Comments by "Sandy Weld" (@65minimom) on "Dr. Todd Grande" channel.

  1. It's fine to be agreeable unless it requires one to compromise their values / morals. Strength of character is more important than being liked.
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  2. She's always "on stage!" Yes, she has that psycho stare. Before Meghan, the press had always been kind to Harry. Perhaps Harry buys into her "I'm just like your mother" fantasy? The world fell in love with Diana's beauty, innocence & warmth. Meghan ain't no Diana! Why back to USA? If I were mixed race, last place I'd pick. She wasn't a famous actress or had strong family & friendships. Maybe she wants to capitalize on her "infamy" to build her career? Or maybe Harry was too close to Queen Elizabeth?
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  3.  @wolfganga982  Tolle speaks of identifiers - I was in a state of despair, I had lost everything that I thought made me who I was until I realized that only thru loss could I find who "I am."
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  4.  @Michael-jq1hl  Please don't judge "all teachers" based on your experience.
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  5.  @BeingLifted  Yes, why did Dr need to eviscerate Tolle? He spoke as if Eckart were a serial killer. Did you hear the disdain because Tolle didn't complete his PhD. yet was invited to lecture at Oxford? Grande has his doctorate but I doubt if Oxford or Harvard would invite him to lecture.
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  6.  @h.borter5367  religion is a choice.
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  7.  @aml8568  True intelligence embraces the trinity of mind, body & spirit.
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  8.  @LuxPerp  He's a skeptic re spirit & intuition - artists, poets, musicians do not need the ocean, trees or birds to "speak" in order to hear the message they bring to others
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  9. Trust me, an extreme narcissist doesn't care if you forgive him / her or not. They will continue to "spin" the story to suit their purposes.
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  10. "not my fault?" how many times have we heard this? However, in my experience the "innocent" party may bear some responsibility or not? Years ago, I was talking to my mother about a marital problem. She shared my deceased dad had an affair. She reacted, hurt & angry, kicked him out! After many talks, she realized that as a young mother with 3 kids, she had neglected him, hurt him very much. They had a strong commitment, worked it out. Sad that he passed away at 39. However, I made a choice to get divorced. We each did the right thing.
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  11. Shameful! I unsubscribed. Dr Grande does not understand The Course in Miracles or New Age philosophy or spirituality. I bet he debunks all psychics & mediums, too. Would he say similar about Christian's or Jews? Just because some cannot transcend what has been taught, doesn't mean it isn't true for others. No wonder Christ got crucified!
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  12. ​ @abeltesfaye_  Sorry you were abused, it's more common than most of us wish to know. I admire your honesty & compassion.
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  13.  @stacielivinthedream8510  no, only normal people think they have mental disorders,
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  14. And harm can linger long after they are dead.
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  15. I was in sales for 25 yrs, looks will get you in the door, brains will close the deal.
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  16. @LobotoMia dr Grande has a right to disagree but not to mock a man who continues to help millions. What harm has Tolle done? None!
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  17. So if IQ is not important to you, why do you belong to Mensa? Also, please share where you can buy coffee for 50 cents.
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  18.  @GenaP2024  I think it is worse, deliberate attack to destroy - cat with a mouse - we know how that story ends
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  19. Me, too. Only this man was a sociopath, very clever & cruel.
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  20.  @ajh757  Tell people to watch "Gaslight" old movie with Ingrid Bergman & Charles Boyer, it's a classic story of getting caught in the "web"
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  21. Well stated!
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  22. I hope you kept a journal of his behavior, this was a pretty scary episode
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  23.  @weedlady9851  YOu could see if community or state help
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  24.  @blackerpanther3329  It's unfortunate that you do not have a talent you consider worthy of developing nor appreciate the value of work that benefits others if it doesn't pay enough.
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  25.  @killjoyinsane1105 Suppose someone accused your son? Any responsible parent would confront the boy's parents first. Nobody can trust a story from a 6 yr old, they get fantasy & reality confused. I would never have let my little girl/ boy stay there again.
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  26.  @GiveMeCoffee  Watch the old movie "Gaslight" she didn't stand up for herself, Spider's web, confused how you got there.
