Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "Is The Red Pill WRONG About MARRIAGE?" video.

Women advocating for an institution (marriage) which they will benefit from, e.g. by taking the money, house and kids on divorce. Surprise, surprise. Marriage was worth it in my parents and grandparents generation due to a survival need. However now women have jobs, the backing of the family courts and they want to be independent boss babes, marriage has now become a fool's errand.
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In my parents and grandparents generation, men and women needed each other. However, this link has been broken now women have jobs and the backing of the family courts. Because women don't need men, they now have very high standards for men (e.g. emotional vulnerability) which most men can't meet over a 50 year marriage. Please interview "The Lead Attorney". He can explain why a traditional 50 year marriage is no longer realistic.
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I wouldn't necessarily give up but you have to accept that what you are looking for, e.g. a women who is willing to stay with you in a traditional 50 year marriage, is becoming rarer and rarer now they have jobs and the backing of the family courts. It is honestly better to stay single, happy and rich rather than divorced, depressed and poor. Good luck either way.
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@ilikecommenting6849 a lot of your comments are fundamentally flawed. For example, I do not technically or legally pay alimony each month because I got rid of that obligation by increasing the share of the house that my wife was awarded (70%). So although I do not legally pay alimony (I made still lost money in alimony by giving up a greater share of my former house). As you say, 95% of the paperwork is amicable but divorce paperwork doesn't say amicable or non-amicable. After paying thousands in legal fees trying to fight against the system/judges, men give up and concede to the wife's demands in order to stop her doing parental alienation and in order to stop the crushing legal fees. There is a reason why marriage is going extinct in many Western countries. It is way too dangerous for men. Hence the creation of pre-nups in some countries.
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@LebbMangenaShow I don't think you really understand marriage. If I get married in 2020 with no kids, should I have been able to predict divorce in 2025 when we have 1 kid? Should I have been able to predict divorce in 2030 when we have 2 kids? Should I have been able to predict divorce in 2045 when the kids are grown up? How do I develop these god-like powers that give me the ability to predict the future? You don't seem to be aware that people change over the course of time.
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Good luck to you. Your parents and grandparents marriages don't count as they had to stay together for survival and social reasons. However your siblings and cousins are very impressive. Main thing is, don't rush into marriage. If you do rush in, you will probably end up regretting it for the rest of your life. If you are going to do marriage, vet her properly, chose wisely, and consider getting a pre-nup.
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Women get divorced because they get bored and don't need a man. They generally have a job and the backing of the family courts. Men get divorced because they are sick of their wives moaning and complaining about everything, all of the time. Modern women have very high expectations now they are educated, in high paying jobs, get a lot of attention online through social media, etc.
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💯% facts. Most women do not have the emotional stability, calmness, patience and tolerance to endure a monotonous and boring 50 year marriage. Women and marriage are antithetical. Women crave excitement, thrills, spills, drama and chaos. Marriage is the complete opposite to this. It doesn't make sense for a women to stay married once she has the diamond wedding ring, house and kids.
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The women have become "intolerable" because they now have delusional high standards. They have delusional high standards because they now have high paying jobs and the backing of the family courts if something goes wrong it the marriage. Marriage in 2023 is a fool's errand. Society and expectations surrounding marriage has completely changed.
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@LebbMangenaShow my parents and grandparents have not divorced. the same is true on my ex-wife's side. the advantage they had is that the wife did not work and therefore had to stay with the husband in order to survive (regardless of how bad the marriage became). however, in 2023, wives don't need to stay with their husband because they have their own jobs plus the backing of the family court system plus the backing of their friends. you cannot compare my parents/grand parents marriages to millennial / Gen Z marriage. the dynamics and traditions are completely different due to women's empowerment. also, another point worth mentioning is that most millennials and Gen Z are not marriage material. They don't have the calmness, patience, tolerance and mental stability to survive in a monotonous and long term 50 year marriage.
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