Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Whoever cares the least while also prioritizing themselves has the most power
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  2. It's funny how women respect men who are their bosses because money is on the table. But when a man is her lover and the marriage is on the table, the woman doesn't care at all
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  3. Hardest part for me is dealing with boredom and loneliness. I could be fulfilling all of my responsibilities, meeting my goals, etc. But it's all just so boring and lonely. Even as a married man I get lonely in my marriage. Once you have kids your relationship with your wife essentially ends. You just become a glorified atm and taxi. It's gets old real fast. Objectively I have a good life and I'm a good dude. I just get bored and lonely. I get tired of it all.
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  4. It's truly amazing how fucked the modern world is. All the dreams of actual acceptance and romance I had are almost entirely destroyed because how modern vvomen are. Marriage itself has jaded me beyond anything I'd ever dream of. When I first got married I was the happiest man on earth. Then it all changed over just 2 short years.
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  5. For real. I'm so tired of being treated like I'm not a human being. It's about the heart connection, but people are completely ignoring that these days it seems. I'm so tired of always having to strive to be in the top 1% of a pyramid scheme I didn't create, all to impress people who couldn't give less of a shit about me.
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  6. A woman will show you who she really is after 3 months or so. And when she does, believe her.
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  7. For every good man in a relationship, there a woman who hates him for it
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  8. The thing about meeting women is you need an actual real life reason to talk to them besides how attractive they are. That's the only real way connections actually happen. You need some kind of mechanism to relate to each other with. It's even the same for your friends and family. If there's nothing to relate to each other about then you simply cannot connect. And the kicker is she has to WANT to relate to you.
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  9. Women need boundaries. Ever since I took my balls back and stopped over-giving my time, money, emotions, etc being my genuine self, things have turned around. It makes you way more confident. I learned that a lack of confidence is actually not related to a lack of ability or lack of attractive qualities. It's actually more so related to a lack of self respect and boundaries. Men who approach women and try to get the women to like them are demonstrating an utter lack of boundaries. They're saying "i know nothing about you, but will you like me please?" and it reeks of desperation. You need to act in a way that says "im open to a connection, but only if you show me you're worth it". This is why i only approach women who genuinely seem like nice people. I don't just approach if they're hot. Hotness is so overplayed and so abundant. Find a girl whose both attractive and can give you some kind of a heart connection. And even if you find her, always keep your boundaries up. Without boundaries you're useless as a man. You have to uphold your personal power and respect at all times and never give a woman the power to hurt you or take from you.
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  10. There's a difference between healthy fear and manipulative fear. If you took vows, you should fear breaking them. If you love someone, you should fear hurting them. If you built a life with someone, you should fear destroying it.
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  11. It's a miserable life to work yourself into being an object of adoration for women who are not worthy of admiration themselves
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  12. @tombe5791, its what makes YOUR world go round.
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  13. @jehriasean6379, I never met a woman who didn't take advantage of my compassion
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  14. I get so fucking lonely by myself. I want to feel loved and I want to give love. Sure I can occupy myself and live alone out of necessity. But I very much prefer to be connected with authentic, real, healthy people. Because when I am, it actually enhances my ability to love others.
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  15. And me as a man, I have no problem providing. I want to provide and to serve. It's my purpose. The problem is that the woman gets to be judge, jury, and executioner if I don't meet her every demand. I'm a human, not a magic genie
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  16. Now even average women act like they are 9's and 10's.
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  17. Because bullied are cowards. Even if they win the fight, they will think to themselves "this punching bag isn't worth the struggle.. I'll find a new one"
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  18. Winning to lose is a good way to put it. We work tirelessly to level up only to be betrayed. All I ever wanted was to build a secure and peaceful, enjoyable life while enjoying romantic love. That's it. Society is more prosperous now than ever. Romantic love should be so easy to find and keep, but the opposite is true.
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  19. Vvomen are so remarkably good at pretending they have no problems
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  20. @LM-nn7sg, please tell me all about male nature you know so much about
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  21. Yeah but the man is not actually leading. He's just staying one step ahead of all of her bullshit desires. He's nothing but a glorified atm and butler for her. And if he falters once, he's in the doghouse. It's a constant Neverending uphill struggle.
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  22. She's jealous of you and didn't want you to make her feel even worse. She was putting you down so that you share her misery
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  23. That's a massive cope. You're paying for sex. Their going away is the only part that's actually free.
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  24. @maromorostar6621, being jacked goes a lot farther than money does.
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  25. If sex isn't important, then why do all women sexually objectify themselves for attention and power? Why is sex portrayed in literally all media? Why do people even have sex if it's not important?
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  26. If sex isn't on the table, there's literally no point to the romantic relationship. Without sex, you're just friends.
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  27. She probably has cheated already
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  28. I just never liked the idea of paying a woman to do something that she should want to do with me for free. It's just as sad as paying a woman to talk to me or watch a movie with me or something basic anyone who enjoys my company would want to do. But I digress. The fact is that vvomen will always use sex in a transactional way whether you're married, dating, or paying for escorts.
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  29. >mentally stable >women Pick one
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  30. @manifest2203 A woman's true place is under submission. Meaning she acknowledges your authority. She can do this for her boss, but not for her husband? Why is that?
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  31. @perieven6357, <-- found the woman
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  32. It's because Men actually seek to change and they actually seek to improve and get better. Whereas women simply seek control. And they are hoping that the therapy session is a means of that control
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  33. Think dating is a job? Wait till you get married. Then it's not even a job. It's a prison sentence.
