Comments by "Scott Charney" (@scottcharney1091) on "Virginia Teacher Admits Crawling Into 14-Year-Old Student's Bed For Sex" video.

  1. For everyone who thinks that this is a good thing for the boy involved, you should know that men who went through this as boys frequently have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, and worse. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  2. It's just being ignored less often.
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  3. This isn't new. It's just being ignored less often.
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  4.  @Carl_McMelvin  It's not lunacy. It's accurate. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  5.  @jonkunnu8792  How so? Mental health professionals make it clear that this is very damaging.
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  6.  @Deagnetic  They were elsewhere, not molesting you. You were fortunate. This does a lot of harm. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  7.  @Carl_McMelvin  People need to realize that this is child molestation, and it does a lot of harm. Attitudes like yours are part of the problem. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  8.  @brian5148  Exactly. So many men think that this behavior is just fine. It's infuriating.
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  9.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  This behavior does a lot of damage.
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  10. It's not new, but it's being ignored/tolerated less than before.
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  11.  @spacemanspliff7983  Do you have any evidence for that? See all the comments from men who think that this is a good thing. It's only recently that enough people have come to understand how awful it is.
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  12. If anything, it's better now. This sort of thing is being ignored less often.
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  13.  @jonkunnu8792  How so? Mental health professionals, and most of the men who experience this, show that I am correct. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  14. This sort of thing is far more likely to happen involving people who have established enough trust to not have to do any sneaking. Also, I can't imagine being under my parents' thumbs for all of my school career. What a nightmare.
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  15.  @usmc4lifetkd956  People don't believe the survivors? That's true, sadly.
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  16.  @Carl_McMelvin  You don't know what you're talking about. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  17.  @landor7610  You're not answering the question.
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  18. So many men think that these situations are good things. It's infuriating.
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  19. It's being ignored less often.
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  20. Yes. It often causes lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, and worse.
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  21.  @thedraftdoctor1  For one thing, you don't know that. For another, those attitudes are part of the problem. For yet another, do you seriously think that any of that outweighs the damage done? Do you think that this behavior should be legal?
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  22. Sexes, rather. But yes, you're right. This does a lot of damage to the boys.
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  23.  @Carl_McMelvin  Please elaborate.
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  24.  @joep6035 Mental health professionals make it clear that this sort of thing is very harmful. People keep praising this behavior, claiming that it's good for boys, and thus the logical conclusion is that they would like it to be legal. It's the obvious question. If this is such a good thing, why not make it legal?
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  25. They're just using the kids, and it's terrible.
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  26. It gets clicks, and this behavior is being ignored/tolerated less often.
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  27. This sort of thing causes substantial psychological damage, and attitudes like yours are part of the problem. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  28. Minors can't give consent, and there was a power imbalance. This is very harmful.
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  29. This sort of behavior does a lot of damage, and attitudes like yours don't help. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  30.  @briankenome  Thanks, and I hope that you're doing okay.
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  31.  @Philljag  There's only bad luck here. This causes a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal? Also: should *have.
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  32.  @Philljag  You don't have a serious answer.
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  33. Child molestation is not funny.
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  34.  @bigc8300  Not funny.
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  35. I hope that you're an adult.
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  36. It's being ignored more and ignored less often.
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  37. I realize that you're making a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  38. I know that it's a South Park reference, but no, this is not nice at all. It causes a lot of harm.
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  39. Unfortunately. Things like that song fuel misconceptions about this kind of behavior.
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  40.  @LeopardJoy  Sure thing!
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  41. This behavior does a lot of damage. Do you want it to be legal?
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  42. It's not funny.
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  43. ?
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  44. This sort of thing does a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  45. I know that it's a South Park reference, but no, there's nothing nice about this.
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  46. It's bad luck. This behavior does a lot of psychological harm. Do you think tthat it should be legal?
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  47. It's bad luck. It does a lot of harm regarding, among other things, forming healthy relationships. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  48.  @mattiaslp9645  Feminists do not support this sort of thing. Why would they? It's the same for the "alphabet gang."
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  49.  @TheKavebear1  A lot of men do say that, and it's infuriating.
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  50.  @stevegonzales527  It's mostly men who say that. They think that it's good for boys. They're infuriatingly ignorant.
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  51.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  That's not data. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  52.  @JoseGomez-en4pg  By legalizing this behavior? Is that what you're trying to say?
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  53. I hope that you're an adult.
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  54. How so? This harms the boys involved, often causing long-term problems with forming healthy relationships, trust, boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  55. It wasn't mine. This kind of thing is very harmful, often causing lifelong problems with forming healthy relationships, uderstanding trust and consent, and so on. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  56.  @n0rsca392  It's not funny. Boys are harmed, just as girls are.
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  57. It's just getting tolerated/ignored less often.
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  58. Why?
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  59. Because you were fortunate. This is very damaging. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  60.  @mwbright  I hope that you're just trolling. My nephew is twelve. Do you know any twelve-year-olds? Do you think that this would be fine for them? If it's so great, should it be legal?
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  61.  @emmajones8590  It's a term used in lieu of "victims." To be sure, sometimes it's a bit linguistically (if that's the right word) awkward.
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  62.  @texarkana3781  An adult doing this to a minor (no matter the sexes involved) is not "getting laid." Do you not realize that?
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  63. What do you mean by that?
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  64. Minors can't give consent. It's true for boys just as it's true for girls.
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  65.  @jiggaman000 True, but it's "should *have."
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  66. I know that this is a South Park reference, but no, it's not nice at all.
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  67. This behavior does a lot of damage to the boys that go through it. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  68.  @Philljag  Yes. Men who have been through this often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, consent, and so on. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  69.  @Philljag  College (if we mean university) students are adults. That's different. Also, you can't be serious regarding hotness as a measure of legality.
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  70. This behavior causes a lot of harm; men who went through this often have substantial difficulty in forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, etc. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  71.  @humanbeing-001  It does, as a matter of fact. Mental health professionals make it clear. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  72. It's bad luck. This behavior causes lifelong, or at least long-lasting, harm to boys who go through it. Do you think that it should be legal?
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