Comments by "Lisa Culton" (@LisaCulton) on "Women treat MEN the way men treat JOBS: how relationship goals change the dating process" video.

Women can be educated, work, and be financially secure and still want a husband who is a provider / better provider.
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@Shutzie27 Oh, it's fine. It's just that everybody is different and some of us feel that wearing makeup is our true self and while others see only "no makeup" as true and genuine. For me, there is never a reason not to wear makeup (except for during sleeping). I wear it during sports, at work and at home. However, if it is known that the majority of men are choosing women in lipstick and beautiful clothing and slimmer physiques (all things equal) then the problem lies in you if you don't want that look.
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The same way that men do. When I get a better offer, I thank everyone for the good times, experience, education and support and then I leave.
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You answered your own question. If you want men to be interested, then you must invest in your appearance. My experience: I consider myself a fairly normal 50+ mom who takes care of herself (skin care, fit body, simple makeup, natural hair) and as an experiment to see if "I've still got it", I created a dating profile and uploaded 5 or 6 pictures of me doing anything from working to wearing a bikini, there was very little text. And to be honest, I was blown away by how much interest I received from top quality, successful men from 45 - 60 years old. Almost 50 men had contacted me in less than 2 days. I couldn't even respond to them all and had to make the profile private. Go for it. It takes very little time and money to look your best. I don't have a gym membership, I just bike to work and do calisthenics at home; I generally use drugstore makeup; I color my hair myself; and I eat good foods and moisturize my whole body and face every day. My biggest expense is probably supplements and vitamins.
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@Shutzie27 Well, we're just different. I do my hair and makeup even if I'm staying home for the day and regardless of if I'm in a relationship or on the hunt. I even put on red lipstick before running a marathon. I just think it looks good. That's the authentic me. Of course people eventually see what one looks like fresh out of the shower or the first thing in the morning, but honestly, there's not much difference (I don't wear heavy makeup) and the attraction is already there.
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@Shutzie27 All cultures have their own beauty standards and practices for both men and women. It's just human nature.
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@chrisolson84 True.
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@wyleecoyotee4252 Women rarely leave a steady job and they generally won't negotiate for better conditions.
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@PharmacyTechLabs It's great when I purchase luxuries for myself, but it's even much better when a loving man purchases it for me.
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@PharmacyTechLabs 39 is young. I didn't have my son until I was almost 39. You've got a long way to go. I can assure you that I am 100% financially independent, as are most of the women with whom I associate, but we all enjoy having a man/husband/partner. After 2 marriages, I'm not sure that I want to be legally married again, but I definitely will go for finding a like-minded (successful and generous) partner to spend my golden years with. Good luck out there.
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@shellylen Facts.
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@shellylen Well, I personally wouldn't put having children on hold waiting for the right man to show up, but that's just me (and I know other women who decided to have children without going through the trouble of getting a husband first or at all). My child has only improved my life and brought me much joy and happiness.
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@christopherbrooks225 I'm successful and generous and I appreciate those same qualities in a man.
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@christopherbrooks225 I'm already in Europe and have a European husband. That's how it's done.
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