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  34. @elainer8288, funny how when the man cheats he is demonized for it, but if the woman cheats literally everyone blames the man and backs the woman up
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  35. I want to pour my love into a woman who appreciates it. I want to be deeply known and to know her in a deeper way and really appreciate her heart. That's what I want. I want that awesome soul bond that weathers all the storms of life's ups and downs because you really appreciate the person on a deeper level, and they feel the same about you.
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  36. @shaymalchione809, it's funny how women say "i dont want to be his mother" yet they are the ones who live for nagging, disrespect, and drama. They call the man a child, treat him like he's lesser, and then when the man dishes it back.. She's surprised 🤡
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  37. Just be attractive Don't be unattractive It all boils down to these
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  38. The answer to this is radical honesty. Tell. The girl how inconsistent she is and tell her youre not going to give energy to that side of her. Tell her if this pisses her off that's fine she can be mad all she wants bur you're going to live however is healthy and rewarding for you, and that you want the same for her. And if she wants to leave then let her go. You'll be okay. Whoever cares the least and prioritizes themselves has the most power.
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  39. What's funny is in my marriage I'm the romantic one. I'm the one to texts, writes love notes, touches, asks questions, wants dates, etc. My wife dgafs about all of it. And when she disrespects me she's entitieled to it. And when we have sex, it's like lights are on but nobody's home. She doesn't like to kiss or look at me. And yes, I help her with chores. I make all the money so she can stay at home with our one child. I'm in good shape. I'm good looking. I'm a solid 7/10 on a bad day. I have a six pack. She's overweight. Insecure. Terrible at interpersonal communication. I hate living with her.
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  40. I don't want her to just desire me. I want her to genuinely care about me as a human being and have empathy and compassion for me. If she doesn't have these I'm out.
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  41. It's only true because we let it be. I won't tolerate this bullshit anymore. Even if it costs me my marriage
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  42. @gawainjones9612, you are wrong dude. Objectively they have it way easier. The only reason it's ever "hard" for them is because of their own fragility and stupidity.
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  43. Problem is, all the ways a man is competent when he's out at work away from home is invisible to the woman. So when he gets home, all she cares about is what she sees right now inf front of her. And she will nag you and criticize you all the time if you don't do things her way. She will tear you down rather than be your teammate
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  44. It's not a man's responsibility to "get a woman in the mood" She either likes him and wants sex with him or she doesn't. Unfortunately after marriage, women use the "im not in the mood" line to get the man to chase her and make him do endless moving goalpost things for her.
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  45. I don't understand how you say this. The older I got the more I found younger women were not into me. You gotta be rich.
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  46. @thomasjefferson6334, Christian women are no different than non Christian ones
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  47. Power absolves you of all norms
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  48. @marcusmcgraw3519, I think the point is to use social dynamics to your advantage, not be a people pleaser.
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  49. My wife is one of them. I'm more competent than her in pretty much all areas of life. And I do it almost effortlessly. She puts so much effort in and stresses herself out and I still yeild better results than her. And when I show her how to do anything she hates me for it. And then she tears me down and micromanages me. Acts like she's smarter and better than me. She's clueless. She's obese. Can't get a job. Hopelessly dependent on her parents. Our son hits her and acts insane around her. But around me he's cool as a cucumber and well behaved. He also has more fun with me and I think all of these things makes her jealous. She should be proud but it's like she's insecure and can't handle my success because she's been raised to be a girl boss by her narcissist dad.
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  50. Same situation here. My wife has already left me 4 times. We've been separated for 4 weeks now and every night I just scream out of anger. I pray to God to take my rage away. I can't stand this pain. This woman has ruined my life. All because of disagreements
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  51. Because Chad is a real man. Chad takes care of himself. Chad puts himself first. Chad respects himself. Chad establishes boundaries and doesn't waste his life pleasing women in attempt to earn his love. Chad knows vvomen are merely animals that need to be trained and disciplined. Chad knows he can leave at any given time and find another woman because he's not afraid of being alone. He knows when one door closes, another opens. This is why Chad succeeds.
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  52. @Pomoscorzo, they're all children dude. If you don't know this, you've never gotten to know one.
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  53. I can't say this because it's not genuine. I'm not grateful for them "pointing our my weaknesses" by mentally abusing me.
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  54. Stop spending money on women
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  55. Hope the new one doesn't do the bait n switch
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  56. @mediocreman2, bro im a solid 7 and an 8 on a good day and even I have to put in stupid amounts of work
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  57. @RR35592, it's not the business of running a household. I can make it fun. It's the woman who kills the fun with her negativity, neuroticism, stressing herself out over bullshit, and lack of passion. She'd rather stare at her phone then connect with the man who takes care of everything
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  58. @vonpayton2041, best comment I've ever read and you're so spot on. I'll add that modern vvomen get very very caught up in 2 things: 1. Their delusions of a grandiose life they think they're entitled to at the man's expense (materialism, status, trips, image, money, etc) and 2. Their selfie inflicted stress that they then project onto the man to make it happen. Vvomen very often do not want a man to be in love with. They want a man to give them the idea of life they're in love with. They don't want another human, they want a magic genie
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  59. This only works if the women puts effort in with you. If she's the one trampling the soil, wasting the water, and replacing the flowers with weeds, you will soo find yourself in a wasteland - not a garden.
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  60. Massive cope
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  61. You're better odd without her dude. Find someone else.
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  62. @yourfavoriteentertainment, wrong. Women go through phases. First it's the "lock a guy down" phase where they give you all the sex and love you could ever want. Then it's the "marriage" phase where they turn into bridezilla where they want the dream wedding. Next is the "i want a baby" phase where they turn into momzilla and everything you do is wrong. Next it's the "i want a big house, nice car, and be a mom boss" phase where all sex has plummeted and you're permanently in the doghouse because nothing you do will ever make her happy. It's not your job to make a woman happy. She will use you as a disposable accessory when all the man ever wanted was a nice woman who respected him. All while he slaves away for her.
