Youtube comments of (@saraeatononshorts).

  1. Birds of a feather flock together!
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  2. So much this!
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  3. Every guy can’t be the problem.
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  4. This is absolutely true.younger gents take note
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  5. Exactly ..
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  6. Oh shoooot gosh this is a good point!
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  7. They set the standard in the beginning stages when they want to F 3 times and day. Basically manipulate men with their bodies then get mad when he wants it later!
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  8. Ohhhh! Touché!
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  9. Thank you!
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  10. This is so relatable
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  11. I’ve seen the men that are important to me, brothers, father, step father, and husband go through so horrific things and no one believed them. It’s why I started speaking out. It’s for the men who (maybe) never felt they mattered or had a voice. I’ve tried 2 times to start a non profit but have fallen short, but 2025 is a new year to start!
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  12. When you think about this, then she can’t understand why he’s mad every day after working all day! 👀👀
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  13. I understand that
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  14.  @rexcatston8412  this is a good way to put it
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  15. Thank you! Trying.. pushing every day!
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  16. Exactly !!
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  17. Exactly. Meanwhile she can’t make it on her own!
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  18. Yup
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  19. Exactly.
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  20. Yes
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  21. Omg this !! Yes!!
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  22. It’s always “abuse” when they don’t get their way.
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  23. They don’t want to listen though!
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  24. Aww! that means everything, thank you.
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  25. Thank you. Usually I have tough skin, but I’m struggling on my own recently.
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  26. What they mean is equality that’s beneficial to them!
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  27. It’s honestly insane
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  28. Thank you … I’m sick of it as well. We’re not all like that .. it makes it seem like all women are the same
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  29. Yes!
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  30. So much this!
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  31. Trying! Thank you.
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  32. Thank you so much for the kindness. You have nooooo idea.
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  33. And will leave you when she thinks she can “do it without you” even though she’ll still take your child support.
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  34. Smart. Teach others!
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  35. Never gets old! 🥲
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  36. Yup!
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  37. I don’t know. I’m trying, thank you for this.
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  38. Exactly
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  39. Understandable
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  40. I’m trying. Thank you so much for being here.
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  41. Every time I log into the internet I am continuously baffled lol
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  42. This was my main point! Thank you for this!!!
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  43. Exactly
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  44. Thank you…
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  45. Thank you! 😎😆
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  46. I’m sorry! 😢
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  47. Adult children.
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  48. This is a good point, next video is when a women loves you.
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  49. You’re not wrong
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  50. Don’t forget plenty of women of faith use it though to be terrible people. Be cautious.
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  51. You’re welcome
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  52. Nothing should be considered a chore if you love the person in my opinion. I wouldn’t advise to be in a relationship with her if she has this mentality. Or she doesn’t like you much. Women have a natural ability to want to be “do-ers” and caretakers if you don’t bring that out in her for just being you, in my opinion she’s not THAT interested. Plus when it comes to needs- people need to speak up instead of waiting months and years to bring up something they’ve needed! No one is a mind reader ..
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  53. Needed this !
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  54. It’s confusing ..
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  55. lol it’ll end up being posted on tik tok again.
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  56. There’s probably more that’s all I could think of off the top of my head
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  57. Yes, disagreement is fine, harassment is not.
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  58. Agree!
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  59. The things I’ve seen 👀👀👀👀👀
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  60. You are correct
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  61. I’ve already been cancelled on tik tok
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  62. Great point
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  63. @ this is reassuring 🥺🙏
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  64. 😂😂😂😂
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  65. This is a good point. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
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  66. That was hard lol .. and glitches for longer videos
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  67. So friggin sad
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  68. Nice!
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  69. Thank you
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  70. She’s prob got someone in mind!
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  71. It’s a real thing! I’m so sorry this happened to you.
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  72. Love that!
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  73. Hey, thanks!
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  74. This is a good example..
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  75. Aw thank you!
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  76. @ I did not know that! 😆 I’m just now kind of learning YouTube. I have only seen “block person from seeing videos” I don’t see comments.
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  77. Ohhhh wow !!!!! What !!
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  78. As you should
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  79. Thanks!
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  80. Exactly she said a month I give it 2 weekends
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  81. It’s insane!!! And all of that pays for new boyfriend to live too ..
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  82. You are so welcome!
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  83. Thank you so much!!
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  84. I know the tactics we use
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  85. I see it a lot at my place of work. Women will go at the husband for buying a new shirt . Arguing at the register, meanwhile she just came back from Sephora. It’s mean. And then they often ask me “what do you think”. Put me in the middle, it’s so awkward. Or the color a man picks, or something he likes, just goes at him about everything.
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  86. 1/3 of all SA stories are prob true
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  87. Thank you! Will do!
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  88. Speechless..
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  89. 😢
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  90. She’s jealous of your success!
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  91. Exactly idk why women say “keep fighting” like huh!? Why does he have to fight to begin with? When it’s a privilege so many women automatically get!
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  92. Exactly!
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  93. Hiding .. same way good men are!
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  94. Yup! Always be suspicious of someone who is always on the phone when you are around but takes forever to answer back
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  95.  @christianramirez6718  you’re welcome!
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  96. Sometimes it’s harsh lessons that make us better!
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  97. I agree with this! This sets him up for such long term struggle and disappointment..
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  98. Thank you so much!
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  99. Thank you!
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  100. Insane
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  101. He’s full of it
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  102. Thank you.
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  103. 🤣🤣 hey! You do you! Love the positivity..
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  104. And still got dumped. Let that be the lesson
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  105.  @nicholas4581  nothing ever will make someone faithful. Ever. I have never cheated but have been cheated on 3 times. 🤷🏼‍♀️ just gotta be honest with who you are and lead with that. Take pride in being an honest, caring, genuine man, and what happens, will happen.
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  106. Thank you!
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  107. Looking in my own mirror.
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  108. Thank you! Stay strong!
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  109. Isn’t that some truth!
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  110. I’m scared too.
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  111. Thank you, I try!
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  112. Thank you!
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  113. Thank you. Trying. Appreciate this.
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  114. Exactly. This is how I am, no way I’m shaming him. People lost their way because of the validation they get.
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  115. Damn.
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  116. It makes people like me and squirrely girl and a few others just seem like we punking people .. it’s not the case at all. Some of us care for (also) the future for our sons!
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  117. She prob already had her back up plan!
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  118. Yeah, today was tough, was going to wait a few more days. But this trend kept popping up.
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  119. Maybe one day!
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  120. Thank you
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  121. Thank you
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  122. Trying! You’re welcome !!
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  123. I’m not good at YouTube lol no clue .. and my main account on tik tok just got banned so starting fresh! Thank you for the support!!
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  124. So true
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  125. This is true!
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  126. Awwww!! I needed to hear this today.
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  127. Thank you!
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  128. Yes! Adult toddlers.
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  129. Let that be the lesson. He still got dumped
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  130. EXACTLY
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  131. I can understand this. I feel alone a lot in my life. I’m glad my videos have helped you.
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  132. Awwww that’s heartbreaking
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  133. I try.
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  134. Yeah she started it, and uses it against ya later! It’s crazy
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  135. Always in the background for sure. You are more in a relationship with the mother than her! 💯
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  136. Exactly. Thank you
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  137. Aww
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  138. Touché!
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  139. I do what I do now bc my brother unalive himself from parent alienation! So I get it!! Stay strong
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  140. Good point! Thank you
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  141. lol
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  142. They play victim so good the courts favor whatever she wants
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  143. I agree
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  144. I do think true love is possible because I know how I love my husband
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  145. 😜
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  146. Thank you !!!! 🙏 peace is everything
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  147. I did it. My choice. 😊
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  148. This is so much truth!
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  149.  @jumboJetPilot  I tnink we are all ALOT more alike than we are different. I think we are supposed to complement one another rather than be against each other!
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  150. And they are usually the WORST people behind closed doors!
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  151. Exactly!
