Comments by "SciFi Realism" (@scifirealism5943) on "I Was Wrong About Incels" video.

  1. You can't describe sex to someone who has never had it.
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  2. You're implying guys choose to be incels.
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  3. You have to not be poor to afford a prostitute, which many incels are. And you can't buy intimacy, so paying for sex solves nothing.
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  4. Yep
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  5. Different degrees of incels. Also, women don't have as hard of a time obtaining sex as men. Otherwise, women would use prostitution as much as men do.
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  6. Because I believe identifying as incel means you no longer desire love, but control. I'm proof of leaving the community behind. Unfortunately, other incels don't consider me as having ascended since I'm Still a virgin. So I can't get through to them.
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  7. I've tried. I'm a virgin at 28.
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  8. I'm depressed I'm a virgin.
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  9. I'm reading this as an incel.
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  10. Beautiful to read
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  11. What woman is incel? What woman can literally not get laid?
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  12. Like me. The problem is you can't describe sex to someone who's never had it.
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  13. Yep.
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  14. ​ @Noretreatnosurrender2020  ok? It isn't legal everywhere.
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  15. I'm poor, it contributes to my difficulty getting dates.
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  16. Beautiful to hear.
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  17.  @biljam972  I'm sorry... I just needed to grow up and realize women deal with just as many problems as men.
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  18. @biljam972  reading that made me cry. I realize now women have problems, too. I shouldn't be mad at any woman for being human. Me being a virgin isn't bad. If I truly desired to lose my virginity I'd hire an escort, but I know she wouldn't like me. I'm lonely. It's hard to express that so I lie and say I want sex instead
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  19. @biljam972  I have no skills and no independence. I'm poor and socially inept/isolated. However, I'm smart, kind, and funny. I'm changing my life. I'm trying to finish my Associate's degree, then bachelor's degree(both in physics) in the next 5 years. And be independent.
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  20. @biljam972  I'll stay on track. I'll add 3rd category- improving my diet and fitness. I want sex so much, but I want further my education even MORE. I may lack money but NOT ambition.
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  21. @biljam972  what's worse is when I was an incel a woman WANTED to and TRIED to date me- but I messed it up. I was creepy to her on purpose, she found it charming and agreed to date me. But I put forth no effort to meet up with her, so she felt unwanted and moved on. She even tried to date me again a year later and I ghosted her. I was too afraid to admit I lacked independence, and that I was scared of intimacy. I still think about her.
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  22.  @biljam972  i'm getting my driver's license within a week!
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  23. I'm getting a job, license, and car. I'm working on becoming independent then lose my virginity.
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  24. @schlafschafweb  1. You're right. Either a woman likes me or not. I should be honest with my intentions. I can't buy or force respect or love 2. I'll remind myself I'm in community college and applying for scholarships. I can turn my life around. I'm a decent man 3. I've deleted all the incel links/social media platforms besides YouTube 4..I'll apply to jobs. I will work on a school campus. I don't want to work minimum wage ever again.
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  25. i'm incel virgin at 29.
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  26.  @alexwilks2848  okay I'll do that.
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  27.  @alexwilks2848  how did you know I stayed at home and avoided women?
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  28.  @alexwilks2848  I'll go out more. I'll go to comedy club again. I went to sports bar yesterday during college basketball game but I didn't approach women (I did some dudes).
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  29.  @alexwilks2848  yes, avoiding women is my issue
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  30. Wow
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  31. You're correct. I've been lazy and entitled. I don't try hard enough.
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  32. That was heartbreaking to read
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  33. @LDT7Y  there are men who do neither, who just asks for sex and gets it.
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  34. ​@Ashbelfi I've used tinder for 5 years to no avail.
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  35. You can't escape sex to someone who's never had it.
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  36. 1. I'll start a podcast as a reporter 2. I'll see if I can be a part time radio reporter 3. My main focus will be on applying for scholarships and grants 4. Then completing my math lab manual 5. 3 and 4 will aid me in getting my associates degree I ultimately desire 1. Job 2. Driver's license 3. Car 4. My own apartment 5. Associates of science degree 6. Bachelor's degree in physics And 1. Be physically fit
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  37.  @spencertoy1586  thank you. i'll keep it up.
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  38.  @spencertoy1586  i will prove incels wrong.
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  39. I want to lose my virginity before I turn 29
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  40. Because it isn't voluntary.
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  41. ​@antoniobrasse7157 I'll be working on getting a part time job as a reporter. Then driver's license. Then car. Then improve my health. Then focus in school(I'm in community college)
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  42. I need sex. I'm miserable being a virgin.
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  43.  @OccidentalAryan  i think that's a better option for me than suicide. or continuing to be on incel forums.
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  44. I've escaped inceldom.
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  45.  @thismeaning9  what makes you say that?
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  46. I want to lose my virginity.
