Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "Charisma on Command" channel.

If you want to be confident, just be a GOOD person and do what makes you feel genuinely good, joyful, and proud. Not hedonistically good, but morally good. It's beautifully simple. Do what is required to make you be better and make progress in life and be good to those around you while you do it. Confidence isn't about power or self validation; it's about radiating love and joy to those around you while you work to live your best life.
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If you're not using logic in an argument, then it's not an actual exchange. It's just noise. And then the entire interactions become a game of psychological tactics. One tool I use is to ask the person what their intent is and show them I'm trying to establish some level of trust with them. I also tell them I'm not trying to change their mind and that they're entitled to have the feelings and beliefs they have. Because that's their responsibility, not mine. And then I just tell them "this is what I think and why, I'm not trying to sway you either way". And then I back it up with personal experience and real life examples that reinforced my beliefs.
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I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. I just have no faith in others that they will actually listen or be a person who learns from their mistakes.
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The joke just made that poor guy even more sad.. I felt so bad for him
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Women will only respond to you this way if she's attracted to you. And you will only respond to her this way if she's attracted to you. You can attempt to ground a woman like this but if she's not attracted to you she will dismiss your efforts immediately. It's not about knowing how to engage with the feminine. It's all about the woman's response to YOU. And let's be honest. Men are not unbreakable. Nobody is 100% secure in this masculine demigod way our culture portrays. Men and women both need to ground each other at times and lift each other up. If you can do that for one another you'll be unstoppable. Both genders need to nurture one another.
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It's all just noise
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Oh yeah? Wait till you hear about all men who are told they have small genitals just because they say something that someoje disagrees with. Wait till you hear about all the men who are under 6 feet tall. Wait till you hear about any other feature men are scrutinized for.
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Jonah was very clearly uncomfortable because he feels the pain of the question and he was suppressing it. He didn't answer smart. He just did what he could in the moment and probably went home and cried about it.
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Women say they want emotional safety. And you would think it mess what this video says. But in my experience, what they really want is the absolute freedom to act on whatever feeling they have without consequences. I can provide emotional safety for a woman. I can empathize. But not if her emotions aren't valid or rooted in reality. Because that will make her feel entitled to cross critical boundaries. A great example today is how women blame the man for her own adultery. It's like they expect the man to provide so much emotional safety that she is able to justify cheating and even abuse. It's like men have to be such stoic, detached demigods that we have to let them do whatever they want without any boundaries. But we as men are constantly held to a different standard. My final point is that women do need to be emotionally mature. If she's constantly dysfunctional and unregulated, she will bring nothing but turmoil to the relationship. And she will be nothing but a risk and a liability. This is why females do not perform as well as men in the workplace, leadership, military, etc. There's a reason the entire world was built by men.
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