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  152. And it’s like what’s the point? If you can’t make fun of your husband for clout then why? Bc you have no personality?
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  153. Absolutely! Young men need to learn and understand this.
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  154. You’re welcome!!! ☺️
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  155.  @PeterAcrat  😊😊
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  156. @ hahahaha I love it! I have a lot of people that only comment that. It’s cute! Thank you guys!
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  157.  @DL-cd7ew  do what you gotta do
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  158. Hahaha thank you!
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  159. Exactly this!
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  160. This genuinely breaks my heart for you. But I think the positive thing to note here is your self awareness about this. Right?
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  161. Yes
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  162. Thank you! This is always so unexpected, but truly appreciated!!
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  163. You are so welcome!
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  164. Sometimes it’s tough love. A lot of us women really need that.
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  165. It happens often, I hope you get solace in knowing so many go through at the least!
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  166. Absolutely
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  167. Dang
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  168. Thank you!
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  169. Accurate.
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  170. @ thank you! Needed that today !! Been in the trenches with my mental health! Thank you
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  171. Isn’t that some truth
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  172. I’m also one of those children. Would love to talk about that aspect! Great point!
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  173. Yup
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  174. Absolutely
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  175. Anit that the harsh reality
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  176. Oh wow..
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  177. So sad!
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  178. You are so welcome
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  179.  @GlennMartin-o8c  I’ve always wanted to make hats and then donate the money to men’s mental health. But I’m poor and need overheard cost for that 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️
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  180. They do! They just want an upper hand. Competition not compassion!
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  181. Trying !!
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  182. Cheers!
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  183. Yes Christmas is so so tough. Everyone unite.
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  184. Yup ..
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  185. This is true!
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  186.  @JordanDCGehl  that’s all I would like to me. Help yall out!
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  187. Thank you! 😊
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  188. Make men matter again!
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  189. Thanks.
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  190. Holland, wow!!! 🤩 Thank you!!
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  191. Exactly you isolate! Makes sense!!
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  192. You are so welcome!
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  193.  @dtuitt79  my brother unalived himself from parent alienation with his ex wife. So calling out toxicity is key. And having a voice for those men around me that needed it. good guess!
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  194. Absolutely! It’s never easy !!
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  195. More and more women are following this lead! Making progress!
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  196. I think sometimes they are bring recorded without recognizing it ends up online.
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  197. You really took that to heart. Lol taking on 2 kids with a mediocre job, he’s easier to manipulate. Cause why? LOL
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  198. It really is like 5th grade lol
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  199. Sorry!
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  200. Exactly they would be doing it regardless
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  201. I’m trying! It’s not easy ! Thats for sure!
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  202. Thank you
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  203. 😆
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  204. Absolutely
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  205. @ yeah it’s YouTube they censor me quite a bit from what people have told me
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  206. I have a very hard time with this!
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  207. Thanks.
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  208. This is true!
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  209. If she hasn’t already, definitely..
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  210. Yes. Initially I get it, want to keep going, but nah. Her YouTube is separate housing as married people.
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  211. Trying! You’re welcome.
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  212. Yeah. If it’s every other week. No “benefits” which is why most women don’t agree to that structure. No child support if you have this..
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  213. Yikes!
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  214. Thank you!! 😊
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  215. Trying!
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  216. Omg I hit the thumbs down sorry! I’m sorry you went through this!
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  217. Thank you. I needed this today. 🙃
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  218. This is true
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  219. There’s plenty like me, they just don’t speak up. They don’t want the heat that comes with it
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  220. Yup, same as my brother.
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  221. They don’t. They want to understand pain. And pain is not a label.
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  222. I have made videos in the past just on tik tok .. but you’re right .. need to bring it here!
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  223. Wow, thank you
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  224. Oh shit. Can’t relate.. never cheated !!
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  225. It is about control for sure!
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  226. You are so welcome!
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  227. Exactly I agree
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  228. That’s all I know..
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  229. 🤣
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  230. Yes! You’re right! Great idea!
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  231. Touché!
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  232. You’re welcome. I think a lot of women that are good women are hiding too. Don’t want to be hurt, used, or already were burned by someone. I get DMs a lot from women asking about things as well.
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  233. This is good point.
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  234. This was a real life situation. The women was hired because she was a women but she couldn’t physically do tires fast enough bc she didn’t have strength.. ended up being a hindrance to the shop and when pushed harder to move faster other guys either had to step in or the job took twice as long. In the end she quit, she couldn’t take it.
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  235. Thank you!!! 🙏
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  236. Thank you
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  237. Probably will make a part 2 and go more in depth thank you
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  238.  @benjaminpbarrett7607  thank you ..
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  239. It is. You are spot on
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  240. I took a break, but now I have to fix all my videos one by one 😢
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  241. Aww thank you! Fairly new here! I’m usually on tik tok, but trying to grow YouTube now!
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  242. Thank
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  243. lol I’m adopted, but I do have 5 sisters. We’re all married. Sorry!
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  244. Yup. Exactly..
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  245. Thank you 😊 🙏🙏 new to YouTube, so hope I can keep going !! ❤️
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  246. I am! Thank you!
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  247. Life is always worth it because you are!
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  248. I’m glad you are free! Hopefully thriving!
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  249. So much this!
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  250. 😌😌😌😌😌
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  251.  @GlennMartin-o8c  thank you
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  252. Some of it. Yes
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  253. I’m not on YouTube a lot, I’ve been trying to be, I haven’t noticed anything though
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  254. Funny you say that! Any money I’ve made has been going towards opening a non profit for men. Additionally, I spent 5,000$ on overhead costs outside of social media $. I failed once due to bylaws and other things, so working on it again. So if that’s what you mean by drying up, then YES! 🙂
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  255. You know a toxic person doesn’t like boundaries. It worked out for you even more than you know.
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  256. I agree!
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  257. Thank you.
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  258. Thank you. I like how this is articulated. Thank you.
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  259. She’s speaking from her own experience that’s why she’s saying that
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  260. You are so welcome
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  261. Yup
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  262. Omg this is such a good point
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  263. Always!
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  264. Thank you! I don’t use YouTube much! Kind of new to it! Thank you!
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  265. Glad you like them! Thank you!
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  266. I don’t understand this at all.
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  267. Just trying to help!
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  268. @ thank you!!
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  269. What’s the expectation then? Hes trying to be helpful and being belittled the entire way.. he can leave. Thats about it. Or try to make it work.
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  270. Thanks again!
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  271. It’s a low blow, but after pain comes the better rebuild for sure
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  272. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  273. Yup!
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  274. Wtf a genuine human trying to provide us now covert narc? Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
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  275. EXACTLY
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  276. Thank you! You too!
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  277. We’re friends. We work together on so many issues. Was on his podcast.
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  278. You’re welcome!
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  279. 💯
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  280. Thank you!
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  281. Yes
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  282. Teaches children to resent the other parent for reasons they can’t explain!
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  283. Yes’ this brings me back to my “diary of a modern women video” in depth to this idea!
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  284. Yes. It’s weird when it’s been primarily men coming at me when my intent is nothing but pure.
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  285. All of this is spot on!
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  286. Thank you!
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  287. Yup. I
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  288. You’re welcome!
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  289. No too many ways to make an honest living no one needs to be a 304
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  290. Anit that some truth!
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  291. Yes! Thank you!
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  292. Thank you! Just being real
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  293. I have alot of stories which one do you want? 🤣
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  294. @ it’s usually how it uploads .. idk how to fix it 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  295. Yeah I think you SHOULD talk about those things.. I think it kind of gauges what you’re able to put up with and also how you deal with conflict. And not talking about it at all is weird.
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  296. Same to you!
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  297. You’re welcome!
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  298. I love this comment so much.
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  299. Understandable, but is it healthy food or poison? Keep drinking water from a poisoned well, you will not make it. Additionally, healthy habits like self worth and not being a push over/ people pleaser can keep you full, because even the most starving person will eventually get tired of a pattern that has no positive outcome. So when do you stop starving yourself and replace that with something healthy?
