Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "Should Men Get MARRIED In Today's Society?" video.

Best people to interview on the topic of marriage are Dr David Buss (scientist), Dr Orion Taraban (clinical psychologist), and The Lead Attorney (divorce attorney). They all say exactly the same thing. Humans are a serially monogamous species (not lifelong pair bonding). And the best wives are mentally and emotionally stable, stress resistant, calm, patience, tolerant and agreeable.
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Marriage is not commitment. It is just a piece of paper. The piece of paper doesn't mean anything because you can get divorced. What laws are you talking about? No fault divorce? Financial divorce laws? Child custody?
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Marriage is out dated. Most modern people don't have the emotional and mental stability to survive the long term monogamy and monotony of marriage. You can pick the best wife, but if she changes 10 years later after kids, you are screwed. It is impossible to predict how your 50 year marriage will work out. It is probably not worth the risk.
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@JeffCaplan313 depends on whose life you are talking about. some people are unable to consider the meaning of life and fulfil their potential because they are slaves, being trafficked, living on less than a dollar/day, etc. I don't understand why you asked such a vague question.
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Do you mean no fault divorce laws? Or laws around financial division on divorce?
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@MarkLeel at fault divorce just results in people making false allegations, or just ticking the irreconcible differences box. So, either way, even without no fault divorce, it would still be pretty easy to get out of a marriage. I think your view that unhappy people should stay in a marriage is very extreme. Those days are long gone now women are educated, have high paying jobs and the backing of female judges in the divorce courts.
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@ghost_illmatic Ruslan got son'ed. That was the difference between man vs boy, or expert vs amateur. That was a great teaching moment. Most guys don't wanna debate TLA for that reason. It is easy to talk about marriage until you come up against TLA.
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@MarkLeel if someone wants divorce e.g. they are being treated badly, why chain them to their spouse and prevent them from divorcing? I think no fault divorce is good. It just shows everyone how ridiculous marriage is.
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@MarkLeel if no fault divorce was cancelled, people would just tick the "irreconcilable differences" box and just make a bunch of false allegations. judges in family court don't have the time to waste on this BS. People just need to tick "no fault" and be done with it. Your suggestion of no no-fault divorce is not workable and practical. It would have people drowning in legal fees and false allegations. Divorce is bad enough without false allegations. Particularly if the false allegations relate to the kids, which would make it a million times worse for the men. If men are too scared (or smart) to take the gamble and risk of marriage, just don't get married. Simple.
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@richardy2071 for most divorces "treated badly" or "irreconcilable differences" is normally where one partner spends all their time working and the wife feels neglected and bored. However feelings and emotions are very important for the wife (equivalent to cheating for men) so they file for divorce. This explains why lesbians have the highest divorce rates.
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