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  63. I want to pour my love into a woman who appreciates it. I want to be deeply known and to know her in a deeper way and really appreciate her heart. That's what I want. I want that awesome soul bond that weathers all the storms of life's ups and downs because you really appreciate the person on a deeper level, and they feel the same about you.
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  64. You got it backwards. Men are told their entire lives to bend over backwards to placate to women's emotions as if it's the right thing to do. So men do this their whole lives feeding into a dynamic that's rugged against them, all while thinking they're doing the right thing. Then they men get into relationships and have to make important decisions. Then the women fight the man based on emotions, but the man sees logic and reason because facts are facts. And the man really does have the woman's best interest at heart. But the woman doesn't care. She wants what she impulsively seeks. So what happens now is the couple fights and goes to counseling where the man is then blamed for all relational hardship, and the woman is held accountable for nothing. The game that women are told to play is one of social dominance and privilege. The game men are told to play is one of capitulation and subjugation to the woman's emotions. It's not that men don't know how to interact with women. What it really is, is the fact that women don't know how to face reality and act like functional adults.
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  65. Wow you actually took responsibility and made yourself into a functional adult. Kudos
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  66. I don't give a fuck about offering things to people who don't give a fuck about me. My version of self improvement is enjoying my life and gigivng goodness to people who actually matter
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  67. This is partially true. I think we need good relationships with others to aslo have good relationships with ourselves. No man is an island.
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  68. Hey they don't understand when anyone else is hungry but them
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  69. @elainer8288, they are all psychopaths
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  70. What women don't understand is that relationships are about feelings. And sex is very much an amazing theater to create feelings that the two of you will value for a lifetime. The fact that this is neglected and ignored baffles me.
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  71. A woman's fantasy to to have Neverending, ever changing fantasies that the man fulfills. Women don't want men, they want magic genies.
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  72. People make relationships transactional for no reason. When you're dating, you're effortlessly meeting each other's needs and it's fun. I never stopped wanting to do that with my wife. But she went cold. Her interests changed. I feel tricked.
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  73. She's never going to have that agenda. She's going to want you to be her slave.
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  74. It sucks that you have to make the love of your life miss you
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  75. What did you do to make him reject you?
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  76. I am far more competent than my wife is in many areas. I built a business that replaced her income and then some. I father my son very well on my own. I applied for my very own patent. I'm good looking and in good shape even though I have virtually no time. I don't do drugs and I stay out of trouble. I don't play video games. I save and build our equity. I paid off her college debt and her car. I make calculated bets. All she can do better than me is cook. That's it. We're currently separated and she's living with her parents. She's absolutely clueless as to how to navigate herself without their help or mine. She had no idea what to do for work. She can't get a job anywhere. She paid for a real estate course that she refused to complete and wasted thousands of dollars. She's obese and won't stop eating and drinking soda. She has no friends and alienates herself. She's hopelessly dependent on her family and looks to them instead of looking to me because she's a country girl and im a city boy. I sacrificed everything to make her dreams come true and all she did was treat me like shit and cling to her parents. So I pulled away and set boundaries, and she decided to leave. I know I'm more competent than her and I've proven it countless times and she still chooses not to follow. And I think it's because this city boy proved her wrong. I think she's deeply insecure and so she clings to the only affirmation she has - her parents. Some women just won't be led. Ever.
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  77. What did you do to make him go cold? Ever think of that?
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  78. And then if you say "im not getting what I want" they will say "life isn't about getting what you want"
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  79. I hold my wife accountable just the same and she plays the victim and just walks away and storms off like a child. The only reason this relationship is intact is because of me.
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  80. @neoncoyote2008 being with someone who loves you more than you love them is a shitty deal for them. And eventually they will find out that they are underloved. And they will stop loving you.
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  81. You've never been married
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  82. @literalvampirepotbellygobl5629, they're bought for whatever women are willing to sell themselves for. Which happens to be for very little.
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  83. >rational >right >woman Pick one.
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  84. She will die alone
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  85. Women choose to make it as simple or as complicated as they want to make it for themselves
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  86. In order for a man to be loved, he has to constantly work, but he is logical about it and rules it all. This is his curse. For a woman, her curse is she will be loved unconditionally and get everything for free, but she will have to keep herself from destroying it all.
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  87. I understand how saying you're not getting what you want is a more useful phrase. But then everyone will say life is not about getting what you want and they will give themselves excuse after excuse to not do their part in the relationship
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  88. It's important to women. The problem is there's o many women who have so much access to it especially early in life. And when they engage in it, they do so without any meaning. So when these women intend to get married, they go into marriage thinking that sex is just as meaningless for men as it was for them. In short. Women are fucked up and have a lot of baggage, and they know they can get sex at any given time, so they use sex a a weapon and the build up walls around it because of all the shitty situations they exposed themselves to
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  89. And the trauma they gave you as well, unfortunately
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  90. This is why women don't respect men. They dont fear losing them. But men fear losing the women because the men are lonely. So what ends up happening is the men want women more than they need them, but the women end up neglecting the man because they needed him more than they wanted him. So in all relationships, even marriage, there needs to be some kind of fear of loss. This is not manipulation. It's just you telling the other person "you're not holding up your end, and you're driving me away".