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  300. That’s a great idea! Working on a post to shift through finding a therapist, from a therapist ☺️
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  301. No such thing as sisterhood! 🤷🏼‍♀️🙃
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  302. No.
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  303. Wow, thank you!
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  304. Yeah it means space for another man until she leaves.
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  305. I should too! 🤪
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  306. Thank you.
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  307. Yeah I don’t really post much bc I keep getting banned. Originality content for trying to post my old videos from my account that was banned 😢
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  308. Thank you
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  309.  @coffeephoenix  thank you
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  310. Sadly doesn’t surprise me.
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  311. Live and learn is all we can do sometimes
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  312. Additionally, I’ve recognized the people on YouTube actually want to have conversation in the comments and not argue. They share stories, experiences, advice. It feels less toxic than tik tok. Hope that helps! If you have any suggestions on how to get my nonprofit going, I’m all ears! ❤
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  313. Thank you!!!! 😊 it was on the 18th for anyone else asking! 😀
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  314. I appreciate this. I hope you are okay! Navigating tough times is hard, thank you for being here and remember tough times don’t last forever!
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  315. We can’t. Courts and everyone involved make too much money. Don’t get married or wait long periods before marriage with a prenup
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  316. Exactly
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  317. Exactly.
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  318. Thank you! And you’re welcome!
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  319. I try! You’re welcome!
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  320. You know, I do appreciate this level of honesty, we need more of it.
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  321.  @forumicebreaker  what cop as the authority to make that call? Additionally, the amount of women that basically kid nap the child(ren), and that is what makes dads have to “fight” is really insane.
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  322. Yes! Thank you!
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  323. Geez 🙄 I’m so sorry
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  324. Oh this is true also! Great point!
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  325. Dang you always saying some real talk!
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  326. Well imagine the difference if no money when you left.
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  327.  @billnyilas8  I just think about how I think of things and how the women around me who are still dating go about things!
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  328. Thank you
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  329. It is very very common!
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  330. Absolutely! Agree!
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  331. This!!! So much this!!
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  332. You are so welcome!
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  333. @ thank you!
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  334. Thank you. Someone else said this! Def trying it!
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  335. We’re making progress 💪🏻
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  336. 🥹
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  337. Thank you
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  338. Yes! You are correct. Soooo many more to add to this list!
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  339. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 thank you!
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  340. It’s happening whether you like it or not.
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  341. Thank you!
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  342. You are so welcome
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  343. I do love this post so much!
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  344. I think about mens suffering because of my brother who is no longer on this earth due to parent alienation. I think of men like my step father who pays alimony of 5,000$ every month whose ex intentionally doesn’t get married or job so she can keep getting paid. I also think of my own situation and my poor decisions in life and how I’ve had to be accountable. The only profit here is working on actual nonprofit and figuring out funds and bylaws to have a nonprofit for men and men’s mental health. If you have any insight on this please share! And as always appreciate the insight!
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  345. Who has an only fans? My only goal is to open a nonprofit for men. I’m working with other creators and we’ve tried 2 times and failed due to funding. You are entitled to your opinions, and I appreciate the comments, but I don’t like being put in a box because you want to compare me to some only fans worker that sells her soul for money. The only soul I have is to fight for men like my brother who is no longer with me as an act of service to his legacy!
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  346. @ he was not. She up and left. He called the cops for kidnapping charges, they did nothing. They spent 6 years in court while she did drugs and blew all his money, claiming he didn’t show up. He would show up on time, and she would t bring the kids. When a case was finally brought against her, she fled with the kids. .. and so on. Went on for years until the kids decided they didn’t want to even speak to him. Despite his efforts. He passed saying he couldn’t take the burden of fighting anymore and still being the blame. They divorced because we was a trucker, on the road a lot, she cheated.
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  347. Trying.if I don’t get banned beforehand!
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  348. Thank you!
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  349. So much this! And then get judged for not having new clothes..
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  350. This is sad when you think about it
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  351. I know. This video is so sad!
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  352. It’s mean! Especially when it’s men just being naturally themselves, always with the camera and phone up ready to go at him.
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  353. Absolutely too much texting
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  354.  @dtuitt79  bold assumptions..
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  355. Dang
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  356. One may never know 😎
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  357. Same
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  358. Everything she said was ME ME ME ME ME
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  359. Thank you 🩷
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  360. You're welcome 😊
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  361. Of course friends come and go, but you don’t have one single friend you’ve known more than a couple years that’s a red flag. If you’ve only known all of your friends a few months, that’s weird. Like not a single one longer than a year?
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  362. It’s so frustrating!!
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  363. This is true. Actually. In this scenario she hid income during mediation. 🤪
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  364. You’re welcome
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  365. Thank you. Appreciate that. I just try to remind myself I’m a reflection of what they avoid within themselves. Takes a lot of self awareness to know we are part of the problem.
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  366. I agree.
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  367. Yup
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  368. I agree
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  369. @ i appreciate this! Needed it today.
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  370. Yes it’s unfortunate it’s hard to speak on that without it being taken down!
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  371. @ I don’t even know what that means ..
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  372. Yup !! Happy to hear this.
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  373. It’s def made up. He didn’t say anything to her. Almost can bet. That’s why no one found said gf lol
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  374. @ this is so true!
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  375. So true!
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  376. Trying!! Thank you
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  377. One of the reasons I started my platform is bc my brother unalived himself from parent alienation, alongside the things I’ve seen my husband go through.
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  378. I mean, you have the choice of what you want to watch. 🤷🏼‍♀️ there’s so many points to this discussion. I don’t think it should be watered down. But I’ll take this into consideration for the next video
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  379. Thank you!!
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  380. Thank you so much!
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  381. @ remember women only find men “abusive / toxic” when she’s not happy. The bad men are only bad when women are in a bad mood. And good when they are in a good mood.
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  382. Thank you! 😊 I appreciate this so much. I’m struggling the most I ever have in a really long time. Thank you for your kindness.
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  383. It takes time. Thank you. Just spread the word!
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  384. This is also true
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  385. Just trying to help!
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  386. Thank you! I am just an average Joe, but I stand firm in my beliefs !!
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  387. Sometimes you gotta think with the right head! If ya know what I mean! Just trying to help.
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  388. You're welcome!
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  389. Understandable
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  390. Trying!
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  391. You’re welcome!
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  392. Hahaha already said that too 🤣😆🙏
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  393. It’s hurtful to want to be lusted by, by someone you love who lusts over someone else. It’s not insecure. It pain.
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  394. Thank you!
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  395. Needed this!
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  396. Yes they should some of these are from my comment section from other men . Have already gone through it!
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  397. So many deal with this!
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  398. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 she has a book out too
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  399. Thank you!
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  400. That’s harshhhhhh!!
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  401. You’re welcome!!
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  402. I am fairly new to YouTube and only use tik tok. Trying to venture out. I’m quite shy so this sometimes can be overwhelming. But it’s about the MESSAGE!
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  403. Thank you!
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  404. My thoughts exactly
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  405. Trying
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  406. I try to understand this. However, there’s plenty of us on social media that wish we could change it. We’re trying.
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  407. Thanks, will do!
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  408. They’ll never admit it though 😆
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  409. You’re welcome! Keep it up.
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  410. This is a question I ask myself within my own relationships ..
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  411. 🤣
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  412. Thank you so much! Fairly new to the YouTube !!
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  413. 🩷
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  414. Thank you! And you’re welcome..
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  415. They don’t, they are mad. Never actually consider that what I’m saying is for them to look within .
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  416. Trying! And you’re welcome!
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  417. Yeah I miss those days!
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  418. Exactly
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  419. Trying my best! You’re awesome!
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  420. No problem!
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  421. Yeah bc it’s ended up a reflection of all of us! And we’re all not like that.
