this to teen girls (and younger!) with impunity. In fact, see the Magdalen Laundries; the girls were often punished! Too many people still don't understand that woman-boy cases are bad things! No, it's conservative, patriarchal elements that have held society back from acknowledging that this is not okay.
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  46. It's nothing new. Thankfully, this is getting reported on more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  47.  @jond508  That's not funny. This sort of thing really harms the boys involved.
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  48.  @bnwo  Nobody needs to do this to children.
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  49.  @AndroidSlime  They were elsewhere, not doing this to you. Be glad. I've already explained how dreadful this is.
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  50.  @jonkunnu8792  How so? Mental health professionals make it clear that this is very damaging.
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  51.  @nicolasjaramillo430  Not funny.
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  52.  @Ven0mSRT This sort of thing harms the boys involved.
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  53.  @johnbarlow4572  You were a minor. You couldn't give consent. Be glad that nothing like that happened to you.
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  54.  @judithdasta3969  You don't know what you're talking about. This predatory behavior has always happened, and only comparatively recently have we as a society taken it at all seriously. Do you have any idea how much predatory behavior was tolerated/ignored/praised not too long ago? Judging by the comments on stories like this, when the perpetrator is a woman, a lot of men still don't understand how awful this sort of thing is.
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  55.  @_clownworld  It's not dramatic. This is harmful.
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  56. @CaleseCrowder86 Cut it out.
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  57.  @Deagnetic  They were elsewhere, not molesting you. You were fortunate. This does a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  58. It's nothing new.
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  59. That doesn't make perverts less pervy.
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  60.  DONNELLO  I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  61. @CaleseCrowder86 Not again... Minors can't give consent, and there is nothing good about scenarios like these.
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  62. Minors can't consent anyway.
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  63.  @Carl_McMelvin  People need to realize that this is child molestation, and it does a lot of harm. Attitudes like yours are part of the problem. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  64. They are my arch-enemies, but they don't want to get doxxed. Anti-fascists are in the same situation, and note that the cops made no arrests here. They would have arrested anti-fascists.
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  65. Once again, those on defense receive punishment as well.
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  66. No, it is not. Mental health professionals, and men who have been through this, make it clear that this does a lot of damage.
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  67.  @drinkinrawacky154 This harms boys.
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  68.  @BeckyBeater82  This is very psychologically harmful to minors, including boys. See what mental health experts have to say about this. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  69. It's being ignored/tolerated/praised less often than before.
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  70. We hear about it more often, because it's being taken more seriously.
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  71. There are a few such comments, sadly. It's exasperating.
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  72.  @kweenz109 I was in the class of 2000, and I liked skinny girls and curvy girls. They were all great, as far as I was concerned.
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  73. Once again, here's your reminder that this sort of thing is very harmful, no matter the sexes involved.
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  74. Per capita, this is extremely rare.
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  75.  @bnwo Rape isn't funny.
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  76. Some departments don't chase at all for that very reason, unless maybe the quarry just murdered someone.
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  77. It's not new. We're acknowledging it, and not sweeping it under the proverbial rug.
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  78.  @chimesfordimes  Not funny.
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  79.  @pineapplesplash9166  This isn't funny.
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  80. True, but she's evil to do that to the boys as well.
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  81. I notice (thankfully) that there aren't any comments praising the man here, and saying that the boys involved are lucky. No one's replying with "niiiiice."
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  82. I was, but I didn't know why people would want to do that.
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  83.  @bang2020  This often messes guys up regarding forging healthy relationships, among other things. It's terrible.
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  84.  @kingjoseph5901  For the longest time this behavior wasn't even illegal. Even if it was, it was swept under the rug, ignored, tolerated, or even praised.
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  85. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  86. @@maxpassion4550 Attitudes like yours make this worse.
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  87. It's not new. There's more exposure and reporting.
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  88.  @Shaolin91z  Not funny.
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  89. It's just being ignored/tolerated/praised less often than before.
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  90. *you're
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  91. One of these days, people will start leaving their phones elsewhere when they commit crimes.
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  92.  @DanniDuck  Minors can't give consent.
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  93. Gymnast, rather. Still, that's off the subject.
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  94. How is that relevant?
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  95.  @PawAshtraysMatter No, this is harmful.
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  96. Not so. Look at the stats. The data make it clear that The Great Crime Decline that began in the early '90s is mostly still with us, and that includes juvenile violence.
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  97. Nudity is funny, but this behavior is not!
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  98.  @Chavez58677  Honest? This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  99. must *have
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  100.  @luisfernando5998  No, age is much more than just a number! This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  101. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  102. It's being ignored less often.
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  103. It's being ignored less often. Also, attractive spouses have nothing to do with someone being a pervert.
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  104. That status has no bearing on someone being a pervert or not.
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  105. There's less tolerance for this sort of thing.
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  106. I wonder if I'll see any comments like: "Lucky girl." "Where were these coaches when I was a kid?" "It should have been me." "There is no victim here." "The only damage came from all the high-fives." "That girl is a legend among her peers." "Niiice." And so on...
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  107. The former. Even today, there are people (see this comments section) who see this is a good thing.
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  108. A pervert, in this case.
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  109. Yes, except for the "baby" part.
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  110. No one has to force themselves on anyone.
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  111.  @brian5148  Exactly. So many men think that this behavior is just fine. It's infuriating.
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  112. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  113. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  114.  @mEtalec  Irrelevant. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  115. "A part," you mean. You do want her apart from your community.
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  116. I wonder if there will be any women here wishing that they had been cheerleaders, or asking "where were coaches like that when I was in school," or saying that it's "every girl's dream," or calling it "niiiice" or whatever. Anytime there's a story about women doing this to boys, we see men reacting that way, ignorant of the damage it causes to the psyche.
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  117. The cops are under no legal obligation to protect anyone. Most people don't know that.
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  118.  @AndroidSlime  Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  119.  @hmq9052  Mental health professionals, and many men who have been through this, make it clear that this does a lot of damage.
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  120.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  This behavior does a lot of damage.
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  121. It's not new, but it's being ignored/tolerated less than before.
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  122.  @Mark3-16  The luck is bad. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  123.  @cali4life788  For one thing, he was in middle school. For another, this sort of behavior often causes lifelong problems in forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, consent, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  124. No, it's just getting reported more often.
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  125.  @user-ed2vc4ge3v  No, that is not true at all! See the West Memphis Three, among countless other cases. Always ask for an attorney, even if it's just questioning and you're not under arrest.
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  126. I knew this was coming. Fetal homicide laws were written with violent third parties like this in mind. The woman didn't consent. That's the entire point.
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  127.  @Bailemos888  There's nothing funny about this. Having to tell one's grandkids about this would be terrible.
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  128. Yes, because fetal homicide laws were written with violent third parties (like this) in mind. She didn't give her consent.
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  129.  @nicolasjaramillo430  This is child molestation, or worse, and that's not yummy.
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  130.  @drinkinrawacky154 It most certainly does!
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  131.  @ShunnyMcbuns  Do you have any evidence for your first claim? Regarding the rest, what does that have to do with anything?
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  132. Thankfully, some of us guys know that this is very harmful.
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  133.  @whs-waterfox7034  Normal? So you want this to be legal?
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  134. *innocence
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  135.  @ajcruzer92  Stop. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  136.  @kenw2225  That attitude ("aren't viewed as broken") is part of the problem. This does a lot of psychological damage (men who've been through this often have problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries and consent, etc.). They also feel like there's something wrong with them when they don't feel good about it. Do you think that it should be legal when it involves women and boys?
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  137.  @Nug-one87  Why not? Minors can't give consent, this is very harmful, and it isn't funny.
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  138. It's nothing new.
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  139. It's nothing new. We're just hearing about it more often.
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  140.  @tabularasa7775  Her appearance is irrelevant.
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  141.  @TechyGamerVibeZ  There are no fun and games here. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  142. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  143.  @spacemanspliff7983  Do you have any evidence for that? See all the comments from men who think that this is a good thing. It's only recently that enough people have come to understand how awful it is.
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  144. And then there is Melissa Drexler, the girl who gave birth in the restroom in the midst of prom, placed the newborn in a plastic bag and then into the trash, and then went back and continued to dance.
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  145. If anything, it's better now. This sort of thing is being ignored less often.
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  146.  @hardlessons9732 New? There's been an upswing in homicide rates that began during the pandemic, but the rate is still well below the peak (around 1990).
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  147.  @burgerwarts Not so.
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  148.  @judithdasta3969  Your anecdotes aren't data, but in any case, people were trapped in horrible marriages before no-fault divorce. I'm not sure what church has to do with anything. The divorce rate has decreased in recent years. Why do you assume that only fathers should work?
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  149. The latter, along with less ignoring/tolerating this behavior.
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  150. Some adults are perverts.
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  151. Some people are just pervs. Thankfully, people are taking this behavior more seriously nowadays. It's swept under the rug less often.
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  152. It said that he was 16. While they are close in age, the nature of their relationship (teacher-student) makes what she allegedly did highly inappropriate. Also, regarding a 14-year-old, that's even worse. This kind of behavior is psychologically damaging to minors, often causing lifelong problems with trust, boundaries, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  153.  robynxenis  Thankfully, this is being ignored/tolerated/praised less than it was before.
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  154. This is nothing new.
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  155. There's no connection, one way or the other. In fact, most such predation occurs within families (immediate or extended).
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  156. This sort of thing does a lot of harm. It's not funny. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  157. It's being ignored less.
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  158.  @Omar_Zazzle You don't know what you're talking about.
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  159.  @HenryLopez-tr5bb  There's nothing funny about this. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc.
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  160. I know that it's a South Park reference, but there's nothing nice about this.
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  161.  @jonkunnu8792  How so? Mental health professionals, and most of the men who experience this, show that I am correct. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  162.  @travissamz1604  One can't put links in comments anymore, but the data is/are clear on this. It's a terrible thing.
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  163.  @Paragon_Reason  Yes. Please answer the question.
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  164.  @ShadowDemon17  There is nothing lucky about this! This sort of thing harms the boys involved.
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  165.  @ShadowDemon17  You don't know what you're talking about. Adults doing this to minors is harmful, no matter who's involved.
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  166. Some people are just pervs.
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  167. It's not funny at all. Attitudes like his are a big part of the problem.
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  168.  @Philljag  Not funny. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  169. @ulisescruz-zk3ft No, and I'm so tired of that attitude. This does a lot of damage to the psyches of the boys involved. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  170.  @BoomShakalaka777  It's an adult manipulating a child.
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  171.  @baps511  True! Minors should definitely know this also.
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  172. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  173. Thankfully it's being taken more seriously and swept under the rug less often.
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  174.  @kornelijekovac9793  This does a lot of damage to the boys involved. Attitudes like yours don't help.
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  175. It's not new.
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  176.  @RS-pm9rv  Stop. This hurts boys too.
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  177. @@horacesheffield7367 You're part of the problem. This behavior does a lot of damage.
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  178. That will come.
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  179. It's getting reported more often now, as it's being taken more seriously.
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  180.  @RobbieStacks90  Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  181. It's not funny.
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  182. It gets clicks.
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  183.  @dallas218  This does a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  184. That's irrelevant. Lots of male perverts are married also.
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  185. Some people are pervs. That's all.
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  186. It's taken more seriously now. That's why we hear more about it.
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  187.  @michelleadams474  No, evil was much greater in the past. See, oh, I don't know, Genghis Khan.
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  188. It's exasperating.
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  189.  @MaggieBullpup  It's "affected," not "effected," and yes, he will. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  190.  @ThorBB  Wokies? I don't know what that's supposed to mean, but the point is that this behavior is terrible. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal? Also, the word is "breathe," not "breath."
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  191.  @billydelacey  And there it is. No, there's nothing lucky about this. It causes a lot of damage to the boys involved. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  192. More people are taking it more seriously.
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  193. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  194.  @joes7028  Not for this. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  195. That's disgusting.
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  196. At least it's being talked about more.
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  197.  @coldc7  Knock it off. This causes a great deal of psychological damage, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  198.  @cristianlizama787 No you don't. This is damaging.
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  199. Her appearance makes no difference. It's a terrible thing to do.
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  200.  @ImmaBeast713  Minors can't consent. That's what grooming does. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  201.  @bootscooty  They imagine and assume too much. The mental health professionals (among others) who work with men who've been through these situations know better. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  202. Note also that getting out of a relationship is the most dangerous time, particularly for women. They often get killed at that time.
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  203. They shouldn't report molestation!?
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  204.  @-Zer0Dark-  I have been. This is wrong, and it causes psychological harm.
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  205.  @NerdyCrusader  I have no idea what that means.
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  206.  @mightisright  No. Problems forming healthy relationships, difficulties with boundaries and trust, and worse. Mental health professionals, and men who've been through this, make it clear. (Also, get some new material. That "high fives" nonsense is hackneyed.) Do you think that this should be legal?
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  207. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  208. This kind of behavior causes a lot of psychological harm, no matter the sexes in the situation. Attitudes like yours are part of the problem.
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  209. We're talking about it more now. It's always happened.
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  210. ?
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  211.  @henryyoung2361  No, you don't. This causes a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  212.  @metallica2500  S/he is agreeing. Claiming that the minor wasn't coerced is not a defense, since minors can't give consent.
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  213.  @NAT-turners-Revenge  You're wishing for a terrible crime. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  214.  @Forrext  That's how it's spelled/spelt in the UK, among other places.
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  215. No, you don't wish that you did. This type of thing damages children.
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  216. True, but there's no reason to think that it's more common. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  217.  @johnpeterson9266 No, it's just being reported more often.
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  218.  @ché_1987  She did.
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  219.  @DownTownDestryBrown  This is not ideological.
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  220. It's nothing new. It's getting taken more seriously, hence more reporting and more exposure.
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  221. To elaborate: An Alford Plea says that the defendant maintains that they are not guilty, but that the State has enough evidence to convict them. It's what the West Memphis Three used. They didn't want to, but it was the only way to save Damien Echols's life.
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  222. Her appearance is completely irrelevant.
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  223. This sort of thing is far more likely to happen involving people who have established enough trust to not have to do any sneaking. Also, I can't imagine being under my parents' thumbs for all of my school career. What a nightmare.
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  224. It's not new.
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  225. Kids are in more danger behind closed doors. Most abusers are either family members or family friends.
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  226.  @johnbarlow4572  Not so. Watch it again. This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  227. It's not a bummer. This behavior causes psychological damage with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter what sexes are involved. Do you want this to be legal?
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  228.  @Binkyblaster  I hope not. This sort of thing is really damaging to the boys involved.
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  229.  @hornydolphin7953  Minors can't consent, especially in a case with such a power imbalance.
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  230. Thankfully, this behavior is being taken more seriously these days, hence more prosecutions and more reporting.
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  231.  @sirleo5103  I am male. I know that this does a lot of psychological damage. It's mentioned in the video. If you think that this is so great, why aren't you justifying it?
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  232.  @pinkfreud62  It's not like a magazine. Watch the video again, and pay attention. This is very harmful behavior.
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  233. The phrase is "et cetera," not "eck cetera!" "Et" is Latin for "and."
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  234.  @usmc4lifetkd956  People don't believe the survivors? That's true, sadly.
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  235.  @Carl_McMelvin  You don't know what you're talking about. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  236.  @kornelijekovac9793  Speak for yourself. People are gaining more understanding of how harmful this is.
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  237.  @charlestaylor3434  It causes a lot of harm, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  238. In earlier eras, this behavior wasn't even taken seriously. If anything, it was easier.
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  239. Don't talk to the police without an attorney!
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  240.  @buttson707  So should the punishments be different?
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  241. It's exasperating.
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  242. Anymore? This is nothing new. People are taking it more seriously now, hence the increase in reports.
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  243. First, this sort of thing is very rare; the number one killer of police is traffic accidents. Second, this video seems to have a lot of missing parts!
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  244. Not so. This really harms children.
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  245. Classmate, rather.
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  246.  @alexdavila1356 Do you have anything to cite that supports that?
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  247.  GEORGEBUSHDADDY  Not at all. This kind of thing often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  248. It's nothing new. People are just taking it more seriously now.
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  249.  @arg_9584  It does a lot of harm.
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  250.  @AliceALIE-eo2lc  Yes, they are victims/survivors.
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  251. It's nothing new. If anything, I'm thankful that this behavior is getting exposed more often. It's being taken more seriously. Unfortunately, a lot of men don't understand how harmful it is.
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  252.  @stevengallant6363  You're being very naive.
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  253. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  254.  @wenwenrenee  It's not on the rise. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  255. Dammit, I already see the comments portraying this as a good thing.
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  256.  @rosecowBoys09  Punctuation is our friend.
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  257. Victims/survivors often take a long time to come forward.
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  258.  @dscott_  This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
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  259.  @MiguelDLewis  You missed it. Your one weird anecdote doesn't invalidate anything.
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  260.  @Philljag  Attitudes like yours are part of the problem.
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  261.  @kingtnaughty189  I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  262.  @justinianbyzantium3765  You don't know what you're talking about. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  263.  @Emily-fo2xo  That's disgusting. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  264. True, but there was a serious power gap.
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  265. If anything, I'm glad that this behavior is being ignored less. It's nothing new.
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  266. @realityreviews2314 You've really missed the point.
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  267. It's just getting exposed more often, thankfully.
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  268. It's nothing new, but thankfully it's taken more seriously now.
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  269. Use two forms of contraception! Also, don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  270.  @lidoz You don't. This sort of thing really harms boys.
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  271.  @DarthKater311 That's not necessarily representative, and in any case that doesn't make it right. This behavior is very harmful.
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  272.  @jenghiskhan69  I doubt that very seriously. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  273. True. Kids are not blank slates.
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  274. I've never seen any of those movies, nor any of the Nightmare on Elm Street series, and yet I know the difference.
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  275.  @lebanon202 No! Don't talk to them at all. It could save your life. See, among other things, the case of the West Memphis Three. Cops tell their own children not to talk to the police. There's a viral video here on YT called "Don't Talk to the Police," in which a law professor quite engagingly explains why that's excellent advice.
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  276. I'm a straight man, and I know that this is terrible!
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  277. It's nothing new. More people understand that it's very harmful, and thus it's being reported more often.
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  278.  @Mia-es1rp  It's nothing new. People are taking it more seriously.
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  279. I don't think that's how she meant it. It's a strange turn of phrase, but listen to her. She's a college student who sometimes uses double negatives.
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  280. Homes are more dangerous to kids than schools are. People are so bad at assessing risk.
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  281. There are studies on precisely that. They show a lot of harm.
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  282. It's not new. Thankfully, people are more willing to take this seriously. It gets ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  283. This is evil. However, that's not what the word "literally" means.
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  284. Exactly! Thanks for that.
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  285. This is very harmful to the boys involved. Your attitude is part of the problem.
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  286. It's infuriating.
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  287. There's nothing to praise about child molestation. Also, I have no idea what your second sentence means.
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  288. Thankfully, a lot of us men know that this is terrible.
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  289.  @ExtremeForever  You're not only defending child molestation, you're clueless about how harmful it is.
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  290. Thankfully more men have realized how this is not a good thing.
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  291. No. This damages boys. It's terrible.
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  292.  @ritaakalele4801  No, not at all.
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  293. Not new.
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  294. They're getting caught, and the crime is taken more seriously than it was in the past.
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  295.  @OnceShy_TwiceBitten  I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  296. It's not new. We're just ignoring it less.
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  297. Thankfully, some of us gentlemen know how awful this is.
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  298. You don't know what you're talking about. It doesn't matter what sexes are involved; when adults do this to minors it causes a lot of psychological damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  299. There's no empirical evidence that childhood stars (and presumably that also applies specifically to Disney child stars) are any more likely to have such problems than anyone else.
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  300. It's being reported more and ignored/tolerated less.
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  301.  @vanessas2363  We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  302.  @Justme_1221  We're just talking about it more these days, which is a good thing.
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  303.  @jjdelany8130  Not funny. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  304. It's nothing new. Thankfully, this behavior is being taken more seriously.
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  305.  @Jake-jy5rr  That assumption says a lot about you.
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  306.  @Karl-w6r  Faux? I'm male, and I'm outraged.
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  307. It's nothing new. This behavior is being tolerated/ignored/praised less often now than it was before.
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  308.  @cheryl5994  No, that's often the result. It's tragic.
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  309.  @Digitalgems9000  That's not true. This really harms boys.
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  310. It's not funny.
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  311.  @coryboy345  Justifying this behavior indicates something is very wrong with you.
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  312.  @NyaMobil Don't.
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  313. There's no respect in predation. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  314. And attitudes like his are part of the problem.
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  315. Yes, they were preyed upon. This sort of thing does a lot of damage, and minors can't give consent.
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  316.  DwDiablo3  Stop. That's wrong, and not funny.
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  317.  @bnwo  No. This behavior is harmful to the boys involved. Don't excuse it, let alone praise it.
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  318. *breathe
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  319. Thankfully, it's swept under the rug less often.
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  320.  @LeoLover-l9e  He was the 12-year-old kid.
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  321. It's being reported on and taken more seriously than it was in the past.
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  322. This isn't new. It's just being reported more and ignored/tolerated less.
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  323.  @Jess-C  It's just being reported more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  324. Nothing new.
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  325.  @GiselleBritney  Yes. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  326.  @feralhomunculus  While he is an adult, his special ed status changes things.
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  327.  @ManOfCulture1992  Because you were comparatively lucky. This is a terrible crime.
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  328.  @riseoftheace4683  I hope that you're not serious. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  329.  @isaacramirez2098  So was I, and I know better. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  330.  @xrankerz  That's the correct spelling in the UK and in other places.
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  331.  @someoneout-there2165 The crime rate is still well below the peak, which was in 1990 or so.
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  332.  @bnwo  You should pay closer attention.
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  333. This does a lot of damage. It's very serious. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  334. It's getting ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  335. Don't talk to the police without a lawyer.
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  336.  @johnnelson3988 Laughing? If he gets justice in civil court, that's a relief for him (but her assets are surely not enough to set him up for life). This isn't a laughing matter, especially not for him.
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  337. Getting? They're getting abused. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  338.  @kateashby3066  It's nothing new. People are just ignoring it less often.
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  339. Minors can't give consent, and this does a lot of harm.
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  340. Elsewhere. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  341.  @RedDet-y6e  This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  342. That's not funny. This is very harmful, no matter the sexes involved.
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  343.  @LaCommentaire  This has always happened. It's ignored less often nowadays.
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  344. Thankfully, it's getting exposed these days, as it's being taken more seriously.
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  345. Exactly!
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  346.  veemoneybeats  *you're
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  347. More people take it more seriously now. It's ignored less often.
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  348.  @johnbarlow4572  Minors can't consent.
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  349. For one thing, that's not relevant. For another, that's not what "irony" means.
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  350.  @Juliasblues  Mary Kay Letourneau, the dreadful woman they're talking about in this video.
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  351.  @mitchfromtwitter81  Back then it was swept under the rug, and/or nobody even saw it as a problem when it was woman-boy.
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  352. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  353. Ok, but there's still the power differential.
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  354.  @carewser  Why? The video made it clear that this was very harmful to the boy. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  355.  @tenderstepsPaul  It's the latter. It has nothing to do with loneliness. Some people are just pervs.
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  356. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  357.  @sanderkonto297  This is very harmful. You don't know what you're talking about. Do you think this should be legal?
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  358. People are taking these cases more seriously now, and not just ignoring/tolerating it.
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  359. @charleswhite758 It really harms them. Note that one of the problems is that they are reluctant to admit that at the time.
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  360.  @donnaevans1066  We're paying attention to it now.
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  361. It's just getting reported more often.
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  362. It's not new.
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  363.  @aspiringvoiceactor645  It wasn't long ago that this behavior would not have even been considered a crime, or at least it would not have been taken seriously. There's some progress.
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  364. Thanks.
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  365. Not I. This is terrible.
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  366.  @AbossLIDUS  This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  367.  @cnnothingburgerletsgobrand6381  You don't know how anything about human development.
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  368. It's not new. We're just hearing more about it, since people are taking it more seriously now.
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  369. This isn't new. We're just ignoring/tolerating it less.
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  370. Because you were fortunate. This is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  371. Too many men still have that attitude, and it's infuriating.
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  372. Watch it again. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  373. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  374.  @landor7610  You're not answering the question.
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  375. Not exactly. Statistically, it's extremely rare. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  376. No, you don't. This is very harmful. Do you want to legalize it?
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  377. Do you not understand why people take a long time to come forward? This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc.
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  378.  @jamiedavid8023  Tupac was a bad person also.
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  379. So many men think that these situations are good things. It's infuriating.
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  380. Your anecdote isn't data.
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  381. This isn't new. We're just talking about it more.
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  382.  @lonniesmith352  How so? That's what they're supposed to do. Everyone has the right to the best possible representation.
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  383.  @Acdc671  There is (thankfully) no reason to think that it's becoming more common.
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  384. The way things are now? They make it clear early in the video that this isn't any more common, we're just taking it more seriously these days, hence the increased reporting.
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  385. Act? If you know the first thing about the effects of this, then you would understand that the outrage would be genuine.
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  386.  @2a-j989  If you knew anything about this behavior, you wouldn't laugh.
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  387.  @ronray4294  Were you paying attention to the video? Your misunderstanding of these situations is part of the problem.
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  388. *whose
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  389.  @Paloma-Aster-Matrix-Hub "Anglo" means "English," and while there were many English slavers, there were many others as well!
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  390. Thankfully, juvenile crime was a lot worse in the past, sensationalist reporting notwithstanding.
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  391.  @watsonspuzzle  Greater awareness of the harm this does leads to more reporting. It's no worse.
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  392.  @bnwo  She really messed up his life.
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  393. Some people are pervs. That's all.
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  394. They're getting caught, and the crime is being taken more seriously.
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  395. Precisely.
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  396. What about the houses of relatives (if that ever comes up)? Most such abusers are well-known to the children, especially those who are related to them.
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  397.  @GiselleBritney  He's the primary victim.
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  398. No. This causes a lot of damage.
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  399. No, she did a terrible thing.
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  400. @CaleseCrowder86 Yes there is. These kinds of things are very harmful to the boys involved. It's not a positive initiation. I shouldn't have to explain this, but I do.
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  401. It's being ignored/tolerated/praised less than it was in the past.
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  402. It's not funny.
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  403. There's nothing lucky about this! It's molestation, and it's harmful.
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  404.  @spacemanspliff7983 That's disgusting. There is nothing good about this situation.
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  405. Fetal homicide laws were written with violent third parties (like this guy) in mind. She didn't give her consent (obviously).
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  406. I haven't sent that many in my life!
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  407.  @portraitofman2063  It's a question of personhood, not life. There's no harm in not being born. No one minds not being born. Personhood consists of all the things that make killing wrong- sentience, the will to live, biological autonomy, and everything else that's taken away when a person is killed. In a rudimentary but very real sense, babies have that. Embryos and fetuses don't and can't.
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  408.  @godzilla2k26  It's not new.
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  409. Nah, it seems pretty sane to me.
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  410.  @pashon4percushon  No, there is absolutely no correlation.
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  411.  @MiguelDLewis  Look up the phrase "no true Scotsman."
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  412.  @Sectrix2pp  It's still highly inappropriate.
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  413. *lose
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  414.  @thischannelisdeleted It's a crime, and rightly so!
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  415. Minors can't give consent, and this sort of thing hurts boys just as much as it hurts girls.
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  416. Indeed. Remember Natasha Richardson?
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  417.  @NotaGabeItch  Condoning? Condemning?
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  418. It was solicitation, i.e. grooming.
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  419. Thanks! I'm so tired of that.
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  420.  @Maaaattologyyyy  No you don't.
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  421. Why? This is molestation, and it's very hurtful.
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  422.  @beckylynn209  It has happened.
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  423.  @malasi888  Excuse me!?
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  424.  @NAT-turners-Revenge  Got? You "got" your teacher?
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  425. That's how grooming works, among other things.
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  426.  @BoomShakalaka777  They didn't assault her, and minors can't give consent.
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  427. A pervert?
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  428. It's being ignored less often.
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  429.  @KrakkenXXX Minors can't consent.
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  430. Legally speaking, that might make a difference.
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  431.  @juniorgod321  I know that it's a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  432. Stop. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  433.  @BODMDNDHsjsjdid  This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  434. This causes a lot of psychological harm, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  435. This sort of thing hurts children.
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  436.  @Bluesruse  That's technically true, but this still is very harmful.
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  437.  @nickythekidd5517  You're defending child molestation.
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  438.  @justinduran1  The power imbalance is important.
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  439. The odds of this happening are extremely low. People are so bad at assessing risk (no offense). Schools are one of the safest places for kids to be.
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  440. No longer safe? Children are much safer these days than in the past. Part of the reason is that we're finally talking about things like this.
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  441.  @CourtroomAnticsTV No, he is not. This sort of thing is very damaging.
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  442.  @donttalkjustplay4274 He was molested. It's damaging.
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  443. It's not. It's just taken more seriously now.
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  444. Yes. It often causes lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, and worse.
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  445. Thankfully, no.
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  446. Thankfully, it's getting exposed more often.
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  447.  @UGhotti  That's not funny, and I hope that you're not being serious.
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  448. More people are taking these behaviors more seriously. There's more awareness of how harmful it is. We hear more about it nowadays.
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  449. Attitudes like yours make it worse. They mention in the video how harmful this is. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  450. @Yesindeed126 They work much more than that!
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  451.  @inrainbows1829 What does that have to do with anything?
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  452. It's only recently that people have been taking this behavior seriously. In fact, regarding female perpetrators, far too many people still don't take it seriously, especially when the victims are male.
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  453.  @jackhammer-  This sort of thing is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  454. Stop. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  455. People are paying more attention to this behavior.
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  456. Still a minor.
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  457. Elsewhere, not molesting you. That's a good thing.
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  458. This isn't funny. Mental health professionals are clear about the damage this does regarding forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  459. It always has. I'm glad that more people understand how terrible this behavior is, hence the increased reporting.
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  460. Minors can't consent, especially when the perpetrator has power over them.
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  461. This is nothing new. It's just getting taken more seriously and reported on more often. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
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  462. Yes. It does a lot of damage.
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  463. It's just being reported more.
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  464.  @MarkT1700  There's nothing new here.
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  465. It's being ignored less often.
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  466. This greatly harms the minors involved.
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  467. The reporting is happening more and more often, since people are taking it more seriously.
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  468.  @mollylittlewolf9192  It's just getting reported and exposed more often.
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  469.  @Philljag  I'm not crying, and I'm not sure why that's your comment.
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  470. They're not advocating on behalf of predators like this.
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  471.  @thedraftdoctor1  For one thing, you don't know that. For another, those attitudes are part of the problem. For yet another, do you seriously think that any of that outweighs the damage done? Do you think that this behavior should be legal?
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  472. Sexes, rather. But yes, you're right. This does a lot of damage to the boys.
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  473. @TheRange7 There's more understanding of its seriousness, and thus more coverage.
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  474. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  475.  @andreatheil-slawik7303  Your English is pretty good! However, you don't seem to realize how harmful this behavior is.
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  476. Polygraphs are unreliable. Also, stop shouting.
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  477.  @andyschool  This is a minor (but important) point: someone is found not guilty, not "innocent" per se. I'm not referring to this case in particular, I'm just pointing out the common misconception.
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  478. It's nothing new. Thankfully, people are more aware of the harm it does.
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  479. You don't understand. An attorney's job is to do the best for their client, to make sure that due process is followed. They generally go with what the client tells them regarding the chain of events.
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  480. It's nothing new. People are just taking it more seriously now.
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  481.  @lucasfrank8843  What's that supposed to mean?
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  482. It's being reported more often, and ignored/tolerated less.
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  483. This is nothing new. We just take it more seriously now.
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  484.  @robin3  You have to draw the line somewhere.
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  485.  @paullegge6362  You don't know what you're talking about. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage later in life.
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  486. Someday people will know to leave their phones at home.
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  487.  @jeramyadam  You wouldn't turn in someone for abusing your son? This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  488. Children cannot give consent, and this is very damaging. The facts are clear. You're condoning child molestation. Also: "would *have," not "would of."
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  489. Find something original. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  490. This isn't new. It's thankfully being acknowledged now.
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  491.  @glockdude5472 Not at all; I am straight-edge. Anyway, regarding youth crime, look up Kevin Drum's work on the subject, along with The Economist.
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  492.  @johnbarlow4572  Still a minor.
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  493.  @timetotalk9994  What does that have to do with this? Nobody is advocating for this sort of behavior, except for all the awful men who think that this is a good thing.
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  494. It's not the norm. More people realize how bad it really is, so it's taken more seriously.
