Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "Make her work for it: don't just hand it over" video.

  1. She has to have genuine burning desire for you. And the only way she is going to have desire for you is if you have value, e.g. good looks (genetic value), good money (resource value), good emotional connection (psychological value), and good lifestyle/frame (social status value). Mate attraction and retention boils down to value.
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  2.  @Khan-rz8qi  interestingly, husbands pay the most. Paying for the diamond ring,, house, car, losing 50%, alimony, child support, legal fees. Husbands are paying into the $$$hundreds of thousands for a depreciating asset.
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  3.  @Katarzyna-h2z  So true. Very profound. Desire is a temporary. The more you get to know someone it takes away from desire and adds to something else, e.g. love/stability/boredom.
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  4.  @onaolapolawal4952  BioSocioPsycoFinancial value.
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  5.  @smokingcrab2290  desire precedes care
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