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  91. That's great. I treated my wife like gold and she abandoned the marriage. I literally filed for divorce 4 days ago
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  92. They can't even love themselves because they don't respect themselves
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  93. So basically, women have zero understanding of the mechanics of emotional cause and effect because they don't function like adults. And now we as men have to come up with all kinds of mental gymnastics to navigate their ever-changing emotional landscapes that are loaded with psychological mines and traps. Got it 👍
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  94. @LisaCulton, she's not paying half the mortgage. She's taking half of the equity. And then she's using the man's money to pay for the bullshit she wants but doesn't need.
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  95. Then stop caring
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  96. Well said. I wept bitterly when my wife abandoned the marriage thinking that I loved her and missed her. But now after the divorce I think I'm realizing that I'm glad she's gone. And that I was not really mourning my relationship with her. Because when I was with her I was extremely lonely, even suicidal because of all of her mental and emotional abuse. I was miserable with her. I tried so hard to get us to connect and to create a life that was more than mutually enjoyable. So I'm realizing now that I don't miss her and I am glad she's gone. I'm just mourning the fact that I lose half my net worth, have to raise my son on my own, and that I wasted so much of my life. And that I wasted so much of my heart and soul on such a worthless person who really didn't ever care about me at all.
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  97. The problem is men can't deal with their loneliness. Generally speaking, men don't get love or attention or sex so they are in a constant state of emotional drought. Whereas women get it all the time so they couldn't care less. I recently came to the realization that if I never find love or get sex, I'm gonna be okay. It made me feel free and it lifted a burden. I'm not going to live in anxiety because I'm not getting love from others when I can accept peace within myself at any given time. I can bring myself more joy than any woman ever could. I'm not going to settle for sex being a game. I'm not going to settle for relationship dynamics being this power play. If I never get what I want then fine, but I'm not going to settle for less because if I settle it'll just make me bitter. If I just focus on my own joy, I become naturally radiant and self sustaining which gives others the desire to connect authentically with me. I only give what I get and I'm absolutely done with giving my energy to other people's emotions and performing according to their standards in order to earn their love. I no longer have to feel anxious about being lonely and I tell everyone plainly what I expect and desire. And if I don't get it from them, then fine. But I don't have to stay and I don't have to tolerate them. My energy is the most precious thing I possess and I'm going to very careful who I give it to from now on. And myself is always going to come first now. Love yourself, gents. Don't love women. Because, apparently, theyre never gonna love you back in any real way.
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  98. Men have gon on strike. And it's great
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  99. Basically: jump through every hoop possible to handle the woman with emotional oven mitts in the hope that she responds to you remotely resembling a functional adult, because her emotions are everyone else's responsibility.
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  100. Vvomen provoke men with disrespect and hostility, and then they use the man's provoked response as justification for her initial unwarranted disrespect and hostility
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  101. Bot thread
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  102. They don't use dating apps. They use attention apps like Instagram and tik tok where they showcase their "assets" there
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  103. Women and simps will see this comment section and call everyone "incels". Not only does that word literally admit that sex is all the value women possess, but it's just flat out the wrong label. Incels are the ones who have no experience with women and worship them blindly while giving them respect they never earned. Players and chads are the ones who have so much experience with women and have gotten laid so many times they inevitably learned the truth about women, and therefore lose all respect for them completely. The less you get laid, the more you'll be a cuck and a simp - the real incel. The more you get laid, the more based and misogynistic you become, because women give you no reason to be anything else.
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  104. What does this even mean? Obviously do what you need for yourself but if you have a romantic relationship then obviously the relationship has needs that need to be met in order to work.
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  105. Can you rephrase that?
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  106. Women love to blame men for lack of sex. But the bottom line is their minds. Your brain is your most powerful sex organ. And you will think about what you yearn for. Women make it complicated and change on a whim. The only thing that's keeping a person from enjoying sex is their own mental barriers they have within themselves.
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  107. Pandering is lucrative
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  108. Key words "want to be". Don't go around thinking you need to measure up to everyone's standards of who they think you should be. Find out for yourself what truly brings peace and gratification to your own soul. Plenty of good men out there who literally do not need much. Just a roof over their heads and a good truck and a way to make a living and they're perfectly happy. But women seem to think inner peace and contentment is "mediocrity"
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  109. Because what they're doing is they're making an investment. And once you commit they backtrack and say "okay now it's your turn to pay up" and they take control
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  110. More like 100%
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  111. @pavementstoneguy, if that's true then why are many prenups actually enforceable? They would not exist if they didn't have any power.. And no, you can use a loophole to make your contract land in another jurisdiction.
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  112. @UzahBoolah, my wife literally does all of the negatives and none of the positives
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  113. Even if you're married, just get out and never marry again
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  114. Women should not set the standard for what man is worth submitting to. If you let them do that, it puts them as the judge, jury, and executioner and they will never stop moving the goalpost. My wife does this. Nothing I ever do will ever be good enough to render her submission. She will always submit to anything and anyone else but me. The truth is that you need to be the woman's ultimate idea of safety. She needs to literally be addicted to you emotionally somehow. It sounds unhealthy but it's the only way to make it work with a girl. She has to be googoo gaga bonded to you in some kind of daddy type love chemical bond and then she'll actually follow your lead.
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  115. @tancreddehauteville764, there is literally no point to marriage if sex wasn't on the table. Sex isn't the ONLY reason, but sex is a huge reason
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  116. @crazymonkeyVII, maybe the mom is a nutcase or maybe she abandoned the family?
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  117. Theres a difference between being strong for yourself and being strong in order to take on a role for someone else who doesn't deserve you. Don't make your life harder than it needs to be by accepting responsibility that isn't yours.
