Comments by "T-Shades" (@t-shades7148) on "In defense of "that girl"" video.

I think people have an essentialist view of themselves and others. They think "Well that person is just naturally that way, and im not so i can't do that." At work I'm known for being meticulously organized, and people have told me they just can't do that, they're not the organized type, etc.. They might be surprised to see how messy my apartment is. I've never been a naturally organized person, but I found ways to do it so I can be more effective at work. I started making my bed a few years ago after a lifetime of not doing it and not getting the appeal. Now I've realized it takes 2 seconds, my cats will hang out on the bed more, it gives me a nice flat surface to fold clothes or whatever, and I can display blankets and pillows that bring me joy.
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