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  27. As if Eckart would want to be worshiped? I doubt if Jesus, Buddha or sacred cows did either. I fell in love w Tolle on Oprah when she asked him what he believed - he answered "nothing in particular" Exactly! Go back to Catechism 101 God is love! Amen! All we need to know, all we can know as human beings
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  28. I highly recommend that everyone watch "Gaslight" old movie with Ingrid Bergman & Charles Boyer. (reference for term "gaslighting" It would have saved me a great deal of pain if I had seen it when I was younger
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  29.  @JL_Lux  Perhaps this is all theatre to take spotlight off the "prurient prince?"
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  30. Hard to escape
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  31. WTH was wrong with your parents? Sick!
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  32. My son married Bridezilla. Sounds like her profile. First his friends weren't suitable, then a few cousins. She waited until after she had 2 kids, his dad died & left him the house. Then she threatened divorce unless he curtailed relationship with his uncle, etc & finally me. I live 120 miles away so how much trouble could I cause? I never called the house, spoke to my son on his cell 1x a week or so. Now I'm blocked from sending him a text. I haven't seen my only son or grandkids in 10 years. He had health problems then, stress - Tough to handle.
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  33.  @nishatyusuf6663  Gaslighting is subtle, you don't see it for a long time. Others see it first.
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  34. Some use the shotgun approach, hope to hit a target, not fussy
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  35.  @cazx3133  Been there, too but it's always hot / cold then your fault for being too fat /too thin, too tall /too short on & on
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  36.  @anyakosta364  it depends on how one accumulates wealth & what they do with it,
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  37.  @nexus6514  No narcissist would write this comment 😂
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  38.  @lindseysanders3656  She should wear a "Beware of Bitch" tee shirt
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  39.  @berkeleyedit7852  Who cares if the messenger is a movie star, a priest or the clerk at the grocery store? it's the message of love & hope that gets us thru life
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  40. ​ @laurent1117  I do walking meditation in nature, it calms me more than "trying to be calm"
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  41. There is a movie on Netflix. Catholic Church mandates miracles are necessary for Sainthood. Jesus rose from the dead! Many people see the dead or get signs. Western societies are less open than others.
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  42. ​ @TheBreechie  Perhaps you use "overprotected" as bad parenting? Often the parents were raised the same way. Often kids raised in a religious family can be insulated from "world." So when naïve adults encounter others with MH, it can be confusing & devastating. They don't have coping skills.
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  43.  @Profess84  Esp if someone is rich & kids are easily coached by adults - who knows?
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  44.  @LuxMeow  breathe
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  45. Why do people always blame the mother? Perhaps the husband is afraid of his wife?
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  46. Yes! But Harry isn't this clever so gotta be Meghan. Notice how she waited until after she had kids? Then she issued "Sophie's Choice" Would a motherless little boy leave his little boy, fatherless? Poor Harry! Poor Queen!
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  47. My name is Sandra Ann, one letter off but you certainly expressed my feelings for me re my recent experience with my niece.
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  48.  @AndyClausingUSA  I would never vote for Trump however you make a good point.
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  49.  @mygirldarby  Most of us are here to learn and /or heal. Dr. Grande is an expert. Are you? I'm uncomfortable with your comment. You speak with certitude yet I cannot imagine anyone credentialed would write this comment. It is filled with misinformation & dismissiveness towards those who disagree with you. You are entitled to your opinion but please state that's what it is & why.
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  50.  @AndyClausingUSA  I know, I agree. In addition to what I have read about Trump's financial history & connections to the mob, I have second hand knowledge about Trump that would lead me to distrust him. However, I certainly would never presume to diagnose him. ( Pulitzer Prize winner, David Cay Johnston, biographer) My parents lived in Brigantine, NJ where he owned a casino. Many of their neighbors worked at Trump Castle. I never heard a good word about him. He didn't pay them for weeks before he closed the casino without any notice. Also, I was a headhunter in '80s, I had a connection to a VP/ Deutsche Bank who told me hair-raising stories re Trump's so called wealth.
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