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  118. Dude. Show me an actually competent vvoman. Where is she? I see vvomen complain all the time about how hard their lives are and they work comfy remote jobs. I see them crumble when asked basic customer service questions. I see them act like theyre holocaust victims because they can't pay the college debt they chose to get themselves into. I see them avoid all accountability when their actions cause issues. I see them treat good men like shit while they simp for their bosses. I see them on antidepressants and psyche meds because they're hopelessly depressed. I see them failing to raise good children. So where is this fabled "competent vvoman" you speak of?
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  119. Vvomen don't use words accurately and they don't back up their words with action. They will say "you never do anything", and what this really can mean is "you don't make all the decisions for me". But if you make the decisions, she will fight you on every single one. She will say "i want a man who takes charge" but what it really means is "i want him to read my mind and do everything I want without asking"
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  120. I've been married almost 5 years now. Every single day of my marriage has been a fucking emotional coin toss. I can't ever truly be myself. Nothing is ever guaranteed. I'm always second guessing myself. Dealing with this shit is sucking the life outta me. I wish I never did it
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  121. Bullshit. Modern women fuck whoever they want whenever. They don't need a reason until they tell themselves they need a reason. And the ones they need a reason for are always the good men they commit to. It's always about their self gratification or manipulation
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  122. The thing is that men basically now have to settle for 4/10's, single mom's, and psychos of they want to even get selected at all
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  123. @janinejohnstone468, literally the opposite is true. It's the women who relax and drop the facade they used to rope the man in. That's why the sex dries up after marriage.
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  124. True but even then they're still cherries. Women are terrible mothers and statistics prove that children raised by single dad's are well adjusted whereas children raised by single mom's are wrecks.
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  125. My wife is so fucking insecure nothing matters
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  126. @psychacks, women have no "stable" source of worth other than their looks and sex
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  127. @marriagecausesdivorce7540, sounds like a bad investment
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  128. I can't love myself because I live in a world that demands perfection in order for me to even be considered a person. So loving myself would actually mean being alone. Pretty much forever.
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  129. Even if you are better than her (and you will be, because you're not a woman) she will fight you every step of the way and act like she's a better man than you are.
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  130. @dampnickers, don't even take them back bro. There's a reason you broke up with them in the first place.
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  131. It's all by design. In order to achieve a new world order you need a population of fatherless, motherless, non patriotic, genderfluid, mixed up, programmable mindless bots from a non nuclear family unit. The sexual revolution was all meant to destroy the family. And they truly have succeeded in this way.
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  132. @CabbagePatchkid-r8e, because they're idiots. Women can't secure a lasting relationship because they destroy them. But also men are too stupid to establish boundaries. Men let women walk all over them. The minute a man is overly committed and says "I'll never leave you" is when he gives up all of his power. As a man you HAVE to be willing to walk away. Even if you have kids. If you show a woman she can leave you, it shows her how miserable her life will be when she loses you. They are so fragile they will miss you and the support you provide. Take the money and take all of the things you want and need for yourself and leave. She will always come crawling back. This is the only way a woman will ever actually love a man. Love can't exist without boundaries.
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  133. They don't reward shit. Not even a pat on the back.
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  134. I bet you're just as crazy and yet you judge her for her behavior while doing nothing to change yours. Women are very good at this
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  135. I guarantee you're the same way, you just call out her behavior and not your own to make yourself feel better.
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  136. Tell hethe damage she is doing and hold her accountable. Women don't care about anything but themselves dude. You can move the moon and the stars and they don't give a shit. Making a woman happy is a moving goalpost and bottomless pit. Get out and when the kids are old enough they'll seek you out and you'll finally be able to tell them the truth.
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  137. Power couple is meant to be the idea that the man and woman empower each other to be their best and conquer the world together. But that never happens because the vvoman will kill your soul and suck the life out of you
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  138. This never made sense to me. Women don't want a guy who they know will chest and vice versa
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  139. When a woman says "all you want is sex" it's a pure gaslight. It would be like the man's saying "all you want is my money". But if the man said that, he'd actually be telling the truth. Women know men want connection and that sex is an amazing way to have that. And when women are dating they'll give you all the sex they can possibly give, but after commitment they use sex as a weapon.
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  140. Same goes for women. But I'll even go the other way and say this "you can be the hottest woman in the world but if you're insane, immature, or narcissistic, you're worthless"
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  141. They are not equals. The only way they can be is if they operate like functional adults and they don't.
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  142. @itzelouise8714, yet you sought this video out and came here all on your own. Not to mention the fact that women vomit out their trauma on the internet every single time a minor inconvenience happens.
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  143. Literally no one is capable of bonding anymore
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  144. @charlottegyseman5667, this is just a bullshit theory you made up to justify your own childish behavior. It's not a "test". It's just your nature.
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  145. If sex can be traded for money, it's not that valuable. It also proves that vvomen inherently use sex as a transactional mechanism, and not a mechanism for actual love. Love and commitment, however, cannot be bought with money - therefore it is FAR more valuable. And men are the gatekeepers of these.
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  146. @bunnyboo6295, first off, name checks out. Second, everything you mentioned "Feminine energy love peace nurturing raising children taking care of the home running earnings financial planning event hosting" is not what women do. Except for maybe event hosting and watching the kids while the man is away. Which isn't hard. Hosting events isn't hard. Watching kids isn't hard. Women just don't know how to do it right. Everything else you mentioned is what women would love to project they do, but they never deliver.
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  147. Basically just take everything women say and believe it's a lie.
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  148. It's her MIND that is her sexual organ. If a woman doesn't want to have sex then it's her problem.