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  422. Bc it’s confusing 😆🤣
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  423. Dang
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  424. Yikes!
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  425. You bet
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  426. Touché!
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  427. Hahahha I can actually be known to be quite shy! My husband always says on our first date “this girl gonna talk or what” 🤣
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  428. I hope you are doing better and times haven’t too harsh on you!
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  429. lol she’s a midlife crisis coach! 😭🤪
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  430. I’ve thought about it!!!!!
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  431. Yes my attention span isn’t long either I get it!
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  432. You’re welcome, and thank you.
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  433. This is true
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  434. Exactly, whatever a person doesn’t change they are choosing!
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  435. Of course! You’re welcome!
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  436. Someone who wants something genuine doesn’t care. And good women ARE out there! Just a reminder, friend! ☺️
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  437. Raised by women… of course .. years of toxic feminism and sexism towards men. You have the “soft” men of 2025
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  438. Every time!!!!!!!!
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  439. He came in my DMS. All he cared to talk about was “who is pandering more” and then asked me to go live with him. When I told him “I’m not letting you monetize off mens struggle or the children that have been affected” he said “aww does a little 9.00$ mean that much to you” .. he brought ZERO facts or valid information just a bad attitude and childish behavior !
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  440. I told him to come to this YouTube and see some of the stories, he refused!
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  441. Anit that the truth !!
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  442. Wow, thank you!
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  443. I don’t know what this means.
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  444. Oh wow
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  445. Omg!
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  446. There’s plenty of stories that isn’t the case. Majority of them failed. Only one successful is bc they already had a following on other social media, and that’s almost never talked about.
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  447. I appreciate that! Thank you!
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  448. You're welcome!
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  449. Thank you so much!
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  450. This is grounds for another topic for sure
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  451. Is that what you got? I said men and women come with our own set of baggage, did we watch the same video? I’m honestly perplexed.
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  452. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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  453. Exactly
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  454. Agree
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  455. Dang
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  456. You're very welcome!
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  457. My brother unalived himself after spending over 150k in the court system.. for starters.. (not a topic a speak on)
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  458. @ right. I think we’ve all been there, but he had other struggles with his mental health but the kids stuff tipped him over the edge.
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  459. And if dad does that, welp, he’s a deadbeat.
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  460. Definitely!!!
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  461.  @xanderworker5449  lol I never watched friends, however this is true.
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  462. It should be. Treat others how you want to be treated. Some people need to go back to first grade lol
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  463. Thank you!
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  464. So you don’t have a mother?
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  465. I agree. Im sure she got it all
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  466. Thanks for listening
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  467. This is true. Prob not going behind her while doing dishes for starters, that’s a common one.
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  468. That's cool!
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  469. “I “ again expecting husband to make her happy
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  470. Men have to give up the hero complex to save women
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  471. Dang this is a good point ..
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  472. This is the most accurate assessment I’ve read in a long time. Healed women know this and understand this!
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  473. 😅
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  474. Thank you. I know no other way to be!
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  475. Depends. Some sisters are great, some aunts are great. Some mothers mean to be great but baby the men, and some mothers dislike son bc they remind them of an ex they hate. Would have to make video to elaborate. But in my opinion unless you have a mother that wants a man to be a HUSBAND, he will end up a man child. We see that play out now with the younger generations being raised by single mothers.
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  476. Aww
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  477. Truth
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  478. Thank you
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  479. Yes! Thank you!
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  480. You’re welcome !! Happy new year!
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  481. Damn! Not surprised though.
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  482. 🤣🤣 touché!
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  483. Thank you. 😊
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  484. Thank you so much. Life has been kicking my butt, there’s not enough “thanks” in the world for your kindness !! 🥰
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  485. 4 years ago. Wasn’t online then.
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  486. You are so welcome!
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  487. This is true.
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  488. 😊 thank you
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  489. What the heck.im so real.😎
    2
  490. @ yup! Everything always works out
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  491. You're welcome
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  492. Means a lot to me as well. Stay strong!
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  493. Yup !!!
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  494. Thank you! I recall I had a friend I middle school, they had camp outs quite often when they couldn’t pay lights!
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  495. Dang a lot of men don’t even know they are in it bc they encourage a healthy relationship with mom ..
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  496. I’m really sorry to hear this !!
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  497. Sara is a great name! 😎
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  498. Thank you!
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  499. Thank you, I needed this today!
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  500. Yup. I feel for any man who has to pay to see his kids .. while they are being posioned against him
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  501. Thank you.
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  502. lol
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  503. Yeah I know!
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  504. You are so welcome
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  505. I still believe good women exist. If good men are out there so are good women. People are scared and jaded. Hiding, almost. Get DMs from women all the time that agree.
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  506. They do. A lot of them message me privately in DM
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  507. I know, I’m sorry!
    2
  508. Yeah. I know the feeling.
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  509. That’s like every women on the planet
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  510. Anit that some truth!
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  511. @ new to YouTube so doing the best I can!
    2
  512. @ hey no worries you are allowed opinions over here! 😊
    2
  513. Thank you. 🙏 maybe that’s what I needed 🤪
    2
  514. Wow, thank you!
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  515. Thank you!
    2
  516. I try. Feel like sometimes it doesn’t make the reach it needs
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  517. This is a great point and something I’m taking about in my next video!
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  518. I try
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  519. Thank you. Much appreciated.thanks for tuning in.
    2
  520. lol
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  521. Yes
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  522. I try to be as honest as possible, which is hard for those to hear. This time it’s been men coming at me, and i genuinely don’t understand. 😌
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  523. I appreciate this so much. Today has been a rough day mentally, bullying online is tough today. I appreciate your kindness.but also stay strong 💪🏻 you got this. Never give up on what’s important to you.
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  524. This is probably the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me. I appreciate this beyond words. I wish you nothing but the best in life! As always, head up, chin up, and keep moving forward! Thank you for the support on this channel it doesn’t go unnoticed
    2
  525. Yes
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  526. Yup.
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  527. Ha I said I didn’t have a topic. Huge difference, usually there’s specifics I want to get into. This was on a whim. 😆
    2
  528. They were his. And she’s a “coach” on how to live separately while married. She didn’t love him.
    2
  529. Be safe!
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  530. 😊
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  531. His one year just passed 2 weeks ago! 🤪
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  532. You are so welcome
    2
  533. This is a beautiful analysis
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  534. Thank goodness!!!!!!!
    2
  535. Thank you!
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  536. You are so welcome
    2
  537. You are so welcome! I try!
    2
  538. Yup!
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  539.  @KamalBerman  I wish, but then am I just another weirdo coach like what already exists? Idk .. I don’t have any credentials.. just my thoughts! 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️
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  540. We all do the best. We can just remember that.
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  541. Absolutely!
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  542. Most of the time. I have my moments. No one is perfect
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  543. Elon musk made some!
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  544. Thank you so so much
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  545. Thank you! Your words matter. Thank you.
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  546. I appreciate this. There is no gain here for me than to help others. I know that’s really hard for people to fathom, but ya know, just feel like it hasn’t been worth it lately.
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  547. 🩷🩷🩷 thank you!
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  548. @ trying!
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  549. Yes! Exactly WILD!!!!!!!!
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  550. Yes, we’re friends 😊
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  551. If he’s “paying you back” then what are you responsible for?
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  552. Absolutely!
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  553. Good thing you came to your senses then!
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  554. 😊😊😊😊
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  555. Any women that bashing their husband online doesn’t like him. And def doesn’t respect him. I literally COULD NEVERRRRRRRRRRR…
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  556. 😊
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  557. I have tons of flaws. Work on them everyday.
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  558. You are so welcome
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  559. Coaches are something else. They are broken people that want to give horrible advice to keep others broken with them!
    2
  560. Yes! I don’t think we talk enough about the rebuild stages
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  561. 😂😂😂
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  562. You’re welcome
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  563. She should not be bashing her husband ..
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  564. Thank you! You have such a good point. I needed this. Take care.
