Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "Why dating advice is terrible: half right is all wrong" video.

Probably the 5 major types of value men have to offer women are: 1. physical looks/genetics, 2. financial, 3. compatible psychological/personality, 4. interesting lifestyle, and 5. status. If you lack in one of these departments you will have to compensate in other department, e.g. ugly rich guy, or short funny guy, etc.
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@aygwm So true. Briffault's Law (1927) is real. Women mate and date for hypergamous gain. Where there is no benefit for her there is no relationship.
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@FedPut I agree. I was going to mention that but I didn't want to make my original comment too long. But you are right. She will eventually become dissatisfied if you are deficient in one area.
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@spontaneousbootay I an talking about relationships. You are talking about kinks. We are talking about two different things.
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@ousamaabdu794 in reality, 99% of men who are married have no status. very few people have status. and even guys with status like tom brady, brad pit, elon musk and johnny depp end up divorced.
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@ruijua eggplant size = genetics
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@dekev7503 I would probably put zexual satisfaction in physical/genetics group. But maybe you are right. Maybe zexual satisfaction/genuine burning desire deserves its own category.
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That is the perfect summary. Low value beta providers are just wife'ing up Chad's traumatized leftovers and then these low value betas wonder why they are losing their money, house and kids in divorce 10 years later. Its because she's not your girl, she's still thinking about Chad and how useless you are in comparison.
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@hoots187 Is there any difference between attention and time? By intimacy, I am assuming you mean good D game?
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@dinsel9691 Average marriage last around 12 years. 50% of marriages end in divorce. If you don't have those 5 things the countdown clock is ticking. Boomers/Gen X are irrelevant because women needed men for money. Gen Z/millennials women don't need a man due to their careers.
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@mangomight7938 LTRs tend to be for two securely attached people. Anxious and avoidants don't tend to have LTRs because of their insecure attachment styles. Anxious and avoidants probably need some psychological counselling or therapy to heal their childhood wounds and insecure attachment.
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@gl3mmy903 its not funny. its called female solipsism and male scarcity mindset. Men have few options so are desperate to do what it takes to get a woman. Women have an abundance of options so can be picky/selfish.
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