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  149. Men, when you do everything in life to be loved by a woman, you're giving away all of your power. When you do your best to make a woman happy and do everything to be good to her, she will trample you. Women are working animals. And when you treat them like queens, they will treat you like a slave. They need serious, serious boundaries. And they are master manipulators. This is why bad and abusive men get and keep women, because they give women boundaries and enforce them. Women desire this kind of order. It instills a healthy fear in them, and it reminds them of their frailty. Every single time you are good to a woman that doesn't deserve it and does nothing for you in attempt to earn her love and adoration, you are feeding her ego and you are saying "im not going to give you any boundaries". Love can't exist without boundaries. If you don't give a woman boundaries, she will take everything you have while cheating on you thinking it's the best thing that ever happened to her. All that being said, don't chase women or even fear loneliness. Do everything possible to establish and maintain power, control, personal freedom, and the most advantageous and healthy boundaries for yourself possible. This is how a man lives in his power and this is how he maintains influence. And be honorable to use this power and influence for good. It's the best currency you'll ever have. And then when a woman comes along, establish your boundaries with her right from the start the moment she acts up. Don't ever let her control you. Don't ever let her boss you around or tell you no when it's something you know you want. Kick her to the curb right from the start. Don't get too attached ever. If you get too attached you will give her your power because you will think you can be vulnerable. And she will use that vulnerability against you.
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  150. Once you stop caring about sex, women have absolutely no power over you.
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  151. Getting women and getting actual love from women are two completely different things. Getting a woman can be easy, but getting her to actually love and care for you as a human being is not. In fact I'd argue that most modern women are incapable of it.
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  152. Why the fuck should I care about maintaining her attraction? Why does no one ever talk about what it takes for a woman to actually be lovable? Women are just freely given love without any requirements because men are that starved for relationship. Women need to be worthy of connecting with but they're pedestalized because of sex.
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  153. For real. The competition is so unnecessary. Women think they need to compete with the men but all that does is repulse the men. It would be like men trying to be better breastfeeders just to give women a challenge. Its pathetic and stupid. Rather than competing, we should be building each other up
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  154. There are even women out there saying "feminism is man's fault and men should have never let it happen" 🤡
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  155. @marriagecausesdivorce7540, because apologizing reveals their greatest fear - the fear of being unworthy of love.
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  156. The woman you love today will be a different woman tomorrow. She will never be the same from moment to moment
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  157. A woman can feel however she wants. I'm not in control of that. Facts are facts. And I'm not going to sugarcoat anymore or walk on eggshells for the sake of her childish sensibilities. They say they're so strong and independent. They say they do all the emotional labor. They say the whole world is on their shoulders but they don't fucking listen. So many problems could be solved if they just fucking listened.
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  158. Women when told to keep their legs shut: SEX IS A HUMAN RIGHT!! Women in marriage: SEX IS NOT A RIGHT!!
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  159. Game only works if your attractive. End of story. Not unless you have a really good fucked up way of getting in girls heads and manipulating them on a narcissistic level which is very dark and bad. But the truth is that "game" is just a gaslight from more attractive men to less attractive men to brainwash them into believing they don't need to be attractive. But then I see ugly dudes with good looking women and I have no idea how it happened. Exceptions to the rule.
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  160. @Cute__Noob, and by "cause her termoil" you mean he left one spoon in the sink?
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  161. @raphaeljones8190, bro we are not "too sensitive". Vvomen are like this because we are conditioned to put up with it.
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  162. You'll never be loved or cared for
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  163. And luxury tax
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  164. Wow an actual woman. Holy shit.
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  165. It's important to women. The problem is there's o many women who have so much access to it especially early in life. And when they engage in it, they do so without any meaning. So when these women intend to get married, they go into marriage thinking that sex is just as meaningless for men as it was for them. In short. Women are fucked up and have a lot of baggage, and they know they can get sex at any given time, so they use sex a a weapon and the build up walls around it because of all the shitty situations they exposed themselves to
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  166. When you're looking for love, you can really lower your guard. You become emotionally vulnerable and they use this as your achilles heel. It gives them all the power and they encroach on all of your boundaries. Next thing you know they act on every impulse and beat you down for it. You always have to be willing to leave. Your commitment is your ultimate boundary and if you are always willing to stay, the woman use this as a license to do anything and everything she wants, including destroy you. My marriage is living proof of that. I treated her like gold and genuinely believed in lifelong love and she destroyed her own home and abandoned the marriage. Took my son, made false allegations against me, brainwashed everyone I know to turn on me. So I took all the money and left her with next to nothing, filed for divorce and moved. Now she's coming crawling back thinking she can make me forget about all the damage she did. And all of this was because I genuinely thought that by being good to her and not having boundaries was a generous form of utmost respect. I thought that treating her like a queen was my purpose. No. Treating her like a queen only made me a slave. Never ever abandon yourself for a woman and never ever let your guard down.
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  167. Men gotta take the power back and stop getting married
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  168. Women ruin children.
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  169. Women are the victims huh?
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  170. The issue is women. They will give sex to anyan they barely know on a whim, but once they marry, they treat sex like a terrorist negotiation. And men are told to just put up with it and we are gaslighted into thinking we're degenerate monsters for wanting it with our wives. Once they have committed safety, they shift their focus to anything and everything else they want since they caught the fish, broiled it, and ate it. Sex is no longer needed for them to secure the safety, so now they use it to keep the man on an endless hamster wheel of earning it. All because the wife thrives on the man's confusion.
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  171. They're brainwashed since birth to be revered as goddesses with no responsibility
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  172. @TheQueenIsWithin, all modern women are replaceable. And all modern men settle for them. It's just our judicial system rigs everything against men
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  173. @shamekiawalker6358, the man can give the woman what she wants and needs and it's never enough. She'll take all his money and labor and assets and he will even be very good to her and she will still manipulate him over sex
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  174. My wife flat out refuses to talk about anything sexual
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  175. Bullshit. You'll fuck a guy you barley know on the 2nd date but when your married and make vows then it becomes "you gotta do xyz to turn me on".