    2
  565. Very welcome
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  566. Thanks for watching
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  567. I’m sorryyyyy
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  568. It’s wack!
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  569. ❤️💗
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  570. He’s a loser? He was going to support her nursing career . 🤣
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  571. I agree. It shows a level of self worth they didn’t have before. They are learning.
    2
  572. Thank you!
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  573. Wowwww that’s pretty crazy
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  574. Exactly and now she has 4 kids. What’s the expectation?
    2
  575. The money doesn’t stay for ever! That’s for sure!!
    2
  576. Oh wow !! 😮
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  577. You bet
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  578. I got my man’s a PS5 for his bday recently, man is still talking about it.. 🤣
    2
  579. Huh?
    2
  580. This is a good idea. It’s frustrating. Get so close to getting it all done, and miss funding of bylaw.
    2
  581. Glad you liked it! You’re welcome!
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  582. Yes, to all of this.
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  583. Absolutely. Trillion $$ industry.. it’s a money maker. Convinced everyone of having some mental health issue, or neurological issue, and welp, money wheel.
    2
  584. Thank you!!! Needed the kindness today! Been going through it! 😄
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  585. You’re welcome! Thank you for listening!
    2
  586. Thanks for the tip
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  587. You’re welcome.
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  588. Yup ..
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  589. Exactly! If you have nothing to hide, just give the phone up!
    2
  590. Thank you
    2
  591. Will do!
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  592. I appreciate that!
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  593. Exactly
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  594. If I had credentials- yes
    2
  595. Thank you!
    2
  596. I appreciate that
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  597. 🤣🤣
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  598. I’m genuinely trying.
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  599. lol I’m not single, but I appreciate the sentiment!
    2
  600. Thank you
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  601. Thank you
    2
  602. Thank you!
    2
  603. Thank you.
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  604. Thank you
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  605. Will do!
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  606. It’s not you, it’s me? 🤪
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  607. You’re welcome!
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  608. Yes. 👏🏻
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  609. Every time
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  610. Haha yeah ! Def would be interesting!
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  611. Every time
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  612. Your one women isn’t the rule she’s the exception . Take care of her!
    2
  613. You might be onto something
    2
  614. But they supposedly better communicators
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  615. Thank you
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  616. Thank you
    2
  617. No. YouTube id like to look better in videos if i have to make them longer. Nothing more nothing less. Emotional? I’ve always been emotional.
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  618. You’re welcome!
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  619. You too!
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  620. Thanks!
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  621. 😊
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  622. Okay!
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  623. Yes
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  624. You’re welcome! And thank you!!
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  625. Thank you! I appreciate this more than you know!
    2
  626. You’re welcome!
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  627. You’re welcome ☺️
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  628. Thank you!
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  629. Trying!
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  630. Yes
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  631. I try
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  632. Yup
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  633. Dang!
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  634. I just think what I say is common sense, but I’m glad it helps
    2
  635. Thank you! 😊
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  636.  @markymarknj  this is a great way to put it. I love this!
    2
  637. Took me less than 24 hours with my husband and I said if first, never say never.
    2
  638. Thank you 💕💕💕
    2
  639. I agree I think there’s plenty of great women out there. Jaded from the same perpetual cycle that is dating, relationships and struggles of par-asocial relationships. Men and women are cut from the same cloth in different ways. And for whatever reason brainwashed to be bitter towards one another even though we should embrace it.
    2
  640. Yes I agree
    2
  641. It’s her issue, not a husband issue, women are inherently more miserable ..
    2
  642. Thank you! and you’re so welcome!!
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  643. lol studies show women are inherently more miserable naturally. 😊
    2
  644. Thank you!
    2
  645. Yup ! UA ALL DAY!
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  646. You are so welcome
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  647. 🤣🤣
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  648. Sara_eaton@aol.com
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  649. I'm glad!
    2
  650. Thank you so much! I’m working hard learning YouTube quickly ! Thank you for the support 🩷
    2
  651.  @fionnmaccumhaill3257  I’ve dated women and men ..
    2
  652. I’ve been shadow banned for about 3 weeks, just started and then got push back. So not sure. Gonna keep pushing to grow.
    2
  653. Thank you.
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  654. Some states offer debit card, women change to direct deposit.
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  655. Hiiii
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  656. You’re welcome
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  657. I try! Thank you!
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  658. This is so accurate
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  659. Thank you sweetheart!
    2
  660. Yeah that’s a good point
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  661. This is all good points, I’m also glad I helped you.
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  662. You are so welcome
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  663. Thank you! Somewhat. Just got my tik tok account banned so need to refocus over here !! Happy holidays and thank you!
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  664. I like this!
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  665. Thank you!
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  666. You have a good point! I often forget how far videos can reach!
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  667. Thank you
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  668. lol prob someone toxic
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  669. Probably. Nothing is surprising anymore
    2
  670. I think a lot of people hate themselves be project.
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  671. You're very welcome!
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  672. Thank you. I needed this. Been crying an hour over hate comments. I was trying to be engaged long and read too much into them. And now I’m losing my mind. Thank you for your comments.
    2
  673. @ you’re welcome! I hope you find solace.
    2
  674. Thanks
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  675. Thank you! ☺️
    2
  676. Another point id like to make is majority of men think things are a rough patch, we will get through it mentality. Whereas women are looking for the closest exit, a way out when the tough gets rougher, finances get tight and some guy in her DMS is promising her the world !
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  677. I try.
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  678. Religion has now been used for the OF girls and the narcissistic personality disordered to justify being out of control. All is forgiven. They can put on the cross necklace and dress the part, but most that convert for social media, it’s just that!
    2
  679. This is such a good point
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  680. This is such an odd comment to make ..
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  681. I do that a lot!
    2
  682. This is true !!
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  683. Thank you!
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  684. Thank you!
    2
  685. Thanks!
    2
  686. WHAT!
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  687. That’s fair!
    2
  688. Yea! I recall making a post about lazy stay at home moms, they proved my point by arguing in the comments alllllll day!
    2
  689. I am so sorry to hear this! Rejection like this is just protection!
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  690. Haha I’m not a therapist, idk how legal it’d be! Maybe one day!
    2
  691. Yes! Sitting and dwelling isn’t going to fix it. For sure.
    2
  692. @ that’s amazing! I like your write myself. Just not songs more like poetry! Great outlet!
    2
  693. You’re welcome!
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  694. You’re welcome!!
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  695. Women leave when there is someone else. Exactly.
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  696. You’re welcome. I think there’s plenty of us. They just aren’t vocal. Scared to speak up.
    2
  697. This is true. Usually I can withstand all the BS but I haven’t been in the right mindset. Ya know? We all struggle sometimes. Thank you for this.
    2
  698. This is a good point.
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  699. Everything is an ick. Breathing.. lol don’t do that. 😂🤣
    2
  700. I agree. I think it’s selfishness. Like you mentioned, but also, they’ll leave just to repeat the same cycle with someone else.
    2
  701. Thank you! I hope so too. New-ish to YouTube
    2
  702. I don’t really know how to use YouTube! New to it! Wish I could help!
    2
  703. Will do!
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  704. Will do!
    2
  705. Oh I like that!
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  706. You’re welcome! Hang in there!
    2
  707. Trying! You’re welcome!
    2
  708. Yeah just look up which website caters to what you want .. basically like googling whatever favorable opinion you want.
    2
  709. Thank you
    2
  710. So true
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  711. 😄😄
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  712. You are so welcome
    2
  713. Yup
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  714. Thank!
    2
  715. Yup
    2
  716. Welcome
    2
  717. Yup. Exactly..
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  718. Yup… well those that hold women accountable end up getting complaints or the women in therapy don’t go back.
