Comments by "T-Shades" (@t-shades7148) on "Lies you've been told about attachment style" video.

  1. This has given me a lot to think about. I've dated someone who was completely dependent on me for everything. Didn’t have any other support system. It was super draining and i found myself wishing they had a life outside of me. At the same time they never wanted to participate in activities with my friends. I found myself craving that time away from them. So i agree that depending on other people now and then is inevitable and desirable, but i think it's also important to be a whole person, not to expect someone else to "complete" you. Support each other but also be able to support yourself when need be.
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  2. Hey Ana I've been watching your videos for a few years now and they've helped me out so much. You explain things so well and challenge me to think differently. I was wondering if there's anything from a previous video you've updated your opinion about or even found out you were wrong about? Maybe a topic for a future video? I find it's great to update our beliefs with new information and even someone who is well researched can make a mistake or change their mind. I think it would be great to see from your perspective!
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