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  47.  @JT-wc7me  no gay man or straight woman can be incel. Only straight men can be incel.
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  48. @JT-wc7me  you're right. I didn't want to accept the fact that I have to put in the work. If I keep doing nothing, then nothing will change. I have to start here and now to change.
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  49.  @JT-wc7me  I cried reading that.
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  50.  @JT-wc7me  I'll get to it!
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  51. @JT-wc7me  LOL I read the standards one. I worked minimum wage and I was only approaching literal supermodels, actresses, and porn stars. I wasn't approaching women on my level. Then I got mad when they rejected me.
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  52. @JT-wc7me  beautiful to hear. I'm going to buy Versace Cologne, work on getting a part time job as reporter Once I get a job. I'll focus on getting a driver's license. Then car. My main focus is to finish community college. I return in the Fall. Until then, I'm going to be applying to scholarships and doing pre calculus lab problems.
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  53.  @JT-wc7me  do you think I should be independent at 28?
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  54. You're right. As an incel myself, I've had the opportunity to have sex before but I was too scared. Now I'm poor and isolated. I'm correcting that in order to lose my virginity
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  55.  @mayalunics4740  thank you I will.
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  56. Yep
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  57. Yep.
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  58. ​ @sgvlogcasts  exactly
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  59. That's exactly right. I was pursuing Instagram models who were also gym rats. When I was a poor minimum wage worker with no license, car, or house.
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  60.  @stephenkoranteng6260  thank you. I believe they will.
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  61. I don't know about that.
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  62. I'm changing my life, but without a job, license, or car I don't go out much. Plus, I'm poor. I want to lose my virginity more than anything.
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  63.  @biljam972  I didn't think about it like that
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  64.  @biljam972  I'm also a virgin, so I don't understand sex.
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  65.  @biljam972  I guess having sex will not solve loneliness
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  66. I don't despise women.
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  67.  @dinimueter539  thank you brother:)
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  68. You can't buy intimacy. Prostitution does not solve loneliness.
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  69.  @staubsauger2305  okay
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  70. Correct.
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  71. A prostitute doesn't offer genuine affection. So I'd still be incel after using one.
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  72. I really want to lose my virginity. I believe I'll get there one day
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  73.  @Zonarfubar  I could do that without joining the military.
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  74.  @Zonarfubar  I could easily use a hooker.
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  75.  @Zonarfubar  lol. I guess I'm not really incel then.
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  76.  @Zonarfubar  do you look down on men who use hookers?
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  77. How do I lose my virginity when I have 0 standards?
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  78.  @schlafschafweb  I know. I'm incel reading that. You're saying sex is NOT a right?
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  79.  @schlafschafweb  you're right. How can I be more attractive? By having self-confidence, gaining skills, and being independent (driver's license, car, apartment).
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  80. ​ @schlafschafweb I focus too much on sex when I know deep down life isn't easy or fair. I just expect sex to come easily, without any effort on my part. I expect women to fix my problems for me.
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  81.  @schlafschafweb  thanks
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  82. @gothicgirlfriend7375  I'm purchasing car insurance tomorrow. Then I'll pass my driver's license test to get my driver's license. I'll be going to a comedy club and sports bar too. Maybe even comic con. I'll be returning to community College on campus.
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  83.  @gothicgirlfriend7375  I'm actually scared a woman WILL talk to me at the bar or comedy club.
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  84.  @gothicgirlfriend7375  I'll leave you alone now. Thank you for your help.
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  85.  @gothicgirlfriend7375  I got the car insurance. In 24-48 hours i'll have the policy sent to DMV(just a delay).
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  86.  @alexwilks2848  you're right. It's on me
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  87.  @alexwilks2848  I'm lacking confidence from not socializing enough. I'll go out twice a week to conquer my anxiety
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  88.  @alexwilks2848  I can't see my replies but I said I lack confidence and will socialize more
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  89. Yes, because straight women and gay men can get laid without money.
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  90. I have had 0 standards for women for a very long time. I'm still a virgin. A woman wanted to date me once. But since I had no driver's license or car, she refused to date.
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  91.  @beganitdidnt6535  she had one.
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  92. Because incels go a step further and rely on hatred and violence due to lack of sex.
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  93. I'm serious
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  94. ​ @tomasdufour9985 exactly.
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  95. Wow.
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  96. I'm 28 years old. I've never hugged, held hands, kissed, or had sex. I identified as an incel since I'm a virgin at nearly 30 years old. I'm male. I don't know how people get hook ups online, since I've used dating apps like tinder, for YEARS to no avail.
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  97. Because it's a sign of normalcy. Me being a virgin at 28 is abnormal and unethical.
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  98. Imagine being 28 and not knowing how to wash clothes. That's an abnormal person.
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  99. ​ @steventv2728 no.
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  100. Even with 0 standards some men can't get laid.
