Comments by "@level Joe" (@leveljoe) on "How I unlearned dangerous lessons about masculinity | Eldra Jackson" video.

Toxic actions and behaviors are the problem... It is not masculine nor is it feminine!
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"Rub some dirt on it" does not equate to being instructed to kidnap, rob and attempt murder! WTF...
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@lllxcl ...(statistically speaking) only if he was raised by a single mother.
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@Amandanumnum Is the behavior propelled by Nature or Nurture? It depends whether human behavior is determined by the environment, either prenatal or during a person's life, or by a person's genes. If it nature, you are not going to be able to make much in the way of progress. If it's nurture, who's/what nurturing is at the root of the problem? Remember, most children are predominantly raised by the mother and an even greater number of men who exhibit problems we're raised by most only women. It may well be that its caused by the females who raised the children. We've all seen plenty of toxic females... Just a thought.
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@Amandanumnum How did l place women solely responsible? What wording did I use? You seem to have become very defensive (toxic) by me pointing out that toxicity can also come from women. "Predominantly male ones" Be careful, it sounds like you're making gender stereotypes. Oh, Thanks, my father passed away when I was 20...
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@Amandanumnum "don't forget that peers and society has just as much, or even more influence" "either prenatal or during a person's life " Yeah I covered that...
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@Amandanumnum one more time because you're persistent... I did not solely blame women. "It may well be..." Is not an absolute, it is a possibility!
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@angelic8632002 or aren't they?
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@Amandanumnum So, by definition there are a billion different ways you could define what it means to hurt someone. We'll never get anywhere at this rate...
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@Amandanumnum ya think?
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