Comments by "Harry Mills" (@harrymills2770) on "Women Hitting The WALL #39" video.

  1. That's because they thought they wanted a man who shared his feelings, and when the man shared his feelings, the woman instantly lost all interest in him, because she had him figured out.
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  2. Every once in awhile, because technology and prosperity allow us to forget what matters or what used to matter, women can lead one another astray. The so-called "patriarchy" is the set of rules that women insisted their men abide by. Yes, it somewhat infantilizes women, but at the root of it is the women figuring out what's best for them and for their babies, and basically convincing the men to strive and do dangerous things on women's behalf. This is called civilization. We men think we are the strong and clever ones, but the women bred us this way, and all our strength and cleverness has a purpose: the wishes of the women, who forgot, recently, that their "suffering" over the millennia was just their hyper-clever way of calling the shots and making us men do all the shit jobs. They hate being objectified, they say, but men will literally lay down their lives for the women they love, and the children the women created. Those children will bond to their mothers as to no other, and therein lies the comfort and security of a woman's retirement. The husband? Meh. As long as he lives long enough to give the kids a good start, the mother's set for life. All that "They kissed and lived happily ever after" stuff isn't for the women. It's for us men. That "love forever" is to trick us boys into growing into men who will stay put and apply themselves long enough for the woman's brood to come of age. Women's beauty is the trap that makes us boys settle down and act like men. Modern society affords boys the pleasures that used to be denied to them until they learned how to put food on the table and a roof over a family's head. Boys didn't get many chances of intimate relations with girls until they became independent bachelors, or at least had the means to actually raise a family, and convinced everyone - especially her parents - that the relationship was for the purpose of marriage and children. In the past, we basically forced girls to comply with that standard, without giving them (m)any options. They chafed at that, understandably. But that doesn't change the natural fact of a woman's fertility. They should have options, but probably the best option is to find the best man possible, have babies early with that man, and then, by their mid-30s, when "independent" women hear their biological alarm clock ringing, their youngest kid is a pre-teen, and the older kids can kind of do for themselves. That's when Mom can go to school, knowing she already has her retirement plan: her kids! Just having the younger generation around that loves you, in particular, is magnificent for older women AND men. Men don't really feel its absence until their 60s or 70s, by which time, they've been through enough that the pain isn't all that great. But I think women feel it more.
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