Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "Shoe0nHead"
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My own wife pulls this shit. I ask her what she needs and she says "you should just know". So I had to explain to her like a toddler that sometimes humans need to verbalize their thoughts to one another so that they can come to an understanding. But that was too much for her to grasp. It astonished me that I even need to had this conversation with her.
Then I realized, with women, it's not about what you say. It's about your attitude vs her attitude. The problem is never the problem. And many times, she's just bitching just to bitch. So if you ask her for clues as to how to create a solution, she won't help you, she will blame you. Because she's not looking for a solution, she's looking for something or someone to blame. And this is her fault. So now, I don't even engage with words. Of she's having a bad day, I'll just toss her a chocolate bar or something. Just make a small gesture that shows her I care to brighten her day and that's it. If she wants to talk, she will. And I'm gonna let her pick when, because if I want to talk, it's NEVER the right time..
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This is unironically the most important message all men need to hear.
We're so busy living lives of bland compromise we have almost no creative or exploring spirit anymore. We seek out women to fill the void. But that's actually why women are repulsed by men.
Women aren't attracted to the man persay. They're more attracted to the man's passion for life. If you as a man are engaged every day in doing and creating the things you love, and you build a life that can support you doing that, then women will notice. But even if they don't, you won't care.
Find the coolest thing in the world to you, and seek it out. And if you're afraid to or if you think you're gonna fail, you're robbing yourself of your purpose.
You got so much more power in you than you think. And we were endowed by God to create, build, use creativity, explore, and subdue the earth with our passions. That's your purpose - creativity.
And once you live this way, the passion will radiate off onto others.
If you're not in a state of creativity, you're stagnating. You can only either progress or regress. There is no staying the same. And fulfillment comes through creative progress in all of your endeavors.
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