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  176. They'll fuck your brains out when they don't even know you. Then once you love them they hate you and never want you again.
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  177. Women are grown children pretending to be adults
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  178. @rayzerot, if you're with a vvoman, you're with a narcissist
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  179. Men do need women - men only want them. Women don't want men - but women need them.
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  180. @aniharutyunyan, in my experience, a woman can onky be successful if a man is providing her success. Be it in the form of a husband, a boss, or a sugar daddy, or the government. Women by and large are not nearly as successful as we have been brainwashed to believe. And I have witnessed this firsthand. Many of them can't even find jobs. Many of them have no idea how to pay their student loans. They're terrible with money. They're terrible moms. All they do is make demands and take what they can from others. They are naturally consumers, not producers. And if they do end up successful, it's because of the world that men made for them.
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  181. Stop spending your money and emotions on them. You never needed to. All women need is boundaries. When you give a woman money and emotions they didn't earn, you're saying "i dont have boundaries and I'm a cuck who will let you take everything without warning it". And this is why women walk all over men. It's not our fault though. We have been brainwashed since birth to give, give, give and women have been brainwashed to just take, take, take.
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  182. There was a woman who transitioned into being a man to prove how male privilege is real and she ended up committing suicide because she couldn't handle life as a man.
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  183. @marcusr3795, exactly this. They act like theyre living in handmaidens tale because they put dishes and clothes into machines that do the work for them. And even if the make rakes in all the money, she will still act like a modern day holocaust victim. They truly are pathetic in this way.
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  184. This is debunked. I'm an attractive guy and I know others who are attractive and the game doesn't get easier. 8/10 dudes are treatedike they're 5's. You need to be a 10 to get anywhere.
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  185. @SP-ml3bs, your body is your responsibility to fix. Why is it that women are all about "my body my choice" but then they let their bodies decide their feelings for them while their men suffer? For God's sake take some responsibility and take some fucking hormone therapy.
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  186. @GoOutside321, because you tricked him into thinking you liked it and the turned it off. No wonder he's resentful you idiot
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  187. Don't ever pay for sex. Make the girl buy her own food, drinks, etc. Go Dutch on every date and never ever ever pay for sex. Might as well just jerk it and save the money.
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  188. Read "the manipulated man"
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  189. Feminine energy is adoration. Masculine energy is being adored.
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  190. It's crazy how we as men are brainwashed to believe that the mentally and emotionally abusive behaviors of vvomen are actually "tests" and "are necessary"
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  191. @thestorybehindthat5236, bullshit. Men have to work harder. Household duties are so easy. I do them all the time while working and running a side business. It's women who act like holocaust victims for putting laundry and dishes into machines. She took vows too ya know. It's her duty to keep her own passion alive. She has responsibilities to the marriage too. Im done with this mentality of the man having to figure out absolutely everything all the time to make the woman contribute baseline levels to the relationship. How many more fucking hoops do we gotta jump through?
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  192. My ex wife and I were so in love. Then we had a baby and she twisted my arm to move in with her parents and pursue her dream life. I never should have agreed because all it did was tear us apart. After 2 years of bear constant fighting she left me 4 times and I tried so hard to repair things. But after the 4th time I decided to divorce her. I still want to fix things to be honest but she's gone and blames me for everything. We don't agree on anything at all anymore. Everything she says is a lie to me. Everything I say is a lie to her. I've never been so utterly disconnected from someone I used to love so much. It happened over many fights. I was always required to forgive but she never was. Looking back, I don't know if I could have ever been good enough to save us. But all I know now is I don't want to be anyone but the most loving and noble version of me
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  193. Men live in a world wherthey are held to every possible standard in the delusional world of women, and then they are also charged with complying with said delusions while also maintaining them. Basically, women live in a world of carefully constructed ever changing lies that benefit them. And men are demanded to facilitate it all. The problem is that men do not know how to discipline women and make them comply.
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  194. Women are far more shallow than they ever claim men are. And nobody objectifies women nearly as well as they objectify themselves. Everything about women is a contradiction
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  195. Make a dating app for sex addicts and no one will ever suffer from a dead bedroom ever again
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  196. And she will resent you and never get over it
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  197. Yes. The moral high ground. Always play that card. However, they are so immature they will think of you as a cuck even if you have the moral high ground
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  198. We are so out of touch with what our souls need and the things that are nourishing to the human heart. I'm done with this mindless chasing of the wind. I got one life to live. No one is gonna tell me how to live it but me and my Lord & Savior God Almighty
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  199. It isn't
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  200. Not really bro they're usually super fucking negative
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  201. They are brainwashed since birth to believe they are special little angels, princesses, innocent little doves who can do no wrong. And they're brainwashed with messages like "find a man who does everything for you and treats you like a goddess" and that men owe them everything. So not only are they worshipped merely for existing, but they are simultaneously voided of all accountability and responsibility by soceity. Whereas men are blamed for all the worlds problems. And then they are told they must create their own value, yet nobody owes them anything.
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  202. Men are being told the truth. Women are being told to destroy their own households.
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  203. @Bluesmoke4200, if I talked with your husband I guarantee he would validate the fact that 1. You are crazy 2. You're a manipulator 3. You're a liar 4. You are hopelessly dependent on him and you make terrible decisions without his leadership 5. The best you can offer him is sex I guarantee it.
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  204. They want everyone else to be the voice of certainty in their lives
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  205. The worst is how modern women think they are more capable of being men than men are. Their privilege fosters their delusions
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  206. And vice versa. If you fuck like rabbits, things will work themselves out. Sex bonds you to someone whether you think it or not. The thing that keeps you from making love is your own mental barriers. Plain and simple.