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  495.  @Wishpool  To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  496.  @Babybold_yk2  Not funny. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  497. Some people are pervs, and thankfully people are taking it more seriously.
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  498. They might be Student Teachers, teachers' aides, or have other jobs.
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  499. This is child molestation.
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  500.  @dannyrivera8300  15-to-18 is very different.
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  501. It was. People are just taking it more seriously now. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  502. There's nothing lucky about this. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with trust, healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  503.  @SoulforSale  He's a minor! He didn't take advantage of an adult! I hope that you stay away from children.
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  504. "Lucky girls!" "Where were these cops when I was in school?" "I'll bet she was the Big Woman on Campus!" "The girls had wrist injuries from all the high-fives!" What? No one is saying that? Fascinating.
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  505. Stop it. That's not funny; this is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  506.  @JohannaVanWinkle  More people are aware of how harmful this is. It's being taken more seriously, thus more prosecution and more reporting. If anything, that's a positive development.
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  507. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  508.  @theredpill3177  This is a terrible crime. These attitudes are part of the problem.
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  509. It's not funny.
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  510. It's always seriously unlucky.
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  511. He tried to stop it.
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  512. Children can't give consent. This sort of thing is damaging.
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  513. Punctuation is our friend!
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  514. It's just getting reported on more.
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  515.  @L30B055  It's very relevant, and besides, his assessment is ridiculous anyway.
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  516. The harm often only manifests later. It's very sad.
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  517. Feminists do not champion this.
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  518.  @TimJameson-jg8sl  No feminist anywhere approves of this.
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  519.  @Naturegurl124  Either way, mental health professionals make it clear that this is very harmful.
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  520.  @donbeam4072 This traumatizes children.
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  521.  @victorchairez7356 You don't know what you're talking about.
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  522.  @princebangura6937 Not funny.
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  523.  @anthonymaughan6103 You don't wish that you had been molested. That's what this is, and it's very harmful.
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  524.  @monicavillarreal3902  You're wrong. This does serious damage.
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  525.  @somnuswaltz5586  I'm a man, and I understand that children can't give consent, and that this sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  526.  @KristinaApplegate  It damages teens also.
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  527.  @laylaal9742 Getting molested is not an accomplishment. He's a boy, not a man.
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  528.  @anthonymaughan6103  No, this is molestation, and it's very harmful.
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  529. No. Molestation is damaging.
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  530.  @lahamification  You're right. It's being reported on more often. There's more awareness of the harm that it causes. It's tolerated/ignored less. Unfortunately, men are still praising it, including in these very comments.
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  531.  @mingo2024  There's no evidence for that. Pornography does not turn people into this kind of pervert.
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  532. There's nothing lucky about this. This causes a lot of harm, often leading to lifelong difficulties with healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  533. I don't know what that means.
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  534.  @Nicenotherbaltea  Yes, it's easy to resist in practice! Are you serious?
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  535.  @pixpusha  I'm not sure that "thanks" is the right way to put it.
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  536.  @butthead4637  That's not something to rely upon anyway.
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  537.  @pixpusha  We can't have infinite growth on a finite planet.
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  538.  @TheRealSpenco  They're minors, they can't give consent, and there are good reasons. It does a lot of damage.
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  539.  @MelanatedRepublican  You don't know what you're talking about.
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  540. But only recently have they been taken seriously.
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  541.  @Deathscythe91  Stop. This is terrible for minors, no matter the sexes involved. Mental health professionals are clear that it causes a lot of psychological damage. Do you think that it should be legal? It's not funny.
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  542.  @coryskizm  You're making it too complicated. Some people are perverts, and society in general is only gradually coming to grips with how awful it is, including the existence of female perpetrators. Thus, we hear more about it.
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  543. What makes you say that?
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  544. It's not funny.
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  545.  @stedydubdetroit  Thankfully, it wasn't normal for most people. @NDHS1990 is exaggerating.
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  546. This is assault.
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  547. We've only recently understood that this is not some sort of "initiation" for boys. Many people in these comments still don't get it.
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  548. They get clicks.
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  549.  @robnutile4338  You don't know what you're talking about. This is a terrible, terrible crime. It's very clear that this harms the boys involved.
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  550.  @robnutile4338 This has nothing to do with me. I hope that the victims are all right.
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  551.  @robnutile4338  You were telling me to find a safe place, and that made no sense.
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  552. Elsewhere. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  553. Because there's less tolerance for this behavior.
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  554. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's being ignored less often.
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  555.  @EatHere  The latter. It wasn't taken seriously until recently.
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  556. Kids are in more danger at home.
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  557. No way.
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  558. It's just getting reported more often.
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  559. *breathe
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  560. Lots of victims stay quiet for a long time, and that's explained in the video.
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  561. Boys have been held liable for child support in cases like this.
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  562. If she's guilty, she's a child molester. This sort of thing is very harmful.
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  563. Get some new material. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  564. You don't know what you're talking about. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  565. It gets clicks.
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  566.  @actual_doge3221  This is not new. We're just taking it more seriously now.
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  567. Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  568.  DonnellxxOkafor  She's hurt him.
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  569. This is not political.
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  570. You don't know what you're talking about.
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  571.  @jackglockstar  Minors can't consent to adults.
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  572. She wasn't a teacher. Also, there's nothing new about this. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  573. Some people are pervs, unfortunately.
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  574.  @sureiguess1  No he is not. This causes a lot of psychological harm.
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  575. A lot of people's moods wax and wane in traumatic circumstances.
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  576.  @rickhammond2473  There's nothing lucky about this. It causes a lot of psychological damage, no matter the sexes involved.
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  577.  @kathrynschierloh7358 No, it's good that we're finally talking about this.
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  578.  @Raaa1111..  Note also that the cops are under no legal obligation to protect anyone.
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  579. Why? These kinds of things are very harmful to the boys involved. It's not a positive initiation. I shouldn't have to explain this, but I do.
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  580. That has nothing to do with this at all.
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  581. They were elsewhere, not doing this to you. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  582.  @shanecharles4589  It's not new.
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  583.  @illusorytrutheffect  You don't know what you're talking about. Mental health professionals and others deal with the results.
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  584. It's not funny. Also, per capita, this is extremely rare.
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  585.  @pinkvelvet3865  *you're
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  586.  @Palmstreet-u7x  Not funny.
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  587. The wrong place & time, rather. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  588.  @CompShooter54  Admit? You should admit that you're wrong. This is child molestation, or worse.
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  589. It gets clicks.
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  590. This sort of thing is being ignored less often than in the past.
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  591.  @AliceALIE-eo2lc  So you think that this is okay? Should this be legal?
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  592. Elsewhere, not doing this sort of thing to you. It's very damaging.
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  593. This happens all over the place.
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  594.  @Jr0d___ Stop. This sort of thing is very harmful, no matter who it is.
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  595. @MicheleKalina704You don't know what you're talking about.
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  596. Yes. That's how grooming works. Minors can't give consent.
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  597.  @katarinasimoncicova4766  Attitudes like yours are part of the reason why survivors/victims are reluctant to come forward.
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  598. The luck is bad. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  599. This should be the top comment.
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  600. After seeing what happened to Jacqueline Durand, I'm even less likely to trust dogs.
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  601. Did you pay attention to the video? This is very harmful.
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  602.  @Camerabetrapt  She's an adult.
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  603. These kinds of things are very harmful to the boys involved. It's not a positive initiation. I shouldn't have to explain this, but I do.
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  604.  @michaelbrandon1222  YouTube doesn't like links in comments, but Google will show you the answer to your question.
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  605.  @ManChan-w5p  Elsewhere, not molesting you. That's a good thing, as this kind of behavior does a lot of harm.
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  606.  @manicorganic6748  You're blaming the kids?
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  607. Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  608.  @jvj5644  There was a power imbalance, among other things.
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  609.  @dandan7973  It's just as harmful.
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  610.  @esils  Understand what? I'm male, and I understand (thanks to a simple look at the evidence) that this sort of thing harms boys just as it harms girls. (Also, the phrase is "if you *were*," not "if you *was*.)
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  611. It's being reported more often, and ignored less. It invariably happens around the world.
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  612.  @CNSTAdventures  Your anecdote isn't data. Do you think that this sort of thing should be legal?
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  613.  @joneppard6616  It's no laughing matter. He was a child! This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  614. The luck is bad. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  615. Yes, they can. Minors can't give consent. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal? Also, even if he was at the age of consent, there's the power difference to think about.
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  616.  @donniedarko4497  Girls do the same thing. Kids sometimes don't realize until later how much damage it does.
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  617. Elsewhere. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  618. Thankfully, it's being reported on more, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  619. Indeed, and they explain in the video why there is nothing lucky about what happened to the boy.
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  620. Instantly? Immediately? No, it doesn't work that way. Not for murderers, although they are often denied bond, if that's what you're referring to. Even then, it would be in county jail, not prison. The former is usually much worse than the latter.
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  621. No you don't. This harms boys just as much as it harms girls.
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  622. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  623. It's partially due to algorithms. This sort of thing gets clicks. Another factor is that, as they mention in the video, the harm from this behavior is better understood these days.
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  624. Minors can't give consent. This is not a good thing.
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  625. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's getting reported on more often, as more people understand the harm it does.
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  626. Because you were fortunate in that regard. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  627. Stop. This causes a lot of harm.
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  628. Homes are more dangerous.
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  629. It's being taken more seriously by the justice system, and thus reported on more often.
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  630. Lucky? The luck is bad. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  631.  @hbos9709  This does a lot of damage. That's not in dispute among mental health professionals.
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  632.  @squazzley  So do you think that this should be legal?
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  633.  @DanniDuck  This is very harmful.
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  634. They're minors.
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  635. It's nothing new. It's just getting reported on more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  636. It's not new.
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  637. This was not dating, not that that's any better. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  638. What "high" are you talking about? Quite the opposite!
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  639.  @Carl_McMelvin  Please elaborate.
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  640.  @joep6035 Mental health professionals make it clear that this sort of thing is very harmful. People keep praising this behavior, claiming that it's good for boys, and thus the logical conclusion is that they would like it to be legal. It's the obvious question. If this is such a good thing, why not make it legal?
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  641. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  642.  @VENENOSEASON  She did the right thing by switching you out.
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  643. Silly troll.
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  644.  @chesspunk489  It's harmful in the same way that it's harmful when it's man-on-girl, man-on-boy, and woman-on-girl. You don't need to imagine.
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  645. It's just being reported more often.
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  646.  @TinCupChalice40  Why?
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  647. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  648.  @americangirlx4  There's no reason to ride that hobby horse here.
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  649.  @JASONCIRONE-kp4xr  What difference does her appearance make?
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  650. This is highly inappropriate. No, it's not as bad as such things involving an underage boy, but she should not have done this.
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  651. This harms boys.
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  652. This is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  653. Because you were fortunate. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  654.  @ChrisTessmer You don't know what you're talking about.
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  655.  @Jake-jy5rr  Stop.
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  656. Thanks to Dobbs, I worry that we'll see even more of this.
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  657. You don't know what you're talking about. This sort of thing really hurts the boys.
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  658. must *have
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  659.  @kozysmoove  You're twisted. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  660. It's nothing new. People are just taking it more seriously now.
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  661. You don't know what you're talking about. This sort of thing has always happened, but we're finally talking about it, exposing it, and at least some of us aren't accepting/justifying/praising it! Unfortunately, too many people think that this behavior is a fine thing.
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  662. People take it more seriously now, hence the increased reporting.
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  663. True, and irrelevant.
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  664. Increased reporting. People are taking it more seriously. That's mentioned in the video.
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  665. Thanks to Dobbs, I'm worried that we'll see more of this.
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  666. Not so. Kids are in much more danger at home! Besides, this sort of thing wasn't talked about much in previous eras.
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  667. Not at all!
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  668. The most dangerous place for kids is in their own homes.
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  669. No, you don't. This causes a lot of harm.
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  670. Homes are much more dangerous than schools. I hope that your kids learn better English than you apparently have. Also, stop shouting.
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  671. Watch the video again, pay attention to how the boy felt, and hopefully you will think differently.
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  672.  @islandboi8087  False. This is terrible.
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  673. No you don't. This is very harmful to boys.
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  674.  @michaelangelo16240  There's nothing funny here! Did you pay attention to the video?
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  675. It's due to two things. 1. Algorithms. 2. We're ignoring these crimes less often.
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  676. It did. Thankfully, it's being tolerated/ignored less often. (What's annoying?)
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  677. A sad story. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  678.  @BarrGC  Why should there be a double standard?
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  679.  @scaramouche8244  This isn't love.
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  680.  @miguelal5607  This causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  681.  @joedennehy386  Do you think that this behavior should be legal?
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  682.  @singlewhitefemale1707  That's not true at all! Plenty of innocent people have gotten themselves in severe, life-altering trouble simply by talking to cops.
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  683. I realize that it's a South Park reference, but it's not nice at all.
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  684. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  685. The wrong schools are those where this happens.
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  686. It gets clicks.
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  687.  @BradLee208  Religious parochial schools are notorious for this. Besides, that's nothing compared to what happens in homes, behind closed doors.
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  688. It's nothing new. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously.
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  689.  @Golden_Girl7123  It hasn't sprung off.
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  690. This is terrible. It really harms the boys involved.
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  691. I hope that you aren't. Even so, why do you want a child molester sent your way?
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  692.  @jessytinsley3285  Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  693. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  694. It's being ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  695. That doesn't make a difference.
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  696. This has nothing to do with the case, and it's beside the point, but: How do you know that she was sweet?
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  697.  @Mrrastachantman  I'm not sure what you mean by that. The point is that I was just noticing the diction in the original comment.
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  698. Never *saw
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  699. How so? This sort of thing is very harmful, and it's nothing new.
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  700.  @Anonymous-jw3mk  No. It leaves boys with longstanding difficulties in (for example) forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries & consent, and so on. It causes a lot of psychological damage when adults do this to children, no matter the sexes involved.
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  701. No. This is how grooming works.
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  702. Exactly. Also, regarding your icon- Hooray for Fraggles!
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  703.  @this-is-slammin-549  Doing this makes someone very ugly.
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  704. This isn't new.
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  705. These kinds of things are very harmful to the boys involved. It's not a positive initiation. I shouldn't have to explain this, but I do.
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  706. Because you were fortunate.
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  707. It's getting more coverage, thankfully. This has gone on forever.
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  708. What do you mean by that?
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  709. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  710. Not funny.
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  711. It's being acknowledged/reported more now.
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  712. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This behavior is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal? What about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
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  713. While it's not as bad as a case when it involves an underage boy, it's still seriously inappropriate, as the video makes clear.
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  714. Not funny.
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  715. That's not funny. This really harms the boys involved.
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  716. She was taking, rather, and it's terrible.
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  717. It did. Thankfully, people are more aware of how harmful it is, and so it's reported more often.
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  718.  @RogueJunior-wp4mb  You didn't watch the video, did you? This really hurt him. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  719. You don't. This harms children, often severely.
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  720.  @donttalkjustplay4274 You should.
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  721.  @GENRTS  And thus ignore terrible crimes.
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  722.  @isaiahduran3567  And been seriously harmed, possibly for life.
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  723.  @laylaal9742  First, not so. Second, children can't give consent.
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  724. For one thing it gets clicks. For another, this behavior is taken more seriously now. It's swept under the rug less often.
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  725. Just a few minutes into the video, they make it clear that this does a lot of psychological damage.
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  726. Thank you for that. However, there's no need for the ampersand. Everyone knows what the word is.
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  727.  @twistedlvl50  Stop. This behavior does a lot of psychological damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  728.  @john-l4d2  "Missing out" on being preyed upon is not a bad thing. There was a substantial power difference here, no matter his age 18.
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  729. I know the reference, but no, this isn't nice at all. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  730.  @moneyman5eva  They often do, according to mental health professionals.
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  731. It's not funny.
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  732. People are talking about it now.
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  733.  @BloomUnknown Not at all.
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  734.  @blissfulbunny  Exactly!
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  735. We're just talking about it more, thankfully.
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  736. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  737. @CaleseCrowder86 Stop defending this behavior.
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  738.  @trevors6379  There's nothing heroic about harming children. This does a lot of psychological damage.
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  739.  @iminyourcity4001  The comment is making a reference to the comments that appear in situations like this when the sexes are reversed.
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  740. Middle school, actually.
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  741. It's not funny.
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  742. *you're
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  743.  @ryguy5929  There's nothing lucky here. It's very harmful to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that this behavior should be legal?
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  744. Not funny.
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  745.  @NDHS1990  Not really. You're exaggerating.
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  746.  @mytruecrimelibrary  Thankfully, that's an exaggeration.
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  747. Thankfully this behavior is being ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  748. This is really harmful, and it's not funny.
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  749.  @MiguelDLewis  You're being ridiculous.
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  750. John at least has good taste in music.
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  751. We're just hearing about it more often.
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  752. This really damages the minds of the boys involved. Also, that's not how question marks work.
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  753.  @DanielRamirez-qq3tj  What makes all of this so ridiculous is that there's no reason to not wear a seatbelt. How does this still happen?
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  754. No, you don't. It would have harmed you, quite seriously.
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  755. Be glad that it didn't happen to you. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  756. It's being ignored less.
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  757. @2011sliverdude No, you don't. This sort of thing causes a lot of damage.
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  758. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  759. It does a great deal of damage.
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  760.  @milaninter2442  It's good that in this era, such behavior is getting ignored/tolerated much less often. There's more awareness of how harmful it is.
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  761.  @MiguelDLewis  There's no such thing as a demon. That's superstitious nonsense.
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  762. At 18, he's not a minor, but this was still inappropriate for other reasons, and it should not be legal!
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  763. There's nothing about this that's particular to NYC. It has always happened around the world, and now there's more understanding of the harm it does.
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  764. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
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  765.  @margmckay3257  It wasn't a matter of spelling.
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  766.  @NinoLittle  Not necessarily. Such offenders seem to get widely varying sentences, unless I'm missing something.
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  767. Indeed; they talk in this video about why boys (and people in general) don't report this behavior for a while.
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  768. Now? This is nothing new.
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  769. People are taking this more seriously now.
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  770. You're living in fear. Being sheltered makes this sort of thing more likely.
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  771.  @CANNABISfreedomNOtaxes  No he is not. This does a lot of damage.
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  772. could *have
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  773. It gets clicks.
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  774. Everyone facing a criminal charge has plea offers. That's how it works. Fewer than ten percent of cases go to trial.
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  775. Not funny. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  776.  @kingjoseph5901  Stop. That's ridiculous.
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  777. Besides algorithms, we're just talking about it more. That's good, inasmuch as we're ignoring these crimes less often.
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  778. That's not funny. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  779. Shouldn't have had a boyfriend? Why not?
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  780.  @mcw8900  You're clueless. This does a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  781. ?
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  782.  @lidoz  Speak for yourself.
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  783.  @lidoz  That's a common historical misconception.
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  784.  @jase4270  No, you don't. This causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, among other things. Do you think that it should be legal? Also, speaking of school: "would have," not "would of."
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  785.  @vidura  That's twisted. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  786.  @DroneStrike1776  How is this ideological!?
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  787. She's a pervert. This isn't funny. Also: *you're.
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  788.  @fresh.prince7472  That doesn't matter one way or the other. She's a pervert (assuming that she's guilty).
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  789. There's more reporting, as the harms of this are better understood.
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  790. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  791. It's nothing new. More people take it more seriously now, so it's reported on more often and swept under the rug less often.
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  792. Good. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  793.  @realemonful  Yes, as a matter of fact.
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  794.  @Youneedtolisten103.2  It was normalized in the past, when this behavior was usually swept under the rug, tolerated, ignored, etc.
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  795. *you're
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  796. They were elsewhere, not molesting you. This behavior is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal? What about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
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  797.  @josephBo  Minors can't consent.
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  798. This behavior is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal? What about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
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  799.  @eneobande7433  Moral values? Did you pay attention to the video? The victims were minors, and you're blaming them?
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  800.  @-MattMcCauley-  Men.
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  801. Did you pay attention to the video? The boys were not happy about this.
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  802.  @ryand7713  There's nothing nice about it. You weren't paying attention, were you?
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  803.  @davidhess7410  Minors can't give consent. Also, it's plainly stated in the video that they were very uncomfortable.
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  804. No! Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it! Do you think that it should be legal?
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  805. What do you mean by that?
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  806. It's just being talked about more, and more of us understand how bad it is.
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  807. It's nothing new.
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  808.  @tonymurray814  This causes a lot of psychological damage, and attitudes like yours are part of the problem.
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  809. He told his parents and the authorities. Rightly so. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal.
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  810.  @Pluscelamemechose  Self-defense incidents happen every day in CA, and this one is on video.
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  811.  @Finder76  How is it not?
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  812. Lurid reporting gives the wrong impression. Look at the data. Kids are far more likely to be assaulted at home, in the presence of family friends, etc. Also, this sort of thing happens in private schools as well.
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  813. Doing this with a minor causes serious psychological damage. That's true no matter the sexes- woman-girl, woman-boy, man-boy, man-girl.
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  814. I know where that comes from, but no, there's nothing nice about it. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  815. Yes, but there's no way to catch someone who has not offended yet.
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  816.  @PanamaRed2004  As long as they are of age, and there's no power imbalance, there's nothing wrong with that. However, she violated both of those principles.
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  817. *silence *their
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  818. It's not funny.
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  819. What are you talking about?
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  820. Anymore? It's nothing new. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  821.  @gamingbypix  No, not babies. That doesn't make it less awful.
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  822.  @16watch  Thankfully, more people are confronting this behavior.
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  823. I don't think that's what she meant by nothing. Her speech is a little strange. Listen again; she's a college student who uses double negatives on occasion.
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  824. True. Also: *they're.
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  825. There's no connection. We're hearing more about it now, because people are taking it more seriously.
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  826. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This behavior is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal? What about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
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  827. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  828. First: *you're. Second: why?
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  829. *you're
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  830. It's only very recently that this behavior has been taken seriously. There's nothing to suggest that it's more common.
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  831. Internet Tough Guy!
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  832. No feminists think that this is okay.
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  833. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  834. It's not new. In a positive new development, more people understand how harmful this is, and thus it's getting more exposure.
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  835.  @chrisdavis6264  I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  836.  @CaptainHogg It's not funny. It's terrible.
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  837.  @dzhettblek5615  That's not funny. This does a lot of damage, no matter the sexes involved.
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  838. Not at all. People are just taking it more seriously these days.
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  839.  @Liz-wz8dh  True, but abuse like this is vastly more common within families (and family friends).
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  840.  @lancerussell755  No, the law does not allow this, and feminists by and large are not advocating for that.
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  841. There's nothing ok about this. Did you pay attention to the video?
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  842. There's nothing funny about this.
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  843. It's being reported more often as people are taking it more seriously.
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  844.  @alexauer3697  You don't know what you're talking about. Do you really not know why victims/survivors take so long to come forward?
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  845. This is not an amazing gift. It's terrible.
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  846. @Letthelightin222 Correct, but: "you're.
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  847. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This sort of thing is very damaging.
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  848.  @michaelbrandon1222  You don't know what you're talking about.
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  849. They're just using the kids, and it's terrible.
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  850. Stop. This kind of thing is harmful to the minor involved. It doesn't matter who it is.
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  851.  @dogloverchantel1227  You missed the point. I saw that this is a great place to point out that you won't see such comments regarding this video. People should think about why.
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  852. There's nothing lucky about this. It's very harmful.
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  853. Disgusting.
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  854. Victims take a long time to come forward in cases like this.
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  855. It's just ignored less often than it once was.
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  856. Cut it out. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  857.  @steffenhofer2466  Minors can't consent.
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  858.  @hutlazzz  Yeah, and that biology is often out of sync with the mind. That's why this is a terrible thing for an adult, any adult, to do.
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  859.  @MadScientist267  You don't know what you're talking about. Mental health professionals know how damaging this sort of thing is.
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  860.  @urielcastaneda1895  Stop. It's not funny.
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  861.  @frederickhaaken456  No, no one should blame him. Blame the adult. He's the one being harmed, and yes, it is harmful.
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  862.  @jacquelinesnowden8174  That's not true. Children, and they are indeed children, can't give consent. This sort of thing does a lot of damage. Also, I apologize strongly if English is not your first language, but if it is, you need some help!
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  863.  @deliciousfirstsip  There's no difference. You're defending terrible crimes against minors of both sexes.
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  864.  @izuku9038  He shouldn't have to defend himself, because this shouldn't happen in the first place. Even if he "had a blast" in the moment, and that's a terrible thing to say/assume, the damage and shame surface sooner or later.
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  865. Yes, you would have. This damages boys.
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  866.  @zonzogonzo1427  That's not how it works.
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  867. That's not what "antithesis" means.
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  868. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  869.  @bnwo  It's not different. It does damage no matter who's involved.
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  870. I know that that's a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  871.  @jmpayne333  This causes a lot of psychological damage for the boys involved. (Yes, it does.) Do you think that it should be legal?
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  872. Did anyone call the girls "lucky?" Did they say things like "where were these coaches when I was in school?" Did they claim that the only harm was to the girls' wrists thanks to all the high-fives? That's what always happens when the perpetrator is a woman (who's conventionally attractive) and the victims are underage boys.
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  873. Minors can't give consent, and this is a terrible, harmful thing.
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  874.  @irishamerican4558  No, this does a lot of damage. Do you want to legalize it?
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  875.  @ritzoriginal  Again, the power imbalance causes a problem.
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  876. The wrestlers are/were minors.
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  877.  @LeiselRadtke  It's nothing new. There's just more reporting/acknowledgement and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  878. ?
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  879. They might not be teachers. There are other positions, particularly for trainees.
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  880. This isn't funny.
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  881.  @defiantking7777  Let the professionals handle it.
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  882.  @Shreddittrading  If it's a hot tub, he's probably more warm than cool. Then again, maybe he does that to warm up.
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  883. There was a substantial power gap between them.
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  884.  @TheAstrofromspace  That's not funny.
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  885. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  886. Children can't give consent. Period.
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  887. Are you saying that he should have chosen a better lady? That makes no sense.
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  888. There's nothing new here.
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  889. Thankfully, more people today are aware of the mental damage this causes.
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  890.  @mcw8900  It's not funny. This is really damaging.
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  891.  @Nithinithinith  It's infuriating that people still don't realize that this is harmful to boys.
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  892. Apparently, he hadn't yet been charged with those crimes.
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  893. This got her in trouble, and rightly so. Are you that selfish?
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  894. Even though this isn't as bad as a case involving an underage boy (it does a lot of psychological damage), the video makes it clear that this is still wildly inappropriate.
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  895. I don't know what you mean by that.
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  896. No matter the sexes involved, this does a lot of psychological damage. If he's over the age of consent, that's not as bad, but there is still a power difference.
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  897.  @lucasfrank8843  And? Do you know why people, especially children but including adults, don't come forward?
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  898. Stop. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  899.  @DaniBlonde  Minors can't consent.
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  900. More exposure.
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  901. would *have
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  902. ?
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  903. That doesn't mean that it's harmless. Far from it.
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  904. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's being taken more seriously, and ignored less often.
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  905. No connection.
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  906. No. This is very harmful.
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  907. Heap? What does that mean in this context?
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  908. Not so. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  909. Thankfully, you weren't. People are often so afraid to come forward.
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  910.  @monicarenee7949 Even high school boys get harmed by this.
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  911. It's being taken more seriously, hence increased reporting.
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  912.  @steviegbcool  could *have
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  913.  @josephsharp5678  It's not more common. The reporting has increased as there's greater understanding of how harmful this is. Also, homes are often more dangerous than schools.
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  914. Thankfully, it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  915. You were a child. There's a reason why kids can't give consent. This sort of thing is very harmful to the boys involved. Also: would *have.
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  916. It is nothing new. It's just being acknowledged more often, rather than ignored/tolerated.
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  917. If anything, the world is a better place. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
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  918. No, you don't. This causes psychological damage. Men who have been through this often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries and consent, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  919.  @cmdrmonkey  This causes psychological damage. Men who went through this often have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships. They often have difficulty understanding boundaries, consent, etc. Do you want to legalize it?
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  920.  @wangathin  It doesn't matter. This is a terrible thing to do, and mental health professionals are clear on it.
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  921. It gets clicks, and this behavior is being ignored/tolerated less often.
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  922. Not funny.
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  923.  @SanS33  You are assuming facts not in evidence. There's no reason to believe that this has become more common. It's being ignored less.
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  924.  @Adastra011  This is a terrible thing. Pay attention to the video! The boys were unhappy about it, and this sort of thing often leads to lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  925. "Their?" Who are "they?"
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  926.  @jrodnanfelt  That isn't funny; in fact, it's disgusting.
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  927.  @lizardbruh  That has no relevance at all, although the Christian theocrats who vote Republican aren't very different.
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  928.  @hardlessons9732  There's no right place for molestation, and that's what this is. It's damaging. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  929.  @franciscomartinez514  This behavior is being ignored less often.
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  930. Teachers have done this around the world throughout history. Thankfully, there's more understanding of how harmful it is.
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  931. Silly. This isn't partisan.
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  932.  @soym1lf  Villi
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  933. *Principal
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  934. They're just predators, and it's nothing new.
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  935. They're being caught, and their actions are taken more seriously nowadays.
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  936.  @julielizabeth846  More people are more aware of how damaging this sort of thing is. It's swept under the rug less often.
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  937. We're hearing more about it as people take it more seriously.
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  938. It's just being ignored/tolerated less often. That's good.
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  939.  LittleCamper1980  Not over, but harmed for sure. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  940. It's not. Reporting always gives that impression about crime in general, and definitely with lurid stuff like this.
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  941. *you're
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  942.  @KitsuneBelle93  There's no need for the asterisks.
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  943.  @lucasfrank8843  What's your point?
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  944.  @droo3010  That's what grooming does. The harm often isn't visible until later, but it's definitely terrible.
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  945.  @sdraulitolito44  No, it's terrible. It's not awesome at all.
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  946.  @dobiacco  No feminist approves of this.
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  947. This is a terrible thing. It's very harmful.
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  948.  @Earthad23  Jealous? I think that you mean envious, and you're wrong either way.
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  949.  abor1males  Is that "college" as in "university?"
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  950. Because you were fortunate.
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  951.  @Because-qx3wr  This isn't funny.
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  952.  @veetour  There's no humor in this.
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  953.  @I_NoahGuy  Policing? There is nothing funny about this, not at all.
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  954.  @JudgeDredd_  There's nothing funny about doing this to a child. Would you have the same response if the sexes involved were different?
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  955. This sort of thing is very harmful.
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  956. It's infuriating, every time.
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  957. There is nothing lucky about this. It causes substantial psychological damage to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  958.  @MaxHardcore-p7t  Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
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  959.  @josephdegrazio2355  Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
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  960. There's nothing lucky about this.
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  961. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
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  962. The hosts of this video explain it.
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  963.  @christopherbako  Probably yes; this sort of thing is a terrible crime that does a lot of damage.
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  964. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This sort of thing really damages boys.
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  965. Some are perverts.
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  966. It's very harmful for the boys, but it often is hard for them to admit that at the time, precisely because of attitudes like yours.
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  967. For one thing, that has nothing to do with these allegations. For another, there is no increase. Only in recent years have enough people taken the harm of this behavior seriously, hence the increased reporting. Also, people are so bad at assessing risk- homes are more dangerous than schools, and keeping children ignorant is very dangerous!
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  968. So what?
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  969. ?
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  970. What's that supposed to mean?
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  971.  @justinusberger3933  You don't know that.
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  972. Note that, if you look at the numbers, police work isn't particularly dangerous.
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  973. This isn't "action."
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  974. I wish that we, as a society, would stop calling customers "guests."
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  975. Elsewhere. Did you not pay attention to the video? This does a lot of psychological damage.
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  976. This sort of thing causes substantial psychological damage, and attitudes like yours are part of the problem. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  977. It's just being reported more.
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  978. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting. That's a positive development.
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  979. I know the reference, but there's nothing nice about this. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  980.  @BlessedMomfmTexas  Not just teachers, either. Thankfully, it's getting talked about more.
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  981.  @dannyrivera8300  Yes, really. Listen to the words in the video!
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  982. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  983. It's not funny.
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  984. It's not funny.
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  985. How so?
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  986. *they're
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  987. It's just getting reported more, which is a good thing.
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  988. The power disparity was pretty wide.
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  989. Today's? There was much more tolerance for this sort of thing in the past.
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  990. There's no evidence for that.
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  991. Speak for yourself. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  992.  @m.g.2645  This crime, and someone's response to it, isn't funny. The latter is obviously atrocious, and the latter is understandable, but there's nothing humorous about the whole scenario.
