Comments by "marriage causes divorce" (@marriagecausesdivorce7540) on "Alexander GRACE (Dating, Attraction, and Emotional Vulnerability)" video.

Alexander Grace is a great person to interview. Would have been great to hear more about his view on the difficulties of long term relationships, especially when juggling kids, etc. To some extent, getting the girl is the relatively easy part. The hard part is keeping the girl and navigating things like boredom, novelty, changes in power dynamics after kids, etc.
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@33Jenesis Even if you get married, you will still probably end up alone, poor and depressed via divorce. And you will probably only see your kids once a week or for the whole weekend, every other weekend. Marriage is no longer a guarantee of family for men.
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@dinos9607 I disagree. I think the 2 most crucial factors are 1. mental stability, calmness, patience and tolerance levels of each person. Marriage is monotonous and boring so you need someone who is mentally stable, calm, patient and tolerant to endure the monotony and boredom of marriage. 2. survival. in my parents and grand parents day, marriages stayed together because both spouses needed each other to survive. now the family courts are biased to wives, and wives generally have jobs, they don't need a man once the man has bought them a house and given her kids. Marriage has got very little, if anything, to do with ethics. If anything, you can use ethics as a reason to justify divorce, e.g. a wife will say divorce is ethical in order to get a boring and unambitious husband out of the family home.
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@tomaszsosnowski9279 I think you are right. I think his kid is still quite young.
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