Comments by "Sam Black" (@samblack5313) on "MaximBady" channel.

@sanj7949 I fully support your right to be whoever you want to be. The question is, to what extent do I have to participate in your self image?
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Seems fair.
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@tonytunnell9873 That’s tough, man. So not only did the cow die, it died for nothing AND extra material had to be sourced and used creating more waste. Social posturing at its finest.
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@raychelleblack8366 He literally asks to be treated extra special in this very video………
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@tonytunnell9873 But that’s just wasteful.. the seats have already been made.. if you want to make a statement about saving the planet, don’t waste materials.
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@jeyhunfazilov2060 All the issues this planet has, and the hill you decide to die on is that of other peoples diet. This is like trying to fix the toilet on a sinking ship. Indonesia have slaughtered nearly a million unarmed west Papuan tribesfolk.. genocide. They take pictures with the dead elders like they’re game hunting. This and far worse things are still happening as you sit there talking about other peoples diet like you’re saving the world. Isn’t it ironic that the extra protein meat gave us in our evolutionary chain, developed the frontal lobe, allowing you to the ‘intelligence’ to decide THIS is your defining POD as a human.
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@KarateKarotte Why why why do you need to teach this to kids? Let them enjoy their short lived innocence without your identity politics.
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Maybe they mean the hens are fed by vegetarians 🤔
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@tonytunnell9873 That’s wild. What a waste.
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@azstatik Good on you for calling it straight.
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@ladywesker5307 YOU added ‘cis’ to MY identity for the purpose of YOUR identity, not MINE.. I’m a man. This is how I identify myself. Not as a ‘cis’ man.. just a man. Read that several times, and let it sink in. From the comments across this entire video I can see you’re a reasonable and intelligent person. The perspective you have, surely you understand that as soon as you LABEL someone else, you’ve lost the ability to have a reasonable discussion with them. I guarantee as soon as you call a man ‘cis’, you’ve lost his respect, and the likelihood of them listening to what you have to say is very minimal.
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@ladywesker5307 Sure, feel I already have, but I’ll be Happy to elaborate. I understand it can be hard to face the world at the best of times, but trying to face it when we don’t even know who WE are or how WE define our OWN self, is damn near impossible. How do you introduce yourself when you don’t know who you’re introducing? How do you try to forge a path in life when you don’t know WHO is forging the path, let alone WHAT the path is? In your case, you chose an identity, and because that gave you a sense of self, you’re very protective of that identity, rightly so. Just like you, I have an identity, I worked hard for it, it gives me a sense of self. By you choosing to redefine my identity for the sake of better establishing yours, you are not being respectful to what gives me a sense of self. If you want me to respect the identity you’ve chosen, then don’t redefine mine to better establish yours. I guess what I’m saying is, by looking at my gigantic, hairy, 6’3” 120kg ass, you would know I’m a man, socially you know how to address me if you’re choosing to be polite/respectful. While I agree the world has many assholes in it, the majority of people you meet just wouldn’t know how to address you, but if you start off the convo by attacking their own self identity to establish yours, and getting angry at them for not addressing you correctly, when they (likely) have no idea how to do it… they’re not going to be very open to participating in your self image.
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@Ursula Caldera Yes, and let us all focus on that 0.0000001% instead of the post itself.
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@monica012077 So am I supposed to show extra respect as well as extra kindness, or can I just go on merit like I do with every other interaction? Respect is not a social expectation. You earn that through actions, it’s not given because you feel you deserve it.
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@monica012077 It’s not information kids need. I don’t think 12 years of innocence is too much to ask before we bombard a young mind with adult issues.
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@GentlyVillainous Called it how it is.. respect.
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I wanted to be Luke Skywalker as a child. I demanded everyone call me Luke, and if it were possible to have transformed into Luke, I would have. This is why kids don’t make their own life altering decisions about identity, nor should identity politics be fed into a young mind. Yes, I believe people should be kind.. no I don’t think children need to be taught the nuances of sexuality. Let them be kids ffs.
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@kendallbald Kids don’t need this information yet.
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@monica012077 So it’s ok to resort to violence when words you don’t like are used? I’ll remember this next time someone refers to me as ‘cis’.
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@monica012077 You’ve just told me that using pronouns incorrectly means you’re “choosing whatever comes”, listing violence as one of those consequences. Which is it? Is it ok to be violent over words, or would such behaviour be “unhinged”? Because you cant threaten violence in one post, then follow that will calling such behaviour unhinged. Again, I am a man, you added the cis part for the purpose of your identity, not mine.
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@ladywesker5307 I didn’t put the label there and it’s not up to me how anyone see themselves. Anyone who is polite and kind in their interaction with me will receive that in return, this includes what they would like me to refer to them by. This kindness will not be extended if that person is bastardising my identity as a man for the purpose of theirs. I’m not saying this because it will upset me in person, it won’t, I’m saying this because in doing it, it has immediately erected a wall between the possibility of us getting to the kindness part.
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@KarateKarotte I’m living I the 1800’s because I want to let children enjoy 10 years of innocence before they’re forced to choke down your adult manifestation of childhood issues? 😂😃 Time to go outside, mate. The internet is rotting your noodle.
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I can’t remember the last time someone told me I looked nice today… catering to my self esteem is not an expectation from others in social engagement.