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  993.  @m.g.2645  I don't know what that is.
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  994.  @scaramouche8244  Yes, it's a crime. Why do you ask?
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  995.  @cynicalmandate  Not so; normalization would involve ignoring/tolerating it, which is less common now.
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  996.  @BarrGC  Teens are kids.
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  997.  @timb7775  What do her photos have to do with whether or not this is a crime?
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  998. It's the second scenario. It's being taken more seriously. More people are aware of the damage it does.
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  999. It's not fully acknowledged that this sort of thing is really damaging, even to teens.
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  1000. It's nothing new. For a long time, women couldn't even be charged for such an act.
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  1001. Thankfully it's being acknowledged and exposed more often.
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  1002. There's nothing new here.
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  1003. Should *have
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  1004. Minors can't give consent, and there was a power imbalance. This is very harmful.
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  1005. That's disgusting, whether you say it about girls or boys. Minors can't consent.
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  1006. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1007.  @baxtermox6418  I hope that you're trolling.
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  1008. Attitudes like that are a big part of the problem.
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  1009. What does that mean?
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  1010. Predators aren't pretty.
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  1011. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1012.  @malcador  Attitudes like this just make it worse. He was victimized.
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  1013.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  That's perverse.
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  1014.  @Soooooooooooonicable  Being assaulted (and that's what it is) like this is nothing to gloat about.
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  1015.  @Bryan-od7nv  (My reply disappeared.) The point is that so many people think that this scenario is a good thing. It's absolutely terrible, and they need to know that.
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  1016. It gets clicks. There's nothing new here.
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  1017. "Not all blood is family," or perhaps "blood isn't necessarily family." "All blood ain't family" makes it seem like no "blood" is family.
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  1018. The stories are appearing because enough people are taking it seriously, finally.
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  1019. As it happens, the US is much safer now than in previous eras. Even though there's been an uptick in homicide during the pandemic, the rate is still much lower than it was between roughly the 1960s-early 1990s.
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  1020. It's not funny.
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  1021. Minors can't give consent. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  1022. Look at the data. Schools are some of the safest places for kids to be.
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  1023.  @eyestoseeearstohear9030  Yes, they are. See the data. It's not even close. Lurid reporting always distorts people's assessment of actual risk.
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  1024. That's beside the point. Note also that sometimes the trauma and damage only appear later.
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  1025.  @KittyNomNomKarnage  Indeed.
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  1026. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. You should be grateful.
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  1027. Not so. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  1028. I think that the credit is sane.
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  1029. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1030. These days? We're just talking about it more openly now.
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  1031.  @PatricioTheGreat It's nothing to laugh at.
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  1032. It's nothing new. They're just getting caught more often, as it's being taken more seriously.
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  1033. They're pervs, that's all.
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  1034.  @johnbarlow4572  Ok, but minors can't give consent. People over the age of consent are in a different situation, but this is really inappropriate all the same.
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  1035.  @HoldMyLatte-j1z  More coverage. People are taking it more seriously.
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  1036.  @iguanaassassin9893  *you're. Also, "mothers" doesn't need an apostrophe.
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  1037.  @iguanaassassin9893  That's one of the reasons why I don't use my phone for this, nor for a lot of other things. I do indeed have an argument; your comment lambasting women for independence has nothing to do with the legal system not protecting them.
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  1038.  @WeLuvTheBidenCrimeFamily  There was a spike in homicides during the pandemic, but things have since levelled off and declined. Lurid videos give an impression of reality that is worse than the facts. Now, are you referring specifically to youth crime? What does the data say?
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  1039. This is nothing new. We're just ignoring it less often. Also, would you say the same about, say, clergy?
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  1040. This sort of behavior does a lot of damage, and attitudes like yours don't help. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1041. Not at all. This is harmful.
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  1042.  @johns5263 The victims sometimes aren't the initial reporters, as they're afraid to come forward. It's not "taddling."
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  1043. We're talking about it more now.
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  1044.  @thegoblinsteed3558  Not funny. This causes a lot of harm. Do you wish that it was legal?
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  1045.  @Roseeeee11  In your opinion, should this be legal?
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  1046. What's that supposed to mean?
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  1047. That's not how it works.
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  1048. It gets clicks, and it's not funny.
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  1049. Thankfully this is being reported more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
    2
  1050. ?
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  1051. I know the reference, but it's not nice at all.
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  1052. That's so sad. It's a really harmful thing, and so many people don't understand that.
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  1053. They? What do you mean?
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  1054. Thankfully, it's being taken more seriously now.
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  1055. If you look at the actual statistics, juvenile delinquency rates are much lower than they were during the Crack Wars, and even earlier. Videos like this are very important, but they give a distorted picture. People almost always think that crime is worse than it actually is.
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  1056.  @jase4270  How could it not be disgusting?
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  1057.  @Bluesruse  This does a lot of harm.
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  1058. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1059. Some people are perverts. They don't do it out of inability to find an age-appropriate relationship.
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  1060.  @Mike-k5k1j  ?
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  1061. I'm glad that it's being taken more seriously. That's the reason for the increased prosecution and reporting.
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  1062. It's just being reported more often.
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  1063. Do the math. NYC has a ton of teachers, and these cases are spread out over several years.
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  1064.  @adamantium4797  There's nothing funny about this.
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  1065. That's why I love watching videos in which people play pranks on golfers.
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  1066. It's not new.
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  1067. There is nothing lucky about this. It causes substantial psychological damage to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  1068.  @kwazimokava *you're
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  1069.  @hypemaine9155  There's nothing funny about this.
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  1070. People always quote that. No, it's not nice.
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  1071.  @shanecharles4589  We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  1072.  @chuddlevideos  Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1073.  @johnbarlow4572  That's good for you, but that anecdote isn't broadly representative.
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  1074. ?
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  1075. It's not new. With more awareness comes more reporting.
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  1076. Thankfully, it's not more frequent. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  1077. This is nothing new. People are just taking it more seriously now.
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  1078. No, the luck is bad. This causes long-term psychological damage regarding healthy relationships, consent, etc. Yes, that includes boys. Do you want it to be legal?
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  1079.  @NickKautz  He was over the age of consent, but this is still wildly inappropriate, not least because of the power dynamic, conflict of interest, and much more.
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  1080.  @AlfredoBonds  Boys who've been through this usually go on to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. That's just one consequence. It's not an initiation, it's not "nice," and it's not at all healthy. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  1081. It's just being taken more seriously.
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  1082.  @sharong8511  Thank you!
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  1083. Not so. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1084. It's just getting ignored less.
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  1085. How so?
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  1086. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1087. Consider yourself fortunate. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1088. Minors can't consent.
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  1089. This hurts the boys involved.
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  1090.  @Anthony-dy5cq  It's often found that the boys don't talk about the harm until much later; they're unwilling to violate the macho way they're "supposed" to feel about it.
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  1091.  @max3eey  Why not? Minors can't consent.
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  1092. Yes.
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  1093. It's nothing new. We're just taking it more seriously. Also, you realize that this is a longstanding problem in private religious schools also, don't you?
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  1094.  @AngelWest58  It's not confined to public schools!
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  1095.  @kenpope5701  What makes you think that this is ideological?
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  1096. More perverts are getting caught/acknowledged.
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  1097. It's just getting ignored less.
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  1098.  @dandan7973  Did you pay attention to the video!? This is very harmful. Should it be legal?
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  1099.  @jmhockey150  That's different. You were an adult.
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  1100. Stop shouting.
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  1101. It gets clicks.
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  1102. Elsewhere. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1103.  @tes2bebe115  This causes a lot of harm to the boys involved. I shouldn't have to tell people this, but I do. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1104.  @dtquinn100  I hope that they're fine, but usually they are not. That's why it's a crime.
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  1105. Most of the time this is very harmful.
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  1106. Minors can't consent.
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  1107.  @GhastlyCretin  I was a 15-year-old boy too, but that makes no difference. This sort of thing is very harmful.
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  1108.  ORIGINAL_WTF  This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1109. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  1110. They were elsewhere, not doing this to you. Be thankful. It causes a lot of damage.
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  1111.  @jasminek5557  No, it's not new at all. Thankfully, there's a greater understanding of the harm this causes, so there's more reporting and less ignoring.
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  1112. This does a lot of damage.
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  1113. Partly, but also, it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  1114.  @suhsnow  It was worse, much worse.
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  1115.  @Coffee4Baby  Godless evil? The least religious places are usually the safest, and besides, violence was worse in the fairly recent past (look it up).
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  1116.  @wh0sjeff  Lead exposure in childhood, which is still a big problem in substandard housing, lowers IQs and greatly weakens impulse control. It's a major cause of crime.
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  1117.  @MajorChipHazard1  That's not true. The crime rate rose steadily from mid-century to 1990, and then the Great Crime Decline started. There has been an upswing in homicides during/after the pandemic, but it's still well below the peak.
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  1118.  @Artikulate-fd3eo  That's a reference to a Radiohead song.
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  1119.  @Lenasevilla-yb4ei  Not true. Look up things like the prevalence of lead exposure.
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  1120.  @michie-wt9lz  I don't know what comment you're referring to. What is/isn't something to be proud of?
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  1121. This is nothing new. We're just hearing about it more often. It's swept under the rug less often.
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  1122. "Lucky girls," "Niiiice," "Where were these teachers when I was in school," etc... I (thankfully) don't see such comments this time. How come?
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  1123. No, you would have been seriously harmed.
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  1124. Not funny!
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  1125.  @dentalcare1  How so? The data are clear.
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  1126.  @Chuassy  It does. The data are clear.
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  1127.  @lucashogan2912 No, it's true.
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  1128.  @nattyboop4  They were elsewhere, not molesting you. That's fortunate, as it would have hurt you.
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  1129. I'm glad that it's being taken more seriously, and thus getting exposed more often.
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  1130. It's not new. There's just more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  1131.  @trevors6379  One of the common results is that men who've been through this have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, etc. Sometimes boys feel harmed soon after the incident, and sometimes it only manifests later. Attitudes like yours are part of the problem, as they wonder why they don't feel good about it when so many people say that they should. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  1132. It's infuriating.
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  1133. There's nothing to laugh at.
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  1134. Minors can't.
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  1135.  @ajstevens1652  It's an important lesson for adulthood, and then there's the matter of consent with one another.
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  1136.  @lidelse666  It's nothing new.
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  1137.  @kostasvrionis781  It's nothing new.
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  1138.  @gangstadrz9326  Thanks!
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  1139. It's terrible either way.
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  1140. This is off the main subject (the crime!) but migrants of any status commit less crime than US-born citizens.
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  1141. @realityreviews2314 That's part of it, certainly, but it's very wrong to just blithely dismiss this by assuming that he lost his innocence anyway.
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  1142.  @MrSupersonic2012  Not at all.
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  1143. It's being reported on more often, as more people understand how harmful it is.
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  1144. There's more reporting nowadays, and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  1145. First, this kind of thing is very harmful. Second, speaking of teachers, I am unimpressed with whoever taught you English.
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  1146. Homes are more dangerous than schools are. This behavior is not new. There's more awareness today over how harmful it is, and so now there's more exposure and less "sweeping under the rug." That's a positive development.
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  1147. It's just being taken more seriously, and so it's being reported/exposed more often.
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  1148. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal? Biological reactions do not indicate consent.
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  1149. Apart, or a part?
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  1150. It's nothing new. People are taking it more seriously now, but sadly a lot of men seem to think that it's ok when women do it.
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  1151. Some people are perverts. In positions like this, they are able to abuse those over whom they have authority.
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  1152. You don't know what you're talking about. It harms boys just as it harms girls.
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  1153. There's more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  1154. DAs are prosecutors.
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  1155.  @Carl_McMelvin  Why?
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  1156. On the contrary, this behavior resulted in very little accountability until pretty recently.
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  1157.  @theyoutubeguy6  No, this happens because some people are predators. It's not more common.
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  1158.  @hydrillagorilla1193 Ok, but that's beside the point. There's a viral video ("Don't talk to the police") from about ten years ago in which a law professor explains the advice quite engagingly. Cops themselves tell their kids not to talk to the police in any context like this.
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  1159. It's not more frequent. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  1160.  @RILEYLEIFSON_UTAH  Did the subject of the film make money from it?
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  1161. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1162. It was much worse, not long ago.
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  1163. A certain percentage of people are perverts, unfortunately.
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  1164. "Lucky girls." "Where were these teachers when I was in school?" "She's the Big Woman on Campus now." "The only harm is from all the high-fives hurting her wrist." "Niiice." "She'll brag about this for the rest of her life." What? No? That's what we see when the accused perpetrator is female.
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  1165. There's no connection; there's nothing partisan about this sort of thing.
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  1166. No you don't. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  1167.  @w0rldv1raldaily  What does that have to do with anything?
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  1168. It gets clicks. Besides there was a male teacher in the news today (Escondido High School) for the same sort of thing.
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  1169. It's not a new thing. People are taking it more seriously (thankfully). Also: executed? What?
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  1170. It should, and there's nothing funny about this.
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  1171.  @anti-communist-cuban  Not funny.
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  1172. It's nothing new, but thankfully it's being taken more seriously now.
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  1173. There are a few videos showing escapes.
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  1174. It's just being reported more often.
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  1175. It's just you. There's nothing new here, just more reporting.
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  1176. I wonder if the who/whom error is admissible in court. (/S)
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  1177. That's nuts, and not funny.
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  1178.  @edwardrichardson5567  Where else could it come from? Don't give me a religious answer.
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  1179.  @MiguelDLewis  Truth, any truth at all, requires empirical evidence.
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  1180. 17:40... Those are some massive eye bags.
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  1181. This is nothing new. People are just taking it more seriously now.
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  1182.  @GreenMtWalker  All workers should have the right to organize. Well, not including cops and corrections officers.
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  1183.  @esils It's very harmful.
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  1184. Elsewhere, not molesting you.
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  1185.  @ShadowDemon17  No you don't.
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  1186. The self-censorship is infuriating. It makes me consider stopping the video.
    2
  1187. And such attitudes are part of the problem.
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  1188.  @edmunddantes7097  It's being reported on more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  1189. Please be more specific.
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  1190. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  1191. It's being ignored less often.
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  1192. Yes. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1193.  @johnbarlow4572  Gentleman never tells? I'm glad that they're coming forward! This is so harmful!
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  1194.  @crazychase98  *they're
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  1195.  @booklover6403  True, but it's "should have," not "should of."
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  1196.  @chiefnama790 ?
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  1197. @PopcatgamingYTDon't defend child molesters. Also: *you're.
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  1198. You don't know what you're talking about.
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  1199. There's nothing lucky about this. It does a lot of damage.
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  1200. There's nothing lucky about this! It's very harmful for the boys involved.
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  1201.  @eeriejig1522  I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1202.  @juniorgod321  You don't know what you're talking about.
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  1203.  @donshattered9826  Not funny.
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  1204. I love your icon! Fraggles forever!
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  1205. Not nice at all. This does a lot of damage.
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  1206. Don't talk to the police without an attorney!
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  1207. These kinds of stories get clicks. That's all.
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  1208. His parallel is more subtle than that.
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  1209. Thankfully, it's being ignored/tolerated less often.
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  1210. There's nothing partisan here.
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  1211. Ok, but please stop shouting.
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  1212. Stop praising child molestation.
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  1213. Some are perverts, and more are getting caught.
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  1214. It's being ignored less.
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  1215.  @Darron_Matsumoto  Do you have empirical evidence for that?
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  1216. should *have
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  1217. couldn't *have
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  1218. Some are pervs. That's all.
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  1219. It's just being reported more. Note that homes are more dangerous than schools.
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  1220. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  1221. Wisconsin is blurry! Also, that's not how "Minneapolis" is pronounced.
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  1222. Which is?
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  1223. Because you were fortunate. This behavior is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal? What about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
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  1224.  @DarthKater311  This isn't exactly a scientific sample. In any case, this reality reflects a lot of dangerous ignorance.
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  1225.  @thekeysman6760  I think that you mean "exclamation."
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  1226. It's getting more attention, as more people are aware of how harmful it is.
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  1227. It's a matter of consent. Fetal homicide laws were written with violent third parties, such as the perpetrator in this case, in mind.
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  1228.  @jannesasmith7950  Embryos and fetuses aren't children yet. Fetal homicide laws are written with violent third parties (such as the perpetrator here) in mind. It's a matter of consent.
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  1229.  @bobmarley5454  N? What do you mean by that?
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  1230. Not funny.
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  1231.  @kujo62  I know the South Park reference, but no, it's not nice. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    2
  1232.  @jorgejiminez-rk1uu  That's not exactly why, but this sort of thing often leads to serious difficulties in forming adult relationship, problems with trust, etc. It's a terrible thing to do to a kid.
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  1233. Yeah, and that sort of thing is a big part of the problem.
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  1234. There's more reporting, because more people take it more seriously.
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  1235. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  1236. Pay attention. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1237. It seems that he had not yet been charged with that crime.
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  1238.  @pa6786  And yet, they do. Thankfully, we're taking it more seriously.
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  1239. This has always happened, unfortunately, but thankfully we're ignoring it less often. Also, regarding education, see your third sentence- that's not how question marks work.
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  1240. Them? To whom does that refer?
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  1241. It's not funny. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1242. No, not every single time. Lots of people die while driving drunk.
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  1243. True, but thankfully it's being taken seriously and exposed much more than in the past.
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  1244. It's just being ignored less often.
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  1245.  DonnellxxOkafor Wrong.
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  1246.  @spacemanspliff7983 No, he's probably going to be damaged by this. That's what happens; it's been studied. You're defending child molestation.
    2
  1247. Not funny.
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  1248. They're all over these comments, and it's infuriating.
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  1249.  @sdraulitolito44  Stop.
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  1250.  @DaRa-86  If anything, the situation has improved. The attorney talks about how this sort of thing was not taken seriously for a long time. In fact, it wasn't even illegal (woman-boy) until recently.
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  1251. Minors can't consent.
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  1252. Yes, they are.
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  1253. This is nothing new. People are taking it more seriously, hence the increased reporting.
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  1254. Why? Lots of other states have much more crime (though I don't know the specifics about these sorts of crimes).
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  1255.  @s.g.b.808  I see a banana, a person, and a clown, but what's that first little picture on the left?
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  1256. Of course. These stories just get more views.
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  1257. Elsewhere. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1258.  @ChipMonk100  Not funny.
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  1259.  @ChipMonk100  Let's try it again: Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1260. I realize that the point of that episode is to demonstrate how this sort of thing is not nice at all, but people don't understand that.
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  1261. Why?!? She's already out on bond, if that's what you're referring to.
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  1262. It's nothing new. Thankfully, more people understand how awful it is.
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  1263. They do talk about that in this very video.
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  1264. It's just being reported more often.
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  1265. *their
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  1266. Most schools in the US don't have metal detectors. Also, some European countries are gun-friendly: The Czech Republic (aka Czechia), Switzerland, some of Scandinavia, etc.
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  1267. I am looking for them as well!
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  1268. I know the reference, but no, there's nothing nice about this. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1269.  @chrislane2030  I hope, but probably not. This does a lot of damage.
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  1270.  @viconichol  They probably will.
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  1271. Until proven guilty.
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  1272.  @Gamer2024-e5u  No, he is not. You don't know what you're talking about.
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  1273. What's so funny? There is nothing "classic" about this behavior.
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  1274.  @an-cx1ho  There's no evidence for any of that.
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  1275. It's just being ignored less often.
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  1276. This sort of thing is not new. Thankfully, more people are taking it more seriously. This behavior is being reported on more, and swept under the rug less often.
    2
  1277.  @papasquat355  Is this owner in any trouble? I haven't seen any indication of it.
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  1278. That's bad, but at least they weren't doing this sort of thing to you. That's much worse.
    2
  1279. Not necessarily. There are 911 calls of people in that situation.
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  1280.  @BarrGC  Not funny.
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  1281.  @Bailemos888  Even with the age of consent met, there's the power difference and conflicts of interest to think about.
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  1282.  @Lorenzconnok  Are you contradicting yourself in your last sentence?
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  1283.  @nah4215  Look at the numbers. Schools are much safer than, say, riding in cars. Most abuse to kids happens in homes (theirs or those of relatives/friends/etc.).
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  1284. It isn't new. Also, do the math, see how many students and teachers there are in this country. This is horrid, but it's bound to happen. Also: *whom
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  1285.  @jimlewis2395  Fad? No, it's nothing new.
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  1286. It's nothing new. It's just being acknowledged more often, and tolerated/ignored less often.
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  1287. This is not more common than in the past. It's finally getting talked about more. Also, the most dangerous place for this sort of thing to occur is at home.
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  1288. Why?
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  1289. They're safer, now that there's more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating. This behavior, and shootings, are extremely rare per capita. Don't live in fear.
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  1290.  @PoolsideData  There's nothing funny about this. Would you joke about a case involving any other combination of sexes?
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  1291. If anything, I'm glad that people taking this more seriously, hence more reporting.
    2
  1292. Don't talk to the cops without an attorney.
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  1293. No, you don't. This causes a lot of harm, and attitudes like yours make it worse.
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  1294. "Gooooooaaaaaaallllllll!!!!!!!"
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  1295. Why would they??
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  1296. There's nothing funny here.
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  1297. It's nothing new. If anything, since it's being taken more seriously, such behavior in many cases is being stopped rather than continuing indefinitely.
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  1298. These are, and there are of course more, but it's a tiny amount of the teachers in this country.
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  1299. If he's over the age of consent, that's not as bad, but there is still a power difference.
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  1300. Nothing new.
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  1301. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
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  1302. Not so.
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  1303. Statute, not statue.
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  1304.  @AreYouABadfishToo  Sadly, that's just one more thing that's contributed to the warped misunderstanding of situations like this.
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  1305.  @donttalkjustplay4274  Did you pay attention? This is very bad for minors, no matter the sexes involved. Should it be legal?
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  1306.  @Avenue77  You don't know what you're talking about.
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  1307.  @abumansaray7  You misunderstood. They definitely should be covered. The behavior isn't new, but thankfully it's getting more coverage now.
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  1308. Minors can't give consent. This sort of thing is damaging.
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  1309. No, you don't. This does a lot of damage.
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  1310. @CaleseCrowder86 These kinds of things are very harmful to the boys involved. It's not a positive initiation. I shouldn't have to explain this, but I do.
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  1311. @CaleseCrowder86 That is so hackneyed, and it's completely untrue. Mental health professionals, scientists, etc. all know that this kind of activity causes a lot of problems. It doesn't matter who is doing it to whom.
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  1312.  @JamieWoods00746  You don't understand, and they probably don't either.
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  1313. @charleswhite758 This is bad luck, not good.
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  1314. Don't speak to the police without an attorney.
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  1315. Some of them are pervs. Thankfully, people are taking this more seriously these days, thus the increase in reporting.
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  1316.  @TTvchannel11  It's not new.
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  1317.  @mikegutierrez7278  Anymore? Nothing has changed, except more people are taking this seriously.
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  1318. That has happened.
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  1319. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1320. That doesn't make a difference. This is molestation.
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  1321. Think of something original. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1322.  @rumrunner8019  Thank you for writing that.
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  1323.  @noobparty4282  Find something original. Also, please watch the video again, and pay attention in the first segment in which they talk about just how harmful this is to the psyches of minors. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1324. Sketch? I don't know what that means.
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  1325. Not funny.
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  1326. Elsewhere, not molesting you.
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  1327. The hosts explain why this is harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1328. The wrong kind, sadly.
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  1329. Schools are much safer than homes are. Also, private schools (religious or secular) are notorious for this sort of thing also.
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  1330. Homes are much more dangerous than schools.
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  1331. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1332. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1333.  @Sniperboy5551  That doesn't mean that it's not very harmful. It is.
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  1334. No, you don't. This does a lot of damage.
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  1335. It's nothing new. There's just more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  1336. People are taking it more seriously. It's not new.
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  1337. What's with the self-censorship?
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  1338. There's more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  1339.  @Dwayne-Mobile1  It really messed him up.
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  1340.  @SH3SS0CALIGIRL619  True. They separated shortly before her death, and he came to realize how awful the whole thing was.
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  1341. Stop. This is not new, there's just more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating. People are so bad at assessing risk.
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  1342. I'm glad that we're taking this kind of thing more seriously. It's very harmful.
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  1343.  @zlatanibile3869  Many men need to see it. I agree that it's annoying, but it's really important.
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  1344. Figuratively, not literally.
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  1345. Not at all.
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  1346. He didn't do that. Minors can't give consent.
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  1347. Has that come out in research studies?
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  1348. If anything, it's great to see that this behavior is taken more seriously than it was in the past, hence the increased reporting.
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  1349. It's just getting reported on more, and tolerated/ignored less.
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  1350. I know that it's a South Park reference, but this isn't nice at all.
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  1351. Stop. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1352. It's not funny, and it's nothing new.
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  1353. Nudity is funny, but this teacher's actions are terrible. No matter the sexes involved, this does a lot of psychological damage. If he's over the age of consent, that's not as bad, but there is still a power difference.
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  1354.  @briankenome  It's exasperating. This is harmful to minors, no matter the sexes involved.
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  1355. I know the reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  1356.  @meathead207  It's because you were fortunate. This is a terrible crime, and they talk about that in the video!
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  1357. This really hurts boys, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1358.  @chrisgullett4332  You don't know what you're talking about. In fact, more conservative elements are more likely to endorse double standards in cases like this.
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  1359.  @pogodaklown1  As a matter of fact, she may well have done just that.
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  1360.  @shannon1067  There's more knowledge of the damage done, hence more reporting.
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  1361. The same way as you should warn them about inappropriate behavior from adults in general.
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  1362. "Survivor" is often used as an alternative to "victim," as the latter is seen as negative towards those who have been assaulted. Also, this really hurts boys, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1363. There is nothing funny about this. It causes substantial psychological damage to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  1364. Homes are more dangerous than schools. Also, this is notorious for occurring in private, often religious, schools.
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  1365. There's nothing funny about this. It's terribly harmful, as made clear in the video. Also: "a lot of," "to," "their," etc.
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  1366. No, no. This is nothing new, it's just being ignored/tolerated/praised less.
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  1367. That has nothing to do with it. Conservative religious institutions (for example) are notorious for this.
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  1368. Minors can't consent. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  1369.  @jessesalinas8534  Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
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  1370.  @Larry_atta45  I know the reference, but no, this is not nice. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
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  1371.  @angelroman3487  Get some new material. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
    2
  1372.  @amitansampath6783  Attitudes like yours are part of the problem. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal? Also: would *have.
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  1373. There's nothing funny here.
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  1374.  @RcPlayer-tt2vw  Yes, it would have been harmful, partly because of attitudes like yours.
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  1375.  @TOPHITTA463  Thankfully, we're hearing about them now. It's nothing new.
    2
  1376. Stop shouting.
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  1377.  @EZ_Case What rules?
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  1378.  @EZ_Case I once was one. No, minors can't give consent to adults. They don't have the maturity.
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  1379. Men are predators far more often, but thankfully people are paying more attention to female predators.
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  1380. It's not new. We're hearing about it more often because it's being taken more seriously.
    2
  1381. It's being talked about more.
    2
  1382. That's not funny.
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  1383. Except that's not her body. She was preying on someone else's.
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  1384.  @GardeningGems  Those are all people with power, or who have already established trust, and they are definitely found among abusers. Unfortunately, it mostly happens behind closed doors in the home of either the immediate family, extended family, friends of the adults, etc. They have even more power.
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  1385. Elsewhere, not molesting you.
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  1386. This isn't new.
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  1387. Some people are pervs. Thankfully, this behavior is getting ignored/tolerated less often.
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  1388. It's the former. There's no reason to believe the latter.
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  1389. True, and that's terrible.
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  1390. Kids are in much more danger at home. More to the point, you know that this goes on at private schools as well, and in certain settings it's a severe, longstanding problem. Also, speaking of education: *their.
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  1391.  @chilltarts  No, there's nothing new here. We're just taking it more seriously now.
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  1392.  @CNSTAdventures  No. @BonBon is right.
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  1393. It's not funny. This sort of thing really damages the minors involved.
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  1394. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1395.  @Stokey1  Men, I think.
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  1396. "Sin addiction?" "Devil?" Silly.
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  1397. This is terrible. It causes a lot of harm.
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  1398.  @413.  That's not how it works. Do you apply that sort of reasoning to other crimes?
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  1399.  thefactsarethefactswithjam4518  Yes, but that's an adult woman. There's a world of difference.
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  1400.  @DiMaggio82  Anecdotes aren't data.
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  1401. That's not funny.
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  1402. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
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  1403. The latter.
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  1404.  @zonzogonzo1427 You don't know what you're talking about.
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  1405. How is this political?
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  1406. It's a bit more subtle than that.
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  1407. There's nothing to shrug at here. It's a terrible thing to do.
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  1408.  @katherinebattle3780  A lot of men are saying that, as usual (read the comments)! Also, what does feminism have to do with this?
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  1409.  @snapmalloy5556  Unfortunately, if you look at the comments, more than a few men are praising the teacher. They're even using the tired lines mentioned in the video!
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  1410.  @Augfordpdoggie  Men who have been through this usually go on to have serious problems forging healthy relationships, along with other psychological problems. Mental health professionals make it clear. Are you suggesting that this sort of thing should be legal, with differing ages of consent depending on the sexes involved (Man-boy, woman-boy, man-girl, woman-girl)?
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  1411.  @Augfordpdoggie Also, 18 is not even close to being late.
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  1412. This has always happened, but we're talking about it now. Also, clergy are notorious for this, and religious institutions are notorious for covering it up.
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  1413. We're just talking about it more.
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  1414. It's nothing new. More people know how harmful this is, and thus it's swept under the rug less often. That's a positive development.
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  1415.  @katarinasimoncicova4766  Minors can't give consent.
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  1416. You don't understand grooming.
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  1417. Not at all. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, and so on. Do you think that it should be legal? What about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy scenarios?
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  1418. You didn't dream about girls your own age? This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
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  1419. It isn't as bad as a case under the age of consent, but it's still inappropriate, as they make clear in the video.
    2
  1420. It gets clicks.
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  1421. It's being reported on more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
    2
  1422. @@boombapV Teen pregnancy (if that's what you are referring to) has dropped like a brick since the early 1990s.
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  1423. Don't talk to the police without a lawyer.
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  1424. This is not OK! It's really harmful.
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  1425. @@realityreviews2314 You don't know what you're talking about. It's damaging.
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  1426. It's just getting ignored less.
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  1427. It's just being reported more. Also, homes are more dangerous than schools.
    2
  1428. What are mids?
    2
  1429. That, and it's being taken more seriously these days.
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  1430. There are a few of them here. I am so tired of that crap. This really hurts boys.
    2
  1431. This sort of thing damages boys. Don't let it slide.
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  1432.  @nekemli2622  Both, and people are indeed showing empathy & sympathy for the boy.
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  1433. Homes are far more dangerous than schools are.
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  1434. It's as old as time. More people know how harmful it is.
    2
  1435. Thank you!
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  1436. It's nothing new. It's just perverts doing what they do.
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  1437. It's not funny. Male prisoners of the worst sort get love letters as well. It's twisted.
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  1438. This isn't a new phenomenon.
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  1439. "Hey you kids, get off my lawn!"
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  1440. You don't know how grooming works. Also, minors can't give consent.
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  1441. Note that police work isn't very dangerous.
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  1442.  @stookla4942  Of course I did. Look at the statistics.
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  1443. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1444. They're just pervs.
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  1445.  @rudiklein  Not funny. Watch it again, at least the first few minutes, and pay attention.
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  1446.  @16watch  Those factors don't have any bearing on whether or not someone is a pervert.
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  1447. No, you don't. This is a terrible crime that does a lot of damage.
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  1448. I realize that that's a South Park reference, but there's nothing nice about this at all. It does a lot of harm, and you would know this if you were paying attention to the video.
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  1449. How so? People are finally taking this behavior seriously.
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  1450.  @riseoftheace4683  Your anecdote is beside the point. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1451.  @lmg4293  You don't know what you are talking about. This has been studied, and it's a very harmful thing.
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  1452. There's far more danger in homes, among family friends, etc. People are so bad at assessing risk!
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  1453. There's no connection. See how often this comes up in, for example, conservative religious circles.
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  1454. @MicheleKalina704No, it's damaging.
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  1455. They were elsewhere, not doing terrible things to you, and this is a terrible thing. It causes a lot of harm.
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  1456. The latter.