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  101. Okay
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  102. You are right.
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  103. Yep. I'm a virgin at 28. I got 3 months before u turn 29.
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  104. Yep.
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  105. I'm attending community College.
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  106. I want to lose my virginity
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  107.  @jamesedwards.1069  wow.
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  108. @jamesedwards.1069  I won't lose hope
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  109.  @OccidentalAryan  okay.
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  110.  @OccidentalAryan  but most men don't use escorts. How is that fair?
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  111. I'm growing out of incel.
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  112. I had a job, but it was minimum wage. I'll need a better job. Hopefully I can be a screenwriter in 5 years. Or get a short term reporting job. I'll then get my driver's license, then car.
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  113. I'll escape poverty and lose my virginity, I know it!
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  114. Beautiful.
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  115.  @OccidentalAryan  ok
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  116.  @OccidentalAryan  ok I'll pay for it
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  117. Exactly.
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  118. I've been called a loser for being a virgin past 25.
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  119.  @OccidentalAryan  don't you think using an escort is wrong?
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  120.  @OccidentalAryan  how does that solve the incel problem when I'd still be in the same position of no woman liking me?
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  121.  @OccidentalAryan  okay
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  122. ​ @zumazuma568 I'm a virgin at 28. Does that make me any less of a man?
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  123. @zumazuma568  many people consider me abnormal for not having experienced sex or kissing.
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  124.  @OccidentalAryan  Okay.
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  125.  @zumazuma568  I'm 28. Not only have I never had sex, I've never kissed, hugged, or held hands either.
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  126.  @zumazuma568  I've been hugged by friends. I'm saying a woman has never hugged me in a romantic sense.
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  127.  @zumazuma568  would you look down on me for using a prostitute?
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  128. Exactly.
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  129. My self-esteem is higher now but I'm still poor.
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  130. I don't understand. Involuntary means you CANNOT get laid. It is AGAINST your will.
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  131. If I could "voluntarily" get laid I wouldn't be a virgin.
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  132. ​ @seanm8665 I see. So I'm not really incel, just a virgin.
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  133. I will work to lose my virginity
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  134. It's a mentality. I'm a kissless virgin at 28.
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  135.  @OccidentalAryan  all right.
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  136. Ok. I'm working on my social skills. Hopefully I'll lose my virginity before August 18th.
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  137. Wish me luck.
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  138. I've lowered my standards to 0 and I'm still a virgin.
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  139. I'm changing my life so I can lose my virginity. I'm 28 years old. It bothers me every day.
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  140. I'm incel
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  141.  @JT-wc7me  no excuses? I'm a straight man with 0 standards for women.
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  142.  @mayalunics4740  I'm sorry I identified as incel.
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  143. 100% can confirm this.
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  144. You're right. I can't expect women to take my virginity just because I want them to. I must work for affection.
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  145. Correct
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  146. I have inspired empathy. I am not as unpleasant to be around as I was 2 years ago. I used to be a NEET. Then i turned it around and was taking 3 different classes at 2 different colleges at once, working as a cashier at a supermarket, being an intern, volunteering, and helping take care of my sick mom, all at once. That was last Spring. Now, i'm set to take classes next semester. In the mean time, i'll be finding a part-time job, applying to scholarships and grants to afford to finish school, and complete volunteer math work.
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  147. I hope to lose my virginity.
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  148. ​ @hannahk249 I'm getting better.
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  149. It's a privilege.
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  150. I'm holding myself more accountable. Problem is I'm still a virgin.
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  151. ​ @stephenkoranteng6260  I'm here. I'm incel. I'm an hhkv at 28. I've used dating apps for years to no avail. To be fair, I've never asked a girl out, I don't go anywhere or do anything. I have no hobbies. I'm also poor.
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  152. Yep😊
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  153. I have empathy. I'm a socially inept virgin. I want to lose my virginity.
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  154. I'm a kissless virgin at 28. I want to lose my virginity to a woman who likes me. She doesn't have to love me. But being paid to be with me is gross
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  155. Ok​ @QWERTY-gp8fd 
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  156. ​ @QWERTY-gp8fd I look good but I'm a broke community college student at 29. I'm poor
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  157.  @QWERTY-gp8fd  makes sense. I want to win scholarships. Don't you think it's unfair if women only wanted to date me if I had lots of money?
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  158. Beautiful
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  159. I'm still a virgin. When I lose my virginity, I'll escape my inceldom.
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  160.  @OccidentalAryan  Okay.
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  161.  @OccidentalAryan  a hooker's only motivation for sleeping with me is money. I still wouldn't have attracted a woman. That doesn't solve anything.
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  162. Brother reading that made me cry. Because you are right. I'm an incel virgin because I have a vile personality, I'm lazy, and unwilling to change. It's all my fault.
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  163. I cried reading this.
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