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@CunningAbyss “Both” 😂
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Extra nice… so you want to be treated differently 🤔
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😂
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They robbin uurbAddi out hurr
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@ladywesker5307 You open by telling someone else they are what is wrong with the world, then go on to tell us all about how your problems/hardships are bigger and more important than everyone else’s. I haven’t known a days peace in my life, abused as a child, dragged through drug houses, homeless at 16. I remember needles hanging out my unconscious, abusive fathers arm in a public toilet as one of my earliest memories. Even if you get yourself out of that hole, it stays with you to some extent on the day to day.. and in relativity I didn’t even have it bad compared to many. I’ve since worked 90 hour weeks for the better part of two decades to get myself into a position where people like you can call me a filthy disgusting 40yo straight white man who oppresses the world and has no idea about ‘real’ problems… must be all that privilege. Get your head out your ass.
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@ladywesker5307 There’s a double standard you’re ignoring. You’re telling me I have no idea what you go through, then in the next breath you’re telling me what my life experience is and all these apparent ‘privileges’ I have. This is you saying you fully know my situation, but I could never understand yours. The arrogance of that mindset…. I literally told you I went through hell.. molestation, abuse, violence, locked in cupboards, homelessness as a minor.. and dragged myself out of it with decades of excessive work weeks, and your answer is, “yes but your white male privilege” “you don’t know how hard trans people have it”.
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@ladywesker5307 Your bias is ingrained in the words you use.. women in custody battles have an ‘advantage’ yet specifically white males have some form of ‘privilege’ I keep hearing about from people who have never spent a single day as a white male. I guess you could say that I had an advantage applying for labour based jobs given my size, but I’ve never felt privileged for this. If you want to see the privilege that offers me, you’re welcome to come carry sandbags up a hill with me in 40 degree heat. They’re around 20kg each, and if you can’t carry at least 3 at once, you won’t be ‘privileged’ enough to keep your job…. Even if you do happen to be white and male. Started my own business, poured my heart into it.. but it must have only succeeded due to this privilege you speak of, not my effort. Almost 90% of suicides are made up of my demographic.. all that privilege weighing us down. Maybe all the privilege we have is the reason why this pandemic is basically ignored. Yes, there are many perks and pitfalls of being a human of different shapes and sizes, yet it seems to be only the white male who gets the ‘privilege’ tag.. why is this? You know what buys you privilege……… money.
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@soggysocks2636 When speaking of a man, why are you adding the ‘cis’ part? It’s already been identified. You don’t say I have a 4 wheeled car.. you say you have a car, majority of cars have 4 wheels, so this does not need to be added. If you had a car with 6 wheels you might mention it, as it is out of the ordinary and may be relevant. A man for the vast majority has a pen!s and likes women, so when using the term ‘man’ these things would be rightly assumed. If there was something differing about a man, then you could make distinction from a regular man should you wish to do so. ‘Cis’ is a benign term, and I guarantee using it is working against your cause.
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@monica012077 Nobody is going out of their way to be hateful, mate. These are narratives you’re telling yourself. The truth is, life is hard enough and most people are too wrapped up in trying to make it through their own sh!t to care about yours. HOWEVER if you pop up in front of them telling them how hateful they are, they might just tell you to go fark yourself…
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@monica012077 So you’re saying a small amount of people aren’t nice? I absolutely believe you.. but a tiny amount of assholes doesn’t mean you should say people are going out of their way to be hateful to you specifically.. truly people are just trying to make it through the day. I got called a filthy white dog when I walked up the shops earlier, doesn’t happen often (I lie, it happens weekly) but when it does, I don’t see it as an all out attack on 40yo white men. I see it as individual assholes with horrible lives. You seem like a kind person, you didn’t jump to angry retorts. I wish you all the best. Just please know, majority don’t care how you live your life.
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@soggysocks2636 The issue is, you’re aching for something transphobic to be said.. you didn’t even bother to read my post before jumping down my throat about being transphobic. What sort of position is that to have a healthy discussion from? I literally told you ‘cis’ is an unnecessary, benign, ill willed term, and you immediately used it in conversation with me.
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@soggysocks2636 You looked for confrontation, you looked for something to get angry about, and you found it where it didn’t exist. Good on you for correcting yourself, but surely you can see there is an issue with your approach if your default is to not bother reading someone’s point before throwing the good ole ‘transphobic’ label at them? I will use your exact statement and merely reverse the premise. “If you really want me to take out him/her I will, but I don’t know why it’s so important to you.” I literally said to you it’s a benign, ill-willed term and you immediately used it in conversation with me. How is this any different to someone intentionally using a pronoun you don’t like for the purpose of undermining your identity? There is no need to add ‘cis’, it doesn’t come with my identity as a man. I would never say I’m a ‘cis’ man, and nor would any other man, we are just men. That is how WE identify ourselves. The irony of you wanting people to respect your self perceived identity, while you decide how others should be labelled because you believe it strengthens your own identity……… If you want people to receive you well and be willing to participate in your self image, I wouldn’t start out by throwing a label on them.
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@soggysocks2636 And you’re still going.. cis cis cis cis. I can only assume you’re doing it to be intentionally offensive at this point. I’m a man, you added the cis part for the purpose of your identity, not mine.
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@midlifeparty Indeed
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@ladamadenadie1658 So you’re saying educated well dressed men are the problem with society?
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@CV-Moore It’s adult business, mate. Kids make mud pies, laugh at farts, and would literally never shower, brush their teeth if not forced to by an adult. Adults work, pay tax, have romantic relationships, etc, etc. A child is not burdened by the adult world yet. At least let them make it to the age where they start sounding out the alphabet before you vomit the complexities of adult sexuality at them.
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@samhitabanerjee22 You got triggered and blurted out your generic triggered views without fully reading and understanding what you were directing your hysteria at. When this was pointed out, your ego took over.
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@nuzhattanzimkhan6211 Whoooooooosh
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@jeyhunfazilov2060 The process of cooking MEAT.. you can’t even recall basic human evolution without bias. Cmon mate.
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I have some vegan magic beans for sale 😃
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