Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "Jordan B Peterson Clips"
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We as men need to stop caring so much about women. We have to stop propritizing their happiness and preferences. And we need to stop caring about what they think and feel. After 4 years of marriage, I'm learning that the pill probably ruined my wife's ovaries. Everything was blissful and awesome for the first 3 months and then she started acting different. I was blindsided overnight it seemed. And she started taking the relationship and turning it into a set of terms and conditions I never agreed to. She started rejecting me and emasculating me. And when I asked her what was going on, told her that I wanted to understand, and I just want us to connect again.. I was met with scorn, anger, and ridicule, because she didn't hear me saying those things. Instead she heard her own misinterpretations and lies that she was telling herself about me. And she was judging me according to those lies while simultaneously shaming me for desiring the things that motivated me to fall in love with her.
We're now almost 5 years married with a son and the disconnect has gotten to a point to where I legitimately wonder if I ever loved her or if I fell in love with a facade. I have lots of hurt in me that she will never seek to resolve, and it's all because I attached too much significance to my relationship with her.
I thought she was my soul mate, but to her, it seems I'm an accessory. Gents, find someone who treats you just as significant as you treat them.
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