    2
  719. You got this! Exactly
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  720. Me too!! 🤣🤣🤣
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  721. I’m not here to impress. I’m here to spread awareness of poor behavior
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  722. Sometimes! 🤣
    2
  723. Yes! Cali is one tough state have many family members there
    2
  724. Yes which is why thing will never change. Too many pockets being lined. Sad. Not about kids at all.
    2
  725. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
    2
  726. That’s what I’m thinking
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  727. Thank you!
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  728. I’m not sure I haven’t been on in days. First day back. I don’t check this often. What comments ?
    2
  729. I appreciate that
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  730. Thank you!
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  731. Eventually it comes out.
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  732. Always!
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  733. It’s just frustrating when it’s been men on videos i genuinely post to HELP not hinder!
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  734. People have said I should! Was thinking pdfs nothing that’d break the bank
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  735. That’s fine. A lot of therapist won’t admit this fact. It’s a money making machine to validate women. Of course, not all therapists! That’s a good ones are few and far between! Thanks for the input.
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  736. I need to quit lol
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  737. It’s embarrassing. We’re not all the same.
    2
  738. Thank you. It’s been men bullying me this go around. It’s been interesting to say the least. Thank you for the support.
    2
  739. The sisterhood is only based on appeasing and agreeing, I’m not here to be agreeable. Def here to just disprove this idea that we’re all victims and we should be pampered for poor choices, behavior, and have zero consequence. Alongside recognizing men are also human. They make mistakes, they don’t have a say, and often feel alone. Can’t preach a person cares about mental health but only when it pertains to women. I love women that are real, and can still know we aren’t perfect .. etc
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  740. You’re welcome 😂
    2
  741. I will try this!
    2
  742. Not true. Women date bums all the time.
    2
  743. This is true
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  744. Makes sense to me
    2
  745. 🥹
    2
  746. Thank you!
    2
  747. Thank you
    2
  748. lol
    2
  749. Go easy? This is a safe space you can say whatever you want.
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  750. You have no choice but to go along with it or move ..
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  751. Doesn’t surprise me honestly
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  752. Everyone has a preference!!
    1
  753. I’ve seen women say this about dads wanting to hold child as SA as well.
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  754. 😌😌 thank you
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  755. Idk .. I thought I was losing it as I was recording 🤣
    1
  756. This is also true. I forget this part so often!
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  757. I agree with everything in this!
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  758. You’re welcome.
    1
  759. I can understand this. Thought about that point after the fact.
    1
  760. I just recall someone else using the crumbled paper also for words we say that can’t be taken back. I think it hits the nail on the head in alot of ways.
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  761. Thank you 🩷
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  762. Right. Everything cannot be abusive.
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  763. Thank you !!!! ❤️
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  764. Thank you
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  765. That’s fair. They’ve wanted to bang you at some point just fyi
    1
  766. I try
    1
  767. Yeah it’s been rough. In the trenches for sure! Thank you for the kindness!
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  768. Thanks for sharing!
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  769. Touché!
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  770. Not everything is projecting. Get over the terminology phrases and come back to reality.
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  771. Yeah, that’s easier said than done when it’s about building community. How can you build if you never engage? Right? And I genuinely want to help those who need it.
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  772. Thanks!
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  773. Agree!
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  774. Best era !!!
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  775. Glad it was helpful!
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  776. We are all insane don’t let them tell you otherwise
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  777. Yup. As it should be. I would literally be devastated. Id never be over losing my husband. Ever.
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  778. He is! Thank you! And you’re welcome!!
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  779. Thank you!
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  780. Thank you!
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  781. Yup
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  782. You are so welcome
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  783. Thank you!
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  784. Comment
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  785. Yeah women fall in love with the process not the person which is why once the butterflies run out she’s bored
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  786. Glad I could help
    1
  787. Enablers to sell “programs”
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  788. I’ve been responsible in the fact that I’ve taken days to even consider making this video. 😊
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  789. Thank you 🩷🩷🩷
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  790. It’s always crazy to me the way women react when a man is vulnerable even though she’s begged for that. She doesn’t want his vulnerability she wants to use it later on.
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  791. Yeah. I will. I already got blocked on tik tok. But you can always rebuild I suppose.
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  792. I don’t know they can recognize themselves in this way.
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  793. Do you mind if I use this comment in a post?
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  794. Yes. My step father pays 5,000 a month for life!
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  795. Her male content is to promote her OF no thanks
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  796.  @lawrencewalston2272  yes. She made a whole account for men’s advocacy just to get them lured into her OF. I don’t trust it. Same with FFLA.
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  797. Hey I know you from Tik tok! 😆
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  798. Everything in life goes both ways.
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  799. There seems to be a lot of men offended by this post when the post was meant to help not hinder. Guess I missed the mark there
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  800. I’m so so so sorry to hear this.
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  801. @ you’re welcome!!
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  802. That’s true. I mean the awakening has to come from both sides, and unfortunately we aren’t there ..
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  803. Thank you.
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  804. 😆
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  805. You too!!
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  806. That’s fair! I’ll check it out. Thanks
    1
  807. Thank you
    1
  808. I appreciate that
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  809. Thank you!
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  810. Reciprocated energy is top tier !
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  811. I’m sorry
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  812. You're welcome!
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  813. I would do the same thing I do now, and try to see life from a women’s perspective. Understanding each other (but must be mutual) is key to embracing the vulnerabilities, differences, and often similarities we both face. Embracing each other makes it easier to be teammates. Life for both men and women has its own set of struggles in different ways. And also never to really give up on good people, they are out there even if you have to go through hell to get there, I think it’s worth it in the end.
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  814. Yes
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  815. I’ve never cheated. Don’t plan on it either. Pride myself in being a women of my word! Nice try though.
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  816. I definitely don’t feel that way at the moment, thank you for the kind words,
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  817. There has to be for this to be nonchalant..
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  818. Thank you
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  819. Thank you
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  820. Right here! 😂
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  821. Yeah I understand how it works which is why it’s so skewed too many people benefit at the expense of “support” ..
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  822. Touché!
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  823. Thank you ! Just speaking from the heart, honestly.
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  824. Until she’s pregnant and she gains attention from carrying a child, then she’s back on a dopamine hit, the attention, the belly rubs, the check up and care. Baby shower, gifts, glamorized motherhood. Has baby, no more attention, no more validation, until she’s a “struggling” married women, and now she’s back in her dopamine hit from attention she gets from doing it “all alone” while she soaks herself in social media advice smothered in your “husband dislikes you if” .. so she’s “lonely, bored, and uninspired”, so now it’s because she’s a mother and being around kids all day doesn’t fulfill her attention needing behavior, and her ego. So she’s down again. Then Friends get divorced, she wasn’t thinking about it, but being single looks fun, Suzy Q looks happier. So she divorces her husband where she gets to claim abuse, be victim and again gets attention and validation. The dopamine hit she craves. Feels like it was all worth it, and then she ends up a single mom actually doing it all alone, gave up 50% of help for 100% struggle, but she’s praised as a boss, independent baddie and she’s back to feeling empowered, just the hit she needs. Goes on the dating scene, guys in her DMs “ex anit anything but a narc” and she can do no wrong. So now she gets more affirmations and attention, and she’ll put her value in random dudes online even though she broke up her family for temporary happiness and lust over something real… she’ll seek happiness in everything else without ever having looked in the mirror. And then the cycle continues ..
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  825. I appreciate that
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  826. Understandable
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  827. Glad you think so!
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  828. Tell me about it!
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  829. Isn’t that some truth
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  830. Sara_eaton@aol.com
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  831. lol
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  832. This is true! I love this comment.
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  833. Yeah they do. You haven’t been lucky enough to find one then.
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  834. Yup
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  835. You're welcome!
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  836. 😂😂😂😂
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  837. Find healing ! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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  838. Keep it up!
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  839. You’re welcome!
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  840. I appreciate that! You are so welcome
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  841. 🥹🥹🥹🥹
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  842. Already did on tik tok, so wouldn’t surprise me
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  843. You're welcome
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  844. Already married!
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  845. Thank you!
