Comments by "Scott Charney" (@scottcharney1091) on "Iowa Teacher Allegedly Sexually Abused Student, Sent 3 Others Nude Photos After Getting Married" video.

  1. This sort of thing really hurts the boys involved. The double standard is awful, and we need to understand that.
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  2.  @Wooley689 The data are clear. Children can't give consent to adults. It doesn't matter if it's woman-on-boy, woman-on-girl, man-on-boy, or man-on-girl.
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  3.  @joep6035 We can't just say "well, it's OK sometimes."
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  4.  @nicolasjaramillo430  Not funny.
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  5.  @kweenz109 I was in the class of 2000, and I liked skinny girls and curvy girls. They were all great, as far as I was concerned.
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  6. No, it's just getting reported more often.
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  7.  @nicolasjaramillo430  This is child molestation, or worse, and that's not yummy.
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  8.  @travissamz1604  One can't put links in comments anymore, but the data is/are clear on this. It's a terrible thing.
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  9. That's disgusting.
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  10.  @alexdavila1356 Do you have anything to cite that supports that?
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  11.  @lidoz You don't. This sort of thing really harms boys.
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  12.  @DarthKater311 That's not necessarily representative, and in any case that doesn't make it right. This behavior is very harmful.
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  13. There are studies on precisely that. They show a lot of harm.
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  14. There's nothing to praise about child molestation. Also, I have no idea what your second sentence means.
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  15. Thankfully more men have realized how this is not a good thing.
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  16. @charleswhite758 It really harms them. Note that one of the problems is that they are reluctant to admit that at the time.
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  17. *whose
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  18. It's just getting reported on more.
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  19.  @TheRealSpenco  They're minors, they can't give consent, and there are good reasons. It does a lot of damage.
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  20.  @Harvard-Alumni-2002  You don't know what you're talking about.
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  21.  @illusorytrutheffect  You don't know what you're talking about. Mental health professionals and others deal with the results.
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  22.  @CompShooter54  Admit? You should admit that you're wrong. This is child molestation, or worse.
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  23.  @ManChan-w5p  Elsewhere, not molesting you. That's a good thing, as this kind of behavior does a lot of harm.
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  24.  @chesspunk489  It's harmful in the same way that it's harmful when it's man-on-girl, man-on-boy, and woman-on-girl. You don't need to imagine.
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  25. Not so. Kids are in much more danger at home! Besides, this sort of thing wasn't talked about much in previous eras.
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  26. The wrong schools are those where this happens.
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  27. This is terrible. It really harms the boys involved.
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  28. Because you were fortunate.
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  29. That's not funny. This really harms the boys involved.
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  30.  @blissfulbunny  Exactly!
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  31. This really damages the minds of the boys involved. Also, that's not how question marks work.
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  32.  @lidoz  Speak for yourself.
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  33.  @lidoz  That's a common historical misconception.
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  34. There's nothing lucky about this. It's very harmful.
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  35. Children can't give consent. Period.
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  36. You were a child. There's a reason why kids can't give consent. This sort of thing is very harmful to the boys involved. Also: would *have.
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  37.  @sdraulitolito44  No, it's terrible. It's not awesome at all.
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  38. This is a terrible thing. It's very harmful.
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  39. Because you were fortunate.
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  40. There's nothing lucky about this.
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  41. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This sort of thing really damages boys.
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  42. It's very harmful for the boys, but it often is hard for them to admit that at the time, precisely because of attitudes like yours.
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  43. These days? We're just talking about it more openly now.
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  44. This hurts the boys involved.
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  45.  @Anthony-dy5cq  It's often found that the boys don't talk about the harm until much later; they're unwilling to violate the macho way they're "supposed" to feel about it.
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  46. It's just getting ignored less.
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  47.  @dentalcare1  How so? The data are clear.
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  48.  @Chuassy  It does. The data are clear.
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  49.  @lucashogan2912 No, it's true.
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  50.  @nattyboop4  They were elsewhere, not molesting you. That's fortunate, as it would have hurt you.
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  51.  @MrSupersonic2012  Not at all.
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  52. No you don't. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  53. Elsewhere, not molesting you.
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  54. You don't know what you're talking about.
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  55. There's nothing lucky about this! It's very harmful for the boys involved.
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  56.  @DarthKater311  This isn't exactly a scientific sample. In any case, this reality reflects a lot of dangerous ignorance.
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  57.  @thekeysman6760  I think that you mean "exclamation."
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  58. It's just being reported more often.
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  59. @charleswhite758 This is bad luck, not good.
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  60.  @chrisgullett4332  You don't know what you're talking about. In fact, more conservative elements are more likely to endorse double standards in cases like this.
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  61. Elsewhere, not molesting you.
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  62. True, and that's terrible.
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  63. Kids are in much more danger at home. More to the point, you know that this goes on at private schools as well, and in certain settings it's a severe, longstanding problem. Also, speaking of education: *their.
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  64. This is terrible. It causes a lot of harm.
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  65. @@boombapV Teen pregnancy (if that's what you are referring to) has dropped like a brick since the early 1990s.
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  66.  @Noname7993-i5t  You don't know what you are talking about. This has been studied, and it's a very harmful thing.
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  67. Nothing new. Thankfully, this sort of thing is finally being confronted.
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  68. It isn't. It's just being ignored less.
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  69. @dacrosber No, it's terrible. The sexes should learn to interact as much as possible.
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  70. It's exasperating.
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  71. This is child molestation.
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  72.  @nicolasjaramillo430  No, you don't. This does a lot of damage.
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  73.  @Derek-no8fu  No, it's not nice at all.