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  1457. Not so. Riker's Island is full of people in horrible conditions who haven't even had hearings yet. Sing-Sing and plenty of other prisons are as active as ever. The fact is that people, especially a lot of men, don't understand that it's really harmful when women do this to boys.
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  1458.  @JudgeDredd_  Yes, as a matter of fact. Do you not understand why that's a serious problem?
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  1459. This is nothing new. I'm glad to see that more people recognize how harmful this is, and so we hear about it more often.
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  1460. It's being reported more, and ignored less.
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  1461.  @BlitzinMackGaming  It's not funny. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1462. Nothing new. Thankfully, this sort of thing is finally being confronted.
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  1463. There's nothing nice about this. (Yes, I get the South Park reference.) It causes a lot of psychological harm, no matter the sexes involved. Do you want to legalize it?
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  1464.  @dirty2jz283  *you're
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  1465. We're just ignoring it less often.
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  1466. Do you seriously want to be with a woman who does this to minors? This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  1467. No, this usually results in the opposite.
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  1468. What do you mean by that?
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  1469. I wondered if I was the only person who thought of that.
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  1470. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This sort of thing is very harmful.
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  1471. Nor to the football coach (I'm referring to Penn State).
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  1472. Women are mostly condemning this!
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  1473.  @nickythekidd5517  It most certainly is a crime, and rightly so!
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  1474.  @2FLY-gs1qt  Not so. This does a lot of damage.
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  1475.  @filmtheory783  It might help if you learned how to use punctuation.
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  1476. There's nothing lucky about being molested.
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  1477. She was elsewhere, not molesting you. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    2
  1478. I realize that that's a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice about this.
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  1479. True, but at least it's taken more seriously now. Also: "saw," not "seen."
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  1480. The name is "Johns," not "John." There's an "s" on the end.
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  1481. Now? The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  1482. Homes are more dangerous than schools are.
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  1483.  @lauridykstra8684  Nothing has changed. People are just taking this more seriously now.
    2
  1484. This sort of thing is terrible.
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  1485.  @InBreadDragon  That's not true. This is very harmful, but do you think that it should be legal?
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  1486.  @ZEEZob  They're just getting caught now.
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  1487. It's getting more attention. It's nothing new.
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  1488. This isn't a case of being laid. It's molestation.
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  1489. I think that you're being disingenuous.
    2
  1490. This is a terrible thing.
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  1491. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  1492. Your anecdote isn't data. Most boys are harmed by this. Your second example is irrelevant; you were an adult.
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  1493.  @charlestaylor3434  These kinds of things are usually very harmful to the boys involved. It's not a positive initiation. I shouldn't have to explain this, but I do.
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  1494. That has nothing to do with it. They're just pervs. Also, it's not funny.
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  1495. Huh?
    2
  1496. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
    2
  1497.  @briankenome  Thanks, and I hope that you're doing okay.
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  1498. It's not new. More awareness means more coverage.
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  1499.  @RcPlayer-tt2vw  This sort of thing is very harmful. It's not funny.
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  1500. It's being ignored/tolerated less often than in the past.
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  1501. There's nothing funny about this.
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  1502. Not to mention "Reality Winner."
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  1503. Boy makeup?
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  1504. It isn't. It's just being ignored less.
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  1505. I'm childfree, but not for this reason. This sort of thing is extremely rare. Lurid reporting gets clicks.
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  1506. It's nothing new, but it's taken more seriously now.
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  1507. Minors can't give consent. He was groomed.
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  1508.  @johnbarlow4572  Minors can't give consent. These women are groomers.
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  1509. That's rather paranoid.
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  1510. I know that that's a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  1511. You don't seem to know how this kind of thing works.
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  1512.  @shanetoro4705  There's nothing funny about this.
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  1513. @dacrosber No, it's terrible. The sexes should learn to interact as much as possible.
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  1514. That sentence no verb.
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  1515. You would prefer women be weak and dependent?
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  1516. Don't defend child molesters.
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  1517.  @stevenhill3136 This is child molestation. Molested children are victims.
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  1518. The luck is bad. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    2
  1519. Things like that song only fuel the misperception that this sort of thing is good for boys.
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  1520.  @lovemytide45  That's exactly the point. Whenever a woman does this to boys, there are countless comments saying that sort of thing. It's infuriating, as adults doing that to minors, no matter the sexes involved, usually causes long-term difficulty in forging healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. That's at minimum! Yes, that includes all of those "hot for teacher" cases, and all the others involving a woman and a boy. I'm tired of the aforementioned reaction.
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  1521.  @alexauer3697  Victims of such crimes take a long time to come forward. Do you not know that?
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  1522.  @irishamerican4558  No, luckily for you.
    2
  1523.  @davidchosewood647  This is a terrible thing no matter who it is.
    2
  1524. Their actions were being ignored, covered up, etc.
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  1525. "Lucky girls!" "Where were these pastors when I was that age?" "Who snitched?" "That's every girl's dream!" "There's no victim here!" You know, that's the sort of thing that people say when women do this to boys.
    2
  1526. That's not funny.
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  1527. Some are pervs, unfortunately. Thankfully, we take it more seriously today.
    2
  1528. People are taking this behavior more seriously now. That's a positive development.
    2
  1529. It's exasperating.
    2
  1530. Unfortunately, there are a great many comments like that. I have been pushing back.
    2
  1531. The majority of such abuse happens either with family members or family friends. People are so bad at assessing risk. Kids are very safe at school.
    2
  1532.  @miap2122  This behavior is not on the rise. Thankfully, there's more acknowledgement of the harm that it causes, and less ignoring/tolerating.
    2
  1533.  @denise8791  It's nothing new.
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  1534.  @Augfordpdoggie No. This damages the students.
    2
  1535. This is not political.
    2
  1536. Said generation is actually better-behaved then their predecessors, in general.
    2
  1537. "Million-to-one shot, Doc! Million-to-one!"
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  1538.  @just_another_brick_in_the_wall  Or just more aware of what does a lot of damage.
    2
  1539. The odds were definitely in your favor, whether or not you were emancipated. NYC has a vast number of teachers, and these cases are spread over several years. It's terrible behavior, but yes, nearly all teachers would never do this.
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  1540.  @stephengrahn9361  These cases were swept under the rug, since, as they discuss in the video, the harm wasn't well understood.
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  1541.  @DamageControlLLC  There is nothing partisan here.
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  1542. *HIPAA
    2
  1543. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    2
  1544. There's nothing funny here.
    2
  1545. This is not new.
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  1546. It's not funny. (Maybe this is a case of not being able to discern tone on the internet.)
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  1547. It gets clicks, and the pervs are getting caught more often.This behavior is taken more seriously now.
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  1548. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  1549.  @JesusIsKing0fKings777  You don't know what you're talking about. This is very harmful, and attitudes like yours don't help.
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  1550.  @Scorpionauto  Minors can't give consent, and it's really harmful when adults do this to children, no matter the sexes involved. Also: Would *have.
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  1551.  @4wheeldrivegunner  For the longest time this sort of thing wasn't really investigated, just swept under the rug if it was noticed at all.
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  1552.  @pattibramley3911  And it always has.
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  1553. Not just the West; anywhere where this sort of thing is extremely rare and (correctly) seen as despicable.
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  1554. True, but this is nothing new.
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  1555. Florida Woman, indeed.
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  1556.  @ryancox7155  That's severely inappropriate. Minors can't give consent, and they aren't the ones manipulating adults. That's especially true when adults are in positions of authority.
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  1557.  @Adastra011  On the contrary. Have you ever looked into this? Were you paying attention to the video?
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  1558.  @Adastra011  Ok, so you're claiming that several boys are all telling very similar falsehoods. For what reasons? Where do you get this idea?
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  1559.  @bootscooty  They're special ed students. That's important. Also, why does the woman's appearance matter?
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  1560.  @badkarma1262  He was a child! This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    2
  1561. They're perverts, like any adults who do that to children, no matter the sexes involved.
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  1562.  @Philljag  There's only bad luck here. This causes a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal? Also: should *have.
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  1563.  @Philljag  You don't have a serious answer.
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  1564.  @gaylehudson7267  They might be citizens, although that's off the subject.
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  1565. You didn't pay attention to the video, did you?
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  1566. It gets clicks. There's more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
    2
  1567. This sort of thing is finally being ignored/tolerated less often.
    2
  1568. Rectum? I barely knew 'im! (Old joke, sorry.)
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  1569.  @Cloud-9_C9  We have an adversarial system in this country. That means that it's the defense's job to make the state prove the case beyond a reasonable doubt (in a criminal trial). If the state can't, then the result is expected to be an acquittal. (By the way, very few criminal cases go to trial; something close to 90% result in plea bargains.)
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  1570. I realize that this is a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice here.
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  1571. Because they were decent people.
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  1572.  @emloufox  The latter.
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  1573. I'm not sure if you're trying to be funny, but in any cse this is terrible. It does a lot of harm.
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  1574.  JustMatty2023  Unfortunately, it is.
    2
  1575.  @Who_attackedFirst  It's bad for both of them.
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  1576. Elsewhere, and that's lucky for you. This causes a lot of damage with understanding healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, and so on.
    2
  1577. Unfortunately, too many men don't understand how awful it is.
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  1578. That's beside the point. It's the same affliction that male perverts have.
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  1579.  @LisaAnn777  Not so. He knows what's real and what is not.
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  1580. Thanks for using the correct term, at least in the title. This was assault.
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  1581. I don't think that you have a cite for that (obviously). You're being disingenuous.
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  1582. Nothing here is funny. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1583. They were elsewhere, not doing this to you. Consider yourself lucky, as this does a lot of damage.
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  1584. Minors can't give consent, and that's on top of their educator/student relationship.
    2
  1585. There's nothing lucky about this.
    2
  1586. It's nothing new.
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  1587.  @alphamanga3213  That's part of the problem.
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  1588.  @shanefsr6609  Not if he's a decent man who cares about his son.
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  1589. They're just pervs.
    2
  1590. Happy cases?
    2
  1591. What does that have to do with anything?
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  1592. Some are perverts, and more are getting caught.
    2
  1593. That's horrible.
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  1594.  @psycomutt  There is no difference. This is harmful to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl.
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  1595.  @psycomutt  You have to draw the line somewhere. Also, consider their power relationship.
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  1596. *you're
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  1597. Why not?
    2
  1598. Not at all.
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  1599. This sort of thing is thankfully highly unlikely, and thankfully we're not ignoring it as much as we did in the past.
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  1600. So had he died, or just been injured worse, would that be "God" saying "no, I won't protect him this time."
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  1601. Stop. They got molested (allegedly), and that's very harmful.
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  1602. Not funny.
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  1603. @@realityreviews2314 It's harmful.
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  1604. Why?
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  1605.  @mironricardo  It's commonly used, as it gives the people who got assaulted more agency. It's more positive than "victims."
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  1606. @@_Decadent_Descent Lawmakers, ideally using the advice of doctors/therapists/etc., made these laws.
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  1607.  @kcob643  So should you, as the word is "proofread."
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  1608. A lot of men seem to think that boys do. It's exasperating.
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  1609. That might come.
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  1610. It's not very dangerous work, in the big picture.
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  1611. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl, and yes, woman-boy. Men who've gone through this usually have long-lasting problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. If you are one of those people who think that this sort of thing is so great, "nice," or anything like that, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1612.  @iwanaGoFast2010  Once again: This causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Men who have gone through this frequently have long-term problems forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, etc. Do you think that it should be legal? How about woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl?
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  1613. There's nothing funny about this.
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  1614.  @carlosmacmartin4205  It's not funny. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1615. It's getting ignored less often.
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  1616. What are you talking about?
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  1617.  @susanwilson7894 ??
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  1618. What do you mean, "standard?" This happens all over the country.
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  1619.  @nativeamericancowboy5028  That's hopefully not true, but that's beside the point anyway. This is molestation, and it's damaging no matter the sexes involved.
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  1620. Minors cannot give consent, and this sort of thing does a lot of harm. Attitudes like yours are part of the problem.
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  1621. That's coppers for you.
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  1622. You're being ridiculous.
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  1623. People always invoke that, but the fact is that this isn't nice at all.
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  1624.  @diamondem  That's good to know!
    2
  1625. ?
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  1626. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do people praising it think that it should be legal?
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  1627. Speak for yourself. Some of us know how awful this is.
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  1628. A stunningly terrible person.
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  1629. *you're
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  1630.  @anthonybourdon4642  Don't praise molestation.
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  1631. That's not true. This does a lot of damage. Do you want to legalize this?
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  1632. This is child molestation.
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  1633.  @shalashaskashinkawa3985  It's very harmful. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  1634. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  1635.  @Kobe-m7w  R Kelly got bail in 2019 and 2020. That's pre-trial release; that's what bail/bond means.
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  1636. How so? They make it clear in the video that this was terrible for him.
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  1637. The luck is bad. This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
    2
  1638. ??
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  1639.  @SirHumphrey498 Not at all. Most people don't click to see all the replies to a given comment, nor any of the comments.
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  1640.  @nicolasjaramillo430  No, you don't. This does a lot of damage.
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  1641.  @Derek-no8fu  No, it's not nice at all.
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  1642.  @SXI96  It's not funny.
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  1643. People take it more seriously, so it's being tolerated less.
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  1644. That's irrelevant.
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  1645. I know that this is a South Park reference, but in any case, it's not nice at all.
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  1646.  @laylaal9742  Not at all. This is very harmful.
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  1647. That's not true, thankfully. There's been an upswing in homicide rates during/after the pandemic, but even those rates are well below the peak from around 1990. The rates of most kinds of crime have stayed flat, or even declined. It might be different regarding shoplifting, but there's the matter of sensationalist reporting to consider.
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  1648.  @karimamin2 That's not true. Look at the data. Republican-dominated states have the highest crime rates; note also that the most dangerous parts of California (for example) are Bakersfield and Fresno, both GOP-dominated.
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  1649.  @Elcappgguod064  Stop. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1650. Kids are in much more danger at home, in a variety of different ways including this one.
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  1651. Courageous? How so?
    2
  1652. This behavior causes psychological damage, no matter the sexes involved.
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  1653. There's more prosecution & reporting, thanks to people taking this behavior more seriously. It's not new.
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  1654. Me too, albeit for different reasons.
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  1655. They censored the best part, as usual.
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  1656. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1657. It's not funny.
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  1658. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1659. Child molestation is not funny.
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  1660. Minors can't consent. Also, what if the sexes were reversed?
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  1661.  @I_NoahGuy  It just makes it worse when people praise adults doing this to minors.
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  1662.  @pinbraid *you're
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  1663. It was much worse during the Crack Wars. We just didn't have things like YouTube.
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  1664.  @tes2bebe115  The women in this video make it clear that it's harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1665.  @KahlessTheUnforgettable  Did you pay attention to the video!? This is psychologically damaging. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  1666. It's nothing new.
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  1667.  @timoooo7320  He was below it. Also, their teacher-student relationship causes a conflict of interest that's very wrong.
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  1668. It's not funny. Thankfully we're ignoring this less often.
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  1669. It's much more dangerous at home.
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  1670. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1671. What does someone being a "person of faith" matter?
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  1672.  @Sidthedentist  The commenter is correct, legally speaking.
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  1673.  @crazychase98  *you're *parties
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  1674.  @ifeelbetterabouthis.louis3  ?
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  1675.  @malasi888  I'm not sure what you mean by that.
    1
  1676. That's Florida Man, all right.
    1
  1677. It gets clicks.
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  1678. Homes are far more dangerous than schools are. This behavior is extremely rare per capita.
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  1679. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1680. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
    1
  1681. Not at all. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1682. A certain percentage are pervs.
    1
  1683. We're hearing more about it because more people are taking it more seriously.
    1
  1684. There was no love here. Anything he did beforehand makes no difference.
    1
  1685. There's better understanding about how harmful this is, hence the increased prosecution & reporting.
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  1686.  @MjrNiGhTmArE  On the contrary. This sort of thing wasn't even considered a crime until recently. As you can see from the comments, too many people still don't understand.
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  1687. Molestation is no laughing matter. @steverandle9276 
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  1688.  @imupinthetrees  That's off the subject. She's a child molester.
    1
  1689. Thankfully, it's being taken more seriously now.
    1
  1690.  @Fenrir.Gleipnir  It happens. Sadly, it has always happened between adults and children. At least we're taking it more seriously now, hence the more common reporting.
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  1691. I wonder if I will see any comments here calling the girl lucky, saying that she got to live every teen girl's dream, that the only damage was due to high-fives, that there is no victim, or that this is "niiice." I wonder if any women will ask "where were these teachers when I was in school?"
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  1692.  @breezeh1127  In any event, it's terrible. My comment is a reference to the way that so many men react when this situation involves an adult woman and an underage boy. It's infuriating.
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  1693. They aren't throwing everyone in jail.
    1
  1694. You were fortunate.
    1
  1695. Predators are worse than bad, they're terrible.
    1
  1696. We hear about it more often because more people are taking it seriously.
    1
  1697.  @qtpi333 It often takes years for them to admit it. There's a stigma to not living up to these ignorant expectations.
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  1698.  @fateofthefearlesss  That's not necessarily true. Criminologists have a lot to say about this.
    1
  1699. It's not new. Thankfully, it's taken more seriously, and there's more reporting.
    1
  1700. It gets clicks.
    1
  1701.  @Elcappgguod064  This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1702. There's nothing lucky about this. It's very harmful.
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  1703. Not at all (South Park reference or otherwise).
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  1704. Because they were decent people. Consider yourself lucky.
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  1705. First, that's not what karma is. Second: Internet Tough Guy!
    1
  1706.  @andrewlemons4552  I'm not, as a matter of fact.
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  1707. There's no connection. Some people are just pervs, and she's one of them.
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  1708.  @viconichol  Any adult who preys on a child is very ugly.
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  1709. They're much safer than they were in the past. We're not hiding this sort of thing as much as before.
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  1710. Cut it out. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1711. Elsewhere, not molesting you. Did you watch the video?
    1
  1712. Not at all, South Park reference notwithstanding.
    1
  1713. This is nothing new. It's just taken more seriously now, and that's a positive development.
    1
  1714. It's being tolerated/ignored less often.
    1
  1715.  @bigc8300  Not funny.
    1
  1716. This is a terrible thing to do to a child. It causes lifelong damage, yes, including in situations like this.
    1
  1717.  @Cuzlightyear03  Not funny.
    1
  1718. Especially in Utah!
    1
  1719. That's not true; we're hearing about it more often because it's taken more seriously.
    1
  1720. ?
    1
  1721.  @dixztube  That doesn't make it more acceptable.
    1
  1722. Thankfully, people are taking this sort of thing more seriously.
    1
  1723. Nothing is funny about this.
    1
  1724.  @goose7574  *you're
    1
  1725. Elsewhere. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1726. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  1727.  @davidbarnes4742  A good time by molesting children?
    1
  1728.  @EarthwalkerEst ?
    1
  1729. That's a terrible thought.
    1
  1730.  @pats4dawin106  Nobody should trust you on this, as you weren't even paying attention to the video. Watch it again, and listen. In fact, in this case, some of the boys were disturbed by this situation from the beginning! Mental health professionals make it clear that this sort of thing does a lot of psychological damage, including longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. Then they get older, look at people currently at the age they were when this happened, and get even more disturbed. Attitudes like yours just make it worse. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1731.  @seattlewa8500  That too.
    1
  1732. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  1733. Think of something original. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, etc. It doesn't matter what sexes are involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-boy, or woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1734. Stop shouting.
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  1735. It's not new.
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  1736. Police work isn't very dangerous, all things considered.
    1
  1737. Sparkling wiggles? What does that mean?
    1
  1738. Because she's a pervert.
    1
  1739.  @Mateoski97  Don't female perverts, just like male equivalents, commit their crimes due to their disorder, not because of outside influences?
    1
  1740. Not necessarily. Still, it looks bad.
    1
  1741.  @dscott_  This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1742.  @Stabsnipers  It does matter in a situation like this.
    1
  1743. The laws vary greatly between countries in Europe.
    1
  1744. This happens all over the country.
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  1745. Elsewhere, and thus not doing this to you. You're lucky. This is very harmful.
    1
  1746. It's not new.
    1
  1747. *lose. He had a lot to lose! Minors can't consent. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1748. That's not how apostrophes work.
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  1749. I hope that you're an adult.
    1
  1750. It's not new. We're just ignoring it less.
    1
  1751.  @kertarneaud4475  There are outraged women in these comments.
    1
  1752. I'm not sure, why?
    1
  1753.  @darkvenom1697  Yes, as is the boy here.
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  1754.  @ericdraven7185  You are correct. However: *you're.
    1
  1755. It's bad luck. This is very harmful.
    1
  1756. ?
    1
  1757. That's not funny.
    1
  1758. *loses
    1
  1759. She's sick and twisted. Such considerations are less important than fulfilling her disgusting lusts.
    1
  1760. This is off the subject, but S&M, BDSM, etc. are hardly new!
    1
  1761. I know that it's a South Park references, but no, this is not nice at all. It does a lot of harm.
    1
  1762. Not one bit. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  1763.  @kevinhornbuckle  No, but so what?
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  1764.  @lucashogrefe8811  "A part," not "apart."
    1
  1765.  @captaincrunch7944  Say it now. Also: *you're.
    1
  1766.  @Ron898  The power difference creates conflicts of interest, among other things.
    1
  1767.  @prometheusadept  And? There are more sciences than just biology.
    1
  1768. This cop needs speech therapy.
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  1769. She's just a pervert, and it's terrible. It's no different for any combination of sexes.
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  1770. I know the reference, but it's not nice at all.
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  1771.  @yoloswaggins1579  It wouldn't be better at any age. This causes a lot of psychological damage to minors, no matter the sexes involved.
    1
  1772.  @J_Braz_  That's very different from this!
    1
  1773.  @timb7775  It's hideous.
    1
  1774.  @stevengallant6363  Lots of people (the West Memphis Three come to mind) have been interrogated for murder despite not having committed it.
    1
  1775.  @lesleyhughes3174  You're being dangerously naive.
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  1776.  @zeeshawn15  Read about the West Memphis Three and you will hopefully change your mind.
    1
  1777. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1778. The description does not seem to match the video.
    1
  1779. What do you mean by that?
    1
  1780. That's because more people are taking it more seriously.
    1
  1781.  @everythingisfine9988  Attitudes like yours are part of the problem. This causes a lot of psychological/psychiatric harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. If you think it's so great, should it be legal?
    1
  1782. Would *have
    1
  1783. You assume too much.
    1
  1784. We're paying more attention.
    1
  1785. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1786. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1787. There's nothing funny here.
    1
  1788. Stop shouting.
    1
  1789. It's not a new thing.
    1
  1790. That's quite a voice.
    1
  1791. Her appearance makes no difference. She and her husband groomed the boys!
    1
  1792. Who, the molester?
    1
  1793. No, it's necessary to say that for legal reasons.
    1
  1794.  @SuperBoomshack  True, and beside the point.
    1
  1795.  @SuperBoomshack  You've completely missed the point.
    1
  1796. It's being ignored more and ignored less often.
    1
  1797. Hardly. The double standards persist in a lot of places.
    1
  1798. It's worse to sweep this behavior under the rug, or just ignore it, which was the usual course of action for so long.
    1
  1799.  @shanecallaghan3200  Not funny.
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  1800.  @cprophetu  It's not a choice per se, as minors can't give consent.
    1
  1801.  @waldowaldo9863  This isn't funny.
    1
  1802.  @StarAngel0833  It's not funny.
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  1803.  DONNELLO  You don't know what you're talking about. You're fortunate to not have been in such a situation.
    1
  1804.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  Why not?
    1
  1805. People are taking this behavior more seriously now.
    1
  1806. If said teens do anything similar to this guy, trigger-happy Chicago cops will open fire.
    1
  1807. Don't be fooled by sensationalist reporting.
    1
  1808. I understand that it's a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice about this.
    1
  1809. That would be Ghislaine Maxwell.
    1
  1810. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's being swept under the rug less often.
    1
  1811. You're an outlier, and attitudes like yours make this situation worse for most of the victims/survivors.
    1
  1812. We don't know his status.
    1
  1813. That's part of the problem.
    1
  1814. True, but fewer than before. Seriously, look at the data.
    1
  1815. It's infuriating. However, I love your username.
    1
  1816. Don't talk to the police without an attorney. Also, that's not how "Iraq" is pronounced.
    1
  1817. Gym Jordan!
    1
  1818. There's more publicity now.
    1
  1819. Exactly. It's infuriating.
    1
  1820. It did. Thankfully, it's being ignored less often. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1821. We're ignoring it less.
    1
  1822. That's not how one should pronounce "Bexar."
    1
  1823.  @nayanpanchal39  Not so.
    1
  1824. They very well could be Asian; I don't know about Wisconsin, but Asian-American gangs are nothing new.
    1
  1825. You don't need the asterisk.
    1
  1826. This is not partisan.
    1
  1827. Terrible.
    1
  1828.  @grizzlyscalp9506  Homes are more dangerous than schools. Also, those Zoom classes were not ideal!
    1
  1829.  @JoeseeHsusje  Pervs' relationships don't obviate their twisted desires.
    1
  1830. Don't talk to the cops without a lawyer.
    1
  1831. You have a typo at 1:20.
    1
  1832. *you're
    1
  1833. Hardly.
    1
  1834. In this case, it's bad luck. This does a lot of damage.
    1
  1835. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
    1
  1836. Not at all. This is very damaging.
    1
  1837. It's not a new development.
    1
  1838. And? They're perverts.
    1
  1839. ?
    1
  1840. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  1841. It's not an exact science, according to 911 calls from such situations.
    1
  1842. It gets clicks. There's nothing new.
    1
  1843. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1844.  @kaineandrews3790  No offense intended, but you are being naive.
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  1845.  @kaineandrews3790  See The West Memphis Three, among other cases.
    1
  1846. There's nothing lucky about this; it's very harmful.
    1
  1847.  @Real100Talk  That's a non sequitur inasmuch as we don't know the status of the people in this video.
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  1848.  @christinemcnally8887  Stop shouting.
    1
  1849. Stop shouting.
    1
  1850. Migrants, no matter their status, commit fewer crimes than US-born people.
    1
  1851. This isn't ideological.
    1
  1852. No you don't. Those women were elsewhere, not doing these things to you. It's harmful, no matter who it is.
    1
  1853. It's nothing new. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's taken more seriously now.
    1
  1854.  @AlbertHess-xy7ky  A few anecdotes aren't data. It's not right to say that because a few minors (including girls) don't feel negative effects, this behavior is thus not terrible.
    1
  1855. You were fortunate.
    1
  1856.  @Miss.831  Shouldn't *have
    1
  1857. More people are taking this sort of thing seriously. There's less "sweeping under the rug," and thus more reporting.
    1
  1858.  @Sectrix2pp  It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal.
    1
  1859.  @KahlessTheUnforgettable  Not funny. This is terrible. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal.
    1
  1860.  @seanfnmichael  There is nothing funny about this. Did you pay attention to the video?
    1
  1861. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  1862. ?
    1
  1863.  @Albert_cough-man  That's not a rebuttal.
    1
  1864. would *have
    1
  1865. Not funny.
    1
  1866.  @AdamKniedler  No, crime is usually worse in GOP-run states. Compare/contrast New England with the Deep South.
    1
  1867.  @truecrimefacts4786  Anywhere in Scandinavia.
    1
  1868.  @mightymouse1005  *synopsis Synapses are very different!
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  1869.  @moonagedaydream-ohyeah  Obviously. It's completely off the subject, but I happened to notice the near-axiomatic assumption that she was sweet. It doesn't change anything if she wasn't, but I think that you know what I mean.
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  1870. That's not funny.
    1
  1871. There's nothing funny about this.
    1
  1872. Some people are pervs. That's all.
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  1873.  @jeanettesmith765 No, it's just that this sort of thing is being ignored less.
    1
  1874. She doesn't want a man. She is a perv.
    1
  1875. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    1
  1876. Not funny.
    1
  1877. People are taking it more seriously, hence the increased reporting.
    1
  1878. Don't do it anywhere with a minor!
    1
  1879. It's not new.
    1
  1880. That's not funny.
    1
  1881. This isn't funny. Would you be happy if a teacher did this to your son?
    1
  1882. It's just getting ignored less often.
    1
  1883. There is thankfully less tolerance for this sort of thing.
    1
  1884.  @redxfingernails  Cat cat cat?
    1
  1885. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  1886. You assume too much.
    1
  1887. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's getting taken more seriously today.
    1
  1888. Thankfully it's being taken more seriously, hence the increased reporting. It's very rare per capita. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
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  1889.  @JacobBitner  What, envious of people getting molested?
    1
  1890. Because you were fortunate.
    1
  1891. Why are you laughing!?
    1
  1892. This specific matter probably shouldn't be a factor, since girls don't poop.
    1
  1893. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1894. It's a very big problem to have. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1895. What do you mean by that?
    1
  1896. It did occur. People just take it more seriously now.
    1
  1897. A bad life, unfortunately. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1898. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This is very harmful.
    1
  1899. They're just perverts.
    1
  1900. These days are thankfully much safer than recent decades were. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't be cautious.
    1
  1901. Not funny. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1902. You didn't. This sort of thing does so much damage.
    1
  1903. It was bad luck. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    1
  1904. *you're
    1
  1905. Stop uptalking!
    1
  1906. 18-year-old criminals are very common, and were even more common during the Crack Wars.
    1
  1907.  @ElmoNOLA  Bleeps?
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  1908. People are taking it more seriously, hence the increased reporting.
    1
  1909.  @aliasteward9366  Isn't adult-child activity in the Bible without opposition? This sort of behavior is not new, but more people realize how harmful it is.
    1
  1910.  @aspiringvoiceactor645  That's silly.
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  1911. Any ticket/citation can be challenged in court.
    1
  1912. What myths are these?
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  1913.  @ike.o6944  Not funny.
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  1914. It gets clicks, and it's being ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  1915. Her appearance makes no difference.
    1
  1916. Perhaps you should do some research.
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  1917. He was a child! This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1918. They're just perverts.
    1
  1919. Thankfully, increased focus is leading to more reporting.
    1
  1920. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1921.  @GTek-ew1wh  *you're
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  1922. *prejudiced There's a "d" on the end. Also, it's nothing to laugh at.
    1
  1923. should *have
    1
  1924. They're perverts & predators.
    1
  1925.  @mombythec  This sort of thing was ignored/tolerated/deliberately swept under the rug for a long time.
    1
  1926. W?
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  1927. Society isn't crumbling. For the most part, the Great Crime Decline that began around 1990 is still with us. Don't let lurid media stories fool you.
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  1928.  @lmamon  That's a helpful Spanish lesson (I am serious), so here's an English lesson: you're right, should have*, *their partner.
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  1929.  @lmamon  You're trying to have it both ways.
    1
  1930. What's with the prevalence of asterisks these days?
    1
  1931.  @adamantium4797  We're just hearing about it more often.
    1
  1932. He's a victim/survivor coming forward.
    1
  1933. The luck is bad. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1934. Female chomos do get targeted, but I haven't heard about that happening to Ghislaine Maxwell.
    1
  1935. If anything, it's great to see that more people are taking this behavior more seriously. It's swept under the rug less often. That's a positive development.
    1
  1936. Once again, I see someone in the comments praising the teacher. Thus, I have to say: This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  1937. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video.
    1
  1938. It's not a relationship, it's predation. When boys speak up about what/s being done to them, they often aren't taken seriously, thanks to attitudes like yours. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  1939. I don't understand. Are you trying to say that this shouldn't be a crime?
    1
  1940. Not funny. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1941. Dual, not duel. The latter would indicate that he was fighting a duel with someone.
    1
  1942. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1943. At least we're talking about it more, although these comments are full of perverts who think that it's a good thing.
    1
  1944. We don't know his status.
    1
  1945. Homes are more dangerous than schools are.
    1
  1946. The pervs are getting caught now, and it's being ignored less often.
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  1947. That's what grooming does. Also: "a part," not "apart." Those are opposites.
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  1948. They're just pervs, like men who do the same thing.
    1
  1949. Or man-boy, or woman-girl.
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  1950. It gets more clicks.
    1
  1951. Easy?!? This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1952. CA has a large prison population, so it looks like there is accountability of a sort. Also, regarding "Third World," CA ranks very well in most quality-of-life measures. Its problems are serious, but the population is mostly better off than in a lot of other states.
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  1953. You don't know what you're talking about. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  1954. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  1955. It's as old as humanity, pretty much. More such women are being caught, and the crime is being taken more seriously.
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  1956. No! Children cannot give consent. This is harmful to boys.
