Comments by "Tim Trewyn" (@timtrewyn453) on "Why MARRIAGE KILLS SEX: without separation there is no necessity for reunion" video.

If your job is such that you can make extra money by working enough additional hours to pay for a surprise or scheduled dinner and night at a nice hotel, that I have found to be enough separation and novelty to set up a nice time together. (Childcare, when necessary, is of course a major logistical item for such a date.) A wife's home is often perceived by her as a set of perpetual tasks in plain sight. It helps to get her out of there. The spouse might start to keep an overnight bag at the ready. Playing games with the appearance of infidelity seems risky and unkind. It might work, but I think viewers need a checklist of what kind of spouse it is highly likely to work on. I would think both spouses need to feel secure in the relationship and in themselves. The spouse is of a nature likely to detect the "game" and find it both amusing and seductive. This could be tested beforehand by observing less risky forms of surprises, like a romantic card or other gift of some kind. It seems to me the "game" is best played in small steps.
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