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  74.  @SXI96  It's not funny.
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  75.  @qtpi333 It often takes years for them to admit it. There's a stigma to not living up to these ignorant expectations.
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  76. There's nothing funny here.
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  77. In this case, it's bad luck. This does a lot of damage.
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  78. Not at all. This is very damaging.
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  79. There's nothing lucky about this; it's very harmful.
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  80. Elsewhere, not molesting you. This is very harmful.
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  81. What myths are these?
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  82. Did you just have a stroke?
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  83. Even if you're an adult, it's not good to be attracted to someone who sexually assaults children.
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  84. It's just being ignored less.
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  85. Children can't give consent, and this kind of thing is very harmful.
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  86. Not at all.
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  87. Speak for yourself. Also, and this is the point, this really damages the boys involved.
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  88.  @Uncle_john_skydives What makes you say that?
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  89.  @juancarlossilvamolina What's so funny?
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  90.  @pmccoy8924  If you look at the relevant laws, you will often see "close in age" exemptions for this sort of thing. Also, it's not a matter of "should."
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  91.  @lucashogan2912  No, I am correct. Mental health professionals make it clear. Are you saying that this behavior should be legal?
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  92.  @Rachel-tx3rs  Are you serious? A teacher, any adult, has a position of power over a minor. The onus is not on the minor to put a stop to the assault! That's true in any such case, no matter who's involved.
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  93.  @wilE6764 Not funny.
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  94. Not nice at all.
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  95. There's nothing lucky about this.
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  96.  @DodongoManoof  Not at all.
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  97. ?
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  98. Why? This really damages boys.
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  99. Elsewhere, and thus not molesting you. This is very harmful.
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  100. You've missed the point. This sort of thing does a lot of harm.
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  101.  @nicolasjaramillo430  It's bad luck, and very harmful.
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  102. There's nothing lucky about this.
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  103.  @illusorytrutheffect  Why is it not as bad?
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  104.  @nonamewillbegiven2412  What, are you denying the damage?
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  105.  @nonamewillbegiven2412  Mental health professionals make it clear that there's a lot of harm done by this sort of thing. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  106.  @nonamewillbegiven2412  Men who went through this often have lifelong problems forging relationships (of various types), feeling trust, and so on. It's no secret, indeed the information is easy to find, but people still deny it, and that's exasperating.
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  107.  @MrC9Oh3 What's so different?
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  108.  @rogdawg123  What does that mean?
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  109. It's not being hidden as much as it was before.
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  110. No you don't. This sort of thing is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  111. I don't know what that means.
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  112. It's just being reported more.
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  113. For one thing, it's "nowadays." For another; no, this kind of thing is very damaging.
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  114. It's just being reported on more.
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  115. There's nothing funny about this. It's terrible.
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  116. This does a lot of harm.
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  117. What does that mean?
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  118. Not funny.
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  119.  @bluecreature39  True, but: *you're.
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  120. No. This sort of thing is seriously harmful to the boys involved.
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  121. No.
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  122. Not funny.
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  123.  @chesspunk489 There's nothing funny about child molestation, and that's what this is.
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  124. No, very unlucky. This does a lot of damage.
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  125. She probably has a jail number, and eventually a prison number, and rightly so. There's nothing funny about this. It does a lot of damage.
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  126. I hope that enough people understand what the quotation marks mean!
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  127. No, it's just being discussed more openly.
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  128.  @Fantastic_Maggie  That's disingenuous.
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  129.  @Fantastic_Maggie  No, completely. Are you serious?
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  130. No, it's harmful.
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  131. They were elsewhere, and thus not molesting you. This behavior does a lot of harm.
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  132. Because you were fortunate. This is harmful.
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  133.  @ryanthompson3737 Ok, but you're missing the point. Researchers find that in many cases the boys are only able to admit in adulthood that the experience hurt them, because they want to live up to the "manly" expectations that we see in too many of these comments.
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  134. It's not. It's just ignored less often.
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  135. No, this kind of luck is very bad, leading to a lot of harm.
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  136. Hideous.
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  137. No you don't. This is very harmful to the boys involved.
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  138. Children are in far more danger at home.
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  139. Not at all. This harms kids.
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  140.  @Katchi_  I'm correct. The data are clear on this, and you need to stop lauding child molestation (and worse).
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  141. There's nothing funny about this.
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  142.  @ariesdk5487 What's so funny about a terrible thing like this?
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  143. This is child molestation and worse. It's very harmful, even to boys.
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  144. Somewhere else, thus not molesting you. This sort of thing does a lot of damage.
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  145. It's not being ignored as often as it once was.
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  146. Elsewhere, thus not molesting you. This does a lot of harm.
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  147.  @charliehustle3685  ?
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  148. Not so.
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  149. And this sort of thing was ignored in those days.
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  150. Not at all.
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  151. Elsewhere. Consider yourself lucky. This kind of crime does a lot of damage.
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  152.  @brandonscottsanchez  The most dangerous place for a child is at home.
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  153. Lucky? This is very harmful.
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  154. Not nice at all.
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  155. There's nothing lucky about this. It's very harmful.
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  156. This is very harmful.
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  157. That doesn't matter. Minors can't give consent.
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  158. This is very harmful to the boys involved.The data make it clear.
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  159. This is, the vast majority of the time, very damaging to the boys involved.
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  160. This does a lot of harm to the kids.
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  161. It's just being reported more.
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  162. Speak for yourself. Besides, this sort of thing does a lot of harm.
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  163. Elsewhere, and not molesting you. That's good. This is very harmful.
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  164. Children are in far more danger at home than anywhere else, except for being in cars.
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