    1
  1957. I know the reference. The point is that this behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  1958. This sort of thing is not taken seriously enough, although awareness of the harm done has thankfully increased.
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  1959. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
    1
  1960. What do you mean by that?
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  1961. It's nothing new.
    1
  1962. *whose
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  1963. I'm more concerned about the victim/survivor. These women are predators, just like the men who do this.
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  1964.  @nixwestlake9196  It gets clicks.
    1
  1965. It's not an exact science, according to 911 calls from such situations.
    1
  1966.  @BrianButterworth-s4z  That has happened.
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  1967.  @G_GO0NO  Of what?
    1
  1968. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  1969. Did you just have a stroke?
    1
  1970. More reporting is what's happening, thanks to a greater understanding of this problem.
    1
  1971. Once again: It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  1972.  @Brainjoy01  That's ridiculous. Patriarchy implicitly (and sometimes explicitly) empowers men to have their way with teen girls (and younger!). Progressives have always challenged this sort of thing. The one caveat here is that some leftist elements have challenged the concept of ages of consent. That is disparaged today!
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  1973. Them?
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  1974.  @texastoast5202  Who would that be?
    1
  1975.  @texastoast5202  Say it. Humor me.
    1
  1976. It's not an exact science, according to 911 calls from such situations.
    1
  1977. The headlines make it seem that way.
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  1978. The reports are appearing more often. That means it's being ignored less often than in the past.
    1
  1979. That's terrible.
    1
  1980. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  1981. One hundred out of a huge district, spread out over several years. It's ghastly, but not as bad as it seems.
    1
  1982. It's just being ignored less often.
    1
  1983. I'm glad that these comments aren't full of men thinking that the boy was lucky.
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  1984. It's not funny.
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  1985. 24:10 "Head had been decapitated" is redundant, I think.
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  1986. This is molestation, and it's very harmful.
    1
  1987. They're just pervs, like too many men.
    1
  1988. Which is what? You seem to want to discuss it.
    1
  1989. Note that, if you look at the stats, police work is not very dangerous.
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  1990. Not at all. This is nothing new; thankfully people take it more seriously, hence more reporting.
    1
  1991. Even if you're an adult, it's not good to be attracted to someone who sexually assaults children.
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  1992. Among other things.
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  1993.  @JustSomeGuy69420  He was one of her students.
    1
  1994. @@realityreviews2314 That's a very false equivalence.
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  1995.  @JustSomeGuy69420  She's a special ed teacher, and he was one of her students, if I recall correctly.
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  1996.  @user-tk1lf5hi6f  I don't know specifically.
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  1997. Desperate? They were groomed! Also, yes, she definitely got busted, although many people are advocating for longer sentences.
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  1998. I realize that you're making a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  1999. Elsewhere. Watch the video. They make it clear how damaging this is. Also: *they're.
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  2000. It's just being ignored less.
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  2001.  @johnbarlow4572  The harm usually emerges later on. Psychiatrists and psychologists try to explain this.
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  2002. They were.
    1
  2003. It's because they're twisted perverts.
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  2004. Not so. (Yes, I know that's a South Park reference.)
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  2005. Such as?
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  2006. True. The greater reporting/acknowledgement is a positive development.
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  2007. It's not funny. I know that you have "Jk" there, but: This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl, and yes, woman-boy. Men who've gone through this usually have long-lasting problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. If you are one of those people who think that this sort of thing is so great, "nice," or anything like that, do you think that it should be legal?
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  2008.  @TH3R3EALTRUTH45  That's a relief.
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  2009. Figuratively, not literally.
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  2010. It's not new, but people take it more seriously now.
    1
  2011. ?
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  2012. Not funny. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2013. Pay attention to the video. This is a terrible thing.
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  2014. Children can't give consent, and this kind of thing is very harmful.
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  2015. It's nothing new. This behavior is just being ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  2016.  @ShadowDemon17 *you're
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  2017. I don't know what the age of consent is, but it is beside the point. The power differential alone makes this very wrong. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2018. Except this is highly unequal.
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  2019. Not at all.
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  2020.  @bigthunder7002  If anything, it was more common when it was tolerated/swept under the rug, etc.
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  2021.  @ryanfraser167  True. (Also: *you're.)
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  2022.  @TightyWhitieTrash  Juvenile delinquency is actually less common now. Among other things, teen pregnancy rates have dropped like bricks. A big part of this is due to socializing online!
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  2023. Some people are pervs, that's all.
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  2024.  @bonphone4222  It's not very dangerous.
    1
  2025. You don't know what you're talking about. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2026.  @moscasucio1686  You don't know what you're talking about.
    1
  2027. It's harmful, often causing lifelong problems with relationships, among other things.
    1
  2028.  @RodHayward  Hopefully someone would report her in that case.
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  2029.  @Carl_McMelvin  There is nothing lucky about this! This sort of thing causes a lot of harm, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2030.  @Carl_McMelvin  It's not lunacy. It's the truth. Do yourself a favor and spend a few minutes looking into this. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2031. That's not funny. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  2032. 32:48 Stop uptalking!
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  2033.  @Mina.15  She hit her head in a skiing accident. She got up, seemed fine, went on with her day, and then died either later in the day or the day after.
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  2034. What's that supposed to mean?
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  2035.  @IslandGirlKelly  Why?
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  2036.  @honestyisadyingvirtue  "No True Scotsman..."
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  2037.  @kertarneaud4475  would *have
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  2038.  @Psilo-gn1sx  Never mind all that. Children can't consent. There are no dots to connect.
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  2039. No, this is terrible. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2040.  @reggiebanksrb10  If it's (in your opinion) so food for boys, why shouldn't it be legal?
    1
  2041. There's nothing new about this.
    1
  2042. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  2043. Nightmares.
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  2044. Why?
    1
  2045. Get some new material. This isn't funny. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2046.  @ZeroSpawn  No, not at all. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2047.  @coldtruth17  Not funny.
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  2048. No, it's just that the tolerance for this has lessened.
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  2049.  @TM-173 Did you listen to the audio? He's not an immigrant.
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  2050. Why do you think he's not from the US?
    1
  2051. Keep in mind that the "Daily Fail" is not exactly reliable. Also, I was under the impression that she was pretty popular, as she taught Pilates and yoga to the inmates.
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  2052. What country, and why!?
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  2053. Saw, not seen.
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  2054. He violated her consent, so obviously the charges are appropriate. However, and this is off the subject, there's no harm in not being born.
    1
  2055. Speak for yourself. Also, and this is the point, this really damages the boys involved.
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  2056. We're finally talking about this more, but unfortunately there are too many idiots like the people in these comments who don't understand how awful this behavior is.
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  2057.  @andrewlemons4552  I still want to know what that phrase means.
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  2058.  @andrewlemons4552  It's difficult to keep up with all the slurs.
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  2059.  @andrewlemons4552  Not so.
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  2060. Why does it matter that she was a cheerleader?
    1
  2061. This is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  2062.  @ncapalot14 *you're
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  2063.  @suhsnow I wouldn't say that.
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  2064.  @ryanc9888  It was worse in the past.
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  2065.  @KAye633  You Tube communities?
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  2066.  @LordRone  She's hideous, like all predators.
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  2067.  @JudgeDredd_  It's important.
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  2068. Grooming.
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  2069. Minors can't give consent.
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  2070. Minors can't give consent. Don't defend this awful behavior.
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  2071. Not per capita. Also, religious types are always talking about morality, being scolds, and then get caught doing this.
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  2072. It gets clicks.
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  2073. They're pervs, just like any adult who does the same thing.
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  2074.  @Uncle_john_skydives What makes you say that?
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  2075.  @juancarlossilvamolina What's so funny?
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  2076.  @pmccoy8924  If you look at the relevant laws, you will often see "close in age" exemptions for this sort of thing. Also, it's not a matter of "should."
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  2077.  @lucashogan2912  No, I am correct. Mental health professionals make it clear. Are you saying that this behavior should be legal?
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  2078.  @Rachel-tx3rs  Are you serious? A teacher, any adult, has a position of power over a minor. The onus is not on the minor to put a stop to the assault! That's true in any such case, no matter who's involved.
    1
  2079. It's not on the rise. There's greater understanding of the damage done, hence the increased reporting.
    1
  2080. Was anyone seen entering the building with Katie?
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  2081.  @kwazimokava  *you're
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  2082. Stop. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2083.  @katrabbit  That's not what "physiological" means.
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  2084. I get the reference, but no, this isn't nice at all.
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  2085. They do sometimes get targeted for assault. Apparently, however, that has not happened to Ghislaine Maxwell.
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  2086. Stop this. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2087. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new. That's what's going on.
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  2088.  @hippopotamusanonymous1580  There's no evidence for that.
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  2089.  @AdrielCrespo787  It would be harder to catch these people.
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  2090. Seen? Saw.
    1
  2091. What's the connection?
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  2092. You want to be with a woman who does this to minors? This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2093. What does that mean? Which?
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  2094. More child molesters?
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  2095. Why?
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  2096. There is no connection.
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  2097. They're being caught more often, and ignored less often.
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  2098. It's nothing new. It's just being ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  2099.  @wilE6764 Not funny.
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  2100. You pulled that out of nowhere.
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  2101.  @brian_m.  Educated how?
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  2102. Not so. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
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  2103.  @diegomachado9752  You don't know?
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  2104. Not nice at all.
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  2105.  @janeroberts1354  There's more coverage thanks to greater understanding.
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  2106.  @GoodCitizen1300  I see your pun, but no, it's not funny.
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  2107. That sort of thing does not help.
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  2108.  @rickreallylikedthevideobut7899  I'm not sure what that has to do with anything.
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  2109.  @ljfacil  No, I was wondering what Forrest Gump has to do with anything.
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  2110.  @Gius_13  What's so funny? What comment are you referring to?
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  2111. There's nothing funny about this.
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  2112.  @melca3162  They're pervs. They don't want men, they want boys. It has nothing to do with "pulling."
    1
  2113. It's not funny.
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  2114. Did you hear the end? This is extremely rare. Thankfully, we're hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously.
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  2115.  @Frogg_music  Yeah, it has taken too long to learn/accept that this is harmful.
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  2116. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  2117. Why are they exempt?
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  2118.  @twirlyturd4364  I know the South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  2119.  @gingyberrie  This isn't partisan. It's only recently that enough people have become aware of how terrible this behavior is, and there's less ignoring/tolerating it. You know about conservative institutions like the Catholic Church, right?
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  2120.  @Gmny1MOA  It gets clicks.
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  2121.  @yaadasshows  It's nothing new. If anything, you should be less scared, inasmuch as this behavior is being taken more seriously now.
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  2122.  @johnn.6726  There's more accountability now, bit by bit.
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  2123.  @EaglesFan989  Nothing is funny here.
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  2124.  @EaglesFan989  Lighten up regarding someone doing this to minors?
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  2125.  @coryskizm  But what's the connection?
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  2126.  @bruceyoung565  I hope so, but most of the time this behavior causes a lot of psychological damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2127.  @Sandman-zk7mf  Should it be the same for man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl? Keep in mind that the power relationship here makes things even more troubling.
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  2128.  @ba1038  Yes, as a matter of fact, that's what happens. Men who have been through this often face long-term, even lifelong, problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal? How about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
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  2129. The only luck here is bad luck. This causes a lot of harm, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2130. There's nothing lucky about this.
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  2131.  @DodongoManoof  Not at all.
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  2132. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  2133. There's nothing new here. People take it more seriously these days, hence the reporting.
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  2134.  @nathanielbables8652  People keep claiming that drag queens are a threat to children.
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  2135.  @javiermartinez8809  You don't know what you're talking about.
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  2136.  @AbbaLovesUs  Demons don't exist.
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  2137.  @KrisPcracker  How? More conservative, even reactionary elements are those who think that woman-boy activity is no big deal, even praiseworthy. It wasn't considered a crime for a long time.
    1
  2138. The creator of COPS regrets doing so.
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  2139.  @sally_686  He has said that he wishes he had never created the series. YouTube comments with links tend to disappear, but if you Google it, you will see what I'm talking about. The same is true for similar programs.
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  2140. They're just perverts. That's all.
    1
  2141. ?
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  2142. Hardly. If anything, I am glad to see that more people are taking it more seriously. Thus, we see more reporting.
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  2143.  @jessesalinas8534  You're disgusting. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
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  2144.  @Veracityseeker7  Said book is replete with terrible stuff.
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  2145. Yes, inasmuch as this sort of thing is taken more seriously and swept under the rug, less often.
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  2146.  @Zuna492  No one wants to be a victim. What are you trying to say?
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  2147.  @thomism1016  Yes, it's absolutely nothing new. Even with male predators, they're still ignored, swept under the metaphorical rug, etc. That used to be the norm by far. With women, too many people don't even recognize that female predators exist, or that it's wrong when they do it to boys.
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  2148. This does a lot of harm.
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  2149.  @BenjaminFitzwallace  I don't know what you're trying to say. Also, stop shouting.
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  2150. I know that it's a South Park reference, but no, this is not nice at all. It causes a lot of harm.
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  2151. There's more awareness these days (thankfully).
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  2152. Type?
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  2153. *you're
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  2154.  @ItzzCommon  ?
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  2155. In fact, it's great to see people take this behavior more seriously, hence the increased prosecutions and increased reporting.
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  2156. Stop shouting.
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  2157. The worst? No, that would be the death of Elisa Izquierdo.
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  2158. Are you saying that you want to be with a woman who does this to minors? This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  2159.  @playa3615  There's no party involved here.
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  2160. There's nothing nice about this.
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  2161. Why the laughing face?
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  2162. This is very harmful.
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  2163. How come? Did you pay attention to the video? Should this be legal?
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  2164. It's being ignored less.
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  2165. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
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  2166. If anything, women condemn this behavior more than men do. There are fewer "lucky kid" comments this time around, but even so, that's the reaction from so many men, every time.
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  2167.  @theyoutubeguy6  One can't prove a negative. However, look how this behavior, by anyone (mostly men), was swept under the proverbial rug/tolerated/ignored for so long. It's only recently that there's been any accountability. Thus, there's no reason to think that this sort of thing has become more common. All these reports are showing that more people are taking it more seriously.
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  2168. Why? This really damages boys.
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  2169.  @baldanders8717  What's with the spelling: "g3ndered?"
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  2170.  @moto3463  That's completely beside the point.
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  2171.  @baps511  Ok, but that's beside the point.
    1
  2172. ?
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  2173. Find the data, please.
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  2174.  @jamest1148  Or Denmark, or Iceland?
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  2175.  @Kirbystare1992  This sort of thing was tolerated much more often in the past.
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  2176. @CaleseCrowder86 Minors can't give consent.
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  2177.  @anthonymaughan6103  Be glad for that.
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  2178.  @00zero11b  It's not about offense, it's about damaging children. That's what this does.
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  2179.  @Murphys_Law9  Elsewhere, not doing this to you. Be grateful.
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  2180.  @rare_wulf9358  No, the pain comes from what is done to the kids. This does a lot of damage.
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  2181.  @Netizen_101  The story is that, if true, she molested him, and that's terrible.
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  2182. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
    1
  2183. That's not funny.
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  2184. Elsewhere. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2185.  @atoaustin7168  Not funny. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2186. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  2187. No connection.
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  2188.  @outtaideas6974  That too!
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  2189. I know the reference, but no, it's not nice at all. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2190. She's a child molester (if guilty).
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  2191. The video explains why it's highly inappropriate, although it doesn't cause the same psychological harm that it does to underage boys. She's in trouble, and rightly so. I wouldn't feel lucky if I got laid and someone got in trouble.
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  2192.  LittleCamper1980  Brag?
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  2193. It gets clicks. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  2194. Anyone who does this to kids is extremely ugly.
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  2195.  @mawi1172  No, the sick people are the ones who react the way I described. It's virtually always men who say that sort of thing. Read it again.
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  2196. No such thing.
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  2197. He was also a military veteran who got discharged after a TBI.
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  2198. Far more kids are harmed at home than at school.
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  2199. Crime was actually much higher then, peaking in around 1990.
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  2200. Predators. No apostrophe.
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  2201.  @CN45475  Probably not per capita.
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  2202. This really hurts boys, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  2203.  @enhancedutility266  Also, male coaches get busted not infrequently.
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  2204.  @maxmanx1294  It's easier for them to get caught, and more people are taking it more seriously.
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  2205.  @Tenso-lh3tm  Still a minor.
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  2206. It's not new. People are just paying more attention.
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  2207.  @somnuswaltz5586  There's nothing silly about defending molestation.
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  2208. Elsewhere, not molesting you. Consider yourself lucky.
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  2209.  @sr2291  Be thankful that they were elsewhere.
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  2210.  @somnuswaltz5586  I'm a straight male, and I know that this behavior does a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2211.  @xiexie2506  Per capita, it's very rare. Few people are this type of perv.
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  2212. It's nothing new. We're just hearing about it more, since people are taking it more seriously.
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  2213. Elsewhere, and thus not molesting you. This is very harmful.
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  2214.  @houghlee  That doesn't matter. A kid's dreams do not make something less harmful, and this is very harmful.
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  2215.  @Cappadonna72  It's not funny. This does a lot of damage.
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  2216.  @aegisreflector1239  A juvenile dream doesn't prevent this from causing serious harm.
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  2217.  @thors136  What makes you think that the dreams of a boy that age dictate whether or not something is harmful?
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  2218.  @benhart777  It causes a great deal of damage no matter the sexes involved.
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  2219.  @skyecommander2169  That's beside the point.
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  2220. Why? This causes lifelong harm.
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  2221.  @tonetoni8110  It's not funny. This hurts people for the rest of their lives.
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  2222.  @LarryDavid.blochain  Based in perversion and ignorance.
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  2223.  @benhart777  Very bad luck, in fact.
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  2224. Some people are pervs. It has nothing to do with any other relationships in their lives.
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  2225. TN
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  2226. Wanted? She's the adult. Minors can't give consent.
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  2227. Some people are pervs.
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  2228. They wouldn't work on such a case, as that's a conflict of interest. Defense attorneys are supposed to advocate for their client's best possible outcome.
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  2229. Unfortunately. Things like that song fuel misconceptions about this kind of behavior.
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  2230.  @LeopardJoy  Sure thing!
    1
  2231. That's silly.
    1
  2232. Think of some new material. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  2233. Schools are very safe. This behavior is nothing new, it's just being reported on more and ignored/tolerated less often. People are so bad at assessing risk! Kids are in far more danger in homes, whether involving relatives or family friends.
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  2234. Is he not a citizen?
    1
  2235. Homes are more dangerous than school. Re: teachers, the prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
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  2236.  @keyshells1  Minors can't consent.
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  2237.  @sxckpyr24  It shouldn't have been anyone.
    1
  2238. Which is?
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  2239. This kind of thing causes psychological damage, often in the form of being unable to form healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. Do you want to legalize it?
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  2240.  @cmdrmonkey  Get some new material. You don't know what you're talking about. Do you want to legalize this?
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  2241.  @JR-Rollin  Were you of age? Was there a relationship between you that could cause a conflict of interest?
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  2242.  @sav3429  It's not funny.
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  2243. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  2244. NYC has a huge number of teachers, and this is spread over a number of years.
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  2245. You don't know that.
    1
  2246. You've missed the point. This sort of thing does a lot of harm.
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  2247.  @iiyyxxnn  You don't know what you're talking about. At least you're not an adult saying the same thing.
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  2248.  @moscasucio1686  That's not how it works. Even in cases where the victim isn't groomed, most don't report the assaults immediately. Reactions like yours are part of the reason why. Also: would *have.
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  2249.  @realemonful  On the contrary. You don't. This is very harmful. Do you want to legalize this behavior?
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  2250. Not funny.
    1
  2251. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  2252. Nah, angels don't exist.
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  2253. What, Kentucky?
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  2254.  @hanphilnoffz8827  Wait... what? What made you think that I was implying anything of the sort? That seems like the opposite of what I wrote. Also: *you're.
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  2255. That's irrelevant. Minors can't give consent, and it's very harmful when adults do this to them, no matter the sexes involved.
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  2256. Wy are you laughing?
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  2257.  @sav3429  There are "close-in-age" exceptions. This is different.
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  2258.  @Candy_Bull  There's no reason to think that it's getting worse. If anything, I'm glad that it's being taken more seriously, with less "hot for teacher" talk.
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  2259.  @joelarmour  It still causes substantial psychological harm.
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  2260. Listen to the first attorney. People are taking this more seriously. That leads to more prosecutions, and more reporting.
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  2261.  @MoneyMan28  There are fewer male teachers, but they (and coaches!) get busted as well.
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  2262.  @jesseerickson662  It gets clicks.
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  2263.  @ElusiveEyes  There is it again. You saw a news story, and you got the wrong impression. It has always gone on, but it's only now being taken seriously. Cal593 is correct. Do the math. Also: *you're.
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  2264.  @israel3538  No, you're seeing an uptick in reporting. It gets clicks, and the algorithm feeds it. That, and it's taken more seriously these days.
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  2265. Minors can't consent. He was groomed and blackmailed. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2266. Nothing. This behavior is being taken more seriously.
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  2267. How is it worse? It's terrible no matter the age.
    1
  2268. ?
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  2269.  @dustygatrell-ru7tg  This is completely off the subject, but all deities are imaginary. Also, I think that you mean "gal." Girls are children.
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  2270.  @JudgeDredd_  ???
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  2271.  @nicolasjaramillo430  It's bad luck, and very harmful.
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  2272. Grooming.
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  2273. This isn't more common. We're finally talking about it.
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  2274. Elsewhere, not molesting you, thankfully.
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  2275.  @kjb2218  No. This sort of thing is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  2276. It's not new. This is being taken more seriously now. If anything, that's an improvement in society's morals.
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  2277.  @pinkskincanthandlethesunlight  This crime is being taken more seriously. That's an improvement in morals. For a long time, woman-boy was not even considered a crime.
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  2278.  @brandonmitchell7436  No feminists support this behavior. Why do you think otherwise?
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  2279.  @jasonbertalotto2355  It's a moral improvement that people are taking this behavior more seriously, rather than ignoring it, or sweeping it under the proverbial rug.
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  2280. There's nothing lucky about this! It's really harmful.
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  2281. The hosts make it clear that this is very harmful to minors, no matter who is involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2282. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  2283. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  2284. A city with a huge number of teachers, and this is spread over several years. Also, it's being exposed and taken more seriously these days, and that's a great development.
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  2285. There's no connection.
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  2286.  @ryshellso526 Internet Tough Guy! At least I hope that's what you are.
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  2287. This behavior does a lot of damage. Do you want it to be legal?
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  2288. Does the "1488" in your username mean what I think it does?
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  2289. What are "dang filters?" (Commas change so much!)
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  2290. There is nothing partisan about this sort of thing.
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  2291. They're just perverts & predators, like the men who do the same thing.
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  2292.  @i_ruined_it_screwyou42  Desperate? They're pervs.
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  2293.  @retiredtidepodeater3339  Minors can't give consent.
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  2294.  @w0rldv1raldaily  They're minors. They're preyed upon, not the other way around.
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  2295. True, but that's not new.
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  2296.  @johnbarlow4572  First, the odds of getting shot are tiny. Second: *their.
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  2297. Schools are very safe. Statistically, they're much safer than the ride to/from school, not to mention just being at home!
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  2298.  @johnbarlow4572  Indeed!
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  2299. It gets clicks.
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  2300. You're being silly.
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  2301.  @mecharidley  Yeah, I've noticed that no one is praising the teacher for "making women out of these girls," asking "where were these teachers when I was in school," and so on.
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  2302. @B977e What does that have to do with anything?
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  2303. It's nothing new. We're hearing about it more often because it's tolerated less often these days.
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  2304. Blessings? This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  2305. It's not new.
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  2306. It's being taken more seriously now, and thus we're seeing all this new reporting.
    1
  2307. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2308. Explain.
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  2309.  @szybake9629  Of course, but kids need a chance to develop without being under the parental eye/thumb. That's not just true regarding peers, but also it's often a good thing to for kids to have other adults to talk to besides relatives. The strictest parents make the sneakiest kids.
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  2310. Yeah, but "Latino" can mean several generations in the US, in fact, for a lot of people in CA/AZ/NM/TX the border crossed them!
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  2311. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  2312. It's not new. It gets clicks.
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  2313. A certain percentage of adults are perverts.
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  2314.  @sdraulitolito44  This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage. There's nothing lucky about it. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2315.  @tes2bebe115  It's psychologically harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2316.  @JohnSmith-pn1vv  You don't know what you're talking about. This is very damaging to the boys.
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  2317. Coming forward is not "snitching." However, yes, these teachers need to get caught.
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  2318. Why?
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  2319. No, not literally. Perhaps figuratively.
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  2320.  @SammyandMonica  Is Fuddrucker's now "Buttfucker's?" That would be literal.
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  2321. Why is that all that she would deserve?
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  2322. I read somewhere that men are afraid that women will laugh at them, while women fear that men will kill them.
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  2323. It's not funny.
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  2324.  @mariamelendez519  Benjamin Braddock was an adult.
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  2325. @bagpussisevil2877 *lose
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  2326.  @jillijane9793  That too.
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  2327.  @RicheeBe  * per se
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  2328. This is nothing new; this behavior causes a lot of psychological harm, and I wonder if you think that it should be legal.
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  2329. Cut it out. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2330.  @SomeTheorist9090  Of course, but religious types are the people scolding and lecturing the rest about things like this.
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  2331.  @rafaelesquivel3156  What makes you say that?
    1
  2332. Note that it was much more "out of control" in earlier eras, not that it's not a problem.
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  2333. Not at all.
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  2334. That's not how "heinous" is pronounced.
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  2335. I know the reference, but no, it's not nice.
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  2336. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2337.  @NunyaNomi  Everyone is entitled to the best possible defense.
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  2338. There's nothing lucky about this.
    1
  2339.  @christopherwebber1104  It's bad luck, in fact. Mental health professionals, along with men who've been through this, make it clear how harmful this is.
    1
  2340. It's being taken more seriously, hence the increased prosecution and reporting.
    1
  2341.  @joem6908  That, and this is being taken more seriously these days.
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  2342.  @Jacko0_0  No feminist supports this behavior!
    1
  2343.  @nicksworld8940  More people are taking it more seriously these days. It's less likely to be swept under the rug.
    1
  2344.  @patherron3247  Teachers are disproportionately female.
    1
  2345.  @thoryl7067  There are far more female teachers.
    1
  2346.  @dobiacco  No feminist supports this behavior!
    1
  2347.  @wake-up_H8  Elsewhere. Be thankful for that. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2348. Even if you're making a South Park reference, this isn't nice at all.
    1
  2349. Those hokey graphics are unnecessary. Also, don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  2350.  traybern  You missed the point.
    1
  2351. Attitudes like that make this sort of thing worse. Boys and men are reluctant to talk about how harmful this is.
    1
  2352.  @irishamerican4558  Often very! Men who went through this as boys often have severe trouble forming healthy relationships, understanding trust and consent, and so on. The consequences are often lifelong. It's no different than in any other combination of the sexes. Adults shouldn't do this to juveniles.
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  2353.  @irishamerican4558  I've read studies and articles by professionals who study this.
    1
  2354. Elsewhere. You were fortunate. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2355. A certain percentage of people are pervs, unfortunately.
    1
  2356. Stop shouting.
    1
  2357. Kids are in far more danger within families, and around family friends.
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  2358.  @thahrimdon  Not funny.
    1
  2359. ?
    1
  2360. Homes are more dangerous than schools. Re: teachers, the prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
    1
  2361. It was far darker not long ago.
    1
  2362. And? This is a terrible thing to do to a kid. It causes a lot of harm.
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  2363. At least they're getting caught. In the past, this wasn't taken seriously. In fact, many men still don't think that it's a problem.
    1
  2364. Knock it off. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2365. This is nothing new.
    1
  2366. This sort of thing does a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2367. Not funny. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2368. Most categories of crime rates have either remained steady or continued to decline.
    1
  2369. Not funny.
    1
  2370. He had a TBI from his time in the military.
    1
  2371. Thought what?
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  2372.  @atharvsharma1866  It's bad luck. This is very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2373. That's not true. You just hear about it more often.
    1
  2374. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  2375. You know how this is also prevalent in private religious schools, right? Also, homes, behind closed doors, are the most dangerous places available.
    1
  2376. People are taking it more seriously now.
    1
  2377. NYC has a huge number of teachers, and these allegations are spread over a number of years. It's terrible, but not as bad as the headline makes it seem.
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  2378. The homicide rate is much, much lower than it was at the peak (that was in roughly 1990).
    1
  2379. The father is laughable.
    1
  2380. The latter.
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  2381. There's no connection. She's just a perv.
    1
  2382. Whiskey? In SLC? No wonder they wanted to escape!
    1
  2383. Why?
    1
  2384. Not according to the mental health professionals who study this sort of thing.
    1
  2385. There's no connection.
    1
  2386.  @PHlophe  What difference would that make?
    1
  2387.  @MagaLovexo  *erring
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  2388.  @jspringer86  They happened in Asia, parts of Africa, and so on.
    1
  2389.  @jspringer86  They were asking for weapons from nearby countries first. They have cast a wide net. They need to.
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  2390.  @johnbrockenbrough8564  Knife crime is actually more common in the US than the UK. Also, guns are not illegal in the UK. There's a lot of red tape, but in some ways once one gets through that red tape, one has even more options! For example, they encourage suppressors over there.
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  2391.  @carolinafine8050  I didn't say that she was being careful. Boys, like girls, often don't come forward. In some cases, it only comes to light when other adults find out.
    1
  2392. ?
    1
  2393. It's a hard one to learn, and it doesn't happen overnight. It takes time; people said the same thing about my great-grandparents (speaking Yiddish/Polish/Russian/Swedish) also.
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  2394. I know. It's like people don't know the story. It's a tragedy because it all could have been avoided; these two children wouldn't be in such a situation if the responsible adults were paying any attention.
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  2395. Do the math- there are a huge number of teachers in NYC, and these incidents are spread over a number of years.
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  2396. The kids!?!? Minors can't consent! Why blame the victims?
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  2397. Her appearance is completely irrelevant.
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  2398. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  2399. You didn't pay attention to the video. Watch it again.
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  2400. Schools are far less dangerous than homes are.
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  2401. I know that it's a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice about this.
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  2402. Some are just pervs.
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  2403. Are you asking a question?
    1
  2404. That, and people taking it more seriously.
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  2405.  @illusorytrutheffect  Why is it not as bad?
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  2406.  @nonamewillbegiven2412  What, are you denying the damage?
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  2407.  @nonamewillbegiven2412  Mental health professionals make it clear that there's a lot of harm done by this sort of thing. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2408.  @nonamewillbegiven2412  Men who went through this often have lifelong problems forging relationships (of various types), feeling trust, and so on. It's no secret, indeed the information is easy to find, but people still deny it, and that's exasperating.
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  2409.  @MrC9Oh3 What's so different?
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  2410.  @rogdawg123  What does that mean?
    1
  2411. It's not being hidden as much as it was before.
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  2412. As a matter of fact, that's likely. This sort of thing causes a lot of psychological damage. Do you want to legalize it?
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  2413. Juvenile delinquency rates were much higher during, for example, the Crack Wars.
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  2414. What's a "Kia Bruh?" I can't find anything about that model.
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  2415. They don't want adults. They're pervs.
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  2416. Kids need to be able to talk openly. It's the same with doctors.
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  2417.  @kmthomas71  I don't know what that means.
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  2418. No you don't. This sort of thing is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  2419.  @PresidentBr0wnVagena2024  Not so. It's being ignored/tolerated less often.
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  2420. What are you trying to say? This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  2421.  @russellwong2504  It's a matter of personhood, not life.
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  2422.  @TheleastofHis  True. It's a matter of personhood, along with consent.
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  2423. They were worse in the past. See, among others, Kevin Drum's work on the subject.
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  2424. These stories get clicks.
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  2425.  @JohnChimpo69  The video makes it clear.
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  2426. The video makes it clear what the problem is.
    1
  2427.  @JohnChimpo69  The power imbalance.
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  2428.  @spikeisking007  Conflicts of interest.
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  2429. Watch the video again, pay attention to what happened to the boy, and hopefully you will change your mind.
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  2430. The appearance of a perv makes no difference.
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  2431. No feminist supports this behavior.
    1
  2432. Naive.
    1
  2433. It's nothing new. Thankfully, people are ignoring/tolerating it less often.
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  2434.  @jonstewart6860  Lurid reporting does that. It's the same reason why people nearly always think that crime rates are worse than they actually are. That's a huge problem now; most crime rates have levelled off and resumed their decline, but you wouldn't know it from the news.
