Comments by "Coleen Goodell" (@coleengoodell7523) on "Lisa Bilyeu" channel.

  1. They look for the doves with broken wings.
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  2.  @harknesswolf3526  OMG! How horrifying! I'm glad you survived this and am sorry you endured it in the first place. I hope you know that your Dad being such a flawed, awful and cruel individual has absolutely nothing to do with you. We all have free will to choose the path we will walk on. He chose the path that leads to darkness and his own destruction. You've chosen the path that leads to life everlasting, with kindness, compassion and caring. May God your real Father be always with you and show you always how much He does love you, for He does. He will judge those that harmed you one day and the price they will pay will be grave. I pray that the Lord will help heal the scars and replace them with beauty and wisdom, a survivor, a warrior you definity are. ♾💜🦋
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  3.  @ridge7524  Yep, my Dad told me that a firearm is the great equalizer. I was taught by mine in firearm safety and handling. The USAF taught me the rest and my Dad made sure I had a safe and effective firearm when I became a single parent after a divorce. Helped me pick one out and went to a firing range with me, so he was sure that I knew how to handle it. He was so satisfied with my proficiency that he proudly displayed my practice target in his home.
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  4. Being "nice" will get you killed out there ladies. Don't be nice. No strange man needs to ever get near you, even close enough to grab your outstretched arm if you reach it out to him to give him a light, a smoke or anthing else, say NO, and don't give them a chance to grab your arm or wrist ever. If he acts like he can't hear you if he askes you a question from a distance and tries to close the distance between you, tell him NO, that's close enough, Back off! Make a scene in parking lots, in stores, on the street, wherever you might be when your boundaries which out in the open should be some distance are being pushed. Use your shopping carts to keep something between you and them in a parking lot if they come up on you, or in the store, just walk around it to keep it between you and a man who is getting too close. Keep your valuables away from them as well. Your wallet or purse have ID and other information that you don't want a stranger to have, including your house and car keys. Keep your head on a swivel. Don't be nice to strangers ladies, it can get you killed. "Be sharp as serpents, yet innocent as doves"
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  5. Girls and women have been programmed in our society to be nice. Being nice in this society will get you killed. Stop being nice and be wise, prudent in your interactions, using good discretion, even making a scene if you feel threatened. Let me repeat, being nice will get you killed, raped or assaulted. Stop it! "Be sharp as serpents yet innocent as doves." When you're in one of these toxic relationships you know that your privacy will not be respected and anything you write that might be negative will enrage a violent and/or controlling man. What I did to break the cycle of allowing an abusive man back in, or getting ride of one, is I would stand in front of my mirror after weeping and suffering that they'd inflicted upon me and memorizing what that person had actually done to me. The mess that they had made of me by their actions, so I would not forget and allow them back to do it all over again. Cheaters, cheat that's what they do, the same for liars and thieves. They love it, they get a thrill out of it and will never stop. I won't get into the God thing here, but even if it's real, you've been scared too much by them to not be triggered at the slightest things that they might do. Keep them away. You have to cut the string to free yourself because they will never let you go, they break up in a way that leaves you uncomfortable so they can walz right back whenever they need a fix of your hurt, sorrow or groveling at their feet. You can't let them, it's up to you, take your power back and keep it as the treasure that it is, you are as well, never forget that. You are enough and you are worthy of kindness, love, consideration and respect, nothing less.
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  6. This is one reason the easy availability of porn of all types is terrifying. The normal drive we as humans have, becomes more and more depraved. I've also raised alarms about the themes of so many movies that have been made about kidnapping and keeping women and girls as sex slaves. To women and girls it's a horror of horror movie, nightmare fuel, to sick minds it's fantasy fuel that they'd love to get away with in real life. These depictions need to be stopped.
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  7. This is the best explanation that I've ever heard or read as to why I kept dating the same man in a different body. I did finally wake up and realize that I'm like a magnet for the worst of the worst types. The good news is that once their fassod would slip even just a little bit, catching them in a lie or beginning the control, showing inconsistencies in what they say and what they'd do, I'd hit the door running and not look back. This came after wasting too much time, taking too much abuse and picking myself up off the floor repeatedly enough times for me to seek counseling, advice and books.
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