Comments by "MAR TE" (@marte1376) on "Jordan B Peterson" channel.

@BOBO1337gaming so you decline ladies for being ugly but the ones you like decline you as well. Well, pretty ladies have pretty privilege and can get easily a mych more solid financially and better looking guy, why would they choose you? You're speaking about ladies should lower their standards (Beacuse you can't get laid?)when it's actually that's something you should do as well. You're complaining for basically doing the same yourself. A little more modesty can help you. Our trouble, because this is worldwide, no shame to you, is that we put too much attention on physical attributes rather than a healthy personality
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@maskedbadass6802 no intelligent women want a bad boy, that is only among naive, damaged, vulnerable women. A woman with common sense will love to be with a guy is there for her and women also have learnt the game because I can't understand how a low effort dude is supposed to be something to aspire. I don't care what you think, P costs and D is for free. Women are the ultimate gate keepers in love and in relationships. Surrender to that
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Ok, but this is not to blame sex and the city show. Do you know what I like about that show? It represents that woman can achieve great lifestyles beyond their 30s, period. And just to point something, some people look for affection in the wrong places, I don't consider this is a problem of woman only, but how is the response and behavior of man as well in our current society. And what did she do to reverse that pain? What did she get in returned? To be honest, the whole discourse of "man can spread themselves and woman can't" is bs. This is not about limiting anyone's desire and sexual freedom, but more how we make our connections more genuine and how can we have a better relationship with ourselves
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And the best thing is that he is not judging like most man do, he explains from a very impartial and objective point of view
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Seriously stop calling men beta or alpha, wtf is that? It comes down on who is your type and how both people engage with each other. And guys, why would a woman that has landed a great guy that works hard and is loyal to you. Why would a woman will want to lose that? A hypergamous woman will stay with that man because she got it! And yes, stay away from generalizations because we as women know all men want one thing and that's why we need to put on a good cost to our assets And I think people now choose terribly because the idea of love and attraction. Some people are much more focused on how attractive or stupid their person is, people is afraid to be alone and they don't see the practical material thing that comes down to marriage. Marriage is a contract first and foremost and a lot of people forget about it. So many women are just lacking the hypergamous instinct and they just want, specially youngsters, the "bad boy" who serves 2 cents of your time. You as a man need to choose wisely, not only in terms of physical attraction or youth, same as women, not everything is money or even worse looks
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It's related to age gaps relationships. I see it allows both parties to have freedom to do whatever they want to do it. I've seen there's lots of married man out there, so I am curious on how man have a sense of entitlement to cheat on their partners, is much more acceptable between them than between woman. On the other hand, I think that man always pay, indirectly or directly, in this case is much more practical, yes is a form of sex work, where the lady has benefits, financially speaking, she has a relationship with a man with experience that can support her (that's why is a daddy 🤣)and still has It's freedom without the duties of a wife and he is physically satisfied and has this sense of power of having a younger person on his side, without leaving his conventional life. Each couple has It's own agreements, some people make it strictly casual, others want a mistress, but all of them want to experience of an age gap connection
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@NÈGSÒTBOSAL3223 completely nonsense, her career is what will feed her and allow her to live a decent life, what else is more important than that? Wow, you guys manipulate yourselves and women to believe working is a bad thing. Wow
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@justlol7281 and what's your point? I don't get people being bitter for things shouldn't even matter to you. If woman want or have unrealistic standards what's your problem? Choose people that can choose you. Don't tell people to be less just because you can't be more
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@darthvadersmom1192 i support your opinions. Some people (man) just don't want to see the facts around this topic, a lot of female research from gender theories is being exposed in several papers, but again, some people need to open their mind. And no, I'm not feminist
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@jamesdeen225 that's not true at all. And is this a sort of opinion who wants to rule in female's bodies,? but what about male behavior specially in h00k up culture? I don't think this a debate for only woman should not do this, instead of how easy and fast satisfaction is damaging EVERYONE in society, including man and our ability as HUMANS to develop genuine connections
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I mean women also want to enjoy their bodies, why would casual sex be detrimental to women and not men? It's basically the same. Both genders have had very strict rules on what they're supposed to be. Women are being told to be virtuos and virgins until all of us get slapped in the face because in real world men pick whatever they want and a woman can get power and status just by looking good and still can have fun so
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Which is something all women know. Men are looking for one thing, that's why women need to be cautious and hypergamous and put a good standard to measure their safety. P costs money D is for free
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@lpslancelot05 this isn't narcissistic, stop making diagnostics of people you are clueless about
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@evacope1718 sorry but I don't speak to people with a limited mind, I said enjoying your body with responsibility and it goes for both genders not exclusively women. I have anything else to say to you
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Good for you, if that's what you truly desire is very respectable. Every person should be accountable on their decisions and not all people are hardwired to make the same choices and living the same type of life.
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@jeremiaharmstrong5899 the same applies to men. If a woman is too nice she's taken for granted. Man like bad beaches too. A little bit of challenge is fine but intelligent women want a gentleman, provider, man that is secure, where she is protected and where she is loyal. If you think that's too nice, you have a serious problem. And honestly, I don't care if you agree, I'm looking for a man with integrity, not an a$$ho***
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@alex47_in_downtown18 of course not, that is the for teenage gis. Women want security, loyalty, respect, obviously love. A strategic, smart woman will want a man with those qualities and is well known that physical attraction doesn't matter at all!!! This is a pathetic way to not see the reality, I don't if you feel attractive or what, but women know that is not a sign of succes in life, we're not as men dominated by our genitals, get it, attractiveness can help you to be picked by 10 minutes and then you're left, if you ain got anything, you don't worth "the squeeze"
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@TimBitts649 very interesting comment but I think it's ok women have that access to study and prepare for themselves. There's a reason why women needed their own stuff and it's due to the horrible inequalities between genders that still exist. Plus, hypergamy can change because first of all, family is not the center of our societies, it's not anymore like that and not all people want that old ideal, second, women still can have chances In a big dating pool. A guy can be resourceful and hard worker and not be a super rich dude, that where women need to reorientate their dating strategies
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@justinjefferson6884 I try to understand it, it's just like woman doesn't have it any easier. Woman are always measured by their beauty and if we don't have it, we suck, for real, it takes you huge confidence to not depend on your looks. And powerful man choose pretty woman so 🤷‍♀️. Still, I think we need to find people who can chooses us as well, we're looking for decent partners and you don't have to be a millionaire but sometimes man doesn't want to hear it either.
