Comments by "Harry Mills" (@harrymills2770) on ""Modern Feminism Involves Casual Man-Hating" - Meghan Murphy" video.
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@Sinéad L : Maybe it's because a false allegation ruins a man's life whether he's guilty or not. It's terrifying. And who knows how many men are THREATENED by an allegation for blackmail purposes, or job advancement purposes? I had a female student who stayed after class one time and made up a bunch of stuff I didn't say, because she was failing my class. It was the one time I didn't follow the Pence rule, and the classroom door was shut. Luckily, there were a bunch of people standing just outside, or God knows what she would've said about me when she saw the 'F' on her grade report.
It's terrifying to be on the verge of a he-said, she-said. Luckily I document everything and save everything. She very carefully clipped one of her graded tests and showed my boss and my boss's boss the note I wrote her on her test "Don't ruin a good thing!" I said to her. Sounded creepy. But I kept a photo copy of her test, and showed the ENTIRE note to my superiors. I also showed them the entire test, which was generally pretty poor. Tests are where you're supposed to give just a summative assessment. I also make them a formative assessment, writing a book, trying to explain what they need to succeed on the NEXT test.
I was talking about work that I could barely see underneath her eraser marks, where I said "Yes! This is correct! You didn't trust your first (correct) instinct! Next time, go with your first idea! Don't ruin a good thing!" That girl is toxic. She's going to leave a lot of damaged people in her wake. I barely escaped and consider myself lucky.
You know how women are paranoid about men harassing them? There aren't many men like that. But we've all encountered them. Same with some women. Some people are just sociopaths.
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