Comments by "Mike Nixon" (@mikenixon2401) on "David Hoffman"
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Oh my, I remember when divorce was a scandal not even talked about in front of children. You are correct, David, it was not invented in the 1960s.
When my first marrriage (in all fairness neither she nor I were right for one another and basically wed under per pressrure) failed by 1977 I remember my mother thought I had brought such shame on the famiy.
Fortunately, once I found the love of my life and married her in 1994 my mother and my new bride became very close and remained so until mom passed in 2018.
The take-away from this film that rings true for me is, yes, get to know one another, be sure you are compatable, share the same moral and/or spiritual values, hold realistic expectations, and be sure you are willing to take seriously those vows.
I learned with my wife of today that true love means I am more concerned about her well being than my comfort. I know she believes the same the other way around. Good film, as usual, David.
I apologize for the long comment, but believe this is one timely for today, even if it is scripted in a manner we remember as teens. I hope your presenting it is helpful to many. Until next time.
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Amazing story. Love her openness. The life of Jutka Goz is considered "questionable" in some regards by many Americans, but you and I know out of our common sense and world history, there was probably so much more to her story than you caught in this very full interview. We far too often forget that elder, seasoned citizens, had "real lives" before becoming as seen in contemporary eyes later in life. Just this morning, I was telling my granddaughter of my grandmother who was only 19 (the age my granddaughter headed to college is today). Oh-my-gosh, I thought, I am talking with a person experiencing a global event from the perspective of a woman I remember as being "old". I wonder, what will this bright young lady will experience and become by the times she is in her 80s? I pray only the best, but now I'm becoming one of those "seasoned citizens" who knows better. Another great job, David. Thank you.
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It seems strange to hit the "like" button on this, expecially after our 46-year-old daughter died Dec. 30, 2022 from a drug and alcohol overdose.
I remember walking some of those streets as a young reporter, seeing the skid row "bums" of the 1970s in almost any city across the country.
Then, like you David, I observed, spoke with, and interviewed those strung out on booze, acid, heroin, etc.
Some were simply addicts for any number of unknown reasons. Then there was that one man in 1977 (probably representative of many) who was there after losing a corporate management position. His wife dumped him and left with the kids. He just gave up.
It seemed so easy back then to feel sorry for some, and be judgemental of others.
Fifty years later, and after more personal life experience, one realizes all were (and continue half a cenury later) to be lost souls.
I'm not being jdgemntal. I don't want to let anyone off easy with simlpistic excuses. It is so easy to faind fault. The old saing rings true, "There but by the grace of God go I" (John Bradford, circa 1510–1555).
It ultimately (especially in 2023 with so many resources available) is a matter of lifstyle choices.
Thanks for lettig me ramble, David and anone else who may have read this far. It is my long way to tell you good job in capturing historic and contempory truths on film, and telling the sad story in just a couple of minutes.
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