Comments by "T-Shades" (@t-shades7148) on "The 4 Couple Conflict Styles (+which to avoid)" video.

  1. I'm an avoider aspiring to be a validator. If someone gets volatile with me its very hard for me to accept affection from them after that. It feels disingenuous and, like you say, unsafe. At the same time i don't do great with other avoiders either because i want things resolved and my feelings validated. Im not always great at validating in return though 😅
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