Comments by "maslina10" (@maslina10) on "Aba N Preach" channel.

The advice with dance is great. When someone shares that they lack self-esteem and don't know how to build it, I always recommend an activity where you work in close physical contact with multiple partners. This means, for the most part, either a dance class with as many different partners as possible, like salsa, or a grappling martial art, like judo. (No copping out with yoga or TKD!). If it's a martial art, the more girls there are in the class, the better.
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@faith6575 Shamed into marriage with their child's father? But she CHOSE to make the child with an unsuitable man and out of wedlock. Why would her decisions be free of consequence?
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This should apply to both the man and the woman. Men need sex more, and women need to "talk through things" to "be heard" a lot more. There is no shortage of chores a man is expected to do for a woman. https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/6-fascinating-gender-differences-between-men-women-workplace-amit-dey/
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@shellycoffey6436 You know, that's what modern socialists say about socialism: none of the previous implementations got it right, were not "real Socialism".
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@heedmywarning2792 In the 60's and early 70's "free love" was a "new" thing, and today it is mainstream. As for the "tech progress", you are absolutely right: why read a book when you can just search for the quotes needed for your homework essay? But the main two factors that ruined the family (marriage rates are at their lowest in the last 120 years) are: welfare state and minimum wage laws. The first allows the "baby mama" to "marry the government", and they second puts most of the young and unskilled out of jobs. Say hello to Lyndon Johnson's "War on Poverty", which ended up... perpetuating poverty.
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Women overestimate how much talking and listening men are up for, especially at the of the day or when focusing on some project. I'll let you in on a little secret: for men, most of the conversation with a woman feels like a chore. But, you hardly ever hear this, since it is... unmanly to say it. But researchers can say it: they don't have to be manly: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/6-fascinating-gender-differences-between-men-women-workplace-amit-dey/
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(God complex) + (inferiority complex) = schizophrenia?
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@heedmywarning2792 It's the current generation is out of touch with what works in the long term. The young today want socialism and causal sex.
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She thinks crapping on his phone content and on his looks is "nice"?
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If you distort what is said the video, that's an even earlier start of problems.
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@JahannamHellfire. You can talk about it all you want. The main question is, what results you get, and that's on you and your business.
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Thank you for this video, guys. It is important to clarify the situation today and the issues in it. I would want all my favorite characters authentic: Mike Hammer White, Shaft Black, and Lt. Ohara Asian. A White Shaft just wouldn't be Shaft.
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If a man said to a female coworker, "Can we focus here?", I can only imagine how that would be taken.
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The times when the man was the sole provider were also the times when the couple didn't start being together in any way before (1) committing to marriage (i.e., to staying together), and (2) the woman's family would provide a dowry. So, if "independent woman" means "abandoning the institution of marriage as the key to a couple's relationship" (and sometimes even believing that you "don't have to be a couple to sleep together"), then this means getting rid of the doctrine that "the man provides". As for "acting entitled", what is her position (no pun intended)? To "act entitled back at men"?
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"Finding love is hard in this economy" sounds like an ad for cheap escort services. "Find some love and save some bucks!":)
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@tylermiller3120 No, not at all. Capitalists say, "what we have is capitalism and the data show it has been the best way to raise people out of poverty". And, indeed, it has been.
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And if he works all day, I understand why he is tired and low on being pulled into a lot more talk than he would like.
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"It's weird that I struggle so much!" MWAHAHAHAHA!:)
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"What do you mean, you are not offended?!" LOL
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Doja Cat is totally into "race play". Just listen to the first minute of her "Like that", and some of the unmistakable elements are there: the Black ghetto accent, "dat" instead of "that", the phrase "dat's my shit", the works. True, she doesn't use the N* word or the F* word (though I may have missed something), and other artists do, but still, to deny "race play" after such direct use is just... funny.
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