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@Wetarded yes, we have more options but what kind of options, the majority of times is people who will lie to get in our pants and cause unnecessary pain and I'm not even speaking about money, in this days meeting someone with a healthy mentality is a rare gem. Don't worry, certainly I'm not a man and i don't know what is that, I know your gender face so many burdens, I try to understand and sometimes complain like everyone for human flaws. Have a nice day
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Just be careful with handling emotions, you can get extra sensitive but overall is a good idea. I wouldn't say it's anger more like courage and determination, bravery
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@pow...rightinthekisser wow finally someone with common sense and not judgemental of woman. This is the first time I see something like this is YouTube comments. Peace ✌
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@pocnit of course it's fun, i think is even worse of being always rejected. But maybe your behavior turns unpleasant and you may lose genuine people who of course will move on and lose interest of you and you may end desperate and frustrated because you're not seems to catch a real one. Some people like that lifestyle
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@ybuburxyutcertyffyyneyb2680 only guys full of resentment have that mindset. How can I feel bored of a guy that is interested, I'm interested in him and he's a gentleman? Completely nonsense. Women that reject you is not because you're great guys, maybe your misogynistic and sexist mindset is what pull them away. Any dude that sees other men as alpha or beta is a loser and huge red flag
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@ybuburxyutcertyffyyneyb2680 you have a point. Men want too bad bitch**s, women that are challenges and they have to invest to get them. That's my mantra. I think a bit of challenge is stimulating but wanting a person that treats you bad is a toxic treat and something I don't share. I look for gentlemen and That's what I mainly focused on attract and actually I've had succes
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@scottydog9997 a good father will take care of his daughters and sons. Seems you have a preference into your son but not your girls, wtf is going with you? How are they supposed to have standards if you don't teach them. Dumb women make dumb decisions, smart women have standards and will get a bright future, they'll live good and will choose a good spouse.
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A lot of you guys should watch ana psychology, specially the ones obsessed in speaking on other women's bodies, because so many of you are so biased by nonsense red pill forums. If you want ti see the detriments of casual sex on both genders plus other myths carried by toxic incels, go and watch her channel
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@evacope1718 in what time do yoy live in? Protection is something that can be used. Nobody talked about getting pregnant but more like enjoying your body with responsibility
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@hijodelaisla275 😂😂😂😂 women put in in boxes as well. If you ain't worth nothing you are left behind, what is your purpose of your existence? You're not that special
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@JT-91 men need to stop thinking with their genitals so they could see value in a woman besides her attractiveness or "fertility". All men can get the opportunity with a good women if they make the right choice. Also a lot of you want to date models when you are fat, ugly, poor and dirty. Your standards are way more unrealistic and unrelatable. Come on, be realistic guys and find someone that you feel good with them and vice versa
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@marssmith1278 exactly, for women is the same, choose the man that chooses you
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@massimo7219 no sir, women choose and dictate everything. Men are only here to be chosen by the woman, it is what it is
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@Arkhayn well said 👏
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Exactly, for casual sex of course I would like to be with someone I find myself attracted and height even it's nice, it'snot a deal breaker for me. I mean, if it's only for the moment, damn I want to enjoy it really good with a guy I genuinely like but for something serious attractiveness doesn't matter at all or even height. I care about his reputation, his past on cheating, what kind of women does he like, am i his type, is he a hard worker, is he mentally stable, etc. That's what being hypergamous is, being clever to find the best mate for you (not in terms of physical attributes but of course resources and your ability to work hard and be determined are a must)
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No ximena, women have learnt that chastity worths 2 cents if men are spreading themselves around without protection. Virtue? HAHAHA! women know they can't be virtuos but smart. And you just sound like an incel woman that is putting down her gender just because we are not church ladies F that! The best option is safe sex and seriously, men are not having any sort of respect to women and you just lost that respect for your gender as well. Searching for male validation is just pathetic
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@alex47_in_downtown18 wtf is wrong with you? Why are you feeling entitled to discuss how a woman should live her life or her body? And what are the consequences supposedly? Because those consequences GO FOR BOTH GENDERS It's disgusting how you and your gender try to minimize the bad effects casual sex have in yourself and the lack of responsibility, loyalty and all diseases you can get plus loosing your money because you're so emotional that you think with your genitals. What about safe and consensual sex? We don't live anymore in middle age times and the truth is, you will still prefer a woman you desire and chances are you want to stay with her despite of her past. FOCUS ON YOUR HEALTH, YOUR SEX BEHAVIORS, YOUR PAST AND THEN YOU COME TO TELL WOMEN HOW ARE THEY SUPPOSED TO BE. WHY WOULD A WOMAN WANT A DUDE THAT HAS NO RESPECT FOR HIMSELF?
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@Sincerely Respectfully agree on this. Safe sex is the best option and remember to be discreet with your past, it's nobody's business, work and heal yourself. The majority of this incels don't worth a dime of your time and they are worse from what they're complaining.
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@justinjefferson6884 thank you, I wish you the same for whatever you're looking for
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