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  846. They don’t. They just wanna argue
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  847. No problem 😊
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  848. Welcome
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  849. You’re welcome
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  850. Is it though? It’s feedback on how to improve. You have a choice to take it or leave it. It’s that simple.
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  851. Absolutely
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  852. This is true
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  853.  @McKeeW10000  I need to poll the numbers! 🤣
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  854. lol
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  855. This is great! Love this for you!
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  856. You are valid I def went ghost! Thank you!
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  857. Thank you 🩷
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  858. This is an amazing depiction!
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  859. 😂😂😂
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  860. lol
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  861. Welcome
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  862. Doesn’t surprise me!!
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  863. Thank you 🙏
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  864. Thank you!
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  865. Right. It’s men coming at me recently, and that just doesn’t make sense to me when my actions are pure. But also, it’s MEAN. Been doing social media a year and a half and never had this kind of hatred. Especially on a video that was meant to be helpful.
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  866. Exactly
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  867. Yeah tonsils taken out and sinuses- ☺️
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  868. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 thank you!
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  869. You're welcome
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  870. Glad it was helpful!
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  871. Struggle every day, but improving too.
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  872. You as well!
    1
  873. Since only fans
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  874. I don’t adhere to red pill . You don’t get to knock up women and expect them to abort a child. I’ve never said anything to that extent . So I reject this statement.
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  875. You’re welcome
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  876. Nope. Eaton is not my original last name! I’m adopted ! 😆
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  877. I wish you didn’t think like this.
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  878. Thank you!
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  879. 🩷🩷🩷🩷
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  880. Thank you
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  881. 😊
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  882. I agree!
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  883. I think men are too forgiving. She breaks your trust, bye.
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  884. EXACTLY!!
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  885. That’s fair! Of course! May I ask what you don’t agree with?
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  886. I see that being to common senses, and I’m confused how this had been the “norm” comment.
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  887. Try to be!
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  888. Wow!thank you so much ❤️
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  889. Yeah
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  890. That’s all you added to the convo?
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  891. Same
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  892. Oh dang
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  893. YESSSSS!!
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  894. Made a 180 by giving you feedback. I said take it or leave it 🩷 see ya!
    1
  895. Keeping us sick mentally and emotionally is a trillion $$ industry. It’s all designed like this.
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  896. Everything on my page does!
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  897.  @stumboguy huh?
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  898. Thanks!!
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  899. LOL! I literally laughed out loud lol
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  900. Thank you!
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  901. Thank you so much!
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  902. Everything goes both ways
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  903. You’re welcome!
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  904. Ah sorry!
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  905. Sorry to hear that
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  906. I can usually handle it all. It’s been almost 2 years and never had it affect me. Sometimes people struggle. Why do we always pretend to care about mental health until someone is struggling then it’s like “yeah don’t care” .. welp, when you have nothing but good intentions, it hurts .. I’m human not a damn robot.
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  907. Thank you! 🙏 just bein real!
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  908. So true!!!
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  909. Thank you 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
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  910. Yup. And that’s todays society !!
    1
  911. The support on this platform has literally saved my life! I should be thanking you. Thank you!
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  912. The support on this platform has literally saved my life! I should be thanking you. Thank you!
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  913. lol what? Hahah
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  914. Women like me how? I’ve never friend zoned in my life. Nor have a cheated or misled a man. I’m currently married and trying to help men navigate a mind into women .. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t understand this comment to be honest.
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  915. Thank you
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  916. You’re welcome!
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  917. You’re right.
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  918. Just trying to spread some truth
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  919. Men. One even wrote “yeah came back 3 hours later just to unsubscribe” and said words I cannot repeat without it being taken down. That’s just for starters. ☺️
    1
  920. Good point
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  921. I don’t agree. Sorry. I’ve known women to fall in love hard for men that they didn’t find attractive at all. In fact, 3 of them are still married to this day, and the other one didn’t last because he cheated. So from what I’ve seen some have very successful rates. And it’s not about “settling” .. sometimes it’s about maturity and growth. Not evening has to be a negative connotation.
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  922. With this mindset you will only find those who don’t really love you. It’s like going into a fire with gasoline. Just something to consider!
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  923. Divorce?
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  924. Thanks for the sub!
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  925. He needs to hear these stories
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  926. You're welcome!
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  927. 🩷🩷🩷
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  928. Thank you!
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  929. Thank you ❤️🩷
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  930. Always ..
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  931. Aww! ☺️ glad you are here!
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  932. 🩷🩷🩷 thank you!
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  933. I think so
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  934. Dang! Wow!!
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  935. No no , thank you!
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  936. Thank you 💗💗💗💗💗❤️
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  937. I hope so!
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  938. You’re welcome
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  939. You're welcome!
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  940. Thank you!
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  941. Dang so true
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  942. You're welcome
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  943. Oh I love this comment!
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  944. Anit that some real truth
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  945. You are so welcome!
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  946. I wish this were true. It’s been men.
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  947. Who is “she” that never does a damn thing! That you refer to?
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  948. Yup
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  949. You’re welcome! 😊
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  950. That’s crazy to want to be outted on a date though ..
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  951. You're welcome
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  952. I’m not sure
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  953. Thank you 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 hope you are doing well!
    1
  954. Wow thank you!!!
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  955. Aww
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  956. Thank you, I will
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  957. I still have many flaws! However, I appreciate the sentiment!
    1
  958. You don’t need to. 3 mins of spewing out not doing anything in a relationship
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  959. Glad you like them!
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  960. I worry about this too!
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  961. Hubs. Didn’t know a thing about football until he came into my life! GO BILLS! Game last night was stressful
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  962. I don’t need to be lady like when I have a man who likes exactly who I am. 🩷
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  963. Thanks !!
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  964. Yeah. But it’s rude. People need to go back to shame and privacy. And then to use it for views on social media, is Wild.
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  965. I wish it would. I took notes and everything on this.
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  966. Heck yeah!
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  967. You are so welcome
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  968. Thankyou
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  969. Thank you
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  970. THANK YOU!!! You’re welcome !!
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  971. You're welcome
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  972. I am glad it helped. Stay strong!
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  973. Oh wow
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  974. I try! It’s hard to think of any yall might need help with. But I’m here
    1
  975. And yet here you are
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  976. 💗💗 thank you!
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  977. I’m sorry!
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  978. lol
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  979. I think there is. A lot of them aren’t as outspoken. I get DMs from women sometimes.
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  980. You’re welcome. I just started YouTube. Tik tok just got banned so I have a new account there also. Saraeatonontiktok3 I’m no where else! Thanks for the support!
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  981. Thank you!
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  982. Always!
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  983. Not everyone is abusive, but there’s such thing as mutual abuse. Both people are abusive.
    1
  984. Thanks!
    1
  985. What do you mean? I wrote this ..
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  986. Thank you
    1
  987. This is true. A lot of them need to learn spouse is not your dad. He’s your partner!
    1
  988. This is a good point.
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  989. Thank you. You’re not wrong. I appreciate this, thank you.
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  990. Thank you.
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  991. I should!!
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  992. I love all the advice you guys are giving each other
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  993. Here I am!!!!!!!! wow! Thank you!
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  994. Thank you! You too!
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  995. Thank you.
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  996. 😌
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  997. I’m not pretending.
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  998. It’s been men. And full threads of men recently.
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  999. I agree.
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  1000. You can search so many creators just by the comments alone, would reject this entire video!
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  1001. I think so!
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  1002. Exactly
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  1003. Yup
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  1004. Fair!
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  1005. Trying!
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  1006. Yup
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  1007. You're welcome 😊
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  1008. Yup
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  1009. lol
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  1010. Thank you ! This means more than you know! Thanks for the support 🩷🩷
    1
  1011. Do you mind if I talk about this in a video? Without names and such? Something I want to bring up.
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  1012. 🤣
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  1013. Yes. It does, but it’s a much larger picture for me and others!