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  2435. I don't know what that means.
    1
  2436. It's just getting more attention.
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  2437. Did you have a stroke while typing that?
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  2438. Even if he was over the age of consent, there's the student-teacher professional relationship to consider.
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  2439. Not at all.
    1
  2440. ?
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  2441. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2442.  @trevorpb16  No one's saying that women shouldn't do anything, just that they shouldn't work as guards in men's prisons.
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  2443.  @sjcme-5322  That's a great point.
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  2444. They're just pervs, and their behavior is being taken more seriously.
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  2445. Your alleged anecdote is not data.
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  2446. No, inasmuch as she's a child molester.
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  2447.  @doesnotFempute Nor does it matter. She's a twisted pervert.
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  2448. Her appearance makes no difference. Don't shame the victims.
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  2449. Why? There is nothing happy about this.
    1
  2450. No. This is harmful.
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  2451.  @9iht6ihgt43rzhijj  Boys who go through this sort of thing often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding consent and boundaries, and so on. It's unacceptable to do this with any minor, particularly someone as young as 13! It doesn't matter what sexes are involved: woman-boy, man-boy, man-girl, woman-girl. It's appalling when men praise this behavior; do they think that it should be legal?
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  2452. That's a non sequitur.
    1
  2453. This causes a lot of harm.
    1
  2454. They're like any other pervert.
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  2455. Species?
    1
  2456. ?
    1
  2457. It's bad luck. This behavior does a lot of psychological harm. Do you think tthat it should be legal?
    1
  2458. Homes are more dangerous than schools are.
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  2459. "Lucky girls," "niiiice," "why weren't these guys impersonating students when I was in school..." No?
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  2460.  @ljblakejr  That's what people always say when there's a video about an adult woman and an underage boy.
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  2461. Nonsense. There is no feminist who approves of this.
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  2462.  @dobiacco  What are you saying? What's the connection?
    1
  2463. Not funny. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  2464.  @michaelgans8763  That's not what I mean, and you know it.
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  2465.  @GhastlyCretin  It often comes up later in life that men who went through this as boys have a lot of trouble forming relationships, trusting people, etc. People who think that this behavior is good for the boys are part of the problem. Men feel like there's something wrong with them if they don't feel great about it, since it contradicts this message they get from other men.
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  2466.  @michaelgans8763  I am a man. Do you think that this behavior should be legal?
    1
  2467.  @RyanRoemer8624  "My Aunt smoked her whole life and lived into her 80s!" That's the same thing. Should her behavior be legal?
    1
  2468.  @brettk9316  should *have
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  2469. You don't know what you're talking about.
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  2470. If they were, that would have been included in the report. Also, the Great Crime Decline that began in the 1990s is mostly still with us. There's been an uptick in homicide during the pandemic, but most categories of crime have seen the rates decline or remain steady.
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  2471. True, but it's nothing new. Increased visibility. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  2472. *Gym
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  2473. I hope that you're not serious.
    1
  2474. Elsewhere, not molesting you. You were lucky in that regard.
    1
  2475.  @Kingjojo223  That's ridiculous.
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  2476.  @Kingjojo223  The drunk drivers don't survive every single time.
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  2477.  @klutzyorangeconfetti1017  Why does religion get a free pass? Religion is a choice, unlike a lot of things.
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  2478.  @Kingjojo223  That fatalism.
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  2479. Not funny.
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  2480. Not funny. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal.
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  2481. Not long ago, it was virtually never taken seriously.
    1
  2482. *Principal
    1
  2483. It's very rare per capita. Thankfully, people are taking it more seriously, hence the increased reporting. Homes, commutes, and many more things are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  2484. That's what grooming does. The video makes it clear how harmful this is. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2485. And?
    1
  2486.  @emloufox  Homes are more dangerous than schools. It's not even close.
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  2487. What makes you think that!?
    1
  2488.  @TwoFeatherChannel  They were groomed as minors.
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  2489. The damage is basically the same. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2490. Is that judge wearing a really bad toupee?
    1
  2491.  @jagatheeldest5786  No, you have it very wrong.
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  2492.  @Shaolin91z What does this have to do with feminism?
    1
  2493.  @jagatheeldest5786 I don't know what that's supposed to mean.
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  2494.  @malcolmjelani3588 No, it's not different. This damages boys.
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  2495.  @malcolmjelani3588 No. There is no such thing as a minor asking for it! Children cannot give consent, and it's not different. This is very damaging to boys. I shouldn't have to explain it!
    1
  2496. It's not very dangerous. Far more cops die from car accidents than anything else.
    1
  2497.  @9770G  *you're
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  2498.  @dtquinn100  Why is that your recommendation?
    1
  2499. It's just being reported more.
    1
  2500. would *have
    1
  2501. It's being ignored less often.
    1
  2502. You ought to pay attention. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2503.  @mr.raslyon6626  Watch it again.
    1
  2504. That's silly.
    1
  2505. The greater visibility is due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  2506. ?
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  2507.  @AshWroteThis  How so?
    1
  2508. He doesn't? This sort of thing is damaging.
    1
  2509. It's not funny.
    1
  2510.  @x43902467 Ok, but that's beside the point.
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  2511.  @Jack908r Once again, police officers tell their own kids not to talk to cops without an attorney. Comments with links disappear, so just search for "Don't talk to the police" and you'll find (among other things) a viral video in which a law professor makes it very, very clear. Follow the advice, and it just might save your life!
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  2512.  @STCatchMeTRACjRo You're being naive. Cops tell their own kids not to talk to other police without an attorney. Attorneys across the board say this. There's a viral video called "Don't Talk to the Police" in which an esteemed law professor explains why, even if you have nothing to hide, you shouldn't talk to the police. See what happened to the West Memphis Three!
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  2513.  @cnnothingburgerletsgobrand6381  It's terrible.
    1
  2514. It's not a new development.
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  2515. For one thing, it's "nowadays." For another; no, this kind of thing is very damaging.
    1
  2516.  @CBaller2020  This is off the subject, but being in trouble with the law is not always the fault of the person in trouble; you don't necessarily know about pregnancy scares, and while the latter two are often respectful acts, they can also be "a bit much" depending on whom you're dealing with.
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  2517.  @CBaller2020  It's highly unlikely for any teacher, but there's also the concern about breaching professional boundaries.
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  2518.  @jordanweaver9759  *you're
    1
  2519. More visibility. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  2520. It's just being reported on more.
    1
  2521. There's no connection. Pervs come in all ages.
    1
  2522.  @-MattMcCauley-  Those between 16-26.
    1
  2523. *you're
    1
  2524. Homes are more dangerous than schools are.
    1
  2525. It's not action. This is molestation.
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  2526. It's not new. We hear more about it, as people take it more seriously.
    1
  2527. Pervs are like that.
    1
  2528. There's nothing funny about this. It's terrible.
    1
  2529. Nowadays? Of course one should be cautious, but things were much more dangerous in previous decades.
    1
  2530.  @giospage  Exactly. It creates the "culture of fear." Look up "mean world syndrome." It has serious consequences, since these fears motivate people in certain political directions.
    1
  2531. It's not funny. Stop shouting.
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  2532.  @Nuttypro-f  She's a pervert, an ephebophile. Those are lesser humans.
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  2533. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. This behavior causes psychological harm, no matter who it is.
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  2534.  @lifesajoke6965  Even though I'm not sure if these women were teachers or not, they were in an inappropriate position regarding students; uneven power, if you will. Was it like that for you and your then-girlfriend?
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  2535.  @DanielRamirez-qq3tj  The lyrics are not about this sort of thing.
    1
  2536. This does a lot of harm.
    1
  2537. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl, and yes, woman-boy. Men who've gone through this usually have long-lasting problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. If you are one of those people who think that this sort of thing is so great, "nice," or anything like that, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2538.  @Ty65454  They were elsewhere, not doing this to you, thankfully. (Say something original.)
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  2539.  @Ty65454  The charges are in the info box above.
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  2540. Homes are more dangerous than schools. And then there are clergy...
    1
  2541. What does that mean?
    1
  2542.  @ChipMonk100  Even if he was at/over the age of consent, the violation of the professional boundary is still damaging, not least because of the conflict of interest it causes.
    1
  2543. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
    1
  2544. Indeed, this is just the working-class version.
    1
  2545. Pit bulls are bad news.
    1
  2546. More awareness leads to more reporting.
    1
  2547.  @saltycat662  If anything, it's less normalized, since these cases are actually getting exposed rather than ignored.
    1
  2548. It's just getting taken seriously and exposed more often.
    1
  2549. They're perverts and/or don't have healthy boundaries. Their appearances don't matter.
    1
  2550. Feminists do not support this behavior!
    1
  2551. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. Consider yourself lucky, as this is very harmful.
    1
  2552. Badie?
    1
  2553. Men plead down these kinds of charges all the time. Very few criminal cases of any type go to trial.
    1
  2554. Minors can't give consent.
    1
  2555. It's "Johns Hopkins." There's an "s" on the end of the first name.
    1
  2556.  @JoeseeHsusje  That's not true. Pay attention.
    1
  2557. They say it in the video.
    1
  2558. More awareness means more prosecution, and then more reporting.
    1
  2559. Per capita, they are very rare.
    1
  2560.  @SlugSage  True, but there are different degrees of rarity.
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  2561. What does that mean?
    1
  2562. Prayer doesn't seem to change the outcome of events, does it?
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  2563. Even if you're making a South Park reference, it's not funny.
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  2564. I get the reference, but no, it's not nice at all. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2565. Minors can't consent. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2566.  @KahlessTheUnforgettable  As many times as it's necessary.
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  2567.  @filobetobaby  Could *have
    1
  2568. The greatest amounts of abuse happen behind closed domestic doors.
    1
  2569. The odds are that a teacher would be much less dangerous.
    1
  2570. There are many videos like this. It's not worth it.
    1
  2571.  @scorpionqueen2193  See any video involving an adult woman doing this to an underage boy. There are many responses from men who think that this sort of thing is positive. It isn't; it often causes substantial psychological problems, but so many men are so ignorant.
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  2572. We're ignoring it less often.
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  2573.  @fruitsnac9088  True. (Also: *you're.)
    1
  2574.  @mikenonameneeded3485  The downside is that this causes a lot of psychological damage to minors, including boys in heterosexual situations. Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  2575.  @mikenonameneeded3485  Psychological harm, among other things. Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  2576.  @truckmusic1  I know that it's a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice or lucky about this. It causes psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2577. That's not true. Don't live in fear. People are so bad at assessing risk.
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  2578. You assume too much.
    1
  2579. There's no conspiracy, just pervs, as always.
    1
  2580. There's less tolerance for this behavior now.
    1
  2581.  @Pluscelamemechose  You assume too much.
    1
  2582.  @Pluscelamemechose  Look at the states from which people are moving out. It's a mixture, politically. "Tyranny" is a silly word to use for this. Also, while Rodney King didn't actually say it like that, I'm not sure why you see that sentiment as a bad thing.
    1
  2583. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2584.  @EC-dz3fb  Sure, but close enough.
    1
  2585.  @eh1702  True, but they're close enough.
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  2586. That makes it sound like the child was the initiator.
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  2587. It's not new.
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  2588. It's nothing new.
    1
  2589. I realize that it's a South Park reference, but no, this isn't nice at all.
    1
  2590. *Affecting. There's more prosecution & reporting, thanks to people taking this behavior more seriously. It's not new.
    1
  2591. There's less tolerance for this behavior, and hence more reporting.
    1
  2592.  @Introvertedauto11  *you're
    1
  2593. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    1
  2594. These people? Do you mean these three fools in the car, or the police, or both?
    1
  2595.  @Timlareit  I don't have a car, and what are you trying to say anyway?
    1
  2596. Again, who are "these people?"
    1
  2597. That's off the subject.
    1
  2598. Why that brand specifically?
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  2599.  @planetschlock  Same here.
    1
  2600. Getting molested?
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  2601. It's not increasing. The increased reporting is due to greater awareness of the psychological harm this causes.
    1
  2602. They're pervs, that's all.
    1
  2603. It's no different. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2604. This sort of thing is very damaging.
    1
  2605. I for one know that it's not funny. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2606. Not funny.
    1
  2607. There's more acknowledgment of the harm, and now more reporting.
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  2608. They're safer now than in the past. Google "Mean World Syndrome." Lurid reporting distorts how we look at risk.
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  2609. Would you make that joke in a man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl situation?
    1
  2610. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  2611. You wish that you were molested? This is very harmful.
    1
  2612. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2613. Somewhere else, not molesting you. You were lucky.
    1
  2614.  @therealAkito  It's exasperating.
    1
  2615.  @bluecreature39  True, but: *you're.
    1
  2616. That's what grooming is. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal.
    1
  2617. Either way, they were in a relationship with a serious power imbalance, and she blackmailed him.
    1
  2618. Grandmother at 43?
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  2619. No. This sort of thing is seriously harmful to the boys involved.
    1
  2620. That's not funny.
    1
  2621. There's nothing nice about this.
    1
  2622.  @jimlewis2395  Most high schools today have none either.
    1
  2623. Exactly. It's not new.
    1
  2624. Thankfully, there's no evidence that it's more common. We are ignoring it less often, and that's good.
    1
  2625. Medal? For what?
    1
  2626. It gets clicks.
    1
  2627. This isn't good at all. It causes a lot of harm.
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  2628. Silly.
    1
  2629.  @nathanielbables8652  Maybe, but it's not funny.
    1
  2630. What do you mean by that?
    1
  2631. They aren't; look at how many NYC teachers there are, and do the math.
    1
  2632. Good intentions make no difference.
    1
  2633. ?
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  2634. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
    1
  2635. Watch the video again. The hosts point out that this does a lot of harm.
    1
  2636. More people are taking this behavior seriously.
    1
  2637. Anyone who cares about minors.
    1
  2638. Old joke!
    1
  2639. Say what?
    1
  2640.  @Dongdong497  You're welcome.
    1
  2641. This is partially off the subject, but note that if coyotes were involved, they would almost certainly been scavenging her dead body. It's extremely rare for coyotes to kill humans, I learned this after reading about the Taylor Mitchell tragedy.
    1
  2642. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  2643. Species?
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  2644.  @dorisnoel7815  It has serious consequences for men's ability to form relationships and the like. It often only emerges later.
    1
  2645. Your anecdote is not data.
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  2646. Polygraphs are completely unreliable.
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  2647.  @be1674  Speak for yourself. Watch the video again. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2648. The luck is bad. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2649.  @diydustin8404  Not at all. Watch it again.
    1
  2650.  @be1674  Yes, he is. Watch it again, paying attention.
    1
  2651.  @hardlessons9732  True, and irrelevant.
    1
  2652. Doesn't that episode show that there is nothing nice about this?
    1
  2653. Note that, had they dropped the wounded guy at the hospital and left, and had he said nothing incriminating to the medical staff and nothing at all to police, they could have gotten away with it.
    1
  2654. Increased awareness of the harm done leads to more reporting.
    1
  2655. Good point.
    1
  2656. It's getting taken more seriously these days.
    1
  2657.  @zammmerjammer  It's exasperating.
    1
  2658.  @zammmerjammer  They aren't real. There's no evidence that would pass scientific muster.
    1
  2659. It's just getting more coverage.
    1
  2660. This is molestation, and it's harmful.
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  2661. Ok, but that's irrelevant.
    1
  2662. You should be thankful. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2663.  @gottagrind2shine607  It's not a bullseye at all. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2664.  @aceriversLIVE  He told because he knew that it was wrong. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2665. Schools are safer than homes.
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  2666.  @crazychase98  Not a single feminist in the world approves of women doing this.
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  2667. More awareness leads to more jurisprudence and more reporting.
    1
  2668. This isn't funny, and it's not a good thing. Boys are harmed just as girls are.
    1
  2669. Which people?
    1
  2670.  @andrewlemons4552  No, they're not "my people," if I take your meaning.
    1
  2671.  @dallas24s69  ?
    1
  2672. It gets clicks.
    1
  2673. That's a terrible thing to say. This causes a lot of harm, not matter the sexes involved. Would your attitude be the same if it was man-girl, man-boy, or woman-girl?
    1
  2674.  @hannibalidrissa896  Minors can't give consent.
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  2675. It's just getting reported more, because people (not enough people) finally recognize this as damaging.
    1
  2676. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2677. Grooming.
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  2678.  @GhastlyCretin  Do you seriously think that the law should vary depending on the sexes involved, and the appearance of the adult? What about woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl?
    1
  2679. Why!?!?
    1
  2680. Maxwell & Epstein, also, just the working-class version.
    1
  2681. It's just getting ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  2682. The odds of this happening are very low.
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  2683.  @lyndseyculver3057  Don't misunderstand. I'm not defending her across the board.
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  2684. Har!
    1
  2685. What does her status as a sorority member have to do with anything?
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  2686. It gets clicks. It's nothing new.
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  2687. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
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  2688. Neither. It's perversion. You could say that it's the latter, but an awful form of the latter.
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  2689. People are more aware of the damage it causes, so these cases are being ignored less often.
    1
  2690. It's bad luck. It does a lot of harm regarding, among other things, forming healthy relationships. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2691. Not even close, but it gets more clicks when the story is like this one.
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  2692.  @kurrwa  This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
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  2693. This isn't a new thing.
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  2694. It's not new. Thankfully, less tolerance for this behavior leads to more reporting.
    1
  2695. They talk in this very video about why it takes so long to come forward.
    1
  2696. Hardly.
    1
  2697. "Hanged," "not "hung."
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  2698.  @mattiaslp9645  Feminists do not support this sort of thing. Why would they? It's the same for the "alphabet gang."
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  2699.  @TheKavebear1  A lot of men do say that, and it's infuriating.
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  2700.  @stevegonzales527  It's mostly men who say that. They think that it's good for boys. They're infuriatingly ignorant.
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  2701.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  That's not data. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  2702.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  By legalizing this behavior? Is that what you're trying to say?
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  2703. It's more common for men to do this, but we're ignoring female predators less often now.
    1
  2704. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    1
  2705. It's nothing new.
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  2706.  @wastedlemonade7222  That doesn't matter, one way or another.
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  2707.  @J3LL05H0T  Wrong. Watch the video again, and pay attention.
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  2708.  @bigmike6626  No, not exactly.
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  2709. Statistically, schools are much safer than the commutes to and from. Speaking specifically of this kind of thing, homes are much more dangerous than schools.
    1
  2710. Gym Jordan.
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  2711.  @CN45475  I don't know what your comment means.
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  2712.  @Anthony-dj4nd  They're just pervs. That's all.
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  2713.  @gregsonnenberg396  No, just pervs.
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  2714.  @jeromepowell1873  They're pervs; that's all.
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  2715. That doesn't matter. Don't say anything sans lawyer.
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  2716.  @codeXenigma  No, absolutely not. Don't talk. Also: would *have.
    1
  2717.  @markthompson2466  I'm not sure what you're trying to say, but in any case the advice to not talk is accurate and crucial, no matter the circumstances.
    1
  2718.  @gbot3377  ??
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  2719.  @kertarneaud4475  Would *have. Also, punctuation is a friend to humanity. This was incoherent.
    1
  2720. We hear more about it because it's taken more seriously.
    1
  2721. It has happened.
    1
  2722. That is beside the point.
    1
  2723. Minors can't give consent. You wouldn't be "letting" anything.
    1
  2724. Sometimes cops are the ones who do this to people!
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  2725.  @oryparker103  That's some serious bootlicking.
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  2726. @Yesindeed126 Have you known any teachers?
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  2727.  @keysnlemons7756  Exactly. At least more people are confronting this behavior, rather than ignoring/tolerating it.
    1
  2728.  @keysnlemons7756  They often work at least part of the time during holidays.
    1
  2729.  @carolinafine8050  The vast majority of this sort of thing happens within households, behind closed doors.
    1
  2730.  @christyler6234  I'm completely serious. This abuse is much more prevalent behind closed doors in households.
    1
  2731. Badder?
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  2732. You don't know what you're talking about. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2733.  @rashadbrown4106  It's not funny at all. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2734.  @baroyahaquwahba9382  I hope that you're being disingenuous.
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  2735. Maybe, but that has nothing to do with this.
    1
  2736. Internet Tough Guy!
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  2737.  @Soooooooooooonicable  That's not how it always happens, but the point is that this does a lot of damage.
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  2738.  Stingwray11  They were elsewhere, not molesting you. You were fortunate.
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  2739. No, not literally as hot as the surface of the sun.
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  2740.  @victoriakuhn9744  That's mostly incoherent, but I think that you mean "their steaks"
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  2741.  @islandgirl9479  Thanks, I think!
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  2742. I know that that's a South Park reference, but no, this is not nice.
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  2743. There's no connection. Consider, for just one example, how often this comes up in conservative religious circles.
    1
  2744. It was much worse a few decades ago.
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  2745.  @amp2193  Look at the most recent FBI stats, among others. There was an upswing in homicide during/after the pandemic, but it's peaked and started to come down again. Most other kinds of crime didn't rise much, if at all.
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  2746.  @pattytracey3131  Roger Waters had a very different context in mind when he wrote the lyrics.
    1
  2747. More awareness leads to more prosecution and more reporting.
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  2748. It's not new. It's ignored less often.
    1
  2749. It's nothing new. There's just more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  2750. I hope that you're an adult.
    1
  2751. How so? This harms the boys involved, often causing long-term problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2752.  @flynow5614  What's that supposed to mean?
    1
  2753.  @vladimirputin8109  Not if it can be prevented.
    1
  2754. *whom
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  2755.  @GArmand715  That's borderline gibberish. Are you trying to say that feminists approve of this?
    1
  2756. It's being ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  2757. It's nothing new.
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  2758. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
    1
  2759. This behavior by women was not seen as harmful until very recently. Lots of men still don't get it, as you can see from comments here.
    1
  2760. would *have
    1
  2761. I'm downvoting this thanks to the censored video. I'm partly referring to the blurring, but mostly to the repeated stopping of the video at the most important parts.
    1
  2762. That's a non sequitur (among other things).
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  2763. You don't know that.
    1
  2764. Not funny.
    1
  2765. No.
    1
  2766. They're just pervs. Also, punctuation is a friend to humanity.
    1
  2767. There's no connection between clothes and crime.
    1
  2768. You don't know how these things work.
    1
  2769. Not funny.
    1
  2770.  @chesspunk489 There's nothing funny about child molestation, and that's what this is.
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  2771. No, very unlucky. This does a lot of damage.
    1
  2772. She probably has a jail number, and eventually a prison number, and rightly so. There's nothing funny about this. It does a lot of damage.
    1
  2773. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's being taken more seriously.
    1
  2774. Also: You're Muslim. Aisha was a child.
    1
  2775.  @Carl_McMelvin  Why? What are you talking about?
    1
  2776.  @IRgEEK  That, and more people are seeing this as a crime, since the damage is being taken more seriously.
    1
  2777.  @G-host0069  How so?
    1
  2778. Defendants can plead "not guilty," not "innocent." It's the same for sentences.
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  2779. This alleged "breakdown" is wildly exaggerated by the news (crime rates are still well below their 1990 peak); more importantly, what "people" are you referring to?
    1
  2780.  @isthatyoursomnomnom  Stop talking around things.
    1
  2781.  @isthatyoursomnomnom On the contrary; you're the one who won't say what people you're referring to.
    1
  2782.  @Gamer-d7bs  Why do you say that? This sort of thing does serious psychological damage, no matter the sexes involved.
    1
  2783. It's not more common.
    1
  2784. A certain percentage are perverts. It's nothing new.
    1
  2785.  @AstroEtherealDiscovery  Is there evidence of assaults related to books that religious conservative types find so scary? How about from drag queens and the like?
    1
  2786.  @osmanbey4430  All? Do the math- that's ridiculous. This is, sadly, not uncommon behavior for our species around the world. Even worse, in some places it's tolerated or even condoned (see "Bacha bazi").
    1
  2787. What's happening? They're pervs. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
    1
  2788.  @Eric-10101  That has nothing to do with it. There is nothing new here. This behavior is being ignored less often now than in the past.
    1
  2789. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days. Also, stop shouting.
    1
  2790. Homes are more dangerous than schools are. Re: teachers, the prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
    1
  2791. Not so. Yes, I know it's from South Park.
    1
  2792. What do you mean?
    1
  2793. It's a term used instead of "victim." It's less belittling. Yes, he's over the age of consent, but it's seriously inappropriate.
    1
  2794. It's not new. It's just taken more seriously these days.
    1
  2795. I hope that enough people understand what the quotation marks mean!
    1
  2796. It wasn't mine. This kind of thing is very harmful, often causing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, uderstanding trust and consent, and so on. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2797. What's the connection?
    1
  2798. That's beside the point. People like this are perverts.
    1
  2799.  @bird4816  Yeah. Apparently, there's a South Park episode in which a teacher does this sort of thing. The boy reports it, and the cops, like so many men, don't understand the problem. They exclaim variations of "nice." The fact is that this sort of behavior does a lot of psychological damage to the boys. They frequently have longstanding difficulties forging healthy relationships, understanding boundaries & consent, and so on. It's a terrible thing for adults to do, no matter the sexes involved.
    1
  2800. And?
    1
  2801. Watch the video again. This was terrible for the boy. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2802.  @GigaChad-s  Of course it is. Did you watch the video? This was terrible for the boy.
    1
  2803.  @roddanlives2650  True, but what does that have to do with anything?
    1
  2804. A certain percentage of people are perverts, and in positions of authority they are able to satisfy their desires more easily.
    1
  2805. Hitting kids is terrible, and not funny. Anyway, the kid's not a "punk," he's the victim/survivor here!
    1
  2806. Stop shouting.
    1
  2807. No, it's just being discussed more openly.
    1
  2808. It's not an epidemic. More people are taking it more seriously. It's being swept under the rug less often.
    1
  2809. It's just getting ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  2810. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2811.  @SlashHarkenUltra  Her appearance is beside the point.
    1
  2812. It's a much bigger problem than "meh."
    1
  2813. Both are extremely rare, statistically speaking. The latter is getting lots of publicity because such crimes were not taken seriously until recently. In much of the world, they still aren't.
    1
  2814. Nobody should defend Lewis. Elvis, in contrast, didn't cross the line. He came close, to be sure!
    1
  2815. True, but stop shouting.
    1
  2816.  @sharonrose50  This isn't new. Thankfully, there's more awareness of how damaging this is.
    1
  2817. ?
    1
  2818. By being predators.
    1
  2819.  @Fantastic_Six  That's disingenuous.
    1
  2820.  @Fantastic_Six  No, completely. Are you serious?
    1
  2821.  @abebuckingham8198  That, and therapists/doctors/legal professionals/etc. are ignoring it less often.
    1
  2822. People are taking it more seriously nowadays. If anything, that's a positive development, and it's the reason for the increased reporting.
    1
  2823. Elsewhere, not molesting you. You are fortunate.
    1
  2824.  @ProfessorBidoof  This causes substantial psychological damage. Attitudes like yours make it worse. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2825. It gets clicks. It's nothing new, but more people are aware of the damage it does.
    1
  2826.  @AdamM-zw7fp  Not funny.
    1
  2827.  @stinkyfingers1617  It's always happened, but now there's more awareness of the harm it causes.
    1
  2828.  @notsorryyouretriggered  They're pervs, that's all.
    1
  2829.  @BornIn1500  Not per capita, thankfully.
    1
  2830.  @Clementine_D  There's more reporting, thanks to more awareness of the psychological harm.
    1
  2831.  @brandonsanders2205  Prosecuted, not persecuted.
    1
  2832. That doesn't always work; there are 911 calls of people in situations like that.
    1
  2833. That's nonsense. This behavior is nothing new. It's just getting reported on more often, and ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
    1
  2834.  @vanessas2363  That's not what I am referring to. My point is that there's no correlation between pornography and these actions. How could there be? The vast majority of pornography depicts consenting adults. This sort of abuse is not new; thankfully, it's being exposed much more often.
    1
  2835.  @jenniii4608  Or woman-on-girl?
    1
  2836. This isn't funny.
    1
  2837.  @itsrandolphbischhh6592  Ok, but there's nothing funny about someone preying on a child. That's what this is, by the way.
    1
  2838. The luck is bad. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2839. Bad luck, in fact. This does a lot of damage.
    1
  2840. Not at all. Did you pay attention to the video? This causes a lot of psychological damage. The boy tried to stop it!
    1
  2841. Don't they talk about one in this video?
    1
  2842. No, it's harmful.
    1
  2843. There's just more reporting now, thanks to greater understanding of the harm this causes.
    1
  2844. Seriously? This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2845. What's so funny?
    1
  2846. They were elsewhere, and thus not molesting you. This behavior does a lot of harm.
    1
  2847. It's nothing new. We're just ignoring it less often.
    1
  2848. Consider yourself lucky. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2849.  @teddyruxspin8480  I'm being real. Are they wrong in the video? Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  2850. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2851.  @Nicenotherbaltea  That makes no sense.
    1
  2852.  @n0rsca392  It's not funny. Boys are harmed, just as girls are.
    1
  2853. Bad luck, in fact. This is very harmful.
    1
  2854. This isn't a new thing.
    1
  2855. You don't know what you're talking about.
    1
  2856. It's being ignored less. than before.
    1
  2857.  @Adeptus_Santos  This sort of thing is being taken more seriously, and thus exposed more often.
    1
  2858.  @Mortifiedbird  *you're
    1
  2859.  @ultimatums1  What's funny about doing this to a child?
    1
  2860.  @landor7610  Yes, he was a victim. It messed up his life, and she died of cancer.
    1
  2861. It's being taken more seriously. That leads to more reporting.
    1
  2862. That's one of the reasons why people take pleas. Trying to fight the charge would just make their sentence even worse. It would also tie up the state's resources quite considerably. That's how this works. Very few criminal cases go to trial.
    1
  2863.  @AV-xm5ln  No feminists support this behavior!
    1
  2864. Some of them are pervs.
    1
  2865.  @manicorganic6748  It's not funny.
    1
  2866.  @manicorganic6748  You keep laughing because you don't understand.
    1
  2867. Why?
    1
  2868. She was a minor, and he groomed her.
    1
  2869. That's bad luck. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2870.  @anthonybourdon4642 Why?
    1
  2871. It's just being reported more, and ignored less.
    1
  2872. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  2873.  @Network23AndMore  In a very terrible way.
    1
  2874. No you don't. This is very damaging to the boys involved.
    1
  2875. No, you don't know that.
    1
  2876. That's not how it works. Well over ninety percent of criminal cases don't go to trial. They end fairly quickly in guilty pleas. These people said that they did it. They weren't going to fight the charges, so they took a guilty plea.
    1
  2877. How so? They make it clear in the video that it caused him a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2878. No, this is very harmful.
    1
  2879. could *have
    1
  2880. If anything, it's a demonstration of improvement to see that this behavior is taken more seriously now, and swept under the rug less often.
    1
  2881.  @archaeopteryx981  Brag? That assumption is part of the problem; boys are told that they aren't victims, and that there's something wrong with them for not enjoying it.
    1
  2882.  @PresidentCoochieGrabber  I don't. What gives you that idea?
    1
  2883. ?
    1
  2884. This sort of thing causes a lot of harm.
    1
  2885. ?
    1
  2886. Maybe, but this behavior is nothing new.
    1
  2887. True, but at least people are taking it more seriously. That's the reason for the increased reporting.
    1
  2888. Kneecapping, a la the punishment the IRA was known to dish out, is only feasible when the target is unable to move. In a case like this, "shooting to wound" doesn't exist. Everyone, besides perhaps elite snipers, is trained to shoot for the center of mass. That minimizes the possibility of missing.
    1
  2889.  @lmzaadi  An attacker can close the distance much more quickly that most people realize. One miss can get you stabbed.
    1
  2890. The former.
    1
  2891. I know the reference, but it's not nice at all.
    1
  2892. ?
    1
  2893. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  2894.  @tez_ra  And infuriating.
    1
  2895. There's more reporting, and less ignoring/tolerating. More people understand how harmful this is.
    1
  2896. There's a little. That's still too much.
    1
  2897. I haven't sent that many texts in my life! I'm 42.
    1
  2898. Not only is that sexist, it's wrong. This sort of thing is not becoming more common. It's being taken more seriously, hence the increased reporting. By the way, homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  2899. Yes, as a matter of fact, they were either not happy about it at the time, or they realized later how wrong it was. That depends on the victim.
    1
  2900.  @shawnfoogle920  They were children. Pay attention.
    1
  2901.  @semyaza555  It's not funny.
    1
  2902.  @Benjy86  Her appearance makes no difference.
