Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "Why MEN PAY on the FIRST DATE: the freedom of walking away" video.

this is 💯% the best strategy. however, most guys only realize this once they get divorced and lose their money, house and kids in divorce, and end up single, broke, lonely, homeless and depressed.
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best comment. if a girl genuinely likes you, she won't care if you are just meeting up for coffee or a park date. she is just glad to spend time with you. guys, spending loads on 1st dates are just compensating for a lack of personality and attractiveness.
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"what do men get out of relationships?" ....... erm, loads actually. Men get headaches, moaned at, complained at, shouted at, hen pecked, drama, chaos, regret, arguments, bossed around, stress, etc.
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i think better advice would have been for dr. taraban to say just go for low cost dates, e.g. coffee, for walks, going to the park, etc. that way any money you waste is not a lot and the woman you date is not expecting a lavish and luxury lifestyle. never lead with your wallet, because she will just treat you like an ATM cash machine.
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guys, do not lead with your wallet. i lead with my wallet and it worked short term, but long term, I lost 70% of my money and assets in my divorce, including my house. leading with your wallet is great short term but it will come back to bite you long term. i was financially ruined in my divorce and am now stuck on child support for 10+ years.
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💯% . Coffee dates, walks, going to the park, etc are good low investment starter options before you start making larger investments of time and money. if guys think 1st dates are expensive, they should try paying children (or child support and legal fees).
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Funny thing is. Dr Taraban, in an earlier video, said women do not accept 50 : 50 . Women generally want men to invest 60 : 40 or 70 : 30. lol
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💯% . do not lead with your wallet. i lead with my wallet and it worked short term, but long term, I lost 70% of my money and assets in my divorce, including my house. leading with your wallet is great short term but it will come back to bite you long term. i was financially ruined in my divorce and am now stuck on child support for 10+ years.
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i think women can go for quality dates (rather than quantity of dates) because they are inundated with options. however, for most men, i think they have to work for volume because women are so picky. just my 2 cents.
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you 💯% nailed it. in reality, only the top 10% of chads, tyrones, and chadrone's can sit back an interview women. the bottom 90% of Michael Scott, Dunder Mifflin, beta providers have to get their wallet out. ultimately, these bottom 90% will end up divorced because she married you just for kids, child support, alimony and the house. the whole dating market and family court system is a mess.
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If a masculine boss babe wants to pay for the 1st date then this is a red flag. If a mentally and emotionally stable woman lets you pay for the 1st date then this is less of a red flag because she has the keys to survive in a LTR (e.g. calmness, patience, agreeableness, etc). The costs for the guy increase when babies come along so get used to paying.
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