Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "The most DANGEROUS thing for a RELATIONSHIP: why success is harder than failure" video.

  1. She's planning to get back out there on the sexual market place. It is interesting to see how earlier some people start planning for divorce.
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  2. The longer a relationship goes on for, the more problems it will encounter, e.g. boredom, someone deteriorating / improving, cheating, mental health problems, arguments about the kids / family life, etc. Solution: stop expecting romantic relationships to last 50 years. It is just unrealistic in this day and age. "She's not your girl, its just your turn".
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  3. This comment is 💯% facts. People are getting jealous of each other's highlight reel.
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  4.  @commentarytalk1446  I see what you are saying. But you are talking about the minority of people. Most people either 1. don't get married, 2. do get married but get divorced, 3. are in unhappy marriages.
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  5. I kinda agree with this. I think it is much less of a problem if the husband starts doing well as the wife has more spending money which will probably make her happy. And normally women choose husbands who they see potential in, and therefore are happy when the husband realizes his potential. It may back fire if the husband spends too much time working and then starts to neglect her. Its a fine line between working hard, but not working too hard.
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  6. I think marriage is going extinct for this reason. More and more people are realizing relationships are a short term thing, and in a long life, it makes sense to divorce and change or upgrade in partner (or maybe even downgrade in partner if they find this easier and less stressful).
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  7. The partner succeeding needs to show compassion and let the other partner grow in their own time and speed. However many people who rather just break up and upgrade partner. Not all relationships will be lifelong traditional 50 year marriages. Its difficult to predict how people will behave 10, 20, 30 years in the future.
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  8. Please tell TLA to collaborate with PsycHacks. I have already super chatted this once to him.
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  9. He's going on Fresh and Fit tonight. So you are probably right. He probably will get to 200k by end of September.
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  10.  @johnnonamegibbon3580  yes! in my marriage there were definitely two husbands. lol
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  11. 💯% facts. Its the elephant in the room. We all know the answer but can't say it. But it is obvious that one partner will be extremely happy if her husband can give her more spending money.
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