    1
  2903.  @brettperry6655  Watch the video again, and pay attention when they talk about how psychologically harmful this is.
    1
  2904.  @milfinu  This very video explains how damaging this behavior is.
    1
  2905.  @milfinu  *you're
    1
  2906. It looks like there is a baldness epidemic in Austin.
    1
  2907. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2908. Twelve, in one case.
    1
  2909.  @deepg7084  There is no Left in power anywhere in the US, let alone "extreme radical leftists." You don't know what those terms mean.
    1
  2910. What does that mean?
    1
  2911. Minors cannot give consent! You don't know how grooming works, do you?
    1
  2912. Because you were fortunate. This is harmful.
    1
  2913. Listen to 911 calls from people in that situation. It doesn't necessarily work.
    1
  2914.  @MyDyerMaker  I didn't say anything about brakes.
    1
  2915.  @MyDyerMaker  There are other videos with 911 calls of people in such a situation. They try to do just that, and it doesn't work, if I recall correctly.
    1
  2916. I hope that he's not paralyzed or anything comparable!
    1
  2917. Must *have
    1
  2918. One is too many. On the plus side, the damage of this is better understood, and there's more exposure and reporting.
    1
  2919. The harm is acknowledged more, thus more prosecution and more reporting.
    1
  2920. This is being ignored less often.
    1
  2921.  @buckeyedarren  There's nothing political here.
    1
  2922.  @kornelijekovac9793  Do you want to legalize this?
    1
  2923. Terrible.
    1
  2924. Degraded? Things were much worse in previous years.
    1
  2925. Thankfully, this sort of thing is statistically very rare!
    1
  2926. It's not a new thing. It's being swept under the rug less often.
    1
  2927.  @HarupertBeagleton-dz5gw  That would be true, if not for climate change and everything else that our species has done.
    1
  2928.  @schrisdellopoulos9244  Juvenile delinquency was actually much worse when you were growing up, in part because of less supervision.
    1
  2929. ?
    1
  2930. People are taking it more seriously. That's the reason for more reporting.
    1
  2931. True, but it used to be a lot worse. Juvenile delinquency has gone down in the past couple of decades.
    1
  2932.  @STCatchMeTRACjRo  Thankfully, that type of incident is extremely unusual.
    1
  2933.  @Sidthedentist  You're talking nonsense.
    1
  2934.  @Hugh_Vincent  Yes, as a matter of fact.
    1
  2935. Not true, and not funny. @100bgeagle 
    1
  2936. There's no connection between desperation and perversion.
    1
  2937. California has a very large prison population, so it doesn't look like they're "soft on crime."
    1
  2938.  @TreeCooper  No, because many men need to see it. I'm really tired of people praising this terrible behavior. It harms minors, no matter what sexes are involved.
    1
  2939. This isn't new.
    1
  2940. This is not a new thing at all. It's just being ignored/tolerated/praised less often. That looks like an improvement in morals!
    1
  2941. What do you mean by that?
    1
  2942. The crime rate nowadays is actually much lower than it was in recent decades, but yes, it's ridiculous all the same.
    1
  2943.  @hornydolphin7953  Don't cases like that mostly depend on the District Attorney (or whatever it's called in particular jurisdictions)'s decision?
    1
  2944. Not funny.
    1
  2945.  @anthonyfracchiolla2268  Not so. You don't know what you're talking about.
    1
  2946.  @khadijahbegum3546  *you're
    1
  2947.  @johnpeterson9266  One anecdote isn't data. Mental health professionals who study this know better.
    1
  2948.  @anthonym840  I am not sure what you are trying to say here; is English not your first language?
    1
  2949.  @frederickhaaken456  Why do you think that there's something wrong with @Michael-tk9ux's hormones?
    1
  2950.  @vantata399  Exactly. It's a terrible thing, no matter who is involved.
    1
  2951.  @deliciousfirstsip  *you're
    1
  2952.  @mubarakrasul ?
    1
  2953.  @MadScientist267  What is that supposed to mean?
    1
  2954. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2955. *their
    1
  2956. If anything, it's a positive development to see more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
    1
  2957. Allow? She was an adult.
    1
  2958.  @nomdeguerre247  *its
    1
  2959. No, you don't. This causes a lot of harm.
    1
  2960.  @Cowdog1 It's not funny.
    1
  2961. College? Work? Escaping a toxic environment? Wanting to live elsewhere? How does one carry on a romance, or party, or whatever with your parents still watching you? Also, Mexico has a lot of crime, more than here. Also also: *you're.
    1
  2962. On the contrary. More people know how harmful this is, so it's getting exposed more often, and ignored/swept under the rug less often. Also, if anything, leftists are more opposed to it than anyone.
    1
  2963. It's being ignored/downplayed less.
    1
  2964.  @lizzieb6311  He served his government.
    1
  2965. We're just ignoring it less often. Thankfully.
    1
  2966. He was over ninety pounds at age 10? That's a lot, no?
    1
  2967. No, you don't. This is very harmful.
    1
  2968. "Only?" That's more than murderers get in a lot of other developed countries.
    1
  2969. *you're
    1
  2970. And private, and in any setting with children... especially homes.
    1
  2971. I know the South Park reference, but this isn't nice at all.
    1
  2972. I know the reference, but no, it's not nice. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2973.  @jonah1976  I didn't say that abusers were everywhere.
    1
  2974. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  2975. No feminists support this behavior. I'm not sure why you're asking this.
    1
  2976. As a matter of fact, social workers have been very helpful in situations involving mentally-unwell people.
    1
  2977. Elsewhere, and not molesting you. This sort of thing is very harmful, and the hosts make it clear. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2978. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2979. Not funny.
    1
  2980. I get the South Park reference, but no, it's not nice. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  2981.  @josephBo  Not yet, and besides, their teacher-student status makes this seriously inappropriate, not only due to conflicts of interest.
    1
  2982. could *have
    1
  2983. Yes, I know the reference, but there's nothing nice about this.
    1
  2984. How do you know that the suspect has priors?
    1
  2985.  @BillytheKid213  All humans came from Africa originally. (I realize that's off the subject.)
    1
  2986.  @rkm5369  True, it was once much worse. The Great Crime Decline that began in the early '90s is still with us.
    1
  2987.  @BigReddSouthernGal25  Were the police in DC actually defunded? There are an enormous number of cops around here. Also, social workers have been shown to be very helpful in defusing situations involving people having mental crises.
    1
  2988.  @rkm5369  It doesn't say that the suspect has priors.
    1
  2989.  @BohnnyJravo-te4sv  No, it's true. Our species originated in a particular area on that continent.
    1
  2990.  Itsfnpete  *you're
    1
  2991.  @beingjohn392  What does that mean?
    1
  2992.  @ng3347  *you're
    1
  2993.  @DaddyApe  "Polations?" "There?" Is English not your first language?
    1
  2994.  @cattinkerbell4946  *their
    1
  2995.  @jaylando7453  *you're
    1
  2996.  @marie45698  Substandard housing still contains lead. Exposure to lead in childhood lowers IQs, weakens impulse control, and is a major cause of crime. The correlation is near-exact.
    1
  2997.  @goldenswordsmen1  *their
    1
  2998.  @Boostwayneboostlee  What does "ATTWW" mean?
    1
  2999.  @DaisyMae3  *you're
    1
  3000.  @Allenbaily  *you're
    1
  3001. This causes substantial psychological damage to minors, no matter the sexes involved. Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  3002. It's just getting tolerated/ignored less often.
    1
  3003. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3004.  @scottjohnson7467  Not funny. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3005.  @gamingspartan5917  It's also not funny.
    1
  3006. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
    1
  3007. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3008. We're seeing it more often because it's ignored/tolerated less often than in the past.
    1
  3009.  @RcPlayer-tt2vw  Why? This sort of thing harms boys and girls alike.
    1
  3010.  @c-teamtrading9690  The reality is that this is not good for boys.
    1
  3011. It was much worse during the Crack Wars.
    1
  3012. Elsewhere. Pay attention to the video; they discuss how harmful this is.
    1
  3013. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3014. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3015. *whose
    1
  3016. Your deity has nothing to do with this.
    1
  3017.  @throughthoroughthought8064  That's what the crime is called.
    1
  3018.  @coldc7  This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
    1
  3019. That's not how "Porfirio" is pronounced!
    1
  3020. What does that mean?
    1
  3021.  @viconichol  True, and irrelevant.
    1
  3022. Yes, as a matter of fact. They talk about this in the video. Do you think that this sort of thing should be legal?
    1
  3023. No, it was being a child molester.
    1
  3024. That's a strange scenario (her married to Jesus). What made you think of that? (Commas make such a difference.)
    1
  3025. Yeah. Grooming does that, but then people realize that it's really done some damage.
    1
  3026. never *have
    1
  3027. No you don't! This is very harmful.
    1
  3028.  @alexauer3697 There's no reason for the scare quotes. Attitudes like this are why victims don't come forward.
    1
  3029. It is. Schools, in fact, are much safer than homes!
    1
  3030.  @spacemanspliff7983  It is, in fact. The vast majority of this sort of behavior happens in homes, behind closed doors. This is a set of 100 cases out of a vast number of teachers, spread across several years.
    1
  3031.  @malekkushimuzik3580  Think about what it would entail to never do that.
    1
  3032. The explanation is that some women are perverts. It's not new.
    1
  3033. Epstein was awaiting trial. Ghislaine Maxwell will probably die in prison.
    1
  3034. Do you goose-step also?
    1
  3035. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
    1
  3036. Them?
    1
  3037. Increased visibility. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  3038.  @ryanthompson3737 Ok, but you're missing the point. Researchers find that in many cases the boys are only able to admit in adulthood that the experience hurt them, because they want to live up to the "manly" expectations that we see in too many of these comments.
    1
  3039. Why?
    1
  3040. On the contrary. Hitting children gets the exact opposite effect.
    1
  3041.  @trailrunner925  Why would you listen to him anyway?
    1
  3042.  @trailrunner925 Sure, but there are better sources than he, and be sure not to make false equivalencies.
    1
  3043. That's not funny.
    1
  3044.  @crazychase98  *you're
    1
  3045. That's what grooming does.
    1
  3046. It's just being ignored less often.
    1
  3047.  @carolinafine8050  I have no idea what all that means.
    1
  3048. Did you listen to the victim impact statement? It's a few minutes into the video!
    1
  3049.  @farmerfootball27  It is a victim statement. What else could it be? Said statement is not only about the fatherhood issue. It's in the video.
    1
  3050. This behavior is being taken more seriously now. It's swept under the rug less often. That's a very positive development.
    1
  3051.  @DawsonFamily-g6k  Knock it off. Religious institutions are notorious for this sort of thing.
    1
  3052.  @JesseThompson-ef2oc  Silly.
    1
  3053. Everything else is obviously correct, and this is off the subject, but: How do you know that she was sweet?
    1
  3054.  @AluniGaming It doesn't matter. That's why I mentioned that it's off the subject. I was just wondering why one would assume that she was sweet.
    1
  3055.  @anni610 ???
    1
  3056. We've had them for decades.
    1
  3057.  @nothanksplease  *affects And yes, true, but religious types are the ones hectoring and scolding people about moral issues, particularly dealing with sexuality.
    1
  3058. That's a canard.
    1
  3059. It gets clicks, and the pervs are getting caught.
    1
  3060. Thankfully, it's finally being discussed.
    1
  3061. This is nothing new. This really hurts boys, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3062. This very video explains the damage this causes.
    1
  3063. It's nothing new. It's being ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
    1
  3064. I know that's a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice.
    1
  3065.  @zjones9876  Mental health professionals make it very clear that this causes serious psychiatric and/or psychological problems down the line. It's a terrible thing. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3066.  @zjones9876  Would you like it to be legal? If not, why not?
    1
  3067. It's bad luck. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3068. It's being covered up less.
    1
  3069. It's not. It's just ignored less often.
    1
  3070. It's nothing new.
    1
  3071.  @somebody701  No feminists approve of this!
    1
  3072.  @RonBeaulieu  What does feminism have to do with this?
    1
  3073.  @auroraboobiealice6352  Not funny.
    1
  3074.  @Hi-qt2nj  Not at all.
    1
  3075. Not at all. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  3076. There's less tolerance for this kind of behavior.
    1
  3077. Maybe, but it's not funny.
    1
  3078.  @heofonfyr5089  They're perverts, just like men who commit the same crime.
    1
  3079. Biased against, rather.
    1
  3080. More understanding of the harm this causes, hence more reporting.
    1
  3081. Terrible, in fact.
    1
  3082. Florida Woman.
    1
  3083. It's not new.
    1
  3084. Not at all. This really hurts the boys involved.
    1
  3085. Very few criminal cases of any sort go to trial.
    1
  3086.  @1southerncowboy  Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  3087. Follow the model of places like Finland.
    1
  3088. No, this kind of luck is very bad, leading to a lot of harm.
    1
  3089. This is child molestation.
    1
  3090.  @dirtypossem  They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3091.  @DenTz8791  Wrong. Did you pay attention to the video?
    1
  3092.  @toadfrench7801  Not funny. Watch the first few minutes again.
    1
  3093.  @brianisaac1804  That's part of the problem.
    1
  3094. Lurid reporting always gives people the wrong impression of risk. Homes are more dangerous than schools. Trips between home and school (and vice versa) are much more dangerous than being on campus.
    1
  3095.  @AlexandraW-f3s  This behavior is finally being confronted.
    1
  3096.  @hmq9052  And yet the truth comes out. Do you think that it should be legal to do this?
    1
  3097.  @hmq9052  For teachers to do this with their students.
    1
  3098. Hideous.
    1
  3099. Not funny.
    1
  3100. Do the math. There are a lot of teachers in NYC. I don't think that this is out of proportion compared to anywhere else.
    1
  3101. The latter.
    1
  3102. No you don't. This is very harmful to the boys involved.
    1
  3103. She's just a perv. There's nothing funny here.
    1
  3104. She's legally an adult, however.
    1
  3105. Children are in far more danger at home.
    1
  3106. This does a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3107. Figuratively the silver lining, not literally.
    1
  3108.  @jeanettesmith765  If anything, they are more moral. In the past, this behavior was ignored, hidden, excused, etc.
    1
  3109. It's not new.
    1
  3110. It is justs getting exposed more often, thankfully.
    1
  3111. There's a reassuring reason for it. We're just hearing about it more often, as it's being taken more seriously these days.
    1
  3112. It always has been, it was just ignored/tolerated/praised.
    1
  3113. That has nothing to do with it. Minors can't consent.
    1
  3114. *you're
    1
  3115. It's nothing new. Thankfully, there's greater understanding of how harmful it is.
    1
  3116. *their
    1
  3117. Note that, if you look at the numbers, police work isn't very dangerous. The top cause of death among police is car crashes.
    1
  3118. Not funny.
    1
  3119. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3120. Elsewhere, not molesting you. Consider yourself fortunate.
    1
  3121.  @kenhernandez8928  You see nothing wrong with child molestation?
    1
  3122. Sure, but not because of terrible behavior getting exposed.
    1
  3123. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3124. Polygraphs are unreliable. They can't be used in court, for that reason. Don't take them.
    1
  3125. No! She's a child molester. This sort of thing is very harmful.
    1
  3126. This isn't the time.
    1
  3127. Stop. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3128. It's not funny.
    1
  3129. It has happened.
    1
  3130.  @lesleyhughes3174  Let the professionals handle it.
    1
  3131.  @boobookitty1441  Not so. Then or now, very few people take this advice. Hollywood tells us that only villains ask for attorneys.
    1
  3132. Nonsense.
    1
  3133. Not at all. This harms kids.
    1
  3134.  @Katchi_  I'm correct. The data are clear on this, and you need to stop lauding child molestation (and worse).
    1
  3135. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3136.  @matthewfors114  It comes from not reading the word (contraction) enough, and thoughtlessly going by what one hears.
    1
  3137.  @riverroadracing  You have no evidence for that.
    1
  3138. Nothing here is funny.
    1
  3139. The sexes, rather. Anyway, exactly, the double standard is infuriating, and it's not funny at all.
    1
  3140. The title is deceptive.
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  3141. Those are holidays, and there are others happening around the same time.
    1
  3142.  @callen.6371  *you're
    1
  3143.  @doxholiday1372  That's clever.
    1
  3144. There's nothing funny about this.
    1
  3145.  @ariesdk5487 What's so funny about a terrible thing like this?
    1
  3146. ?
    1
  3147.  @5150santana  You weren't paying attention, were you? Please answer my question: should it be legal?
    1
  3148. Not funny.
    1
  3149. No, it is not.
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  3150.  @jos.3649  True. Also: *you're.
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  3151. I know that you're making a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice about this. It's very harmful.
    1
  3152. "Apart" or "a part?"
    1
  3153. This does a lot of harm.
    1
  3154. He didn't "snitch." He was being abused. Yes, this is harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3155. *its Nah, women are still not taken seriously as perpetrators all over the country.
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  3156. The age of the perpetrator makes no difference.
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  3157.  @oliverdelgado6952  There's nothing happy (or whatever that face signifies) about this.
    1
  3158. I realize that this is a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  3159. Nothing here is nice. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3160. Some people are pervs.
    1
  3161. You're praising child molestation.
    1
  3162. Deported? We don't know his status, and it seems that he's a crime victim.
    1
  3163.  @LilXancheX  Minors can't consent.
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  3164. They're pervs, that's all. We're hearing more about it as it's taken more seriously.
    1
  3165.  @KahlessTheUnforgettable  What are you unclear about?
    1
  3166. I get the South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  3167.  @caneloandcoco  To the extent that I believe your anecdote, you're an outlier. That's true for women as well.
    1
  3168. Stop. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3169. Increasing? There's more prosecution & reporting, thanks to people taking this behavior more seriously. It's not new.
    1
  3170.  @garfieldsmith332  ??
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  3171.  @jewcyk8268  What protected class?
    1
  3172. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3173. This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3174. Thankfully, they are being ignored/tolerated less often.
    1
  3175. It gets clicks.
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  3176.  @kujo62  True, but most people who read it (and I for one am only aware of the episode; I haven't seen it) think that anyone who uses that comment does genuinely approve of this behavior.
    1
  3177. This is child molestation and worse. It's very harmful, even to boys.
    1
  3178. This is nothing new. If anything, it's a sign of moral improvement that there's more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
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  3179. First, it's not open. Second, that has nothing to do with this.
    1
  3180.  @Misleeee  You have surely seen that homes are more dangerous.
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  3181. Everyone, and I mean everyone, is entitled to a full and sincere defense. By the way, less/fewer than 10% of criminal cases go to trial. Defendants usually plead guilty.
    1
  3182. There's more reporting and less ignoring/tolerating.
    1
  3183. That's silly. This isn't partisan.
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  3184. There's far, far more abuse behind closed doors at home.
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  3185. Also, do you think that private school is better in this regard? Do I have to explain why I ask?
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  3186.  @Christina-kn1lq  Charter schools are often a scam.
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  3187.  @denise8791  Far more abuse of different kinds happens behind closed doors in homes. Besides, look how many adults outside of schools (coaches/instructors/whatever) turn out to be perverts.
    1
  3188.  @RAckerman55  I'm childfree also, but that's not a good reason. Look at the statistics; we're so bad at assessing risk.
    1
  3189.  @OG-genX_  Among other things I could say, keep in mind that there's far more harm done behind closed doors in homes.
    1
  3190. It's taken more seriously these days.
    1
  3191. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3192.  @Asmrnerd10  Mental health professionals make it clear that this behavior is very harmful. Do you want to legalize it?
    1
  3193. This sort of thing is very harmful to the boys involved.
    1
  3194.  @JayTaylor2600  Juice?
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  3195.  @Andy-te1mw  You clearly weren't paying attention to the video. Watch it again, and listen.
    1
  3196.  @theworldisnotcool9685  ?
    1
  3197. You didn't pay attention. They discuss, in the first few minutes of the video, why this is harmful. For one thing, he was under the age of consent. For another, she had a power relationship over him, and it's a serious problem. Yes, this causes psychological harm, as they discuss in this video. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3198. *their
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  3199.  @gatsbee7  I varied it, and yes, I do feel strongly about people doing this to minors. I also feel very strongly about the attitudes in the comment to which I am replying. Those sentiments are a big part of the problem.
    1
  3200. Alerta, alerta, antifascista!
    1
  3201.  @ph1andonly  That's silly.
    1
  3202. Stop shouting.
    1
  3203. That's a non sequitur.
    1
  3204. No, not nice. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3205.  @hbos9709  It's not a matter of people saying things; the data are clear on this. What, do you think that this sort of behavior should be legal?
    1
  3206.  @hbos9709  It's not basic logic. It's an assumption that too many people make, unfortunately.
    1
  3207.  @Philljag  Cry? No, but I evidently still have to tell people that doing this to children is terrible.
    1
  3208.  @Philljag  Do you think that it should be legal? Also: would *have
    1
  3209.  @Philljag  Are you serious? For one thing, how would such laws be written and enforced? For another, if you're trying to joke, there's nothing funny about child predation.
    1
  3210.  @Philljag  So the law should discriminate based on subjective hotness, with no regard for the harms inflicted?
    1
  3211. No, but the pervs make headlines.
    1
  3212.  @yomama5304  Indeed, cops have high rates of committing domestic violence, not to mention all the abuse they inflict while on the job!
    1
  3213. Not so. This is very harmful to boys.
    1
  3214. They're just pervs. Desperation has nothing to do with it.
    1
  3215. She was an adult.
    1
  3216. @AlbertSpeer-jv4xn "One of these..." and you're named after a Nazi. You're not even trying to hide it.
    1
  3217. That's clever, but not funny.
    1
  3218.  @dianagwinn8143  Exactly. You do understand that you first wrote that no one should be a parent, right?
    1
  3219. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3220.  @Pillowpetlover  Because it's absolutely critical advice. It could save your life.
    1
  3221. Elsewhere. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  3222. Somewhere else, thus not molesting you. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
    1
  3223. It's not being ignored as often as it once was.
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  3224. The luck was bad. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, etc. It doesn't matter what sexes are involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-boy, or woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3225. There's nothing funny here.
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  3226.  @eviljeromepowell  There's nothing comical about someone doing this to children.
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  3227.  @eviljeromepowell  You didn't listen to the whole thing, or even pay attention to the title. It was more than just that guy. Also, no one should chill out about adults doing this to minors.
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  3228.  @eviljeromepowell  One can't take this kind of crime too seriously.
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  3229.  @michaeldelgado2107  *you're
    1
  3230. Why does the location make a difference?
    1
  3231. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    1
  3232.  @bnwo  What's so funny?
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  3233.  @bnwo  He was. Mental health professionals make it clear that this behavior is psychologically damaging. If you think that it's so harmless, why don't you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3234. ?
    1
  3235. Did you pay attention to the video? This is very harmful.
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  3236. Elsewhere. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3237.  @chloeharbin2570  Exactly. Also: *you're.
    1
  3238. It's nothing new. Thankfully, more people are taking it seriously.
    1
  3239.  @clebmedia  Thanks.
    1
  3240. A few observations: 1. I was surprised by the profanity, inasmuch as this is in Utah! "Gosh dang it to heck!" 2. SLC has a blurriness problem! Is anything being done about this? 3. Did anyone else notice the audio/video go out of synch when the bald cop was talking?
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  3241. There's nothing funny about this.
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  3242. Elsewhere, thus not molesting you. This does a lot of harm.
    1
  3243.  @charliehustle3685  ?
    1
  3244.  @joemomma5637 Who knows? It's still very harmful.
    1
  3245.  @JuanLopez-ts2ny  Look up "Gymkata."
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  3246. Couldn't *have
    1
  3247. Because you were fortunate. This is very damaging. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3248. In this case, it's very bad luck.
    1
  3249. Not funny.
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  3250. Yeah, but what did they do at that time?
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  3251. That's not how "mischievous" is pronounced.
    1
  3252. Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  3253.  @RobardoHughes  I'm familiar. No, there's no reason to get it censored. There are, sadly, lots of songs about adults doing this to underage kids.
    1
  3254. ?
    1
  3255. They mention in the video that victims often take a long time to come forward.
    1
  3256. I knew someone (a real jerk, but that's beside the point) who said that going to Toledo was like having an enema.
    1
  3257. Sure, but stop shouting.
    1
  3258. Thankfully, it's a case of ignoring this kind of crime less often.
    1
  3259. It's much safer than before, since we're not hiding this sort of thing as much as we did in the past. Also, kids are in greater danger at home.
    1
  3260. I hope that you're not serious.
    1
  3261. Stop uptalking!
    1
  3262. *you're
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  3263. They might have tried that; there are 911 calls here on YT from people in that situation.
    1
  3264.  @Bowcat.  That, but mostly by not saying anything regarding the explicit material.
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  3265.  @lndingalle9605  No, the baby shouldn't. Why do you ask?
    1
  3266.  @meatpark2138  Did you have a stroke while typing?
    1
  3267. Why would they be exempt?
    1
  3268. It is clear in the video that this harmed the boy (which should be obvious). Do you want this behavior to be legal?
    1
  3269. She doesn't want that. She's a perv.
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  3270. They were elsewhere, not doing this to you. Consider yourself lucky. This sort of thing is very harmful.
    1
  3271. You're disingenuous.
    1
  3272. *scot
    1
  3273. It gets clicks.
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  3274. You're right about the first part, and indeed professionals (social workers and the like) can be very helpful in de-escalating such situations. However, no, "shooting to wound" doesn't work. It's very difficult to shoot a handgun accurately, especially in a situation like this. Everyone is supposed to shoot "center of mass" (besides elite snipers who make head shots), because that makes the shot less likely to miss.
    1
  3275. The luck is bad. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3276.  @BrandonNinja  No, no checkmark at all.
    1
  3277. This is very harmful. It's a fact.
    1
  3278. So, I wonder if there will be any comments by people who think that the girl was lucky, that she'll be considered awesome by her peers, that it's every girl's dream. That's what happens in woman-boy cases!
    1
  3279. It's nothing new. Thankfully, people are taking it more seriously.
    1
  3280.  @marleyhill34  This is nothing new. If anything, those places are so patriarchal that this sort of crime is still not taken seriously.
    1
  3281.  @sjohnson65456  What could that possibly be?
    1
  3282.  @henrytomas  F?
    1
  3283. There's nothing funny here.
    1
  3284. Homes are much more dangerous than schools are. Then there's the matter of clergy...
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  3285.  @shawnfoogle920  Should it be legal?
    1
  3286.  @rosesweetcharlotte  Boys have been held liable for child support in cases like this.
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  3287. Why the scare quotes? This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3288. Not so.
    1
  3289. That's not true at all! Family members are by far the most dangerous.
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  3290. As the song says, this is what happens when you call the cops.
    1
  3291. And this sort of thing was ignored in those days.
    1
  3292. We're ignoring it less, thankfully.
    1
  3293. There's nothing new about this. Kids are in far more danger from relatives, family friends, etc. People are so bad at assessing risk.
    1
  3294. It's nothing new.
    1
  3295. This behavior is nothing new. People now realize how harmful it really is.
    1
  3296. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3297. I hope that you stay away from children.
    1
  3298. Indeed. They were even disturbed by it from the beginning!
    1
  3299. It's not a trend.
    1
  3300. Not at all.
    1
  3301.  @cmthomas07 No. There's been statistical analysis of the fates of child stars. They're not in particular danger. Now, there may have been something really sordid happening at Disney when this age cohort was working there; I seem to remember hearing about some guy getting busted.
    1
  3302. It's being ignored/tolerated less often.
    1
  3303.  @mickwest9560  What makes you think that?
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  3304.  @mwbright  I hope that you're just trolling. My nephew is twelve. Do you know any twelve-year-olds? Do you think that this would be fine for them? If it's so great, should it be legal?
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  3305.  @emmajones8590  It's a term used in lieu of "victims." To be sure, sometimes it's a bit linguistically (if that's the right word) awkward.
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  3306.  @texarkana3781  An adult doing this to a minor (no matter the sexes involved) is not "getting laid." Do you not realize that?
    1
  3307. It's just perversion.
    1
  3308. Don't call someone unintelligent (even if they are) while making some laughable errors in basic English writing.
    1
  3309. We don't know how old he was. Besides, she's in a position of authority over him.
    1
  3310. Your third sentence is correct.
    1
  3311. ??
    1
  3312. As opposed to taking them out figuratively?
    1
  3313. It's just being ignored less often.
    1
  3314. They're just pervs. Thankfully, this sort of thing is being taken more seriously.
    1
  3315.  @ColdCreekB  Not always. I for one know better. This is a terrible thing.
    1
  3316. Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  3317. What do you mean by that?
    1
  3318. What difference does it make? She's a pervert, who did a terrible thing.
    1
  3319. That's not funny. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3320. And yet, their crime rates are usually the lowest.
    1
  3321. ?
    1
  3322. He wouldn't necessarily have done life in prison. He was a war veteran with a TBI, having a mental breakdown.
    1
  3323. It's not "heat." They're pervs. There's nothing funny about this.
    1
  3324. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3325.  @Flying_Snakes  Progressive ones?
    1
  3326.  @Flying_Snakes  What would that have to do with this sort of thing?
    1
  3327. There's more awareness of how harmful this is, and hence more exposure.
    1
  3328.  @Turner__22345  It's being ignored less.
    1
  3329.  @Galaxie08  It's absolutely infuriating when people say that sort of thing regarding women doing that to boys. Thus, I am demonstrating a contrast. It should be thought-provoking.
    1
  3330. One is too many. The increased reporting is due to this behavior being taken more seriously these days; it gets clicks, and then of course there's the matter of your algorithm.
    1
  3331.  @dolfan13jmb  Do you have any empirical evidence that the majority are women?
    1
  3332. You don't know what you're talking about.
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  3333.  @SlashHarkenUltra  Terrible lessons. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3334.  @ultimatums1  What? How could there be a connection?
    1
  3335. It was swept under the rug back then.
    1
  3336. Elsewhere. Consider yourself lucky. This kind of crime does a lot of damage.
    1
  3337.  @AliceBowie True; TV teaches us that only the villain asks for an attorney.
    1
  3338. He was younger than high school, but that's beside the point. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3339.  @HeroInTheSun  There's a lot wrong with it! This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3340.  @Binkyblaster  Not again. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3341.  @justanotherguy469  It's been going on forever. Thankfully, we take it more seriously now, except for the men who don't understand how awful this is.
    1
  3342.  @Thecatnamedkiwi  It's not new, but more people are taking it more seriously.
    1
  3343. We're hearing about it more often, because more people are taking it more seriously. That's a progressive development!
    1
  3344. She claims that it was born dead. It's a matter of reasonable doubt.
    1
  3345.  @CherokeeBird  That evidence will be introduced, rightly.
    1
  3346.  @angelaswan7614  True!
    1
  3347.  @angelaswan7614  Definitely.
    1
  3348. *reckless
    1
  3349.  @pkdustin7559  Listen to the first attorney again. This is very harmful.
    1
  3350.  @cyclone67th  Did you not pay attention to the attorney? This is terrible for boys. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3351. The luck is bad. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3352. True, but keep in mind that the offender's appearance makes no difference.
    1
  3353. Because you didn't have bad luck like this kid. This behavior causes a lot of psychological damage, often involving lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc.
    1
  3354. They are. Children are safer these days than they ever have been. Schools are far safer than homes are.
    1
  3355. Get some new material. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3356.  @sflsufy  It's not funny. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3357. Yes, the victim/survivor is innocent.
    1
  3358. And?
    1
  3359.  @Miso_Hornie  What habits are those? I often wish I hadn't been such a little rule-follower.
    1
  3360. That's not true. Delinquency was much worse in earlier generations, and this sort of crime is now getting more attention, and ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  3361. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  3362. What do you mean?
    1
  3363.  @grt1769  Try. I don't know what you're getting at.
    1
  3364. The prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new. That's what's happening.
    1
  3365. These days are actually much safer than previous eras.
    1
  3366. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  3367.  @glockdude5472 You're assuming facts not in evidence.
    1
  3368. Attitudes like yours are part of the problem. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, etc. It doesn't matter what sexes are involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-boy, or woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3369.  @bipolarmomandnowwhat  Some adults, sadly, are pervs.
    1
  3370. Note that this is most prevalent within families, or with family friends.
    1
  3371. Stop shouting.
    1
  3372.  @MrYAMAHA32177 *their
    1
  3373. Titled, not entitled.
    1
  3374. Some people are pervs. It's nothing new.
    1
  3375. I'm not sure what gives you that idea, but in any case, look how often this comes up in conservative religious circles!
    1
  3376. It's being ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  3377.  @brandonscottsanchez  The most dangerous place for a child is at home.
