Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "The Diary Of A CEO" channel.

  1. @edithead5994, slut shaming has absolutely nothing to do with women weaponizing sex against men in committed relationships. Women are not slut shamed. Women are praised for being recklessly promiscuous. It's praised in all forms of media and culture. Only fans wouldn't be a thing if it weren't the case.
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  2. I don't do casual sex. I always wear a suit and tie.
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  3. No kissing leads to no sex which leads to no relationship
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  4. You ruined it for yourself
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  5. @leafymonkey, idk why women complain about housework. They literally put clothes and dishes into machines that wash them for them. I did all my housework as a bachelor with minimal effort and my wife said I'm the cleanest guy she'd ever met. Only reason I don't do the chores for my wife is because she tears my head off if I don't do it her exact way. So I said f*ck it I'm not gonna help if you can't chill. When it comes to working full time, women have more opportunities now than ever to work from home. And if they'd rather not work then you have to talk to your partner about making enough money to allow you to stay at home. That's a talk YOU have to have and a life that YOU have to plan for. I make enough to support my wife but she insists on working and that's her choice.
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  6. Women are attracted to the dynamics they are most familiar with. If they had shitty dads, they will be attracted to shitty men. Because, to them, that's what masculinity is. And if they get with a good man, the good man will make her feel uncomfortable because she doesn't know how to receive a healthy dynamic. She craves the toxic crap she grew up with. You cannot out-love someone's issues.
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  7. @wondervideos2084, that's bullshit. People don't "look for validation" in their partners. They look for their emotional, romantic, and sexual needs being met - which is the entire point of a relationship. People like you who say "you should be happy by yourself" is just an empty saying that is so overused for the purpose gaslighting people into not expecting anything from their significant other.
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  8. @TherealBigblue22, you don't ever make out? That sounds awful
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  9. I tried this and my wife used it as a way to manipulate me and constantly validate her perspective while dismissing mine. Her version of feeling seen and heard and understood is to agree with all of her accusations while absolving her of all of her negative contributions to the situation. And it never ends. The more I tried to make her feel understood, the more one sided it got. This is why we fight.
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  10. I'm not going to take sex advice from a gender camouflaged "expert" who looks like even her cats run away from.
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  11. "penis in vagina sex is women's least favorite way to have sex" Okay dude, stop projecting..
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  12. @mikochild2, funny how when you're dating and barley know a guy you'll give him all the sex he wants, but the minute the relationship becomes committed you turn the sex off and make it a duty.
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  13. Attachement theories are incredibly overused now. People are classifying each other and themselves entirely wrong. For example, if you think you're an anxious attached person.. It's probably 100% due to the fact that your relationship needs are not being met and the other person isn't fulfilling to be with. If the other person met your relational needs, you would no longer be anxious. If you're an avoidant, chances are you're just not into the other person and you are probably settling. If you're actually scared of attachments and actually are avoidant, you should not be dating at all. And people who say they are securely attached.. This is a mixed bag. You can be the most personally secure person in the world, but if you're with someone who is not meeting the relational needs, it will always make you become insecure in the relationship.
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  14. My wife didn't need me to get her in the mood when she practically graped me on our second date. She didn't need it for weeks after either. Then she started to regulate sex after I committed
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  15. It wasn't advice. It was psychological manipulation and abuse
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  16. Dear God help me when my wife goes through this.
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  17. Bullshit. Sex can happen as often as you want. You're ruining it for yourself. And to hold sex under lock and key for your significant other is cruel and unusual punishment.
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  18. Bullshit. They don't have "less desire" when they cheat or when they break up with you and fuck a random stranger they don't even know. It's all in their heads. And they take no accountability for their actions or their bodies.
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  19. For women, sex is 100% about power. Men are in love, women are in business
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  20. Love is an equation. It's a formula. It's a business that operates on emotional transactions instead of cash flow. You have to do whatever it takes to create the feelings the other person wants, and they have to do it for you - and you both have to find the ways you can do this without gaining at each other's expense. Sacrifice actually kills love and creates resentment. You have to make sure that when you love each other, you're enjoying the giving and not sacrificing in order to give. And if it feels like a sacrifice, find out why and change it with one another. This is why divorce happens - one person or the other gains too much at the others expense for years and the partner who sacrifices gets sick of it. This is a project but it needs to be done. If you don't meet these conditions for one another, you WILL fall out of love and you will get divorced.
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  21. I bet it's Hella fun for the actors to act out though. That's the thing about sex whether it's real or scripted. Either way, you're creating a scene. And the best sex I've ever had has been with women who know how to do that.
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  22. All women are oblivious to the male psyche
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  23. Love is an equation - and it is HEAVILY based on FEELINGS, not commitment.. You MUST create feelings for one another in order to stay in love. Couples who are in love never get divorced. It's all about cause and effect. Learn what causes create the bets effects in one another and avoid the causes that create the worst effects in one another. If you both have this mutual understanding, you will not only survive, but thrive. The problem is no one wants to acknowledge this. Everyone wants to just take while claiming "love is unconditional". Love is NOT unconditional. If love was unconditional then it would not matter who we marry or why, because you would not need any conditions to be met to love that person. Romantic and sexual love is very much CONDITIONAL. And all conditions rely on variables that can be created and changed.
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  24. I don't understand men who cannot have sex with their wives. I would kill to have a high sex drive in my wife. When I hear of husbands like yours I just think "how pathetic". Sex is amazing and for a man to not give it to his wife is just utterly absurd. I feel the same about women who don't give it to their men. Maybe you should talk to my wife, and I'll talk to your husband.
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  25. "casual sex for women is dangerous" Then why do women insist on participating in it and encouraging it?
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  26. I did everything I could to prevent this and my ex wife didn't care
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  27. @aaronsinspirationdaily4896, bro you're telling my story. I found Marriagebuilders and my wife and I are doing their 10 session program. We're 3 sessions in and it's the BEST advice on marriage I ever heard. All other advice is aweful
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  28. Tds
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  29. It has nothing to do with attachment styles. It has everything to do with the other person failing to meet your relationship needs
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  30. Robert greene seems like a guy who drinks his own piss for health reasons and he'd have no problem telling you all about it if the subject came up.
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  31. I bet you have no idea what part you had to play in it all or why he stopped having sex with you
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  32. orange daisies, we DO SAY IT but you women DON'T LISTEN
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  33. I tried that and I quickly learned most people are idiots so I stopped trying. Now I just disassociate from everyone around me and it's way better
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  34. @acerpalmatum6446, when I do this it makes other people seem like they are getting a needy vibe from me so I just chill and do my own thing
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  35. @n.o.9506, just one more hoop men have to jump through and the women can always turn us down do matter what. And they avoid all responsibility. When I dated my wife I didn't ever have to seduce her. She jumped me all the time. Then after 3 months she says "it was new and exciting but now I don't need it anymore". This is her fault not mine. So I actually tried to seduce her and nothing worked. I did an endless laundry list of tasks that I thought would work and connect with her but nothing did - help her with chores. Love notes, dinners, all kinds of gestures, nonsexual touch. Nothing turned her on. I got tired of playing these games over time. Its sad how women weaponize sex and turn it into a game just because they feel like it
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  36. Shes gotta pay attention to you to and show you she loves you too. You can't give what you don't receive
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