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  207. Women don't give dating advice like this though. They give extremely subjective bs answers. Or they just regurgitate mainstream gynocentric talking points they've been told to repeat. Ask 10 women dating advice and you'll get 100000 different answers.
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  208. Women DO NOT understand one another though. They don't even understand themselves. Do you know how many times women have told me "I can't understand my own feelings"? Or "I don't know what I want"? Either they are lying or they are telling the truth. Either way it shows they're a mess
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  209. So much overly analytical bullshit. Women suck at connecting emotionally.
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  210. The thing is that men basically now have to settle for 4/10's, single mom's, and psychos of they want to even get selected at all
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  211. Not to mention the fact that countless therapists have had many failed relationships and even marriages themselves. A sweeping majority of therapists are not in a position to be giving Sound Advice
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  212. I'm my experience, what vvomen want is detrimental to the relationship itself
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  213. @elainer8288, every single time a vvoman leads and doesn't submit to her man, the end result is disastrous
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  214. The man does change. He changes in the sense that he works harder and earns more. He evolves into a greater man that handles more responsiblility. The woman changes into someone worse. More stressed. More fearful. More insecure. More anxious. More jealous. And she does this to herself and takes it out on the man by constantly judging his style of leadership because she does not know how to deal with her own negative changes within herself and she demands the man compensate for all of it, but that's impossible. So the man is left wondering "where did the woman I married go" and the woman thinks "how much more respect and love can I strategically withhold to give myself more power"
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  215. @gary_dg, I'd rather have dangerous freedom than comfortable slavery
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  216. I feel like the story of the genie and the master is more akin to modern day marriage where men are the magic genies, and women are the masters. Once they give the man a good rub, the woman wants her wish and the man has to give it to her. The man wants to be free, but he can't wish himself free. He also can't make her fall in love for real with him. And if the woman disposes of the marriage (his lamp) his entire life is destroyed. Only nowadays the women want all their wishes without even rubbing the lamp.
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  217. Men and women need to be 100% of each other's emotional, sexual, physical, and loving happiness for each other. When you're dating, it's effortless. That's why people commit. But once commitment sets in, one or the other starts to stop pulling their weight. Both parties need to prioritize each others romantic, sexual, and emotional needs above all else. Meaning whatever you can give to the relationship in those areas is what you give FIRST. Then you worry about chores, family outside of the two of you, your own interests, etc and all the other shit. As long as you're doing this, it'll work. But people don't want to pull their weight or put in effort emotionally and sexually to keep the spark of romantic love going while also avoiding hurting each other. And when these needs arent met, resentment kicks in. And when communicated needs get ignored, then criticism and anger happens. And when it happens, the person who isn't pulling their weight is surprised. With men, it's typically a guy who doesn't care about the emotional side of things and thinks making money is enough to sustain the relationship. With women, it's typically a girl who doesn't care about the sexual side of things and thinks the man is a degenerate monster for desiring her, and she thinks just her willingness to be his roommate is enough to keep the relationship going. Both parties need to meet each other's needs. But when you investigate each other's needs, you gotta remember to only establish needs that can be met from the other person (sex, love, connection, communication, dates, romance, affection, etc). If you tell the other person you need things like "distance/space", "more time with family", "bigger house" etc. None of those things have anything to do with the relationship with your significant other. Those are things you are seeking outside of the other person at their expense. So those are not relationship needs, they're your own selfish "needs".
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  218. Women think that by making themselves hard to want it somehow makes them more desirable
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  219. I too did this. And it's all because whatever it is about being just me was never enough for anyone. It's so funny how women want to be treated like trash. They just love drama and they love simping for a man that makes her feel like she has something to prove. They tell us they want respect and love and all that, they call us "incels" when we call their behavior out, yet all that word does is admit that sex is the only unit of value they possess, and when you actually get experience with them you'll inevitably run out of reasons to think about them positively. Women screw everything up. And if you think they're good one minute, they inevitably change. Especially after you commit. And double after they have kids. Then it's menopause and shit. Life with women is wishing pain upon yourself. That's why lesbians are miserable
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  220. All Christians and pastors are simps and cucks. All women have to do is whine and cry and the man gets blamed for it all. Happens all the time
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  221. I would find how who her BF is and tell him
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  222. They actually actively destroy all efforts to seek improvement not just in themselves but in each other. Men will encourage other men to level up. But vvomen are like crabs in a bucket pulling each other down into sabotage because the truth is they are miserable and misery loves company
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  223. You need to define what wants and needs are bro A want is something you can live without and stay in the relationship even if you don't get it. A need is something that, if not met, you'd rather be single. Relational needs have to be met otherwise a relationship cannot happen. And relational wants are just bonuses. There have been documented to be a list of actual relational needs: 1. Sexual fulfillment 2. Intimate conversation 3. Affection 4. Recreational companionship 5. Physical appearance/attraction 6. Commitment/loyalty For example: I NEED my wife to sexually fulfill me, have open honest communication, give me recreational companionship, and to be committed to me, and sense that she is attracted to me. I need those things. If I'm not feeling her meet any of those to my liking, then she's not meeting the need and she needs to understand how to meet it. Wants are different.. I WANT my wife to dress up for me more often, but she doesn't have to. I WANT my wife to like all the same movies I like, but she doesn't have to. I WANT my wife to be as sexual as me, but she never will be. I WANT my wife to share more of my opinions and perspectives, but she doesn't. Things like that.. When I say my needs aren't being met, I am literally saying "my wife isnt even marginally giving me the baseline effort in this relationship despite all the effort I'm giving her".
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