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It's no picnic for MOST women. Divorce is bad for men, women, and children. My ex wife sure didn't exactly come out on top. She ended up miserable and alone.
I think the real point is to think with your brain instead of your d*ck.
If you decide to be with a woman, make sure your values align and that you have good values yourself. Having a spine.
Honor, integrity, courage, loyalty, and discipline. Money, status, health can all be taken from you, but values and standards can only be given up willingly.
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@bill thorn
I don't think that's true.
Whenever you find someone offering the binary, black and white, only 2 choices claim it's not true.
This is similar to the claim that if whites aren't anti white, they're racists. Or that it's the 1% of wage earners vs the 99%. They'll state some hard rule, and ignore the majority that don't fall in that category at all.
No, it doesn't mean that if you have an attractive wife, she somehow is in charge of the relationship. What it means is that the husband displayed a lot of weakness in the relationship. The times I've seen the woman in charge most often in a relationship are cheaters gamblers, and drunks. Of course, those guys will tell you they are angels.
Hearing stories about horrific car wrecks doesn't keep me from driving. It just makes me he a more cautious drivers and avoid driving like an asshole, drunk driving, and speeding. No different for dating. Rather than quit, just be cautious and avoid the pitfalls. Millions of people drive everyday without dying, and millions of guys are happily with women without their lives bring destroyed.
One thing I've learned more than anything about people is to not take their relationship stories at value. People don't want to tell you what they did wrong, but love to talk about how much of an innocent victim they are.
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@bill thorn
In schools I was quiet. I did get attention from girls, but not without them getting to know them first. I got involved with track and field and had a job to spend as little time in my abusive household as possible (mom was schizophrenic). Both had girls there I could get to know. I was not in the "popular" crowd.
I joined the army at 17 years old to get out of a bad situation and joined the infantry.. I got stronger, more fit, and gained alot of confidence. It also gave me a group of guys to hang out with, as opposed to seeking out women for basic companionship. As I rose through the ranks in my late teens/early 20s, I got more female attention. I was making more money, had developed a body women like (strong legs, chest, shoulders, and arms), and had a better air of competence and assertiveness. I was a really skinny kid growing up, do this was a change.
I'm by no means a picture perfect man. In fact I have some videos on my channel of my wife and I. Not saying that even the average woman I meet finds me really attractive. We don't need that, though.
We just need a few to. I'm not trying to go out there and sleep with 50 or 100 women.
I also am not wealthy. When I was dating, I was only making about the median income for the time. My wife sure didn't marry me to get rich, but my income did show I was competent and was doing what I wanted to go to make money. In fact my belief in what I was doing for a career probably attracted her more than money, as it's so rare to meet people nowadays who have found a purpose in their lives.
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