Comments by "Candlelight7" (@Candlelight787) on "Dating off the beaten path: what to do if you are unconventional" video.
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 @jordanpenner6970 You said he has negative self defeating attitude based on the following statements:
Being an actual man = unconventional
Being religious = unconventional
Having standards/morals = unconventional
Disciplined/Frugal = unconventional
Being musculine man in today's western society is frawned upon. Check - he is correct. Thus most men choose to mild down to please the social expectations. Those that don't - are unconventional. (Psychology and demographics you understand little about).
Being religious = unconventional. Most people in western society are either anti religious or warmluke/buffet christians. They do it to belong to a group or feel like that makes them "good people". What it usually makes them be is hyporcits. True religious people are very rare. (Demographics and antropology you understand little about).
Having standards/morals = unconventional. Most people in modern society have no standards or morals. Having standards would mean for men that they would have to stay single so men marry used and abused c rugs with more tattos than a sailor and a mouth to match. Look around you. Morals were never women's forte and the only reason women had morals back in the days is due to moral judgement from the community they live in. Since today's communities have no morals for most part, or those morals are very loose, women can act whichever way they want, thus their morality is either pretence or negotiable based on the benefit they currently receive from pretending to have morality. (Psychology, antropology, and relationships you understand little about).
Disciplined/Frugal = unconventional.
Since most of Americans are obese (I assume the guy is American as taraban is from Cali, and most of his viewers are as well, or from the West, as men from the West deal with more relationship problems that people from Asia or Eastern Europe, are balls deep in debt, one can assume that since most people are undisciplined and non frugal, being frugal and disciplined (not obese and not blow your paycheck in a week) is unconventional.
So far this guy
(@DraegerV1)
was right about everything he said. There is no negativity here, only solid facts.
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