    1
  3378. It's not funny. Thankfully, people are taking this more seriously now, as they discuss in the video. The harms are better understood.
    1
  3379. Why?!?
    1
  3380.  @andyhunter5869  This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
    1
  3381.  @BenRabinowitz-1  Not so. It's harmful.
    1
  3382.  @KronStaro  Yes, as a matter of fact.
    1
  3383.  @blushbb.  Thanks for saying that. This is not a good thing!
    1
  3384.  @stoner63reflex65  This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
    1
  3385.  @sdraulitolito44  You don't know what you're talking about.
    1
  3386. ?
    1
  3387.  @JesseThompson-ef2oc  Not funny.
    1
  3388. Speaking of schools, you could use some remedial English.
    1
  3389. This is not funny!
    1
  3390. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
    1
  3391. Why not, in your opinion?
    1
  3392. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl, and yes, woman-boy. Men who've gone through this usually have long-lasting problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. If you are one of those people who think that this sort of thing is so great, "nice," or anything like that, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3393.  @FatherSaladin  You want this to be legal, despite all the harm it causes?
    1
  3394.  @johnbarlow4572  That creates conflicts of interest.
    1
  3395. Attitudes like that are part of the problem.
    1
  3396. Molestation isn't funny.
    1
  3397. There's more understanding of the harm this causes, hence the increased reporting.
    1
  3398. would *have
    1
  3399. It's nothing new. People are just taking it more seriously now.
    1
  3400.  @untouchedpoke  It doesn't usually take that long.
    1
  3401.  @cmdrmonkey  Watch the whole video. Look at what mental health professionals have to say. Do you think that this should be legal?
    1
  3402. Lucky? This is very harmful.
    1
  3403. This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3404. People are taking it more seriously now, hence the increase in reporting.
    1
  3405. I shouldn't have to say this, but there is nothing good about this. This sort of thing does a lot of damage to the boys involved.
    1
  3406. There have been a few.
    1
  3407. No, you are fortunate.
    1
  3408. There's nothing new here. More people are taking it seriously.
    1
  3409. This sort of crime is being ignored less often.
    1
  3410.  @zombieblaster5754  While it may be awkward, the singular "they" is nothing new.
    1
  3411. This causes a lot of harm, often lifelong.
    1
  3412. Elsewhere, not doing disgusting things like this to you. Consider yourself lucky; this is very harmful.
    1
  3413. True, but thankfully we're seeing more reporting, thanks to greater awareness of the mental harm it causes.
    1
  3414.  @nicksworld8940  It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  3415.  @TTvchannel11  One is too many, but there's no reason to think there's an increase overall.
    1
  3416.  @jesseerickson662  Lots of clicks lead to lots of reporting.
    1
  3417. There's more reporting thanks to more awareness of the damage this causes.
    1
  3418. Not nice at all.
    1
  3419. Yes, as it's sometimes used as an alternative to "victims." This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3420. Yes, as a matter of fact.
    1
  3421. And?
    1
  3422. Because you weren't chosen as a victim. Yes, victim.
    1
  3423. Out of Ohio? In Ohio?
    1
  3424.  @aimeerebecca1  It's being taken more seriously, and thus ignored less often.
    1
  3425. To molest children?
    1
  3426. This very video has the presenters explaining how terrible it is, the effects it has on boys.
    1
  3427.  @kenw2225  Do you think that that scenario should be legal?
    1
  3428. *you're
    1
  3429. There's nothing lucky about this. It's very harmful.
    1
  3430.  @jessespencer1019  You remember when CDs became popular, but they first went on sale in 1982, and were invented a couple of years earlier.
    1
  3431.  @jessespencer1019  If you were born in the '80s, you wouldn't remember when audio CDs were invented.
    1
  3432.  @jessespencer1019  Hence you learned when it happened, but you don't remember it happening.
    1
  3433. You don't know what you're talking about. This causes a lot of harm.
    1
  3434.  @-MattMcCauley-  Men?
    1
  3435. What's that supposed to mean?
    1
  3436. More people understand the harm, hence, more reporting.
    1
  3437. You don't know what you're talking about. This causes lifelong damage.
    1
  3438. "Hittin that?" This is a terrible thing. Boys who go through this often have lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3439.  @tyh8196  Her appearance makes no difference. This is very psychologically damaging, no matter what the perp looks like.
    1
  3440. This isn't as bad as what a lot of adults (including women) do to kids, but it's still wildly inappropriate.
    1
  3441. It goes back forever.
    1
  3442. It's nothing new. More people are taking it more seriously, hence the increased reporting.
    1
  3443.  @FreedomfromFeminism  She's not defending this.
    1
  3444.  @MarkT1700  It's a case of increased reporting, as more people take it more seriously.
    1
  3445.  @Adastra011  So Law & Crime isn't reporting genuine details from the jurisprudence?
    1
  3446. That's perverse. This sort of thing does a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3447.  @cleardrop4531  I didn't call her that exactly, and yes, in this case it has more to do with their medical conditions (which is part of the subaltern relationship they have with her).
    1
  3448.  @vistalite  Your anecdote is a singular data point, but it doesn't represent the data writ large. Do you think that such behavior should be legal?
    1
  3449.  @johnathancampbell1056  Indeed. Then they will claim that teens aren't little boys. That's true, but that's beside the point.
    1
  3450.  @Nicenotherbaltea  Sure, but what does that have to do with this? Does that make it okay?
    1
  3451.  @fartsquadworldwide  Again, that's like the people who say "I know someone who smoked all their life and lived to be 80!" Should what she did be legal?
    1
  3452.  @nightshadehelis9821  How so??
    1
  3453.  @Carl_McMelvin  Yeah, as a matter of fact. Do you trust your doctor?
    1
  3454.  @celsobarrios4810  The age of consent becomes more complicated when we're talking about these kinds of power differences, and then there's the special ed factor.
    1
  3455.  @realhamonwry8620  Yes, they do. Mental health professionals, and others who study this, make it clear. Do the people who think that this behavior is good also think that it should be legal?
    1
  3456.  @WarofThoughts  There's no reason to wish for any problems.
    1
  3457.  @cheesecake4648  Doesn't his special-ed status, not to mention being a student, change things?
    1
  3458.  @UpsidedownC  That too.
    1
  3459.  @lmcg0710  It's not quite as bad when the student is over the age of consent, but the power imbalance in cases like this poses a serious problem.
    1
  3460. Except, in reality, it's not nice at all.
    1
  3461.  @TheDeadJester  Not so. This is very harmful.
    1
  3462.  @ManChan-w5p  This is bad luck.
    1
  3463.  @MadGunny  Yes, it probably would, and this isn't funny.
    1
  3464.  @diegomachado9752  He's complaining about a terrible thing done to him.
    1
  3465.  @diegomachado9752  Why not? Why would you think this is fine when it's woman-boy, but not in any other combination?
    1
  3466. Feminists don't advocate for people like this!
    1
  3467.  @Itheman123456789  No feminists support this!
    1
  3468. First, you don't know that. Second, so what?
    1
  3469. Yes, as a matter of fact.
    1
  3470.  @Carl_McMelvin  What does that have to do with anything?
    1
  3471.  @Hail_Grimnir  *you're
    1
  3472.  @WakandaleezaRazz  Christian Nationalists/Dominionists/etc. want to do that, however.
    1
  3473.  @Nel-ej3gh  Parka? A parka is a jacket for very cold weather.
    1
  3474.  @evanbrad7327  *you're
    1
  3475.  @MayavonMayaVonBoutique  *you're
    1
  3476.  @Hail_Grimnir  It's spelling, not grammar. *you're *grammar
    1
  3477.  @StacyL.  Polygraphs are unreliable.
    1
  3478. This is very harmful.
    1
  3479. It's not new. We're just hearing about it more, as it's being ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
    1
  3480.  @JacobBitner  No, the comment was based on the wording. No one is the parent "of a special needs." They are a parent of "a child with special needs."
    1
  3481. Alerta, alerta, antifascista!
    1
  3482. That's not love.
    1
  3483. Punctuation...
    1
  3484. It's being ignored less often.
    1
  3485. Get some new lines. This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm, and now I wonder if you think that it should be legal. They discuss in this video why the reporting circumstances were like this.
    1
  3486.  @pizzalog4695  It's nothing new. Some people are pervs, unfortunately.
    1
  3487.  @resfre3q  That's disgusting. This kind of behavior often leaves men with longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, with consent, trust, boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3488. Of whom.
    1
  3489. That too.
    1
  3490.  @ChipMonk100  This is disgusting. Answer the question.
    1
  3491.  @ChipMonk100  I'm not a bot, but you're not someone who will answer the question.
    1
  3492. Homes are more dangerous than schools.
    1
  3493. Pretend? "No True Scotsman..."
    1
  3494.  @scottjulie27  You don't know what you're talking about. Mental health professionals are clear in how harmful this is. Do you want to legalize it?
    1
  3495.  @RobertSimpson-b2j  It's not funny. This is very psychologically harmful (yes, it is). Should it be legal? How about woman-girl, man-girl, man-boy?
    1
  3496.  @yettimannettii2039  If she's guilty, then yes!
    1
  3497.  @robertmendez4990  Why should she not?
    1
  3498.  @matthewthomas9194  Why not?
    1
  3499. They're just pervs, but thankfully it's taken more seriously now.
    1
  3500. "Shouldn't have gone," not "shouldn't have went."
    1
  3501. I'm impressed by their use of the phrase "Star Chamber." It's an interesting historical tidbit.
    1
  3502. What does the appearance of the perpetrator have to do with this? Perversion has nothing to do with any of that.
    1
  3503. It's being ignored/tolerated less.
    1
  3504. It's being taken more seriously, hence the increased prosecution and reporting.
    1
  3505.  @atharvsharma1866  This has happened.
    1
  3506. Crime reporting causes so many people to live in fear. Don't be one of them.
    1
  3507. Sadly.
    1
  3508. Unfortunately, that sort of thing is part of the reason why so many people don't realize how harmful this behavior is.
    1
  3509. It's nothing new.
    1
  3510. That doesn't matter. Minors can't give consent.
    1
  3511. Not at all. Yes, I know that it's a South Park reference.
    1
  3512. This is bad, bad luck. It hurts boys a lot.
    1
  3513.  @ManChan-w5p  How so? Man-girl is demonized, while woman-boy is still not being taken seriously enough (although things have improved).
    1
  3514.  @juniorg5547 You don't know what you're talking about. Do you want to legalize this?
    1
  3515. Chiropractors are quacks.
    1
  3516. In this very video they explain how damaging this is.
    1
  3517. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3518.  @Jake-jy5rr  You don't get it at all.
    1
  3519.  @trustytrojan  It messes up minors, period, including boys in high school.
    1
  3520. CA's homicide rate is not among the worst in the country. Far from it, actually.
    1
  3521.  @labitcoineragt3596  I just looked at the stats. L.A. is much, much safer in terms of homicide than quite a few other cities in the US.
    1
  3522.  @labitcoineragt3596  The stats come from the usual sources- the FBI's Uniform Crime Reports, but there's also a different survey taken of crime victims. Yes, it's an inexact science. In any case, what part of L.A. were you in? Most of the city is apparently fine.
    1
  3523. The headline makes it seem like the cop had the screwdriver.
    1
  3524. What are you applauding? The sentencing?
    1
  3525. There's nothing funny about this.
    1
  3526.  @billfisher4156  Not funny.
    1
  3527.  @justadrum  It's not a matter of their appearances, and an inability to "find somebody" age appropriate. They're just perverts, the same as men who do the same thing.
    1
  3528. Medical needs are not usually handled well in prison.
    1
  3529. They won't say anything positive. This does a lot of harm.
    1
  3530. Polygraphs are not reliable.
    1
  3531. There's more understanding of how bad this is. It's not new.
    1
  3532.  @ManOfCulture1992  This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3533.  @lucasfrank8843  That's grooming for you.
    1
  3534.  @johnbarlow4572  Yes. Lots of such cases go on for a long time, especially when there's a power imbalance, and particularly when there's grooming involved. People (especially minors) are confused, don't understand how they feel, afraid to come forward (for several reasons), etc.
    1
  3535. They're just perverts.
    1
  3536. Elsewhere. They explain in this video how harmful the behavior is. Listen to the lawyer.
    1
  3537.  @fific9571  No, they are not.
    1
  3538. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3539. There's nothing nice about this.
    1
  3540. I don't know what that means.
    1
  3541. *whose
    1
  3542. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3543. Perverts are found in all walks of life.
    1
  3544. It's molestation, or something similar. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3545. I know that it's a South Park reference, but there's nothing nice about this.
    1
  3546. She's a pervert.
    1
  3547. You didn't pay attention to the video. This behavior causes a lot of harm, no matter who's involved.
    1
  3548. I realize that it's from South Park, but no, this is not nice.
    1
  3549. No, that's silly.
    1
  3550.  @Dontatmebr0 No, why?
    1
  3551. Statistically, schools are some of the safest places for minors to be. Assessing risk is important.
    1
  3552. Get some new material. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
    1
  3553.  @tonyj797  There's nothing funny about this! Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
    1
  3554.  @MariaLourdesFlores-fl2ix  Why are you laughing?
    1
  3555.  @nomudnolotus4410  True, but the woman in particular doesn't matter. It applies to any adults who do this.
    1
  3556. This really hurts boys, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3557. Children can't give consent.
    1
  3558. Who?
    1
  3559. An adult doing this to a minor causes a lot of psychological damage, no matter the sexes involved.
    1
  3560. It has happened.
    1
  3561.  @agentelvis81  Do we know that for sure? Besides, the damage from this often manifests years later.
    1
  3562.  @alphamanga3213  Men with those attitudes are part of the problem.
    1
  3563. It's not about cheating exactly. They're just pervs.
    1
  3564.  @sdraulitolito44  Anecdotes aren't data. It's great that you're fine, but it's terrible that you're assuming that your experience is the norm. It is not; most of the boys who go through this are damaged.
    1
  3565.  @thecolorblack4778  *you're
    1
  3566.  @codyschnuriger6743  *you're
    1
  3567.  @capnobvious2718  How so?
    1
  3568.  @Sheila-sv1ly  Nothing. How could it?
    1
  3569. It's not funny! This sort of thing is damaging, period.
    1
  3570. A terrible one.
    1
  3571. This is very harmful to the boys involved.The data make it clear.
    1
  3572.  @davepowell7168 Not funny.
    1
  3573. It's taken mre seriously now.
    1
  3574. Titled, not entitled.
    1
  3575. We're hearing about it more often, as people are taking it more seriously. There's less sweeping under the rug.
    1
  3576. This is, the vast majority of the time, very damaging to the boys involved.
    1
  3577. It's not more common. It's being ignored/tolerated less often than it once was.
    1
  3578.  @psycomutt  *lose Also, I don't think that it's a vast majority, although it's definitely a majority by 19.
    1
  3579.  @humanbean3  Yes, but so what? Girls mature more quickly than boys anyway, but it's all beside the point. This behavior is completely unacceptable and very harmful, no matter the sexes involved.
    1
  3580. This kind of thing really hurts the boys involved.
    1
  3581. It's being ignored less often.
    1
  3582. This does a lot of harm to the kids.
    1
  3583. A surge in reporting.
    1
  3584. It's nothing new.
    1
  3585.  @niania7022 There's no evidence for that.
    1
  3586.  @niania7022  Such as?
    1
  3587. That's not the point. She's a twisted pervert, just like male predators.
    1
  3588. Increased visibility. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  3589. It's just being reported more.
    1
  3590.  @coldtruth17  They're pervs. It has nothing to do with desperation.
    1
  3591. It's not new.
    1
  3592. It's just getting reported more, thankfully.
    1
  3593. @lorddavidlawrence Is that a bad thing?
    1
  3594. @lorddavidlawrence Ok, but that's not the worst thing here.
    1
  3595. Feminists are not advocating on behalf of predators.
    1
  3596. Okay, but keep in mind that this is nothing new. We're taking it more seriously now. Also, it's very rare per capita.
    1
  3597.  @cashewinmyshoe  *wary
    1
  3598. If anything, the reverse is true. It's only very recently that enough people have understood how awful this is. Too many still don't.
    1
  3599.  @mark2goal  What are you trying to say?
    1
  3600. That's irrelevant. She's just a pervert, no different from men who do the same thing.
    1
  3601. Boys are children.
    1
  3602. I know the reference, but no, it's not nice. It usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
    1
  3603. There's no connection. Conservative religious institutions (for example) are notorious for this sort of thing.
    1
  3604.  @atheos5748  You're the one making an assertion and implying an association, albeit coyly.
    1
  3605. Not per capita. Not even close. I'm happy to see that people are taking this behavior more seriously, and thus it's being exposed more often.
    1
  3606.  @sheaalexander157  Thankfully, it is now being considered a crime.
    1
  3607. They're perverts. It's nothing new.
    1
  3608. Homes are much more dangerous than schools. Behind closed doors, you know?
    1
  3609. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3610.  @jeramyadam  *you're
    1
  3611.  @morpheusjones4753  "Survivors" is sometimes used as an alternative; it's more complimentary towards those who were assaulted.
    1
  3612. It's not as bad as a case involving an underage boy, but it's still inappropriate.
    1
  3613.  @disconductorder  The video makes the power imbalance clear.
    1
  3614. More coverage.
    1
  3615.  @PresidentBr0wnVagena2024  Did you have a stroke?
    1
  3616. Indeed. This is very harmful.
    1
  3617. Thankfully, that's 100 out of a huge district, spread out over several years.
    1
  3618. The former.
    1
  3619. It's the same as for male perverts.
    1
  3620. Even the current tasers have been known to kill people.
    1
  3621. Polygraphs are unreliable. Don't take one. It's a pseudoscience.
    1
  3622. There is nothing political here.
    1
  3623. Speak for yourself. Besides, this sort of thing does a lot of harm.
    1
  3624. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. This behavior causes psychological damage to the minors, no matter the sexes involved. Boys often have long-lasting trouble forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3625. NYC was in much worse shape in the past few generations. It's mostly a great place these days. This sort of behavior is nothing new around the country and around the world. It's taken more seriously now, which is why we're hearing much more about it.
    1
  3626. Why? They explain in the video why this is harmful.
    1
  3627. Yes, the former.
    1
  3628. There's nothing funny about this.
    1
  3629. Profanity? In Utah!?!?
    1
  3630.  @mysterystainontherug6290  I'm referring to empirical evidence.
    1
  3631. ? This really hurts kids, psychologically speaking. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3632.  @zlatkosokolovic5715  For one thing, I don't believe you. For another, answer the question: do you think that this sort of thing should be legal?
    1
  3633.  @adotcdoy  Correct, but: *you're.
    1
  3634. That's not true, and attitudes like yours don't help. This kind of behavior is very damaging to the boys involved. They go on to have trouble with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, trust, consent, etc. It's even mentioned in this video; the boys get a little older, see how kids look at that age, and get horrified. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3635. They seem to be doing the right thing here, not covering it up like some institutions I could name.
    1
  3636. There's nothing nice about this. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3637. "Couldn't care less," not "could care less."
    1
  3638. Elsewhere, and not molesting you. That's good. This is very harmful.
    1
  3639. *you're
    1
  3640. This behavior is very harmful, no matter the sexes involved.
    1
  3641. @malasi888 That's not funny at all.
    1
  3642. It's not new at all. We're just seeing it more, thanks to less ignoring/tolerating.
    1
  3643. That's because it was swept under the rug for a long time. Things are somewhat different now.
    1
  3644. They?
    1
  3645. This behavior causes a lot of damage regarding forming healthy relationships, among other things.
    1
  3646. Anymore? This is nothing new. Thankfully, more people are taking it more seriously, hence increased exposure.
    1
  3647. This causes a lot of harm to the boys involved. Do you think that it should be legal?
    1
  3648. Increased visibility. It's due to these videos getting clicks and the algorithms respond. Also, this behavior is taken more seriously these days, leading to more prosecutions and more reporting.
    1
  3649.  @ThouSwell-zx3fd  It's always been a thing. Be glad that it didn't happen to you. These days, more people understand how psychologically damaging it is (as described in this very video), and thus there's more prosecution and more publicity.
    1
  3650. They're just pervs. The appearance makes no difference.
    1
  3651. It's not funny. This does a lot of damage.
    1
  3652.  @Bailey-k2j  That's actually not true. Most categories of juvenile delinquency are less common now than in previous eras.
    1
  3653.  @dutyofcall7659  Internet Tough Guy!
    1
  3654. It's one word (hearsay), and that's not what "hearsay evidence" is. That refers to a witness on the stand saying "somebody told me..."
    1
  3655.  @NAT-turners-Revenge  You're right to ask for one, don't get me wrong. However, please stop shouting.
    1
  3656. Homes are more dangerous than schools. Re: teachers, the prosecutions and reporting have increased, as people take it more seriously nowadays. It's not new.
    1
  3657. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
    1
  3658. "Gone," not "went."
    1
  3659. I get the reference, but no, this is not nice.
    1
  3660.  @iBuyBitcoin  It's not "snitching," it's coming forward. Why do you laugh? It's terrible when an adult does this to a kid. It's clearly explained in the video.
    1
  3661. This damages boys. Attitudes like yours make it worse.
    1
  3662. There's less of a stigma.
    1
  3663.  @karentracy9657  Attitudes like yours make it worse.
    1
  3664. I realize that it's a South Park reference, but there's nothing nice about this.
    1
  3665. They're pervs.
    1
  3666.  @MiguelDLewis  Look up the "No True Scotsman" fallacy.
    1
  3667.  @APsGTG  ?
    1
  3668.  @MiguelDLewis  How so? You're saying, by inserting that bible snippet, that the pervy religious leaders/clergy aren't "true Christians," right? Also, if I'm making a false equivalency (is that what you mean), where/how am I doing that?
    1
  3669. Anymore? Things used to be much more dangerous.
    1
  3670. True, extending over a period of several years, out of a very large number of teachers (it's NYC).
    1
  3671. Elsewhere, not doing this to you. Consider yourself lucky. This is very harmful.
    1
  3672. That's irrelevant.
    1
  3673. Homes are more dangerous than schools are.
    1
  3674. What do you mean by that?
    1
  3675.  @raulh5457  There's nothing lucky about molestation.
    1
  3676. Minors can't give consent. It's true for boys just as it's true for girls.
    1
  3677.  @jiggaman000 True, but it's "should *have."
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  3678. Note that, while there has been an upswing in homicide since the pandemic, the rates of most kinds of crime have stayed flat or continued to decline. Even the homicide rate is much lower than its 1990 peak.
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  3679. Watch the video, and pay attention. They make it clear that this is very harmful.
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  3680. Elsewhere, not molesting you. You were lucky.
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  3681. I'm glad that it's being ignored less often.
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  3682. More awareness leads to more prosecution and more reporting.
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  3683. The age doesn't matter.
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  3684. Thankfully, juvenile delinquency was worse in the past. See Kevin Drum's work.
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  3685. The video makes it very clear that this was terrible for the boy. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3686.  @PhrostyGaming  Did you not watch the video? The boy was harmed by this.
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  3687.  @themikehoncho  You and they don't know what you're talking about, and that's part of the problem. Attitudes like yours make it worse. Men who've been through this often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, among other things, and they also feel like there's something wrong with them because they don't feel good about it. Why do you think that it's good for boys and bad for girls, besides the possibility of pregnancy? Girls lust after adult men as well.
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  3688. They talk in this very video about why it takes so long for people to come forward. This behavior often causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding consent, boundaries, trust, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3689. Stop shouting.
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  3690.  @nicolemccoy3436  Use asterisks around the word. All-capital letters means that you're shouting. It's been netiquette for well over thirty years.
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  3691.  @kertarneaud4475  R Kelly got bail in 2019 and 2020. That's pre-trial; that's what bail/bond is.
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  3692.  @AMERICANPRIDE1100  What makes you think that?
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  3693.  @ed1609  It's just getting taken more seriously than in the past.
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  3694. I know that this is a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  3695. That's silly. There's nothing new about this. People take it more seriously now, hence more is done about it, and more reporting.
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  3696.  @Battle4Life222  The presence of trash in the city has nothing to do with this.
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  3697.  @ShadowDemon17 No!
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  3698. True, but not funny at all.
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  3699.  @Hey_its_just_me_to  I'm not glad. There's nothing funny here.
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  3700. Not at all.
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  3701. This isn't a partisan thing. If anything, progressive elements in society have always been the first to oppose the power structures that enable people in positions of authority to do this sort of thing.
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  3702. You don't know anything about his migration status. Besides, migrants commit less crime than US-born citizens.
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  3703. They're just being reported more often.
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  3704. Not funny.
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  3705. I hope not, but that has happened.
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  3706. These women are pervs. It's no different from men who do the same thing.
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  3707. Stop. Adults who do this, no matter the sexes involved, really harm children.
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  3708. Her appearance is irrelevant. This usually causes lots of psychological damage regarding forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, consent, etc. That's true no matter the sexes- man-boy, man-girl, woman-boy, woman-girl. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3709. This behavior does a lot of damage to the boys that go through it. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3710.  @Philljag  Yes. Men who have been through this often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, consent, and so on. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  3711.  @Philljag  College (if we mean university) students are adults. That's different. Also, you can't be serious regarding hotness as a measure of legality.
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  3712.  @connieb5267  That could be an interesting strategy, intentionally provoking a mistrial.
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  3713.  @WeAreLegion-  Molestation is not hot.
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  3714. They explain in the video how damaging this is. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  3715. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  3716. Why?
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  3717. Thankfully, that's not true.
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  3718. You don't know what you're talking about. This really hurts anyone, including boys.
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  3719. Spiritual?
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  3720.  @malcolmjelani3588  I'm not sure what that means in this context.
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  3721. You don't know what you're talking about. Social workers have been very helpful in de-escalating situations with mentally troubled people.
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  3722. She's a perv, just like men who commit the same crime.
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  3723. I don't have to imagine. There are plenty of cases of men doing it as well, sadly.
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  3724.  @NunyAbizz831  What, cases of male teachers preying upon students? Jefferson Jerome Fietek, Giovanny LaTorre, Shawn Thomas, Jeffrey Munguia, Steven Gordon, Kurt Zimmerman... and so on.
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  3725. That's nothing new. Homes are the most dangerous places in that regard. Thankfully, more people are taking this sort of thing more seriously.
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  3726. This behavior is being taken more seriously, thus we're hearing much more about it.
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  3727. How so? This is terrible.
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  3728. I'm glad that more people are taking it more seriously. It's nothing new.
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  3729. Look at the numbers. They are very safe.
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  3730.  @valoriemichelletorres5939  Absolutely, but that doesn't mean that your assessment is correct.
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  3731.  @valoriemichelletorres5939  No, I mean the overall numbers. People are terribly bad at assessing risk. Don't live in fear.
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  3732. Somewhere else. This behavior causes substantial psychological damage. Men who've been through this are often facing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  3733. They talk about it in the video. There's a stigma around boys in this situation.
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  3734. It's being ignored/tolerated less often.
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  3735.  @timbaldwin6283 Career criminals?
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  3736.  @JMelissaMc You don't know what you're talking about. Why do you want to punish children for being born into bad circumstances?
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  3737.  @RunSamRun94 @JMelissaMc made a since deleted comment sneering about "welfare." Even if you (wrongly) hold adults in contempt who receive such assistance, don't forget that making things worse for the adults will make things worse for the children as well.
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  3738.  @adspur Do you know about, for example, redlining?
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  3739.  @JMelissaMc Public assistance often is what keeps children from dire, life-threatening poverty.
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  3740.  @johnbarlow4572  Minors can't consent, and it often takes time before they realize the damage.
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  3741.  @Stratted843  This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
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  3742.  @Jay999_W  This damages boys. Attitudes like yours don't help.
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  3743.  @bootlegjoe  What ideology? There's nothing new about this.
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  3744.  @AidenOcelot  It's because she hasn't been convicted yet.
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  3745.  @tevinstvalle8704  There's nothing funny about this.
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  3746. I know that that's a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice.
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  3747. Once again, this behavior causes a lot of harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved. It often causes lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, understanding trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, do you think that is should be legal?
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  3748.  @AlbertHess-xy7ky  I'm not entirely sure, but I'm glad that it's being taken more seriously now, hence the increased reporting.
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  3749.  @strongfoot2009  It's not fashionable. More people are taking it more seriously, and that's a positive development. It's being ignored less often.
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  3750.  @Insert.Name.Here.  No. Why do you ask?
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  3751. It's Cleveland. Also, drug-addled individuals passed out in vehicles happens everywhere.
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  3752. Out of context.
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  3753.  @nickgiesler3438  It's not as bad as a case with an underage boy (which causes a lot of psychological harm), but the video makes it clear why this is illegal.
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  3754. It was swept under the rug in those days. It's only recently that this behavior has been taken seriously.
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  3755. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  3756. Why are you apologizing?
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  3757.  @DonaldMcNuGGeT It was the "I'm sorry" part.
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  3758. Not funny.
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  3759. What difference does it make?
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  3760. It's perverse.
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  3761. ?
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  3762. They're pervs.
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  3763.  @celestinalunar6902  It's just being ignored less often.
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  3764. They're not supposed to, but people are doing it anyway.
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  3765. Your therapist was a decent person. This behavior usually causes longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, consent, boundaries, etc. If you think otherwise, ask yourself if it should be legal. It's the same for any combination of the sexes: Woman-boy, woman-girl, man-boy, man-girl.
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  3766. It's being ignored less often.
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  3767. ?
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  3768.  @ultimatums1  Why? She's right. This is very harmful.
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  3769. "Lent/loaned," not "borrowed." An attorney should know that.
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  3770. What's that supposed to mean?
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  3771. "A part," not "apart." Those are opposites! Anyway, this is not new. More perverts are getting caught.
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  3772.  @Carl_McMelvin  What leftist, or anyone, is praising this behavior?
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  3773. She's short!
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  3774. They're just pervs. Very young adults do this as well. Minors do it to one another.
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  3775.  @Noticerofthings Stop talking around things. Just say it. I dare you.
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  3776. Atypical, thankfully.
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  3777. ?
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  3778. No feminists support this behavior.
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  3779. @AbijehsjsNot if you're a minor, you don't.
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  3780. Bad luck, in fact.
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  3781.  @starc.  This isn't getting laid, it's molestation. It does a lot of damage. As for the rest of your comment, why do you embrace the double standard? Man-eaters/playgirls are great, and very attractive.
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  3782.  @Gwynkoo93  So? This is still very harmful. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3783. It's nothing new, but people are taking it more seriously.
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  3784. It gets clicks.
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  3785. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3786. This behavior causes a lot of harm; men who went through this often have substantial difficulty in forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3787.  @humanbeing-001  It does, as a matter of fact. Mental health professionals make it clear. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3788. It's more likely that we're just talking about it more often, and that's a good development.
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  3789. She was groomed.
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  3790.  @amberhough8005  He had groomed her.
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  3791.  @leob4403  The information is easy to find. Are you saying that this behavior should be legal?
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  3792.  @janicester  You don't know what you're talking about. This causes a lot of damage.
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  3793.  @jessetufano6748  It's not what she can't get. She's a pervert. There's nothing funny about it.
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  3794. It's not funny.
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  3795.  @bluedabadee8997  Unfortunately there are several.
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  3796. First: The world is less dangerous now than it was when the people in this video were growing up/young adults. Of course, that doesn't mean one shouldn't be cautious! Second: Please stop shouting.
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  3797. This behavior causes considerable psychological harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3798. So many men seem to think that they (the boys) do.
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  3799. That vehicle shown at the end is from the DC Metropolitan Police ("Metro PD"), not anything from Pittsburgh.
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  3800. To everyone who thinks that this sort of thing is "awesome": Do you think that it should be legal? Do you not realize that this does a lot of damage, often hurting the ability of men to form healthy relationships?
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  3801.  @johnbarlow4572  That's great for you (sincerely), but not the norm. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  3802. There's been an upswing in homicide rates during/since the pandemic, but the rates are still well below the peak (which occurred around 1990), and they're leveling off.
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  3803. It's bad luck. This behavior causes lifelong, or at least long-lasting, harm to boys who go through it. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  3804. Children are in far more danger at home than anywhere else, except for being in cars.
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  3805. We don't know his status. Also, immigration reform (making enough visas available for lower-skilled workers, for example) mitigates human trafficking.
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  3806.  @tommywise1702  If his status had anything to do with his uncle, it would be legit, no? Anyway, exactly- If adequate numbers of visas in the right categories were available, the border would be a much smaller issue.
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  3807. Some people are pervs. That's all.
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  3808. Teachers are adults.
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