    1
  1014. I actually always wanted to look into the realm of a higher power! Sounds incredible. Kudos to you.
    1
  1015. Thank you
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  1016. 🩷🩷🩷 thank you!
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  1017. Agree
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  1018. Thank you.
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  1019. Thank you! ( I don’t have fb) soo this helps.
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  1020. Thank you!
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  1021. He came in my DMS. All he cared to talk about was “who is pandering more” and then asked me to go live with him. When I told him “I’m not letting you monetize off mens struggle or the children that have been affected” he said “aww does a little 9.00$ mean that much to you” .. he brought ZERO facts or valid information just a bad attitude and childish behavior ! I told him to visit this YouTube and see all the men in the comments and their stories! He refused! He said “I have a co parenting call to be on, I don’t have time”
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  1022. 🩷 you’re welcome
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  1023. That’s good to know!
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  1024. I needed to hear this today! Thank you so much!
    1
  1025. That’ll cost you later. Ask my step dad who pays 5,000 a month in spousal support for life 😎
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  1026. You gave a f enough to comment though 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  1027. lol 😆
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  1028. Thank you.
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  1029. Good
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  1030. Thank you 🩷
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  1031. I appreciate this comment! Thank you!
    1
  1032. Yes to all of this
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  1033. Agree
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  1034. Damn
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  1035. You’re welcome!
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  1036. lol
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  1037. The good thing is everything we know is learned behaviors can re-learn
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  1038. You’re welcome!
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  1039. I think both parties should commit to initiating and not play games. We hold more space for resentment then we do to actually heal and make relationships work. Sad world we live in.
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  1040. You are so welcome!
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  1041. I’m not a huge fan of super long videos. Try to keep it short! Thank you for the comment.
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  1042. Absolutely things can definitely go both ways.
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  1043. I’m trying, thank you.
    1
  1044. Yes
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  1045. Happiness is key.
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  1046. So you don’t wanna be more confident? Trying to help you get there. I don’t see the negative in that.
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  1047. You're welcome!
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  1048. Thanks
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  1049. Isn’t this a real struggle for so many!
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  1050. Dang..
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  1051. Yup
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  1052. I am glad I helped you! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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  1053. Thanks!
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  1054. Who knows. So sad.
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  1055. Right, understandably so, but also that’s where good men get it wrong. A lot of good men aim to please so bad that they end up disrespecting themselves in the process. It’s okay to have boundaries, needs, wants, and desires, and it doesn’t make you controlling. These 3 are broad because this is most common based on a survey I did awhile back. Thank you for the comment and insight!
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  1056. Me either
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  1057. Thank you
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  1058. Thank you
    1
  1059. Thank you!
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  1060. Thank you!
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  1061. I feel like this is the beginning of baby shark lol social media do do do, social media do do do.. lol
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  1062. Yup
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  1063. Dang
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  1064. Exactly. I think it comes down to eventually taking that good man for granted. Will be her biggest regret. If not now, definitely eventually.
    1
  1065. I’m not sure. I am still very much a flawed person. However, I understand the sentiment. Thank you.
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  1066. I don’t proof read. Don’t care for all that. The message still remains. Hope that helps A LOT!
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  1067. It’s harddddd for most people.
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  1068. Thank you
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  1069. You're so welcome!
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  1070. Thank you
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  1071. Exactly. Thats what really took me out. The audio.
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  1072. Thank you
    1
  1073. And neither have women. Why are women whining all day everyday about how horrible men are if they stopped dating? It’s bc they haven’t and they won’t bc attention and ego are greater than being alone.
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  1074. So next time you want to “lady please. Someone just look up the brokensss in women without a man, and the lack of female relationships then come talk to me. Did you know that 86% of all female relationships are only formed for relationship poaching? Come on now, do better.
    1
  1075. I appreciate that!
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  1076. Thank you 😊
    1
  1077. Actually this time it’s been men! To the point, I had to get off this platform and not even read comments/ respond z
    1
  1078. Thank you 😊
    1
  1079. You are so loyal to my platform, I thank you so much.
    1
  1080. Yup. It’s on point for sure
    1
  1081. Thank you!
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  1082. Thank you
    1
  1083. Yeah I saw another one where the dad picking up his daughter was considered SA 🙄
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  1084. lol
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  1085. That’s a good question lol
    1
  1086. Thank you! 👍
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  1087. Thank you. Needed this!!
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  1088. You're welcome!
    1
  1089. Trying!
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  1090. Great point! I love this comment! Thank you
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  1091. Cause why not?
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  1092. Thanks !
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  1093. Thanks!
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  1094. You are so welcome!
    1
  1095. That’s a good point
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  1096. Yes and walk away never look back
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  1097. You're welcome
    1
  1098. Actually she’s blocked bc she used to take mine word for word. Called her out twice and lost followers and people turned on me, so back off.
    1
  1099. Yup
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  1100. Thank you! 😊
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  1101. Dang!
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  1102. Thank you!
    1
  1103. I’m trying. I really am. Feel like I’m letting them down too. 😩
    1
  1104. So much of this! Yes!
    1
  1105. Thank you
    1
  1106. I will not be posting much of my experiences.
    1
  1107. Yup I agree..
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  1108. She’s proud of it too. Other posts backpedalled very hard
    1
  1109. Yes but the sad part is that even when you speak on men’s issues it gets taken down most of them time too
    1
  1110. You are so welcome. I try!
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  1111. Thank you. Unfortunately it’s been men hating on me this time!
    1
  1112. 🩷 thank you
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  1113. 😊
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  1114. You're welcome!
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  1115. This is also why women lose value. Over compensate with children, lose themselves and then blame men.
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  1116. Thank you 🩷
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  1117. Yeah yeah yeah
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  1118. 😲
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  1119. I agree!
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  1120. Thanks!
    1
  1121. I love this list! I hope men in the comments gravitate towards this!
    1
  1122. I agree.
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  1123. Good
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  1124. You're welcome!
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  1125. Thank you!
    1
  1126. Never. In fact they say those who cuss actually have high intellect! 🤷🏼‍♀️
    1
  1127. Thank you!
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  1128. You’re welcome.
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  1129. Love this!!
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  1130. Yes!
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  1131. That’s fair!!
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  1132. Thank you!
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  1133. Thanks for listening
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  1134. Thank you!
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  1135. SOMETIMES!!! Hahahaha
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  1136. Thank you
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  1137. Thank you!
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  1138. You're welcome
    1
  1139. Welcome 😊
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  1140. This video was insane
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  1141. Oops
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  1142. What determines a women who is uneducated vs not? Because someone says so? Just a thought.
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  1143. YES!
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  1144. Yes.
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  1145. Women can absolutely sustain themselves now. There’s no excuses anymore in 2024 which is why it’s so frustrating for women. To “not need men” and still not make it.
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  1146. Dang
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  1147. There’s hope. There’s plenty of great women
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  1148. Glad you liked it!
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  1149. Thank you. Hang in there.
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  1150. You are so welcome!
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  1151. This is so sad! WHAT
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  1152. lol
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  1153. Thank you!!!!
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  1154. Yes. That’s the title you get when you act like a psychopath! 😎
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  1155. I appreciate that
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  1156. Not true things I listed are things I do for my husband, that’s why I’m able to speak on it, plenty of women like this, they just don’t speak up. It’s cool now a days to pretend to not care.
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  1157. There’s so many videos like this. I didn’t even realize how big this trend was until googling “soup trend” -WILS
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  1158. Yes
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  1159. I think so
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  1160. It’s gonna be okay!!!!
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  1161. Thank you
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  1162. Yup
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  1163. Will do!
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  1164. I call out toxic women. Women call out toxic men all day long. So what’s the difference?
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  1165. Thank you!
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  1166. Thank you. Thought about quitting several times! Thanks for the support.
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  1167. Thank you!
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  1168. Thanks! 😊
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  1169. I need a new phone .. mine is on its last limb
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  1170. Thank you.🙏
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